6 Signs He Doesn't Want A Relationship With You | Dating Advice For Women by Mat Boggs

  • Published: 06 December 2018
  • Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 6 signs that your man isn't ready for a relationship.
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Comments • 292

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    Emokiriemi Abednego  6 أيام قبل

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    • Johnson Yuen
      Johnson Yuen  10 أيام قبل

      Other women have not yet died! Ahahahaha six amazing English words

      • Happydaysrcoming
        Happydaysrcoming  13 أيام قبل

        I’m going to ask my man this last question you went over that we are asking about where the relationship is going over the this last weekend he was saying he wanted me to live with him where he is at and he told me that he wanted me to live there before he got the place but I’m not there because he rents a room it’s not an apartment but he can have a visitor there most rooms being rented in this area where I live aren’t renting to couples

        • Happydaysrcoming
          Happydaysrcoming  13 أيام قبل

          He texts me during the week while he is working and tells me that he misses me

          • Happydaysrcoming
            Happydaysrcoming  13 أيام قبل

            The one that is cold and mean is abusive get away from that man!

            • Happydaysrcoming
              Happydaysrcoming  13 أيام قبل

              He is always friendly and he is consistent the whole weekend

              • Happydaysrcoming
                Happydaysrcoming  13 أيام قبل

                What if he is working two jobs during the week like 16 hours a day? How is it he that he is suppose to spend time with me? But he spends the whole weekend with me. Every weekend so far for a few months now

                • Puja Parimala
                  Puja Parimala  14 أيام قبل

                  Wowwwww 👏👏👏👏wt an sign really 😘,thanx Mathew for letting me know ....all these happen b4 into relationship

                  • Apol Hobbies Happiness
                    Apol Hobbies Happiness  15 أيام قبل

                    OMGoodness you are so correct. I wasted 3 years investment to a Japanese assh****. Thanks so much 😊

                    • News Week
                      News Week  15 أيام قبل

                      He loves me, but he doesn't want to have any relationship or marriage in his life. How do I deal with this?

                      • Georgina Culley
                        Georgina Culley  15 أيام قبل

                        How long should it take to be exclusive?

                        • Nncyhll2
                          Nncyhll2  19 أيام قبل

                          Thank you for these videos. The signs that you have described was how my boyfriend was acting. But, we had a “come to Jesus” moment & things have changed. He shared with me about his feelings & I understood. There was one week where he did not call at all & he would not answer my calls. When I figured things out, I stopped calling (long story). But, he had a “come to Jesus” moment with himself & he has been different ever since. He is more attentive, calls regularly, sends me beautiful videos, etc... He does not understand my ability to have patience & to be long suffering. I don’t, either. I questioned myself, often, if I was being stupid or desperate. I just knew that if God was patient with me & my mess, why can’t I do the same for someone else. Anyway, thank you for these vids because they truly help me to understand things about men. And from the knowledge, I can make informed decisions.

                          • Rachel-Marie
                            Rachel-Marie  20 أيام قبل

                            YOU ARE SO RIGHT

                            • Rachel-Marie
                              Rachel-Marie  20 أيام قبل

                              FOUND MY ANSWERS

                              • Kars N
                                Kars N  21 أيام قبل

                                I’m making my daughters watch this! So good!

                                • Blanca Campos
                                  Blanca Campos  25 أيام قبل

                                  So true... my husband block my #, after he was the one made everything to get me and now he want to hurt me with this disrespect actions . thank you,I follow you.

                                  • Rachna Anand
                                    Rachna Anand  26 أيام قبل

                                    All is true.. Let me observe now

                                    • Julie Oliphant
                                      Julie Oliphant  أشهر قبل

                                      He talks about his ex girlfriends, but his ex fiancé, who died, was great. If he really attracts drama, then how come this one relationship was great? The other ex girlfriends were horrible. Maybe they really were horrible. Also, he resents his sister, not his mother. He resents his nephew too. Same difference? His parents were great.

                                      • Kn allaboutme
                                        Kn allaboutme  أشهر قبل

                                        Wow 👏 👏 👏 👏

                                        • brian houle
                                          brian houle  أشهر قبل

                                          It's too bad that women with a guy who truly wants them , seem to push them away ! Sorry.for the edit but , The woman i've been trying to get together with thinks i'm to nice . Because she's been treated like crap all her life ! I can't be something i'm not!

                                          • Steve Zali
                                            Steve Zali  أشهر قبل

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                                            • Caroline Wright
                                              Caroline Wright  أشهر قبل

                                              My ex said he had too many issues to have a relationship and said he needed time on his own and therapy! He was very hot and cold and jealous !

