5 Dating Tips | Pastor Steven Furtick

  • Published: 17 May 2019
  • Here are five tips for surviving (and thriving) in the dating world.
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Comments • 396

  • Missus Mello
    Missus Mello  22 시간 전

    Did I just binge watch your videos? “YEEEP! And I got no regrets.❣️“

    • Ronnie Alvarez
      Ronnie Alvarez  3 일 전

      This is bullshit

      • Peter Shin
        Peter Shin  8 일 전

        Wow wow wow goosebumps all over. Just ran into this video and man this pastor says so much of value and truth. God bless and so many youths need to hear this message... thank you

        • Rita Cerna
          Rita Cerna  13 일 전

          We need to know our worth and our value.

          • Jacob Cooper
            Jacob Cooper  14 일 전

            Having a relationship, should be "God centered." God will provide you with the person. All you have to do is let HIM be the one to guide you through the Holy spirit. Dating might be hard because we might not be looking in the right places but we should remember all things will be done together for the good of those who love God, according to his purpose

            • Rich Lummy
              Rich Lummy  23 일 전

              This is awesome

              • Enwill JtTimber
                Enwill JtTimber  23 일 전

                I LOVE THIS Thanks Stevie :-) - if you were my teacher i would not miss one class - ill be there before you :-)

                • Nissi Copeland
                  Nissi Copeland  26 일 전

                  Thank you.

                  • JUST US
                    JUST US  개월 전

                    BE the person YOU are looking for with CHRIST in the MIDDLE using His STANDARD of dating. Normal minded people FROWN on the thought of incest. Rightfully so. Yet in the EYES OF GOD, until you SAY, "I DO", the person you are "dating" is your brother in Christ, women. She's your sister in Christ, men. We do NOT want to commit "SPIRITUAL" incest BEFORE we say I DO. #ItsTIGHT but #ItsRIGHT

                    • littleteethkeith
                      littleteethkeith  개월 전

                      Good advice. Awful music.

                      • Lyric Gibson
                        Lyric Gibson  개월 전

                        I'm happy in my relationship

                        • chandu mark
                          chandu mark  개월 전

                          Praise the Lord

                          • Samuel Zornes
                            Samuel Zornes  개월 전

                            Why are there dislikes?

                            • Thuba Fihlela
                              Thuba Fihlela  개월 전

                              This gave me such chills 👏👏👏

                              • Carmee Bagnol
                                Carmee Bagnol  개월 전

                                I'm precious and hard to find.

                                • Martha Villagomez
                                  Martha Villagomez  개월 전

                                  Do you have the tips written out? I tried to watch the video but it gave me sensory overload (I have brain issues due to a stroke).

                                  • Livi Sunshine
                                    Livi Sunshine  개월 전

                                    4:25 Sin happens when I try to meet or fill a God-given desire outside of God's intended design.

                                    • becky gifty
                                      becky gifty  개월 전

                                      Waiting on God. I know it's worth it

                                      • Hangmai Mai
                                        Hangmai Mai  개월 전


                                        • Renola Jodie
                                          Renola Jodie  개월 전

                                          Yep, 2 broken people cannot possibly make a whole :(

                                          • Yulissa Salcedo Caraballo

                                            As someone that’s single, I needed to hear this. Makes me realize what I need to be aware of for when I look for I start dating again.

                                            • ThaRealP.Y.T. Neena Sky
                                              ThaRealP.Y.T. Neena Sky  2 개월 전


                                              • tatiamoon
                                                tatiamoon  2 개월 전

                                                Can put English sub's at least?

                                                • Antonio Hatcher
                                                  Antonio Hatcher  2 개월 전

                                                  This was a very helpful, could anyone tell me the names of all the songs in this video? Thank you

                                                  • Brianna Miller
                                                    Brianna Miller  2 개월 전

                                                    Wow this is sooo good ! Wish I would have seen this before I got married

                                                    • Asian Aesthetics
                                                      Asian Aesthetics  2 개월 전

                                                      The nature of sin - Meeting a God-given desire, but it's meeting it in a way outside of God's intended design.

                                                      • Goochie Grindin
                                                        Goochie Grindin  2 개월 전

                                                        Amen... Amen

                                                        • caroline
                                                          caroline  2 개월 전

                                                          "For a woman... how can I follow this man" ???????? its 2019, can we not. Love you pastor Steven but a man and a woman need to be equal in a relationship in that they both look to each other for guidance

                                                          • Erick Robinson
                                                            Erick Robinson  2 개월 전

                                                            All the way from Tanzania... i wished i would not have the feelings to someone but this Tip validate me to value my self first and not not give it away cheaply

                                                            • God fearing woman I love Jesus

                                                              Thank you for this excellent video. I'm new to this channel.

                                                              • Nina Schmidt
                                                                Nina Schmidt  2 개월 전

                                                                Wow, so good

                                                                • Calida
                                                                  Calida  2 개월 전

                                                                  There was so much in this message that spoke straight to my heart. Thank you for this.

