5 Signs He Wants To Commit To You | Relationship Advice For Women By Mat Boggs

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Comments • 569

  • Aconstitutionalist Countryfirst

    My guy was hurt really bad on his last committed relationship. We met on tinder and I wasn't looking for a relationship neither did he. We did everything back wards, had sex the time we met and we have the consistency and talking about the direction we want to go. We are friends on Facebook and I don't bring my personal life to it. Our thing is so fragile and precious I don't want anything bad to happen. I'm over hills for him he is so sexy I'm so proud of his hard work and I'm just enjoying every second with him. We both have a pretty busy schedule so when we hang out we just enjoy each other.

    • marsgoi4
      marsgoi4  6 gün əvvəl

      So, I've been watching your videos off and for at least three days of my summer off, especially the ones that share how to know if a guy is interested in you. It's been like my own mini business conference. I can now say, officially, that I am "fairly" clueless about what attracts guys. My daughter and I have talked about this. We both see ourselves as deserving great love and as high quality females - not in a braggy well-look-at me sort of way, but in the "Little Princess" movie sort of way. All females are princesses and we deserve our prince and believe we will find each other... eventualy. The problem is that we are clueless about what to look for. I didn't have the greatest example and my daughter's father was not in her life after the age of two. We're happy and hoping, and your channel makes me feel like we might have some actual skills to help us out. Thank you!!! The joyful way you deliver your content and talk about your wife love of your life and your sincerity makes me want to try. I enjoy life so I haven't been in any rush to find my someone, but I feel ready for that now and, again, even moreso after watching your channel. I'm going to share it with my daughter and sister!

      • Monika Boruc
        Monika Boruc  9 gün əvvəl

        Love the advice, but that editing tho xD idk why but that mini ninja girl had me dying lmao

        • LA Muel
          LA Muel  9 gün əvvəl

          What if he is out on a oil rigg ? texts, texts, calls me his wife, making plans, loves me, not one kiss

          • Johnson Yuen
            Johnson Yuen  10 gün əvvəl

            Money 5 English characters hahahaha

            • Nia Alakkattu
              Nia Alakkattu  11 gün əvvəl

              What if he letting his brother know my birthday wishes before even we had our first date🙃

              • TheBlurbs D.
                TheBlurbs D.  14 gün əvvəl

                This sucks 🙃🙃 where’s the nearest nunnery ?

                • bmille2121
                  bmille2121  29 gün əvvəl

                  same goes for women

                  • Iqra Saad
                    Iqra Saad  Ay əvvəl

                    Make a video about long distance relations , And those in long distance who want to save them selves for marriage

                    • Rosie Marie
                      Rosie Marie  Ay əvvəl

                      Omygosh...he practically purposed within 3 months....it was adorable. He was so committed. The other day I said, well I am not sure what to do with my lil dog she's so old and moving to Canada will be a long trip. Maybe I find her a new Mama." He said, " No way, she's a part of our little family she's coming too." He melted my heart by saying this. It really showed how he accepted what is close to me and loves what I love. He is truly committed. Hello Canada and new love life.

                      • Tammy McBride
                        Tammy McBride  Ay əvvəl

                        These 5 signs are also the same signs a narcissist uses to get you under his spell to victimize you. It's called the love bombing stage and it happens very quickly to include all references mentioned in this video. They set out to destroy you by giving you false hope. The next phase is to be devalued and then, without warning, you are discarded for no reason and they are off to the next victim. Be very cautious of any man that comes on strong and moves things very quickly, there is usually a motive.

                        • Andre Palmer
                          Andre Palmer  21 gün əvvəl

                          Very very true... Just like we are watching the video and think these are SOME of the signs to look for... Narcissists also watch and uses said tactic

                          • Nina Nickel
                            Nina Nickel  Ay əvvəl

                            I won’t understand till he gets me a dog 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

                            • Denise van der Merwe
                              Denise van der Merwe  Ay əvvəl

                              How can a person identify "loser" guys who just want the woman to take care of them like they're their mother in stead of a partner early before waisting time on the guy?

