How Men Test Women featuring 3 Male Dating Coaches

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  • allisona9490
    allisona9490  Hace 16 horas

    I don't understand this equality"friend" stuff. If there is going to be chemistry, doesn't there have to be different energies at play?..if you want a friend, treat him equal. I get offering something and being respectful and appreciative on a date, but it feels good to have a guy invested enough to pay. And, I'm all about talking previously enough to see if either think we a fit enough to invest time and money. I agree we test each other. I think the women who try and get a guy to sleep with her might be subsciously(not knowing) to see if he can be easily manipulated with sex. I don't mean she's evil. Just not conscious of it. My opinions... Don't bite😘

    • Nuria Pujante
      Nuria Pujante  Hace 17 horas

      Sorry but that thing about the restaurant is stupidity at its maximum level. Unless you ask me for advice about where to go for dinner: the man pays. Why? because the dude has not clue if I can afford a 200 euros dinner... therefore, or you agree to go to a place that both of you can afford or the man chooses and pays. FULL STOP!

        SHANTA MAHABAL  Hace un día

        Then don't go to an expensive dinner if u can't pay.

        • Ghazal Katouzian
          Ghazal Katouzian  Hace un día

          Three of you just talk about who is going to pay what is have to do with a relationship the guy with the long hair go cut your hair short

          • Giulia S.
            Giulia S.  Hace un día

            The most attractive guys I dated would take the bill before I could even open my mouth, because they loved to do it. And yes, I agree to pay after the first dates.

            • Sharon Greenwood
              Sharon Greenwood  Hace 2 días

              News flash guys. A man does not play games. He is secure in who he is and what he wants. He will never let a woman pay for the meal or wear his hair in a man bun.

              • Heidi Ream
                Heidi Ream  Hace 3 días

                That's nice of you guys to help out people.

                • Nikki Maurer
                  Nikki Maurer  Hace 4 días

                  I am happy to pay my way.. very happy! However, if he took me to a $500 restaurant, I would be so offended that he would expect to pay that AMOUNT for food and the experience even if I'm perhaps not going to see him again! I have paid a lot, been paid for, but a $500 restaurant?? Seriously?? Nup, nup, nup.. if he took me to a $100 restaurant, yes, fair enough I'm happy to pay or pay my half...hope this makes sense xx

                  • D Grant
                    D Grant  Hace 4 días

                    If you asked me out, you should pay. If I asked you out, I will pay.

                    • marsgoi4
                      marsgoi4  Hace 4 días

                      By the way, yes, do you. Always be on a path of improvement to be the best you possible, but be true to your true self.

                      • marsgoi4
                        marsgoi4  Hace 4 días

                        I am, even as a woman, frustrated by the comments stating that, on a date, the man should pay the entire tab for the meal. Yes, the man most often is the one to take the initiative to ask a women out on a date, but that ask IS what is expected after all, isn't it? It's not like the woman says, "Ugh! This man asked me out on a date that I don't want to go on, but I guess I have to! Grrrrr! There better be food involved - that he's paying for!" No! She gladly accepts the date... and that food is involved... that he is paying for. Serious dating, for the very practical purpose of getting to know someone you may want to be exclusive with, or even marry, is a joint effort between two people. So why wouldn't the cost of the date be shared jointly? And what would be the suggestion for same-sex couples out on a date? Do you try to determine who is the most feminine/masculine?? Anyway, for most of us, money is hard-earned, and I personally don't think it's fair that one person, soley because of their gender, should have to pay for all the meals, just as I don't think it's fair that women often continue to be expected to do all of the house cleaning, cooking, and child-rearing - even when they also work outside of the home. I do get the whole, millions of years of, "Me Tarzan! You Jane!" conditioning of our species, but for all the big concerns about a man paying for some meals, let's consider just one of many real concerns. For instance, the fact that most women, on average, still only make seventy cents for every one dollar a man makes doing the same work. We are being taken for thousands of dollars. If we are going to push for something, let's push for women getting equal pay. If you make that happen, then we will know you are starting to really see us and care for us. If we want true equality in this world, we ALL need to psycologically evolve as a species, and stop engaging in the biased "typecasting" of each other based on our race, ethnicity, nationality, religion, lack of religion, age, gender, and so on.

