Essential Dating Advice For Men: 4 Things Every Man Should Know About Dating Women

  • Published: 01 September 2018
  • The dating advice for men that I provide in this video, will make attracting and dating women so much easier for you from now on.

    You will realize that you can gain control over this area of your life once and for all.

    You will also realize that women really do want to have sex, find love and enjoy companionship, just as much as men do.

    Yet, they go about the attraction and dating process in a different way than men do.

    Once you understand why women behave in the ways that they do, they will no longer frustrate you or confuse you.

    Instead, you will love the fact that women are different to men and will then simply use your superior knowledge of women to easily attract and date women of your choosing.

    In today's video, I explain the following 4 points:

    1. Know that women really do want sex, love and relationships too.
    2. Know that you don't have to take conversations with women so seriously.
    3. Know that trying to avoid seeming awkward, just ends up making you seem awkward.
    4. Know that even if a woman likes you, she will often miss out on sex or a relationship if you don't have the confidence to make a move.

    With point #1, it’s essential that you understand the different way that women go about getting to sex and a relationship, in comparison to men.

    So many guys feel like they are being rejected by a woman, when she is just trying to show him that she’s not an easy target (i.e. so he can then trust her in a relationship), or she is wanting to test his confidence and see if he can maintain his confidence around her, even though she’s not making it 100% obvious that she likes him.

    Women don’t do that because they’re crazy.

    They do it to attract and find the right guy for them.

    As I said above, once you understand why women behave in the ways that they do, you simply use that knowledge to your advantage to enjoy your choice of women.

    Attracting and dating women really is very easy once you understand how it works.

    With point #2, it’s important that you relax and be real when talking to women, rather than putting on an act of being nicer, more formal or more polite than you actually are and want to be.

    When you’re talking to a woman that you want to have sex or a relationship with, she wants to get to know the real you, not a fake version of you.

    When you use the approach to conversations and interactions that I teach, women open up and show you their easy-going, down to earth side.

    It just becomes so damn easy.

    With point #3 and #4, please refer to the video. You will enjoy it, I promise.

    Okay, that’s enough typing for me today.

    If you’d like to learn my step by step method for attracting and dating beautiful women, go to:

    The Flow is my eBook, which is also available as an audiobook and it includes my best conversation starters, attraction techniques, connection techniques and techniques for getting a phone number, kiss, date and sex.

    If you use The Flow method in your dating life with women, you will literally laugh at how easy it is for you from now on.


    Dan Bacon
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Comments • 137

  • BohemianAsh
    BohemianAsh  6 days back

    Fark, wish I saw these videos before I dated a unicorn-level chick last week.

    • Julie IheartH2O
      Julie IheartH2O  3 weeks back

      Dead nuts ! How do you know so much about women

      • Infinite Channel
        Infinite Channel  4 weeks back


        • ken sheen
          ken sheen  1 months back

          you're a fucking treasure! thank you!

          • CadenDATboss
            CadenDATboss  1 months back

            Best video I've ever watched. Honestly. Not having a father figure in your life usually leads you to looking up YouTube videos for things like this but often seen out of touch. This video helped me get my confidence DRAMATICALLY

            • Ahad Khan
              Ahad Khan  1 months back

              Paused the video at 3.35 just to say that "you are a legit fuckin human and more of a mature chic magnet" 🔥

              • supersongi
                supersongi  2 months back

                Sensei-Dan is the Greatest! His knowledge and wisdom is second to NONE!!! THANKS DUDE!!!!

                • jatin ahirwar
                  jatin ahirwar  2 months back

                  I like a girl and she is already in a relationship but shows the signs of interest that you mention ... I am confused I should make a move kiss her or not

                  • Evan Judge
                    Evan Judge  2 months back

                    Excellent advice

                    • MrQuan2u
                      MrQuan2u  2 months back

                      you give great advice, and I'm 35 I seen everything in the dating scene.

                      • Paul Negrean
                        Paul Negrean  2 months back

                        Amazing tips <3 subbed

                        • dr_pinna
                          dr_pinna  3 months back

                          Wtf, I've been doing this all wrong. Overthinking and low self esteem doesn't help either. I feel reenergized to get out there and date. Thanks mate.

                          • Dino Crisis &DinosaurEnterprise

                            Thanks for the video. All of your videos is going to help me with my relationship.

                            • Khae74
                              Khae74  3 months back

                              Dan knows this stuff. You make a sense in every point

                              • Jashan Preet
                                Jashan Preet  3 months back

                                best relationship coach ever flow dan bacon

                                • Kristóf Kovács
                                  Kristóf Kovács  3 months back

                                  My friend helped me to ask a girl instead of me... I'm thankful. Even thought I went to the friendzone. :D
                                  5:55 I just said the exact same thing. Looks like I'm learning something. :)
                                  I find these videos useful, but I think I can stop watching them for now. Or my crush will ask what happened with me? Wait, that's actually not bad, I can make jokes about it.
                                  She spoke about what kind of panties she weared on her graduation... (???) I said, "Didn't you say you'll show me your graduation clothes?". I can say these random jokes, but wasn't confident about how to go to the next level.
                                  And again, thanks for the video.