                              • Andre Palmer
                                Andre Palmer  21 gün əvvəl

                                He tells you what he'd like to have BUT don't ask outright..and if your a caring giving person its easy to fall for the trap.. For persons like this share the burden, let him put 75% and you the rest, that teach and show him that he can achieve stuff if he just try.. If he's in bad financial situation and u know this, its better to help him get a jobs

                                • Living in China
                                  Living in China  Ay əvvəl

                                  But my man tells nobody about me!! NEXT🙄

                                  • Aaliyah E
                                    Aaliyah E  Ay əvvəl

                                    Yea he did all that , thank you for telling us this , I wasnt really sure at first

                                    • Earth Love Skin
                                      Earth Love Skin  Ay əvvəl

                                      When he wants to commit, he makes me a priority, adjusts his schedule to accommodate me (when possible) and he makes sure that everything is understood clearly like he doesn't wanna lose me.

                                      • Merle Brown
                                        Merle Brown  Ay əvvəl

                                        Recently i paid to someone for a love spell and my ex boyfriend literally came back to me!! In case you're wondering here is the email address that i contacted "DRPHILIPSPELLTEMPLE @GMAIL. COM" started with phone calls then he came home like nothing happened.

                                        • Tracy Williams
                                          Tracy Williams  2 ay əvvəl

                                          He will ask if you had any past marital status.

                                          • Julie Mulleady
                                            Julie Mulleady  2 ay əvvəl

                                            I agree after believing for a year a guy was into me but just busy....I gave up and met a man who truly makes time for me...all of me, happy , sad, sexy and I get excited still every time I see him. Ya it's only been a month but he makes me fell better about myself ... that's how I know ... oh yeah and that needy feeling is gone as he give me what I need in a relationship...love it.

                                            • Jacquelyn Tisnado
                                              Jacquelyn Tisnado  2 ay əvvəl

                                              What happens if he wants to be with me but he lives with ex wife, sleeps in the same bed with her. Also he doesn't know what to tell or tell me what he wants and how he wants to move forward

                                              • Xiu Zu
                                                Xiu Zu  2 ay əvvəl

                                                When they ask me a LOT of questions or asking me if I'm talking to anyone else.

                                                • Tania Richter
                                                  Tania Richter  2 ay əvvəl

                                                  They CALL voice to voice💝 Spend time with u 💝 Shower u with gifts that know your personality💝 They wine and dine u💝 Touch your skin all over💝 Fresh flowers are nice but not important as they die💝 They RESPECT you💝 They PROTECT U💝 AND YOU FEEL SAFE WITH THEM. 💝

                                                  • Bollywood Fan
                                                    Bollywood Fan  2 ay əvvəl

                                                    He gave all these signs..5 months later-The Breakup! People change, lesson learned!

                                                    • Sherrie Lynn
                                                      Sherrie Lynn  2 ay əvvəl

                                                      Hold on Pamela Anderson and tommy pee met like this and it turned into a nightmare so this story is not always true

                                                      • Stephanie Lugo
                                                        Stephanie Lugo  2 ay əvvəl

                                                        I am in a situation where I was in a relationship for 3 years and he didn’t want to commit and make things happen until I was fed up, left and started dating someone who had the same interests as myself. What does that say about him??

                                                        • Nofyah Shem-Tov
                                                          Nofyah Shem-Tov  2 ay əvvəl

                                                          My LDR asked me the other night if I snore.