                                              • Jessica Morales
                                                Jessica Morales  أشهر قبل

                                                Lovelyyyyyyy. You just got it

                                                • Kenia Sharpe
                                                  Kenia Sharpe  أشهر قبل


                                                  • MiiSsMiiNa
                                                    MiiSsMiiNa  2 أشهر قبل

                                                    1.He didnt put a label on it..but he does hold my hand all the times with sweet hugs and kisses (including pda) and always cares if I am okay..but no label stated. 2. He never does last minute we both plan and he never cancels or is late..he usually he picks me up after work or we just stay at his place the whole weeknd, watching movies or cuddle or have deep conversations or listening to music. Yes, we get intimate as well but that is just when it happens natural, if not staying at his place (e.g if the weather is nice) we go out for a walk or go to our fave restaurant or other restaurants for lunch or dinner..he is always paying (I sometries try to pay but he refuses😮. We meet a few times per week either daytime or over then whole weekend. 3.he is definelty caring and respectful..he always makes sure I feel good or tries to makes me feel comfortable 4.oh that one is tricky..we text everyday and sometimes call but its taking him someti.es hours to reply..he said he really hates phones (when we are together, he never ever has his phone with him So I actually believe him. He used to text more but we are both busy with work these days. So I really dont mind as we talk about our days daily so we are always up to date 5. He doesnt cancel plans He once rescheduled but apologized it will be bit later due to work. but never as a pattern. 6. He doesnt twist around but of kind of ...beat around the bush? we only dated for a month so I dont worry by now because I am also uncertain what do I want from him. Yesterday I was a bit tipsy and kept questioning him stuff like did he ever cheat or is he seeing other women or why his ex texted him (they used to live togethet so there is some money issues)...he answered both with no, and I do feel we have really good vibes and he actually treats me good (well so do I) so basically I am a heavy overthinker and we are both exclusive ...so guys,should I just wait and let thibgs progress? I cant say I love him and i certainly dont except him to say it after a month..but does someone has a magical spell that allows me just to relax and not to overanalyze everything. He hasnt mentioned anything regardi g exclusivity or bf/gf stuff. But we make jokes about dating and he once told me hewas very surprised as (quote:" i'm so surprised our friendship turned into a love story" Once he kissed me and I asked what for him a kiss one the lips mean?he said it means 'care' now,it didnt sound like he dodged the L-word but certainly i need to cool down and just not be pushy (i wont start it,I promise) What does it sound to you guys?

                                                    • Betty Cooper
                                                      Betty Cooper  2 أشهر قبل

                                                      You're Awesuuuuume Dude,,, Wow,,, Wish I could carry you in my back pocket 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

                                                      • Ms Nobody
                                                        Ms Nobody  2 أشهر قبل

                                                        1. No Title is expected from Him // 2. Rarely See him // 3. Very Unkind towards your time, effort and feelings // 4. Don't care if he heard from you or vice versa // 5. No Future Plans

                                                        • I M A QYN
                                                          I M A QYN  2 أشهر قبل

                                                          Men sweat for 3 hours in a gym, that's a hard work, and he cannot text you a message that takes a few seconds of his time? DROP HIM!

                                                          • Sonia Verma
                                                            Sonia Verma  2 أشهر قبل

                                                            Nice video

                                                            • Deborah TruthSeeker
                                                              Deborah TruthSeeker  2 أشهر قبل

                                                              He only wants sex. I am uncommon, and refuse to do that unless I am married. I do not care how much I think I love him, and want him. I will DIE first, and that too will happen all too soon.

                                                              • Kim V
                                                                Kim V  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                You very good.

                                                                • Jacki DeZell
                                                                  Jacki DeZell  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                  What about when a man won’t even see you, and canceled multiple plans bc of their newfound sobriety? Yet says they have strong romantic feelings for you. Then what? Do I wait? Do I even believe him?

                                                                  • LucianAmpersandDerpy
                                                                    LucianAmpersandDerpy  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                    I have a somewhat sad but mostly dumb story for you: when I was in my teens, I met a guy who fell for my looks right on the spot. we met again and right on the next date, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I accepted, but I wanted to let things settle in slowly--we had just met a few days ago and I was very young (he was eighteen). but the end of the story is: he didn't want a real girlfriend. what he wanted was someone to distract him from his ex-girlfriend and someone to have some fun in bed with. but I only realised that after he had taken my virginity against my will and broken up with me for his ex. that was years ago and I still don't have a clue if he knew what he wanted when he asked me for it.