                        • marsgoi4
                          marsgoi4  Hace 5 días

                          I like a lot of what the three of you have said. The thing is that this isn't just the man interviewing the woman. When a woman accepts a date with a man, she is doing so to get to know him and interview him as well. The date is not only for the man's "edification". For instance, for this hypothetical date, I would give the man some ideas of the sort of food I like and leave it to him to choose the restaurant. However, I would want each of us to pay for our own meals, at least till we got to know each other. I am extremely uncomfortable with allowing a man, that I barely know, to pay for my meal - or to pick me up in his car, for that matter. Consider the, unfortunately, considerable amount of men who don't respect a woman's boundaries. These types of men often think the woman "owes" them, because they paid for their meal and are driving them around. Yes, hopefully a woman can determine these bad traits in a man before she goes out with him. But, let's be honest, people don't always show us who they really are upfront, and "after the fact" is too late. I have a daughter and I have told her that, initially, she should take herself to the date location and pay for her own meal. This should be done, at least, till the man has proven himself to be a gentleman and an upstanding individual - and to know this DOES take time. That is just how it goes. We forget that courtships took quite some time back in the day, AND a courting couple had to be chaparoned. I want the time I need to get to know who I may allow to become exclusive with me or to marry me. If a man is in a hurry, then I would not be someone he would want to date. In addition, with all of the date rape and violence thrust upon women, I am sincerely concerned that we are not spending more time on encouraging a safety first mentality. At any rate, I apologize; that went off the rails for a bit. But, assuming you read this, I hope you get my "gist". Best to you!

                          • Marilyn Marquez
                            Marilyn Marquez  Hace 5 días

                            I always let the man pay on the first date....It makes me feel like a lady, even a princess! And I know it should make him feel masculine, almost like he's flexing his muscles. Then after a couple of dates w him, I will gladly offer to pay, this way he knows I'm not cheap, not using him and most of all....that I really like him!

                            • Free Reign Network
                              Free Reign Network  Hace 5 días

                              Check out their check I really see eye-to-eye with Mark imma watch more visit videos cuz I am a amateur Matchmaker and I didn't know they have institutes where you can develop this into a real career and imma look into that

                              • Free Reign Network
                                Free Reign Network  Hace 5 días

                                How about this I had married a woman who faked her values we met in church and I really believed that we could build a life on our values and then when we were going through our life challenges she did not use those values to address the issues of our life she abandoned her values and went back to her childhood instincts and it really crushed me because I chose this woman from four other possibilities of women that were dating and I really believe this was the right choice for my life and my life was destroyed

                                • Free Reign Network
                                  Free Reign Network  Hace 5 días

                                  I've noticed women will try to change a man's value so they can match and Francis I know someone who was just always challenging their man to change the way he's attracted to her and it's making her chase him but she's never really feeling fulfilled until he submits to what sea feels comfortable with and I'm like she's making him be a different person than he is instead of exploring relationships that actually match your values I see women who are attracted to the exterior or the charm of the man but they actually are not compatible and they're like trying to make that work

                                  • Free Reign Network
                                    Free Reign Network  Hace 5 días

                                    I see so many female comments when this is not a chat ment for you. I also see such defensive comments instead of comments that broaden the discussion with an open mind. Kinda disappointing

                                    • Free Reign Network
                                      Free Reign Network  Hace 5 días

                                      That was a great Point by the first Matchmaker your woman in her acting and being able to fit into your life because I look at my woman as mine networker she's the one who makes the connections for me she's the one that brings the opportunities to us so we can grow because a woman should be interested on the behalf of her man on the opportunities did they can be a part of to build their life that's why in the good book it says I will a partner suitable for you and the woman has to be suitable for the man's lifestyle she has to she is the emotional radar on his behalf

                                      • Jenn Jackson
                                        Jenn Jackson  Hace 5 días

                                        These guys are GROSS!! Feeble emotionally immature man child - all three of them. No amount of sharp blazers or trips to the gym are going to fix what’s wrong with these “guys” ( guys, not men). THESE are the type of men we women can do without... absolutely disgusting that they think they have something of value to offer women by way of advise... I can only imagine they are speaking from their hearts in how to get a man like THEM. But ladies think about that - listen to what they’re saying look at their lifestyle, imagine a YEAR in your life if this were your man… Would you really want that?? Men today are so lost.

