5 Traits of Irresistible Women Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

  • Published: 09 August 2018
  • Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 5 traits that men find irresistible when looking for a partner.
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    Mat Boggs Bio:
    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
    As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
    Mat?s Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
    As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!
    Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.
    If you’re interested in receiving help attracting love or improving your relationship click here: www.crackingthemancode.com/coaching/
    Directed and Editing By: Alexis Garcia
    Written By: Mathew Boggs

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Comments • 217

  • Aliki Dimitriadis
    Aliki Dimitriadis  Πριν 17 ώρες

    One who calls when they say they will and follows through on promises made!!!!

    • Jennifer Crown
      Jennifer Crown  Πριν 17 ημέρες

      Omg ... My name's Jennifer and my jaw literally dropped 😂 for a second I was frightened !

      • Nadia Nawaz
        Nadia Nawaz  Πριν μήνα


        • Nina Nickel
          Nina Nickel  Πριν μήνα

          In my circumstances they love appreciation.

          • Hưng Chế Quang
            Hưng Chế Quang  Πριν μήνα

            I find a guy absolutely irresistible when he's being nice to not just me but also the people around, when he jokes about his himself and his flaws, when he senses my emotions are going up or down.

            • Tania Richter
              Tania Richter  Πριν 2 μήνες

              A STRONG 💪 but GENTLE man turns me on , certainly long geviety.......🎈💝 🎈As im a strong natured woman, who loves a strong man standing by myside🎉🐯🎉 DANCING strolling ROCKING into the future💝🎆🎇💝

              • cecilia granados
                cecilia granados  Πριν 2 μήνες

                Matt I love your props but that’s not why I watch your videos, thanks for showing your appreciation for women and relationship

                • Diana Morse
                  Diana Morse  Πριν 2 μήνες

                  What I find irresistible in men, is when they can assess the situation, whatever it may be. Then consider the various options, including my input, and then move forward with the best scenario. Not wavering. Very sexy to me!

                  • Jennifer Lynn Adams
                    Jennifer Lynn Adams  Πριν 3 μήνες

                    My name is Jennifer!

                    • Dannyelle Finch
                      Dannyelle Finch  Πριν 3 μήνες

                      His sense of humor

                      • planet Jen
                        planet Jen  Πριν 3 μήνες

                        I just shit myself when he said my name lol

                        • Tiffany Mueller
                          Tiffany Mueller  Πριν 5 μήνες

                          A man who is attentive to children(not his own) and the elderly. It can be difficult to connect with those who are significantly younger or older than you, they can be harder to please than your peers so when a man puts forth that effort it is definitely an attractive quality

                          • Adela Radichetti
                            Adela Radichetti  Πριν 5 μήνες


                            • Janet Brown
                              Janet Brown  Πριν 5 μήνες

                              I’m not even trying to be vulgar, but addressing my crush by his name may cause me to orgasm in front of him. 🙈

                              • Tranquil Traveler
                                Tranquil Traveler  Πριν 5 μήνες

                                Do most men even know what authenticity is?? Or take time to ponder it?

                                • Ontrend50 Sandy Alderson
                                  Ontrend50 Sandy Alderson  Πριν 5 μήνες