                                                                    • Diana21692
                                                                      Diana21692  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                      Guys with a kid and living ex wife is a red flag. The ex wife would get so jealous trust me it's better to back off to preserve yours and her feelings

                                                                      • BKLNHobo
                                                                        BKLNHobo  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                        I'm dealing with someone who is signaling that he is not ready for a relationship but also sending very strong signals of interest. We run in the same circles so I see him all the time. My approach is to be friendly but casual, avoid being physical, and keep my options open.

                                                                        • SassyJazzyLady Jae
                                                                          SassyJazzyLady Jae  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                          The greatest issue i had with understanding him was, he wasn't fugal with his time, we were spending whole weekends together and going out on dates , doing things together as if we were a couple, that was what threw me off a bit. .... But everything else Mat said is Dead on Point .... He was fine until i asked "where is this going" he tried to shame me, make me feel bad for asking, he flipped it and try to make me feel as if I'd done smethg wrong by asking him a legitimate question ..... WHY can't dudes Just Be Honest?? it would make Dating & relationships so much easier.

                                                                          • Madi Kat
                                                                            Madi Kat  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                            Well damn

                                                                            • Dannyelle Finch
                                                                              Dannyelle Finch  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                              Lol...my ex husband

                                                                              • TheBlackhawk385
                                                                                TheBlackhawk385  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                                Are there chances if a person is not serious becomes serious to build relationship?

                                                                                • mandybrian025
                                                                                  mandybrian025  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                                  A guy doesn't want a relationship with you, he shuns you totally. You are never a priority to him. Never answers your texts as early as possible. Neither does he initiate anything with you. No EFFORT whatsoever.

                                                                                  • Kat Parks
                                                                                    Kat Parks  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                                    He never calls, and when he does, he calls like 6 months later and he says he was busy.

                                                                                    • plussizebarbie2012
                                                                                      plussizebarbie2012  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                                      YepI’m dating a guy now he is always online dating website he says it’s just for entertainment. I recently went out of town he really didn’t even call to check on me. As I’m writing this message I realize that I really don’t for sticking around for him to be sarcastic to me and not even at like you want a relationship. I think I’m out

                                                                                      • Lori Le May
                                                                                        Lori Le May  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                        I rather be alone and happy, then be in a bad relationship and miserable...😌

                                                                                        • Sherlana Pollonais
                                                                                          Sherlana Pollonais  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                          I dated a guys that says he loves me.... but if there’s a misunderstanding he gives me the silent treatment 😓

                                                                                          • jothriny
                                                                                            jothriny  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                            I really like how you put things is a very new, fresh and creative way, no at all the common explanations..great videos :)

                                                                                            • Sweet Thing
                                                                                              Sweet Thing  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                              You know how you know .. you never question it ..once your not sure .. boom there’s your answer 😜..

                                                                                              • Jhana Harris
                                                                                                Jhana Harris  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                I keep replaying 'R'......when you said "kids", I felt my breath leave my body...... I understand the importance of being there for your child... I have a son but I dont make so many excuses. Wow!

                                                                                                • Eunice Park
                                                                                                  Eunice Park  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                  I suppose being ghosted is an indicator haha

                                                                                                  • KellyAnne Tynan
                                                                                                    KellyAnne Tynan  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                    "Let's just be like water and go with the flow"

                                                                                                    • Pauline Hamilton
                                                                                                      Pauline Hamilton  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                      The ending one he makes me feel like I'm crazy

                                                                                                      • April B Ahammer
                                                                                                        April B Ahammer  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                        Wow!!! I have to really take a step back. Twenty years ago I had a working professional platonic relationship with a wonderful man. I was coming out of a bad marriage. We went on a few dates and yet, I was not aware he was perusing me until he called me a week after he ended his fifteen year marriage. Now he is pursuing me again. Now he is seventy and I am 61. He shared his affection for me and now we are in a relationship. He has put so much effort in perusing me and backing his words up with actions consistently, I can’t say no. Yeah! We like one another so much!

                                                                                                        • Mayela Tmr
                                                                                                          Mayela Tmr  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                          He swears he wants a relationship even marriage , but he never writes or tell me things about his days or asks me about anything ... no messages or calls. When we are together we are ok . But I feel something is missing ... All the letters of this acrostic where accurate except the last one .

                                                                                                          • Mia Segovia
                                                                                                            Mia Segovia  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                            This is so HIM...he checked all the boxes...guess i should start walking away from him

                                                                                                            • Jhana Harris
                                                                                                              Jhana Harris  4 أشهر قبل


                                                                                                              • Annamaria Palanza
                                                                                                                Annamaria Palanza  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                So. True. No EFFORT, no relationship.

                                                                                                                • Ishbabe79 Bryant
                                                                                                                  Ishbabe79 Bryant  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                  Were good friends and we hang out often or at least talk. Neither one of us are in the place for anything serious but we are becoming close friends and always have so much fun together. I’m fine w not being serious but I don’t want him going out w other girls either. I just don’t do left overs.