                                        • Emily Brewer
                                          Emily Brewer  Hace 6 días

                                          Margarita , absolutely, if a man let's hid girlfriend pay on the first date, he's no man he's looking for a meal ticket, what a worthless bum , to do that to a woman on the first date , what a looser and worthless of ever being a man , through that looser as far away as you can ,to where you won't ever step over a rock and pick it up to see what's underneath, because you might find a worthless bum looser who lets the woman pay for everything

                                          • Gratitude
                                            Gratitude  Hace 7 días

                                            Gentleman, would you collaborate with Matthew Hussey as well ? I love your material . Started dating after 30 years . New way of dating all together!

                                            • Bea Dacut
                                              Bea Dacut  Hace 7 días

                                              Love you three ❣️ Love from Philippines 🇵🇭

                                              • Marriet Visser
                                                Marriet Visser  Hace 8 días

                                                I always offer to pay. Men never allows me to pay on a 1st, 2nd or 3rd date. After that I usually get the smaller bills. I also pay for some fun things we do. I don't sponge on men. They were not born to pay for all my expenses. WHEN I cook most men arrive with flowers or something nice.

                                                • Marriet Visser
                                                  Marriet Visser  Hace 8 días

                                                  Listen to what men do 😀❤👍

                                                  • Janeil Aultman
                                                    Janeil Aultman  Hace 8 días

                                                    WOW. JUST. WOW. These are predominantly thoughtless perceptions. My hope is that each of you will reconsider or risk becoming irrelevant.

                                                    • Tonisha Armstrong
                                                      Tonisha Armstrong  Hace 8 días

                                                      These comments are killing me! Lol. I've never spent so much time reading comments on a video before.

                                                      • des ray
                                                        des ray  Hace 9 días

                                                        This man-bun is life lol

                                                        • Susan Gathinji
                                                          Susan Gathinji  Hace 9 días

                                                          I really like this

                                                          • J M
                                                            J M  Hace 9 días

                                                            Just to let you know: if a woman says “thank you, I had a wonderful evening” after a date, maybe right before she leaves, then she expects you to send her a text and say I had a wonderful evening with you, would love to repeat this - or she’ll assume you don’t want to see her again because you didn’t enjoy the evening as much as she did. It’s up to the man.

                                                            • Flibgonrt Sheglis
                                                              Flibgonrt Sheglis  Hace 9 días

                                                              Guys, guys, cannot expect anything from dinner. Period. You asked her out for the pleasure of her company. If I ask a man, I pay.

                                                              • Laurie Mazzarella
                                                                Laurie Mazzarella  Hace 10 días

                                                                Good point...women test men too....and right, I love being older b/c being authentic is so important!!

                                                                • Jewel Fortalejo
                                                                  Jewel Fortalejo  Hace 10 días

                                                                  If I have money, I always offer to pay, test or not.. but if I don't have money, if the bill comes...I'm just silent, hahaha! For me it doesn't really matter pays, the important is the person is persistent of his intentions to, since in our culture, courtship is very important to show that you like the person..I still believe to that..hahaha!

                                                                  • MGTOW
                                                                    MGTOW  Hace 10 días

                                                                    Men That Test Women Are Blue Pill Men.. Men Going Their Own Way Are Red Pill Men Like Me.

                                                                    • MGTOW
                                                                      MGTOW  Hace 10 días

                                                                      @Attract Great Guys You Never Know A Woman Really Well Until She Goes To A Divorce Court. That Is When The Fun Begins. The Law Is All On The Wife's Side Not The Husband's Side At All... Feminism Will Back Fire On Women. Men That Support Feminism Are Blue Pill Men..