                                                                  • Jedi Santos
                                                                    Jedi Santos  2 개월 전

                                                                    Thanks Steven! I really needed this :(

                                                                    • SOMETHING PIOUS
                                                                      SOMETHING PIOUS  2 개월 전

                                                                      There will not be a coming together but a tearing apart💯

                                                                      •   2 개월 전

                                                                        whaaaat!!!! This is another level of wisdom!! Thank you so much

                                                                        • Enhle
                                                                          Enhle  2 개월 전

                                                                          This hurts. No self help preparation in the world can open God's hand when He's closed love off to you. 😢

                                                                          • Aalpha Splatt
                                                                            Aalpha Splatt  2 개월 전

                                                                            I'm not a Christian and I don't want a Christian but your message, outside of the Jesus speech, is perfect. Accurate! I would add to the list: wait until marriage before having sex.

                                                                            • Njavwa Sichone
                                                                              Njavwa Sichone  2 개월 전

                                                                              Thanks alot pastor am humbled and grateful that my thoughts about dating is same with what you are saying I live with CP I don't believe in sex before marriage please pray for me for to be the right person for that man am meant for

                                                                              • Orad sin cesar
                                                                                Orad sin cesar  2 개월 전

                                                                                Is there a way to get this in Spanish or with subtitles? I'ld love to show this to my youth group at church.

                                                                                • Miss Kat
                                                                                  Miss Kat  2 개월 전

                                                                                  I agree with everything this video says but I also want to say that if you are mentally and spiritually prepared to go on a few dates just to figure out what you're looking for, that is ok also. It's ok to learn how to be direct with someone at the end of the date and say thank you for the time spent. God has shown me that in order for me to be genuine in front of men I'm attracted to, I have to be able to do the same in friendships. A genuine person will notice that. I used to be whatever I thought the person needed, and that gave them more of a reason to treat me as invaluable and dispose of me. I used to idealize people. It's ok to date to learn where you need work. Also, be open and aware that a full disclosure conversation will come up organically if the right 'ingredients' are there. Don't ever go into a marriage thinking you can change someone, and sweep things under the rug. A godly man will be impressed with a women by the conduct of her heart when she seeks her affirmation in Christ. Another thing, not once have I EVER been content with being single, but God knows I'm ALLOWED to struggle, and He's with me every step of the way. That doesn't stop me from running after the cross, and neither should any of you.

                                                                                  • Sarah Yvonne
                                                                                    Sarah Yvonne  2 개월 전

                                                                                    Thanks Pastor Steven for sharing right to the point!

                                                                                    •   2 개월 전

                                                                                      Oh dear, watching this only made me more confused! I am already very reluctant to date anybody unless I think I would want to be with them long-term which is hard to determine unless you spend a significant amount of time together. And when you spend a lot of time together, you tend to become connected with that person which we should be guarding against! So how am I supposed to go about it then? I mean, I like what he said about trying to fulfill a God given desire with our own means, but that makes me feel like I should just go through life not showing any interest in anyone and wait for a relationship to just magically happen which is not very practical.

                                                                                      • smh
                                                                                        smh  2 개월 전

                                                                                        Very very interesting.

                                                                                        • Lyssaboo
                                                                                          Lyssaboo  2 개월 전

                                                                                          this was so important for me

                                                                                          • JAM ROLL
                                                                                            JAM ROLL  2 개월 전

                                                                                            That was hella dope!! I needed that ima need to watch this again

                                                                                            • Rach r
                                                                                              Rach r  2 개월 전

                                                                                              Thank you...I've lately been struggling with certain desires but praise be to God , He provided through you this instructions!

                                                                                              • Van Bonita Bo
                                                                                                Van Bonita Bo  2 개월 전

                                                                                                Value what God has put In You

                                                                                                • Tony Carneiro
                                                                                                  Tony Carneiro  2 개월 전

                                                                                                  Editing is a bit much

                                                                                                  • Ms Angie
                                                                                                    Ms Angie  2 개월 전

                                                                                                    This is a reaffirmation of what I have been living by this year. I am healing from past relationships, finding my value in Christ, developing a relationship with God and the rest is in his hands. Love this!!!

                                                                                                    •   2 개월 전

                                                                                                      I really needed to hear this. I felt myself going back down the wrong path again where I felt the need to contact my ex after 3-4 years of no contact and reconnect. I knew that he probably hadn’t changed and it was a very toxic relationship, but the God given desire within me to be with somebody had tried to manifest itself outside of God’s design and I knew that no one from my past could possibly live up to the expectations that God has for my future spouse. Thank you Steven Furtick for stopping me in my tracks and allowing me the opportunity to exert self control and to regain the Godly focus that I’ve once had.

                                                                                                      • paul thomas
                                                                                                        paul thomas  2 개월 전

                                                                                                        I love this. A year ago I thought waiting to have sex until marriage was like a unicorn, something that just didn’t exist. Now i can’t imagine starting a relationship with a girl who’s not on fire for Christ.