                                  • Charlene Maeder
                                    Charlene Maeder  3 months back

                                    You’re so dead on, Dan! This helps me understand why certain guys are more attractive to me. Love the part at 11:43 and on. In fact, you’re looking good just hypothetically talking about what to say, lol. 😉

                                    • ZZ Top
                                      ZZ Top  3 months back


                                      • Riptorn73
                                        Riptorn73  4 months back

                                        Dan... I have to say.. you have it locked down my friend.. a lot of these techniques you teach I kinda figured out myself yrs & yrs ago when I was on the ‘scene’ & a lot younger. I’ve been with my wife nearly 20 yrs now married 14.. but unfortunately we’ve recently split.. so watching your vids has really helped me re-realise what I had forgotten over the past 2 decades.. You are correct in everything you say. You have to be confident enough to have a laugh & a joke with/at beautiful girls. Listening to your videos it’s like the dating fear fog is clearing. Thank you. 👊🏻👊🏻

                                        • Ara Oghlian
                                          Ara Oghlian  4 months back

                                          My boy is not only informative but savage.

                                          • Kanye Legitimately Smiling

                                            Thanks to you champion the girl who friendzoned me now likes me

                                            • K D R
                                              K D R  4 months back

                                              Step back from my last message. A guy has been talking to the girl via phone etc for a few weeks. The girl laughs a lot and says she feels very comfortable talking to you and would like to meet. You meet and as per my first message, the guy was not the guy in person as the guy on he phone. The girl Says that the meet felt awkward and uncomfortable so does that mean that there is no chance of a second meet? If there is a chance to meet again, how can the guy back to that stage of meeting again?

                                              • K D R
                                                K D R  4 months back

                                                Dan. If you end up on a first meet / date and the girl at the end of the meet sends you a message saying that the meet felt awkward and uncomfortable. How can a guy get back to a next meet so the guy can really show himself? Is it a done deal that she does not want to meet again?

                                                • Brayan Sanchez
                                                  Brayan Sanchez  4 months back

                                                  Dan Bacon, you gave amazing dating advice for guys like me who lack confidence in himself to put himself out there. I want say thank you for sharing.

                                                  • Verne Fits
                                                    Verne Fits  5 months back

                                                    Great advice

                                                    • User Name
                                                      User Name  5 months back

                                                      Dan you are seriously the best dating coach for men on youtube. props to you mate. cheers.

                                                      • Ryan Ballard
                                                        Ryan Ballard  5 months back

                                                        Great stuff! Keep it up

                                                        • Carlo Piccolo
                                                          Carlo Piccolo  5 months back

                                                          These are such great advices! Thanks

                                                          • Reinier Broer
                                                            Reinier Broer  5 months back

                                                            He is a genius, like einstein, but in another way

                                                            • gilberto  costillla
                                                              gilberto costillla  5 months back

                                                              This is eye opening

                                                              • Enri P.
                                                                Enri P.  5 months back

                                                                I really wish I had this information 10 years ago. It would have prevented me from getting with a girl who I don't really love, even though she is a very good person... Now that I realize this, I'm in a difficult situation, having to leave her, because I now realize that I'd rather date younger women who I'm really attracted to. 😢

                                                                • Rola Haddad
                                                                  Rola Haddad  5 months back

                                                                  I like how you speak and oddly enough I am understanding the language from Mars. Ty for this and please continue xxx

                                                                  • Bfg Bender
                                                                    Bfg Bender  6 months back

                                                                    Excellent video.

                                                                    • Wes RR
                                                                      Wes RR  6 months back

                                                                      Get em out!!!! LOL

                                                                      • Kyle Rainer
                                                                        Kyle Rainer  6 months back

                                                                        I wish I could have a good marriage in my life. My circumstances make that shit too risky. I got a cute girl's number not long ago, but I just can't do it. I know I'm not in a good place right now.

                                                                        • Andrew Dsouza
                                                                          Andrew Dsouza  6 months back

                                                                          I'm too much of a robot when I talk

                                                                          • Julien Issa
                                                                            Julien Issa  7 months back

                                                                            Great tips ,seems you work hard on your videos

                                                                            • teamgoofy08
                                                                              teamgoofy08  7 months back

                                                                              This video is literally me.... thank you Dan for the great video!!

                                                                              • MambusBambus
                                                                                MambusBambus  7 months back

                                                                                dude you are a genius ! love watching your videos & to learn more about womathematics :D

                                                                                • I'm trippin827
                                                                                  I'm trippin827  7 months back

                                                                                  You’re a sex machine dan

                                                                                  • William Wallace
                                                                                    William Wallace  7 months back

                                                                                    I like your videos after 10 min i think u speak from my soul. Great man keep your direction. Greets from frankfurt.

                                                                                    • Amelia Theressa
                                                                                      Amelia Theressa  8 months back

                                                                                      Executive assistant😂😂😂😂

                                                                                      • amella 1
                                                                                        amella 1  8 months back

                                                                                        So sad that so few men are listening to you. No men I meet do anything you are teaching. I have given up.

                                                                                        • Vishnu K S
                                                                                          Vishnu K S  8 months back

                                                                                          Bro u r awesome!

                                                                                          • Pete Goodman
                                                                                            Pete Goodman  8 months back


                                                                                            • Mercy Grace Jawino
                                                                                              Mercy Grace Jawino  8 months back

                                                                                              Less than half way through the video but I have to say your insight is impressive. And what you said about women dealing with guys who are attracted but don’t do anything about it... so true and it’s hard for our minds to ignore those past experiences when guys talk to us.

                                                                                              • TheCowChicken
                                                                                                TheCowChicken  9 months back

                                                                                                I have a date tomorrow wish me luck

                                                                                                • Isaac Nais Nabaasa
                                                                                                  Isaac Nais Nabaasa  9 months back

                                                                                                  Dan you a good teacher 😁 The way you go about the roleplay always has me hitting the like button and laughing so fucking hard🤣