                                  I LOVE MY MAN! My hubby of 41 years is Irresistible! Not only is he incredibly handsome, but his laugh is contagious! It is what first attracted me to him!!! I just wanted to be where ever his laughter was! His laugh could change the atmosphere in a room in seconds! I was drawn to his laugh and smile like a moth to a flame! I was also drawn to his honesty, sincerity, kindness, unselfish attitude, and empathy towards others! His exceptional listening skills always made me feel important and valued. His intellect, confidence, courtesy, and polite manners were also very appealing. He has the fantastic ability to encourage others and makes them feel better about themselves. I love how self-motivated, and goal-oriented he is. He has always had a great work ethic that leads to him being a good provider. I love his passion and enthusiasm for just about everything he touches. His sincere desire to help others, and his generosity is also super attractive quality! I love how loyal he is to me, family, friends, and even his work colleagues. My man is loyal to a fault!!! The word integrity is a word that many people use when describing him! I love his ability to make me feel safe, valued, desired, as well as loved unconditionally! I love how he can always make me feel like I am the most beautiful, sexy women in a room! Even now at age 60. And last but not least he is a fantastic lover!!! Yes, I am married to the perfect man! I picked him out when I was only 14. I meet him at the youth group in our church. We became very close friends over the next 4 years. During this time he dated almost all my girlfriends....LOL.... then finally he saw the light! He started to date me at the end of my senior year of High school. We married the following year. I have been very blessed in my life not to have ever suffered a broken heart! My husband is the only one I ever gave my heart too as well as my body! I didn't think it possible, but I am more in love with him today than I was on our wedding day! He knows everything about me! The good the bad and the ugly! And still, he loves me! Amazing! He is The best man I know! Honestly, no other man can hold a candle to him! LOL......He isn't perfect.........LOL, If I could change one thing! I would love it if he could get his dirty clothes into the hamper at the end of the day instead of the floor next to it.......LOL.....Just kidding! If that's all I can come up with, I'm ecstatic! To all the women out there looking for true love. It does exist! You can have it all! I truly believe God has your perfect man waiting, and looking for you! Just be the best you possible, and live a life filled with joy, love, and purpose! He will find you!

                                  • Real Estate
                                    Real Estate  Πριν 6 μήνες

                                    How do I uplift my man during hard times, stressful work days, etc. In a feminine way that he appreciates?

                                    • Laurel Brookes
                                      Laurel Brookes  Πριν 6 μήνες

                                      A man who wants to know how I feel and what I think and not just focus on himself is highly attractive to me!

                                      • LJ Campbell
                                        LJ Campbell  Πριν 6 μήνες

                                        A real man’s man... resourceful and rugged but kind and caring. Committed to self exploration and learning about himself ... and about me. Oh, and definitely a keen edgy sense of humour and wit. Turn my brain on and the rest of me will follow! I think most guys don’t understand that key ingredient to getting the ‘attention’ they desire from their woman.... especially as we age!!!

                                        • Anne Rose
                                          Anne Rose  Πριν 6 μήνες

                                          For me , irresistible men is respectful and honest.

                                          • Kimberly Hicks
                                            Kimberly Hicks  Πριν 7 μήνες

                                            I find my man irresistible because he looks out for me he asks if I have eaten or if I'm feeling well he just all sweet to me

                                            • J
                                              J  Πριν 7 μήνες

                                              A man that is loyal to his girl!!!!

                                              • Mireille Claire
                                                Mireille Claire  Πριν 7 μήνες

                                                When a man shows real interest he creates interest on my side as well.

                                                • Violette Sala
                                                  Violette Sala  Πριν 7 μήνες

                                                  Intelligence & maturity. I like someone who is smarter than me and makes good conversation

                                                  • Stacy Bennett
                                                    Stacy Bennett  Πριν 7 μήνες

                                                    When a man says "don't worry, I got u"....it give us a sense of security/protection&comfort...knowing we are taken care of

                                                    • Dashia James
                                                      Dashia James  Πριν 8 μήνες

                                                      Men are irresistible: 1. When they look cute and casual looking 2. Definitely there personality 3. If they're always polite 4. When they protect/ help you no matter what

                                                      • DARLENE BURLOCK
                                                        DARLENE BURLOCK  Πριν 8 μήνες

                                                        Love men that are strong, kind, caring, and loving me for who I am and not what I got.

                                                        • Alejandra Damián
                                                          Alejandra Damián  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                          Authenticity, open heart, true respect & being present. Thank you Matt for what you do.❤️

                                                          • Annie Brunet
                                                            Annie Brunet  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                            And Man that trust his lady enough to show is vulnerabilities without even thinking twice about it. A man that says "I'm sorry", "I'm sorry I've hurt your feelings", "I was wrong, I'm sorry", he admits he can do mistakes too but they don't define him, his mistakes don't take anything from him, just like mine don't make me less valuable.