                                                                      • Attract Great Guys
                                                                        Attract Great Guys   Hace 10 días

                                                                        Most MGTOW men feel empowered and actually think they're strong, smart men who are somehow mistreated by the world. Give me a break. Everyone has challenges. If you're incapable or have no desire to increase your sexual market value, then that's one thing. But to blame other people and advocate giving up and not experiencing a loving relationship, that's just being a coward.

                                                                        • Krista Miller
                                                                          Krista Miller  Hace 10 días

                                                                          Just the other day I was messaging a guy on Facebook who I've seen a few times in the past 8 months or so, and I click on his Facebook wall to send him a message, and one of his posts said: I don't think I'll ever find the right girl that's going to make me happy. I'll probably spend the rest of my life by myself". Now I was crazy about this guy at one point, but he lives about 80 miles away, and uses distance as his excuse not to come on weekends or whenever. I had worn my heart on my sleeve, almost got attached to him, and then i seen that post, and another right below it, that says something to the effect "why can't I just meet someone real? Every woman I know is fake as f... " Well that right there told me he was putting me in there with that categorization, and I don't like it. My reply was: "maybe you should stop setting your standards so high you can't reach them"!

                                                                          • Sandra Granieri
                                                                            Sandra Granieri  Hace 10 días

                                                                            If Im not interested in the guy I will offer to pay because I would feel that he is wasting his money (Im not into him). If im interested I would not, he invited me, so I would I offer to pay?? This might be a cultural thing also, Americans are different.

                                                                            • Fanta Sip
                                                                              Fanta Sip  Hace 11 días

                                                                              three guys man spreading straight into the camera😁😀😃

                                                                              • LAUREN SCHULTZ
                                                                                LAUREN SCHULTZ  Hace 11 días

                                                                                This guy is crazy! Any man who would wait for a woman to “Offer to pay the bill “ on a first date is a loser!

                                                                                • Survival Φ
                                                                                  Survival Φ  Hace 11 días

                                                                                  Pueden juzgar en una sola salida, eso esta fuera de la realidad. Tampoco creo que sean buenos para dar consejos.

                                                                                  • Ansel Raymond
                                                                                    Ansel Raymond  Hace 12 días

                                                                                    I have my preferences. He has to be the man. He is the pursuer. I am the prize. He will take up the tab.

                                                                                    • Monica Mora
                                                                                      Monica Mora  Hace 12 días


                                                                                      • Preposterous
                                                                                        Preposterous  Hace 12 días

                                                                                        10:36 The key to making this work is to make sure your actions authentically match your values. Just because you’re doing something that is motivated by your values, it doesn’t mean your action is in proper alignment with your values. Such as the woman paying for the dinner; her values might have been equal partnership, generosity, expressing love/affection through gift giving or acts of service, etc. In that context, however, her actions could have come off as manipulative or controlling, coming on too strong too soon, not allowing her date to contribute his anticipated share of the date (undermining his contributions), and/or a variety of other things NOT in alignment with her true values. Just because YOU feel the sincerity of your actions doesn’t mean the other person will interpret it that way. Try to make sure that how you communicate your values is something that can be more easily understood by others. The first date is typically not the time to split hairs over unraveling the nuance in communication, it’s a time to work on effective, more easily understood communication using established paradigms so it’s easier to tell if there’s compatibility worth building upon. It’s not sexy for someone to go home afterward asking “what the hell happened, how am I supposed to interpret that?!” It’s not about faking compatibility, it’s about delivering your authenticity is such a way that it’s easier to identify compatibility or lack thereof.

                                                                                        • Kristen C.
                                                                                          Kristen C.  Hace 12 días

                                                                                          I’m sorry but the man should pay on the first date. Especially if he asked you out. That’s just the gentleman thing to do. If I had to pay on the first date that’s a major turn off. There would not be a second date.