                                                                                                        • thepoohbearful
                                                                                                          thepoohbearful  2 개월 전

                                                                                                          Wow wowowowooww ! 👌👌👌👌

                                                                                                          • Soumya Pillai
                                                                                                            Soumya Pillai  2 개월 전

                                                                                                            Thank you Jesus🙏 and thank you pastor

                                                                                                            • Gustavo Bethancourt
                                                                                                              Gustavo Bethancourt  2 개월 전

                                                                                                              Wouu !! that really helped me even in my 55 Year old, I love the woman God gave me, to whom I have been married almost 30 years. I am so sure that because she put God at first place is the reason that I am so blessed to be called her Husband !!!!

                                                                                                              • NARA SOUZA
                                                                                                                NARA SOUZA  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                put legenda in portuguese pls

                                                                                                                • Michael Trn
                                                                                                                  Michael Trn  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                  This false prophet endorsed dating he is not a representative for God but for the world and the devil.

                                                                                                                  • Jen doe
                                                                                                                    Jen doe  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                    Great video, ty 🙏

                                                                                                                    • To Pazz
                                                                                                                      To Pazz  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                      Love this ✝️💕 Awesome practical wise advice for singles 👏🏼

                                                                                                                      • Anime
                                                                                                                        Anime  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                        Wow, just *_WOW_*

                                                                                                                        • Elevated Business 101
                                                                                                                          Elevated Business 101  2 개월 전


                                                                                                                          • Elaine Maluleke
                                                                                                                            Elaine Maluleke  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                            “When you do t value something, you tend to not protect it to level that you should... My God! So true! 🙌🏾

                                                                                                                            • Oma Ngozika
                                                                                                                              Oma Ngozika  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                              I NEEDED THIS!!

                                                                                                                              • Lunar Nightz
                                                                                                                                Lunar Nightz  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                I think a lot of people need to hear this

                                                                                                                                • Corina Mae Bernardo
                                                                                                                                  Corina Mae Bernardo  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                  Wow 🙌

                                                                                                                                  • Janet Njambi
                                                                                                                                    Janet Njambi  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                    GOSH! LET ME JUST SUMMARIZE ALL OF THE THOUGHTS THAT HAVE BEEN TRIGGERED IN ME FROM THIS VIDEO....AMAZING!!! AMAZING!!!! AMAZING!!!! "...SET A STANDARD SUCH THAT YOU'RE NOT PLAYING HARD TO GET, BECAUSE YOU ACTUALLY ARE HARD TO GET..." WOW!

                                                                                                                                    • carter lenn
                                                                                                                                      carter lenn  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                      Wow! This was powerful. And that definition of sin is brilliant.

                                                                                                                                      • Serin Oh
                                                                                                                                        Serin Oh  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                        WOWOWOOW. priority for a woman should be, "how can i follow this man if he's not first submitted to follow christ"

                                                                                                                                        • Mathapelo Moloi
                                                                                                                                          Mathapelo Moloi  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                          Tjo 10 seconds in and I'm already dood...tjoooo

                                                                                                                                          • Robert Buzzard
                                                                                                                                            Robert Buzzard  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                            Great advice THANKS

                                                                                                                                            • B B
                                                                                                                                              B B  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                              Our value isnt in between our legs sir lmao

                                                                                                                                              • commonconservative
                                                                                                                                                commonconservative  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                                demons are real , folks..........you don't realize it because your lives are so busy with the daily grind........if you want a spouse from God, I think you need to fully repent, and get rid of the demons.............if you have been a disgusting person for a very long time , be prepared to change a whole heckuva lot.......and be prepared to isolate yourself from all your friends because those bad habits are engrained into them also....demons have a lot of knowledge, [centuries]......they can actually shut down the catholic online youtube and bible project youtube, while still leaving the regular youtube still working.....I am not going to elaborate further......long story....I don't have this all figured out yet

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                                                                                                                                                  Priscilla Mwasinga  2 개월 전

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                                                                                                                                                  • lindalately
                                                                                                                                                    lindalately  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                                    Don’t chase. The right one that God has for you will come naturally, it’ll happen organically, and most of all.. it’ll be on God’s time.

                                                                                                                                                    • Some Guy
                                                                                                                                                      Some Guy  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                                      @Jenny h often men dont understand women and women dont understand men, men fear being labelled creepy or being turned down and things of that nature so alot dont chase. And alot of women ultimately put their value on their hearts like the video suggests so they are liberated from chasing.

                                                                                                                                                      • Some Guy
                                                                                                                                                        Some Guy  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                                        @Jenny h often men dont understand women and women dont understand men, men fear being labelled creepy or being turned down and things of that nature so alot dont chase. And alot of women ultimately put their value on their hearts like the video suggests so they are liberated from chasing.

                                                                                                                                                        • Jesus is Life
                                                                                                                                                          Jesus is Life  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                                          Jenny h where do you come from ?

                                                                                                                                                          • Lucca Mm
                                                                                                                                                            Lucca Mm  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                                            THIS IS FIRE

                                                                                                                                                            • meme finneas tiffin
                                                                                                                                                              meme finneas tiffin  2 개월 전

                                                                                                                                                              i wish i have heard this before i met the wrong guy..