                                                            • Vanessa Soto
                                                              Vanessa Soto  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                              What I find irresistable is the ability of him to listen and be understanding to what I may be going through and like me regardless of how good things may be. Bad times pass.

                                                              • Vanessa Soto
                                                                Vanessa Soto  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                Anyone can become a millionare. Also, I find attractive the supportive compliments and encouragement. Of course fun and cool are the basics.

                                                                • ScorpioSoul
                                                                  ScorpioSoul  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                  Trusting his woman, knowing he can protect you, being able to mess/play around with him, I love a guy who will sing to me and play an instrument.

                                                                  • TheAceofhearts84
                                                                    TheAceofhearts84  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                    bit.ly/LightHerFire Keep her coming back for more!!

                                                                    • Rizky Trisna Putri
                                                                      Rizky Trisna Putri  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                      I do think men irresistable when they are religious, they actually believe in God and make efforts to be a better person

                                                                      • Spunky Bear
                                                                        Spunky Bear  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                        While many would say good looks is what you find attractive in a man, to me it goes far deeper than that. A man can be good looking on the outside, but can ruin it with an ugly attitude the minute they open their mouth. To me what’s the most attractive in a man above all is when they show their heart. By that I mean they are kind and caring whether there something in it for them or not. It also when they do more than they have to just because it’s the right thing to do, Tell me when that especially stands out as an example of this, is when a man makes you feel like you’re the only one in the room.

                                                                        • Spunky Bear
                                                                          Spunky Bear  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                          My apologies for the typographical error’s.

                                                                          • Jenny Black
                                                                            Jenny Black  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                            Lmao my name is Jennifer 🤣🤣🤣

                                                                            • Andrea Tilsley
                                                                              Andrea Tilsley  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                              I LOVE the gratitude thing! In my culture the "hey how are you?" "I'm well and you" "I'm well thank you" dialogue is so big. Even when you just walk past someone! Seriously, nobody even cares. I'm going to try stopping and stating what I'm grateful for. I've been looking for creative ways to be more authentic and this will keep me in that gratitude vibration. Awesome.

                                                                              • Unruly Crow
                                                                                Unruly Crow  Πριν 9 μήνες

                                                                                I'm meeting all these points but my trust issues get in the way every damn time, it's a poison. :( As for men, having someone supportive without being patronizing is pretty huge for me. Also, someone who's nice to others - if you treat the waiter like shit, you're off my list. Being kind to others is basic decency to me.

                                                                                • April Mitchell
                                                                                  April Mitchell  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                  I know that a man that is constantly on his phone and appears un-approachable....Missed oppurtunity, total turn off not engaged with his surrounding or people he is with 🤳😧

                                                                                  • Thalia Villalva
                                                                                    Thalia Villalva  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                    A man who's in touch with his feelings

                                                                                    • maria mistretta
                                                                                      maria mistretta  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                      1. Force on the other person use there name. 2. Uplifted those around you. Rude mean people are not attract at all. 3. Unlock your joy. Do things you enjoy in life. Postive Challenge go shopping for new clothes get your nail done. go a spy or do that at home. Try new hair styles. Try new things. ☺ 4. Be Authentic upgrade authentic. Be more confidence. 5. Take responsibility in your life.

                                                                                      • Chelsea Markovich
                                                                                        Chelsea Markovich  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                        A man that presses on in the midst of trials

                                                                                        • Icrat Lynn
                                                                                          Icrat Lynn  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                          A man that shows love when I at least expect it

                                                                                          • Jellis Squared
                                                                                            Jellis Squared  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                            Nice! My name is Jennifer...perked me up hearing my name! 😂

                                                                                            • Allygran1
                                                                                              Allygran1  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                              If you want to be authentic in all your good qualities like joy, confidence, humility, kindness etc you got to build them up from inside out. And this is a process. You can’t fake this qualities because men are good in spotting women who are just faking it in order to impress them.