                                                          • Baraka Mercy
                                                            Baraka Mercy  2 ay əvvəl

                                                            Men change after 2 month ,they see it as boring

                                                            • Davuiside
                                                              Davuiside  2 ay əvvəl

                                                              That fellow is genius in relashionships! He helped me to get my Ex Back! And he can help everybody to find couple and build best relationships. Just read a few articles here _ATTRACTION. XCOURSE. XYZ_

                                                              • A & K
                                                                A & K  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                He asks personal questions about you

                                                                • Alissa Lin
                                                                  Alissa Lin  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                  I'm dating this guy almost 3 months. Yeah he took me out to public and meet all his friends, even he told me I love you to me. But he's not allowed me to leave one single item in his apartment when I spent weekend at his place. So I guess he's not in serous relationship with me then I told him I wanted to break up. He's agree.💔

                                                                  • eunice njoki
                                                                    eunice njoki  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                    My crush reads zero in all those steps. Will try prayers,

                                                                    • Fiza Haque
                                                                      Fiza Haque  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                      All 5 signs, but he wants to take it slow while he is the one flipping when I dont react in 1-2 hours **facepalm** Bleh and then he has the nerve to even tell my friend that I am moving too fast by giving him so many gifts, but thats just my way of showing that I care for him... But oh well whatever its his bday so its natural for me but apparently he never got gifts from people so umm yh... Ugh idk we shall see

                                                                      • Fiza Haque
                                                                        Fiza Haque  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                        Zuzana Zuscinova Lol how come ???

                                                                        • Zuzana Zuscinova
                                                                          Zuzana Zuscinova  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                          Don't give a guy gifts

                                                                          • Senada Pasic
                                                                            Senada Pasic  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                            Ninja is....you don't get my heart or my body before marriage , or if you do so will the hellfire eventually.

                                                                            • Davona Scott
                                                                              Davona Scott  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                              This guy did #4 alot but was also a jerk... he was 3/5

                                                                              • Dawn urbina
                                                                                Dawn urbina  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                                He knows how to hold space for me during difficult times and he brings me unexpected food.

                                                                                • I just like Memes
                                                                                  I just like Memes  2 ay əvvəl

                                                                                  Daym lucky loll

                                                                                  • mary cuaresma
                                                                                    mary cuaresma  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                                    Hello thank u

                                                                                    • Linh Trinh
                                                                                      Linh Trinh  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                                      Yeah... but he had ulterior motives the whole time. I was able to ‘bring something to the table’ literally😆

                                                                                      • Linh Trinh
                                                                                        Linh Trinh  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                                        Interesting. I never knew all this about a man. I guess I must of did something right. Everything you said I experienced with the previous guy. And I was the one ☝️ indecisive and confused the whole time. Hmmm. Figures🤔

                                                                                        • BA B
                                                                                          BA B  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                                          Obviously, easily to see if he commits to you or not.. 1. He tries all his best to get days off to match your schedule, so he can spend more quality time with you, and this is his priority. 2. He does not mind to get flight to see you on his days off. 3. He talks about his future plan with you. 4. He tries to move to your city and get job there to be close to you.( Luckily we are nurses, so he can work in my state) 5. He seriously talks about finance for both in the future. 6. He adjusts his future plan to fit yours. 7. He instroduced you to his best friends and family 8. He takes your opinion into account and discusses with you happily! 9. He plans trips ahead of time around year with you. 10. You are included in his future plans. These signs I see in my bf

                                                                                          • Alexandra Osuna
                                                                                            Alexandra Osuna  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                                            This is so spot on! I’ve been watching your Chanel for some time now and you’re extremely good!

                                                                                            • Patty Hall
                                                                                              Patty Hall  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                                              Hi Matt, I'm 53 and recently dated a man for 8 months that had 4 of the 5 signs that you just spoke of. The only one that was missing was being exclusive. Recently I found out that he had started talking to people on a dating site again. When confronted he told me that he had not fallen in love with me but that he cares for me, thinks the world of me, enjoys every moment that we spend together, values me and wants me in his world. Can you please shed some light on this. We had been seeing each other 3 to 4 nights a week and having a great time.

                                                                                              • lostzeros
                                                                                                lostzeros  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                My man have four out of five signs. Although, he clearly said that he does not want a long term relationship and even if he did, our communication style will makes it hard to have a long term relationship. We’ve been seeing each other for a year now. His actions contradicts his word. He took me to see all of his friends, his favorite place in town. I think he’s afraid of commitment because I just got out of a divorce. What should I do?