                                                                                          • Antonio Borrello
                                                                                            Antonio Borrello  Hace 10 días

                                                                                            I agree with you.. the man should pay on the first date, and I would never allow a woman to pay on our date. It simply shows that she is being thoughtful when she makes the gesture to offer. Thanks for watching and commenting, Antonio

                                                                                            • Gloria Namusoke
                                                                                              Gloria Namusoke  Hace 13 días

                                                                                              Yes, you should do it again

                                                                                              • Mathilda Kamara
                                                                                                Mathilda Kamara  Hace 13 días

                                                                                                Men are crazy creepy

                                                                                                • Amy zzz
                                                                                                  Amy zzz  Hace 13 días

                                                                                                  lol I would NEVER offer to pay for a restaurant.

                                                                                                  • Ms. M
                                                                                                    Ms. M  Hace 14 días

                                                                                                    Yup. CALIFORNIA DUDES DON'T PAY FOR DINNER. IF I OFFER = I PAY THEY ARE NOT GENTLEMEN WHEN IS COMES TO PICKING UP THE TAB. HINT: SINGLE INDEPENDENT WOMAN HAS BILLS...can't afford FANCY dinners to "test". SORRY DUDES... I AM SUCCESSFUL. BUT I WON'T TAKE "I FORGOT MY WALLET ACTS"

                                                                                                    • Charana
                                                                                                      Charana  Hace 14 días

                                                                                                      Do it again :)

                                                                                                      • Carolyn Ryene
                                                                                                        Carolyn Ryene  Hace 14 días

                                                                                                        A proper man would never in any allow a woman yo pay, bad testing point. The woman contributes by being with you and your big belly. Why not be straight up and stop the games.

                                                                                                        • Danica Jefferson
                                                                                                          Danica Jefferson  Hace 15 días

                                                                                                          @Antonio Borrello Dr. Antonio, I fear you have not put much thought into your "test!" You feel a woman offering to pay for the date tells you something positive about her. But.......what does an offer to pay mean coming from a female? It means one of two things and neither is good for the man. First, she is feeling you have more "dating currency" than she and this gesture might keep you interested. You don't want an insecure woman! Secondly, she suspects you're a jerk and wants to test the theory and see if you let her pay. This is the smart, expedient woman you want. Sadly, she already has you figured out. If you are two sincere, open people on a date that's gone well, a high value woman would not consider offering to pay. Thus the flaw in your test.

                                                                                                          • Do it Right now
                                                                                                            Do it Right now  Hace 17 días

                                                                                                            Does Dr. Antonia have a wedding ring on?

                                                                                                            • Monica Moran
                                                                                                              Monica Moran  Hace 18 días

                                                                                                              Interesting... If I offer to pay, it means one of two things to me: Either I am testing you to see if you are responsible, respectable and have manners or it means that I do not want to see you again. If you ask me out and I am willing to trust you, give my time to prepare and meet with you and find value in you enough to be entertaining and intelligent company over ONE DINNER (something that generally occurs on a nightly basis and therefore should be not considered such an exotic extravagance as seems to be expressed here as a $500.00 dinner on a first date), then I have already established that you are worth my consideration, and I will expect a gentleman to pay for the dinner in which he has invited me in hopes of investing in some future consideration by me. To expect that over a first date you should extract such a future co-existence determination because you want to test a woman's ability/willingness to pay half a $500.00 dinner tab is arrogant and misguided information. I think perhaps a gentleman who is so concerned with this topic on a first date should not try so hard to overcompensate for whatever insecurities he is sporting by pretending to be something he is not; like a regular $500.00 dinner kind of guy without wanting some dame to pick up the tab next time. Why not show this intelligent woman whom you are attempting to woo that you know how to manage your money by making that $500.00 dinner have so much more meaning. That kind of dinner is something you should save to celebrate how far you have come as a couple, not try to launch such a bigass ship right out the gate of the abyss. It makes you look desperate and fake. Do something creative, personal- something she can cherish that matches her ideals and aspirations. And reminds her of you and the memorable experience you so thoughtfully displayed for her- not just another female on an expensive dinner date to Nowheresville. BORING. Sorry, boys, but that bit of advice is full of egocentric hamming. Did not touch a chord with this valuable woman. Dig deeper. That's where you will find gold like me.