                                                                                              • Yenny V
                                                                                                Yenny V  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                                Authentic kindness, unselfish, genuinely friendly and cares about others (animals, people, environment), a good sense of humor! Emotionally strong and, spiritual. -- is that too much?!?! 💕😃💫

                                                                                                • Jeanette Jeffrey
                                                                                                  Jeanette Jeffrey  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                                  Not sure,i was married 53 short years. Still trying to figure out who i am now. Its scary.

                                                                                                  • rezotydnic
                                                                                                    rezotydnic  Πριν 10 μήνες

                                                                                                    Being irresistible for a man is being a gentleman, honest, open, great attitude and integrity and knows how to make his woman feel special.

                                                                                                    • Melissa Davis
                                                                                                      Melissa Davis  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                      I love a clean cut, good smelling, intellectually stimulating, fun, family loving man!

                                                                                                      • Yooke Damopolii
                                                                                                        Yooke Damopolii  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                        masculine, brave, action-oriented, protective, sensitive, caring, kind, responsible, honest and loyal

                                                                                                        • ChristinaMladucky 4Jesus247
                                                                                                          ChristinaMladucky 4Jesus247  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                          Consistency, being honest, humbleness, not being on a pedestal, and respect , oh and definitely being good in communication! That's six haha... But true!

                                                                                                          • Maricor Benedicto
                                                                                                            Maricor Benedicto  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                            What makes a man attractive is maturity, knows what he is doing for the future.

                                                                                                            • Patchouli Rose
                                                                                                              Patchouli Rose  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                              Ugh. I have a crush on a coworker. We don’t work together every day which is good for dating purposes. I’ve been trying to make friends, but it’s hard. I can’t gauge if he likes me. He might be holding back because we work together or other reasons. I see him looking at me from the corner of my eye sometimes, but can’t really get him to bite. He accepted an invitation I gave to an event, so we are going together, but it’s not for a while. I’d like to see him outside of work in the meantime. I don’t want to seem needy or obvious, and don’t know how to go about getting an invite for a hangout on his end. (I’ve already asked 2 other times that were declined for reasons and just don’t want to seem pushy). I feel like he’s been trying to talk to me more at work lately, but I’m so shy, I don’t know what to say or how to keep it going. It’s not easy at work for me. I’ve been single for years. I came out of two long term relationships so never really dated. I feel so childish. P.S: he’s excited about the event, so now I need to figure out how not to bore him there as I’m paralyzed with smitten-ness!!

                                                                                                              • EvelynluvBella
                                                                                                                EvelynluvBella  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                                Or you can say, I'm so sorry I'm late, I am so thankful that you waited for me!

                                                                                                                • Ronnie Mat
                                                                                                                  Ronnie Mat  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                                  Irresistible characteristics in a man that I look for and appreciate, is seeing and feeling them show humility and compassion towards all around them, being supportive and reassuring when it comes to making important decisions as well as possessing good values, qualities and morals (I'm old fashioned and learned a lot of healthy habits by watching how my grandparents interacted with one another whom I spent a lot of time with). Above all, I have great respect for a man who is happy within himself and holds true to his word (as long as his intentions are good and healthy) which reflects honesty, loyality and deep understanding in his ways. To add to that my nan once told me a man is only as good as his word (this applies to us women too - two way street)! Both parties must work as a solid team to be successful in a longlasting and fun loving relationship.

                                                                                                                  • Kay krisen Cervano
                                                                                                                    Kay krisen Cervano  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                                    A men is irresistable when he is consistent with his words and actions... and great sense of humor.

                                                                                                                    • Karla Giboyeaux
                                                                                                                      Karla Giboyeaux  Πριν 11 μήνες

                                                                                                                      Love it! Thank you!