                                                                                                • Anna Emily
                                                                                                  Anna Emily  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                  Girls and Women go somewhere else! Read a book of poetry... or whatever... but don't spend another minute watching these stupid videos!

                                                                                                  • Jacqueline Way
                                                                                                    Jacqueline Way  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                    Matthew I don't know what to do...please help! I've known this guy for over a year that has been interested in me but timing has not allowed a relationship to happen beit on his end or mine. Recently as he knows I'm dating someone, he confesses his love for me and that he's not gonna let me get away again. I'm so confused because I never knew he felt the way he does and because I'm in a relationship as of 4months with this other guy who kind of has my heart, I'm not sure what to do about my friend who says he loves me. He is a great man and one that I've been praying for. For the past two weeks since he's confessed to me, he's been consistently reaching out via text or phone call making time for me. Since our friendship he's been texting every morning, good morning..." He's definitely been consistent in his walk and now he wants to commit exclusively but I'm in a relationship. What do I do, follow my heart or the one I know is best for me? Please advise!

                                                                                                    • Venessa Callaghan
                                                                                                      Venessa Callaghan  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                      All of them, Matt... all of them. We have known each other since a friend said you have to meet my friend. , in mid-Feb of this year. We hang out every weekend, I have met his parents and sister. He wants to meet my family. I am, oddly enough, not quite ready for the exclusive part yet, and he is ok with it. For now...lol. I want to say thank you, because before I started watching your AZclip channel, I did not have the confidence to believe I could find someone like him. Thank you for what you are providing!!

                                                                                                      • Adela Radichetti
                                                                                                        Adela Radichetti  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                        Thank you

                                                                                                        • Purnima Gupta
                                                                                                          Purnima Gupta  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                          Men r polygamous. Period. They'll commit then get bored n look for new options. Women shouldn't look for commitment now n let men show that v r not obsessed vd their commitmenting us.

                                                                                                          • 🌟 MORNING STAR⭐️
                                                                                                            🌟 MORNING STAR⭐️  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                            I would have been like well we haven’t had the talk about being exclusive SOOOOOO 🤷🏼‍♀️ Girls need to learn to be blunt. We are too old to beat around the bush

                                                                                                            • henny indrawati
                                                                                                              henny indrawati  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                              Last Sunday he said to me to not meet another guy, after we met regularly but we have not exclusive yet😉

                                                                                                              • churby pearl
                                                                                                                churby pearl  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                Well he always wants me around and he is always talking about the future me that is moving in with him, running a business together and we are just 2 weeks old in the relationship. Is that where?

                                                                                                                • Evangeline Michaels
                                                                                                                  Evangeline Michaels  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                  Really smart and sensible

                                                                                                                  • elizabeth servant
                                                                                                                    elizabeth servant  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                    I experienced all you said. He is in New York, I'm in Panama, and yet, he has comply with everything you said.

                                                                                                                    • Joy Reinna Vasallo
                                                                                                                      Joy Reinna Vasallo  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                      #5 😕

                                                                                                                      • Marsha Ann
                                                                                                                        Marsha Ann  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                        My bf likes to hang out with both me and my son and help with my housework without me even asking :)

                                                                                                                        • Summerella Fan page
                                                                                                                          Summerella Fan page  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                          Can you do the different types of hugs and what they mean

                                                                                                                          • Elvenin
                                                                                                                            Elvenin  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                            Sooo, if I get one out of 5 of those from a guy... What shud I think?

                                                                                                                            • angel a
                                                                                                                              angel a  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                              So true, I found my lover finally. He's so amazing

                                                                                                                              • Perla Guzman
                                                                                                                                Perla Guzman  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                i dont like this video just because is so true, that hurts.

                                                                                                                                • Blendlogic
                                                                                                                                  Blendlogic  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                  turn that frown upside down

                                                                                                                                  • Eja
                                                                                                                                    Eja  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                    Matthew!! I need your advice on something but I don't know if you're going to see my comment! help please!