                                                                                                              • Dee Love
                                                                                                                Dee Love  Hace 18 días

                                                                                                                Be Authentic and the right one will appear and stay.😉

                                                                                                                • PaiN ExoTiC
                                                                                                                  PaiN ExoTiC  Hace 18 días

                                                                                                                  Lol I feel bad for young guys falling for feminist rhetoric. I used to and was beta af but was lucky enough to redpill at the age of 17! Been redpill for years now. Now I do wtf I want and don't give a crap about how I'm perceived bc women will Fck either way. News flash young guys, you're wasting your time wining and dining for some pssy. Be upfront that you're sexually interested in her (by having sexual charisma) and avoid all that emotional personality "I'll treat you like a princess" crap. That's how women manipulate you for free money, fun, and attention. Don't believe me? There was a study that came out recently that exposed that 1/3 of women use men for free food!

                                                                                                                  • missmerbella
                                                                                                                    missmerbella  Hace 19 días

                                                                                                                    Antonio, you can’t invite a woman out, choose a restaurant that costs $500 to eat at, and just expect that she has the financial resources to pay for half. I see the point you’re trying to make, but she didn’t ask YOU out, and she didn’t choose to eat at such an expensive restaurant.

                                                                                                                    • Royal promise
                                                                                                                      Royal promise  Hace 20 días

                                                                                                                      Good job boyz!! I like the buddy thing, hey share the's just about being kind and having a date. Hello. Ty

                                                                                                                      • Juleen Dickson
                                                                                                                        Juleen Dickson  Hace 21 un día

                                                                                                                        I don't think about who pays. It is not a big deal to me with my friends or a guy. I just think it should come out even in the end. I prefer I pay for this one, you pay for the next one with friends and dates. One pays for dinner, one pays for drinks. It is not a big deal. If people think it is a big deal that is kind of a deal breaker for me, with friends and guys.

                                                                                                                        • anastasia alekseeva
                                                                                                                          anastasia alekseeva  Hace 21 un día

                                                                                                                          I don’t want to date my equal, otherwise I would just get a roommate.I want a man who would make me feel safe,who is not afraid to be the head of the family.I will reach for my wallet to be polite but if you let me pay,that’s the last time you see me.Don’t take a woman to a $500 dinner if you make such a huge deal about it.Forget about feminists,we want a gentleman,not a pussy.

                                                                                                                          • TracypMakeup
                                                                                                                            TracypMakeup  Hace 21 un día

                                                                                                                            Who's doing the asking out? If a man has asked a woman out on a date, then why the hell would he expect her to offer to pay. That's just silly. She was minding her own business and you asked her wanted to show her a good time. It's not her place to now pay for that. It's like if you ask some out for a business meeting or advice. It's your place as the person asking, to pay. The other person isn't a bad person if they don't play a stupid game of grabbing the bill. Smh. This is nonsense. It's not proper etiquette to even expect them to offer. It's tacky. Stop being cheap and be a gentleman. Know that she spent time and money looking pretty for the date and she offered up good conversation. Now we have to offer to pay too...Lol? Silliness!

                                                                                                                            • Mari Sol
                                                                                                                              Mari Sol  Hace 23 días

                                                                                                                              Latino men don't require a woman to offer to pay. Question do you guys always open doors for ladies?

                                                                                                                              • schokofondue8
                                                                                                                                schokofondue8  Hace 23 días

                                                                                                                                I really would love to see you together with Brian Nox. You both are my favourites...

                                                                                                                                • D. F.
                                                                                                                                  D. F.  Hace 24 días

                                                                                                                                  I dislike it when a man insists on paying every date. I make 6 figures & I want to be your partner, not a parasite. Let me be as good to you as you are to me.

                                                                                                                                  • donnar909
                                                                                                                                    donnar909  Hace 24 días

                                                                                                                                    women have their job as the female species, and men have their job as the male species. enough said. and no matter how you spin it, biology is biology.

                                                                                                                                    • donnar909
                                                                                                                                      donnar909  Hace 24 días

                                                                                                                                      if a man wants to be considered a romantic interest, then he BETTER pay. as soon as he does not pay, he is no longer a romantic interest and this is not a date. LOL

                                                                                                                                      • Alegna Rolyart
                                                                                                                                        Alegna Rolyart  Hace 24 días

                                                                                                                                        I don't offer to pay the bill because some men would say, "okay, you can pay the bill." I'd rather offer to leave a tip. I do, however, offer to take a man out sometimes, especially a man who consistently takes me out.