                                                                                                                      • Stella Gomez
                                                                                                                        Stella Gomez  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                        what if you suffer from clinical depression? Its something I fight with for years. Its kinda hard to be joyful all the time, and sometimes reaches the surface when I drink. Either way its something frequently contemplate and wonder, when should I tell the person I am dating I have clinical depression. I choose not to take meds and just meditate, do positive things, etc.

                                                                                                                        • Rhonda Baldwin
                                                                                                                          Rhonda Baldwin  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                          Irresistible men are gentlemanly. They are considerate. They listen and NOT fix, unless asked. They do the little things because they get that those are the ones that count. Listen to John Gray dont bring a dozen Rose's, rather bring one rose a dozen times...BROWNIE POINTS

                                                                                                                          • niki Gran
                                                                                                                            niki Gran  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                            A decent man who says yes and it’s yes..and no is no

                                                                                                                            • What I do For sex
                                                                                                                              What I do For sex  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                              It sounds good, nice game and a few weeks later he farts in bed.

                                                                                                                              • Tessa Miranda
                                                                                                                                Tessa Miranda  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                These are irresistible qualities in men too!

                                                                                                                                • Ginger Tillson
                                                                                                                                  Ginger Tillson  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                  Authenticity, Taking responsibility, Chilvery

                                                                                                                                  • eltedelarosa
                                                                                                                                    eltedelarosa  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                    Chivalrous, honest, respectful and monogamous.

                                                                                                                                    • Lady Elayne 11 - California Styling

                                                                                                                                      Irresistible man ... makes others a priority

                                                                                                                                      • Női Csatorna
                                                                                                                                        Női Csatorna  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                        The one who keeps his word and thinks twice before making any promise. Only says what he really means.

                                                                                                                                        • Maya T
                                                                                                                                          Maya T  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                          U say a woman has to act this way n that way....but in reality we all are the way we are bit weird bit boring bit exciting bit lovin.....a man who loves us will automatically find us irrestible just the way we are ......n a man who doesnt love us,even if we all hav 5 qualities above ...may find us charming in the short run but in long term will get bored of us .....the key here is to find the right guy that is compatible to ur personality ....cz then u will b forevr irresistble

                                                                                                                                          • Diane Stangeland
                                                                                                                                            Diane Stangeland  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                            oh Matt, you are so positive! Thank you!

                                                                                                                                            • Dania Bame
                                                                                                                                              Dania Bame  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                              A man that is bold enough to tell his feelings even if he is not sure about mine. He knows how to take care of himself. When he speaks highly of me behind my back. A genuine smile in a crowded place to check on me from time to time.

                                                                                                                                              • Sylvia Baan
                                                                                                                                                Sylvia Baan  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                                I like a man who is a gentleman, and good for other people.

                                                                                                                                                • Susan Winters
                                                                                                                                                  Susan Winters  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                                  Irresistable masculine qualities.....laughs frequently and heartily, loves without condition, takes responsibility for his own reality. That's the man I'm waiting for.

                                                                                                                                                  • Rocsy Lourens
                                                                                                                                                    Rocsy Lourens  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                                    Need advise 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

                                                                                                                                                    • Karen Leano
                                                                                                                                                      Karen Leano  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                                      Irresistible men for me are those who stick to their words :) I also find it irresistible if they looks tough but deep down their are child-like..

                                                                                                                                                      • The Moms view - lol StarDustEnergy
                                                                                                                                                        The Moms view - lol StarDustEnergy  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                                        Thank you great video. Much light love Namaste💛💚💙💜❤💛💚💙💜❤💛💚💙💜❤👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

                                                                                                                                                        • Melissa W.
                                                                                                                                                          Melissa W.  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                                          Dedication and loyalty

                                                                                                                                                          • Mel
                                                                                                                                                            Mel  Πριν χρόνο

                                                                                                                                                            LOVE this reminder about being grateful.