                                                                                                                                    • Blendlogic
                                                                                                                                      Blendlogic  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                      I got a person on my team called matt. And a friend called matt? Want me to pass it along?

                                                                                                                                      • MajnouniWahad
                                                                                                                                        MajnouniWahad  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                        My partner wasn’t really the commitment type at first... but now it’s like i’m his priority. He posts pictures together, he always asks me what i’m doing to see if i’m free, he does things to help me like wash up or make the bed or help with shopping etc. I also am finding him allowing himself to be a bit more vulnerable recently. He used to be the player type though not long ago so i’m still taking it like a grain of salt.

                                                                                                                                        • Dolores Olivaria
                                                                                                                                          Dolores Olivaria  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                          I like the things your saying however do all these signs go for all men?

                                                                                                                                          • Roshanda Conners
                                                                                                                                            Roshanda Conners  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                            Great video and explained so well. Thank you so much!

                                                                                                                                            • MrMel141
                                                                                                                                              MrMel141  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                              What about distance relationship?

                                                                                                                                              • Jasmine el fiky
                                                                                                                                                Jasmine el fiky  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                Nice..I wonder if your advices denote online datings apps or relationships in general? In my country sadly most men use online dating for killing time or to hook up rather than real commitment which is later planned by his parents

                                                                                                                                                • Michelle Mayo
                                                                                                                                                  Michelle Mayo  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                  He shares his wants and his hurt... He becomes personal. He shows you he is vunerable.

                                                                                                                                                  • Barbara Paz
                                                                                                                                                    Barbara Paz  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                    It’s so funny how different cultures have different “rules”. In my country if you go out in public with someone more than once you are already considered to be dating. And dating in my culture is by default exclusive. We don’t have to have that “are we exclusive” conversation. It’s implied if people saw us together in public... Maybe it has started to change with younger generations but yeah that’s the way it’s always been. That is why I found dating (while living in the USA) so weird and difficult and of unwritten “ dating rules”....3 day rule being also one of them 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

                                                                                                                                                    • Deirdre' Jackson
                                                                                                                                                      Deirdre' Jackson  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                      I was married for 20 years and divorced 14 now. My ex had sex before the divorce paper would be printed. Me, I've been on one date, that was horrible. I've lived in two different states and still nothing.

                                                                                                                                                      • Delana Morrissette
                                                                                                                                                        Delana Morrissette  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                        You inspired me. Now i know this guy really isn't serious about committing.

                                                                                                                                                        • glendaganda2010
                                                                                                                                                          glendaganda2010  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                          A Man cannot commit when he is BROKE...

                                                                                                                                                          • Durchstarten
                                                                                                                                                            Durchstarten  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                            Nice Imagination

                                                                                                                                                            • anupum guleria
                                                                                                                                                              anupum guleria  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                              Not yet..... Its yess or may be yes

                                                                                                                                                              • Rosalynn Normandia
                                                                                                                                                                Rosalynn Normandia  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                Love your videos gives me perspective and ideas on my own experience. Thanks

                                                                                                                                                                • sandra kelly
                                                                                                                                                                  sandra kelly  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                  yes mat bogg i have two that want me and went just like you said one was befour and didnt really want to say the word then i got another one .the old one back and said i want you now .

                                                                                                                                                                  • Donna Mayhew
                                                                                                                                                                    Donna Mayhew  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                    Seriously...you helped me save my relationship. I’ve been dating someone for about two years now and we hit a rough patch at one point. I wanted to do everything I could to fix it. I’ve been watching all of your videos for self improvement which in the long run, had a positive effect on my boyfriend as well. Thank you for your advice!

                                                                                                                                                                    • Kalpana A
                                                                                                                                                                      Kalpana A  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                      He is following up with my activities on daily basis.He is correcting me if find any mistakes that I am doing. He is implementing my ideas in reality. He is safeguarding and upbringing me in my lows and struggles.He is so lovable and warmth with me in souls.He is kind and admiring.There are so many to tell that I can’t stop. He teaches me how to give others.He is the one I need throughout my life.