                                                                                                                                        • tehilovely
                                                                                                                                          tehilovely  Hace 24 días

                                                                                                                                          Do this again 😊 That was great

                                                                                                                                          • SunKissed
                                                                                                                                            SunKissed  Hace 25 días

                                                                                                                                            That Aussie accent began to sound sexy until you started that trash about having a woman offer to pay on the first date. What kind of wasteman mindset is that! Smh

                                                                                                                                            • brattybaby
                                                                                                                                              brattybaby  Hace 25 días

                                                                                                                                              He paid for dinner, I offered to pay my share but he declined. I insisted on paying for the coffee thereafter. I felt better I did.

                                                                                                                                              • Erica Coppler
                                                                                                                                                Erica Coppler  Hace 25 días

                                                                                                                                                So am I wrong in thinking Im ok to pay for myself first date? I guess really it just comes down to the right person. Testing is ok if reasons r just to find a match. Testing isnt always that sincere though

                                                                                                                                                • Tammy Caley
                                                                                                                                                  Tammy Caley  Hace 26 días

                                                                                                                                                  This is great!! I have a guy that is amazing, but he’s checking me into the gym when we see each other. He’s busy doing his job, and I don’t want to distract him from his job there. It’s a club/family atmosphere at this gym, so it’s perfectly ok for us to interact openly. He’s got coworkers and other members around constantly. I am looking for an opportunity to slip him my number because I think I have to offer it. He can’t ask me for it on the job. Any tips in how to flirt with him more and not interfere with his job too much.

                                                                                                                                                  • madiola1234
                                                                                                                                                    madiola1234  Hace 27 días

                                                                                                                                                    if a man asks her out he pays...if a woman asks ..she pays

                                                                                                                                                    • Nikki Doe
                                                                                                                                                      Nikki Doe  Hace 27 días

                                                                                                                                                      Evolution is BULL. God designed everything. Look at the organization and precision in design and give him the credit.

                                                                                                                                                      • Lanka Fortunata
                                                                                                                                                        Lanka Fortunata  Hace 27 días

                                                                                                                                                        If a guy ask me on a date and then expect me to pay some portion because you guys think it’s good quality than I don’t think I ever want to see him again. I totally believe, guys who cannot afford to pay for the dinner on first day they should stay home by themselves for the rest of their life

                                                                                                                                                        • Ruby Firefly
                                                                                                                                                          Ruby Firefly  Hace 27 días

                                                                                                                                                          One problem with testing is that everyone has a different test. For example, Dr. Antonio talking about being impressed with a woman who makes the gesture / offers to pay for dinner. I've gone out with plenty of guys who were insulted by that. It's like you're saying you don't think they can cover it or have the class to honor the cost to pay for it when they invited you. Besides that, if a man invites me out to dinner, no way am I going to offer to pay. MY test is how honorable is he. If I had asked him out, I'd plan to pay for it. If my test fails some guys test, c'est la vie. The bottom line is that you just have to be yourself and people who are compatible with naturally mesh and gravitate toward each other.

                                                                                                                                                          • J’adore La Nuit
                                                                                                                                                            J’adore La Nuit  Hace 28 días

                                                                                                                                                            Lol. In this modern day dating seems like man its hard to get, hmmm...!! Halaaah Kontol lah kalian bertiga...!!

                                                                                                                                                            • Corey Davis
                                                                                                                                                              Corey Davis  Hace 29 días

                                                                                                                                                              I can’t afford a $500 dinner, but I would like to offer. I can buy a drink for them. The doctor seems to I guess only date a wealthy woman. I’m old fashioned and I am a good woman, but not at certain men’s level. I don’t think financially which is important to you men, I can’t and many women can’t compete...I’m humble and I don’t care if a man makes a bunch of money. I definitely want to get to know someone’s friends and family though.