                                                                                                                  • Victoria Reynolds
                                                                                                                    Victoria Reynolds  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                    had one who introduced me to friends and family, spent every minute with me, but he introduced me as a "friend"

                                                                                                                    • Therese Kelsy Cunningham
                                                                                                                      Therese Kelsy Cunningham  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                      He was doing ALL of the things that indicated he wanted a relationship with me, when I met him he seemed healthy from past relationships…actually what drew me to him.....and thennnnn after a few months the ex-girlfriend reached out and he has been in total confusion ever since. She is clear to him that she does not want a relationship again with him....and he continues to reach out to me almost every day, keep tabs on what I am up to. He has acknowledged his confusion very openly and also that he basically keeps his a distance because he does not want to drag me into his baggage until he figures it out. We have gone back and forth with cutting off connecting totally….but after about a week or 2 at the most he reaches back out. He shares that he misses me and its challenged to keep distance from me and gets angry that he is where he is in the situation. I keep keeping on with my life but, know if he were to reach out and be clear I would want the relationships and what it offers. We have great communication as painfully honest as it can be at times. I feel he is as honest as his conscious heart can be…frustrating… I feel a connection but that there is a thorn in it.

                                                                                                                      • X Peaceful girl X /best girl
                                                                                                                        X Peaceful girl X /best girl  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                        He did not text for some time and when I asked him why? He said its me who did not text

                                                                                                                        • Sandy Howell
                                                                                                                          Sandy Howell  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                          You are so right.

                                                                                                                          • Lisa H.
                                                                                                                            Lisa H.  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                            Thank you Matt. This opened my eyes.! Great video.

                                                                                                                            • Seajnt
                                                                                                                              Seajnt  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                              Things didn't add up from what he told me about his life on the first date. So I started sleuthing and discovered he's married to a very wealthy woman old enough to be his mother. I look back now and laugh remembering when he told me on that first date that he's found a lot of women to be too needy. WTF? Of course they're all *too needy* because you can't give them more than just a booty call which is about all you you really want. Shoot, he could afford a high-class hooker! Why deceive a nice local gal? I guess they have their reasons.

                                                                                                                              • rea00000
                                                                                                                                rea00000  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                met this man in app (not dating app), talked with him almost 3 months now, he is consistent talk to me every day, sometimes 3 times a day (morning, afternoon & night) despite of his tight schedule, flirting around, BUT....he wont tell me his real age, only said he is older than me, his profile pic not his face, and never make plan to meet up or at least give me his real face, so it's obvious signs that he doesnt want a relationship with me, right?!

                                                                                                                                • rea00000
                                                                                                                                  rea00000  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                  @Sandy H. He suddenly offline 2 days without prior notice, well a clear sign for me to move on. Thanks anyway!

                                                                                                                                  • Ayana J
                                                                                                                                    Ayana J  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                    Effort...so true, Mat! Exclusitivity is so key. Thanks for this video!

                                                                                                                                    • Tsega Kassa
                                                                                                                                      Tsega Kassa  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                      I am in this situation naw so it’s better to stop the relationship or I am confused .

                                                                                                                                      • Norie Queral
                                                                                                                                        Norie Queral  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                        I've seen all these sign not from him but from me. Does this mean i don't want a relationship? OMG! Big revelation...

                                                                                                                                        • Madi Kat
                                                                                                                                          Madi Kat  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                          Norie Queral saaame girl same

                                                                                                                                          • Iam Silvie
                                                                                                                                            Iam Silvie  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                            Yew to all of it

                                                                                                                                            • Ana Ale
                                                                                                                                              Ana Ale  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                              He prioritizes everything BUT you (i.e. family, friends, and work and you'll maybe fit in the cracks in his time, maybe). Also, he ignores you and doesn't talk to you for days on end. Huge red flags, dump him! I had to learn the hard way :/

                                                                                                                                              • Alethea Ferrell
                                                                                                                                                Alethea Ferrell  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                My boyfriend said I should stop listening to These vidoes!!! He got me fucked up!!! Everything I've been watching is telling me to get rid of his ass!! Signs he's not into you...he does nothing for you! My birthday was 2/18 and he was broke! He got paid the next day and still has done nothing to redeem himself!!! Mind you, I went all out for HIS! I got nothing!! I'm still salty AF about this!!!

                                                                                                                                                • Alethea Ferrell
                                                                                                                                                  Alethea Ferrell  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                  Men put in EFFORT when they want you!!! Otherwise he's just not that into you!!!

                                                                                                                                                  • Julie Oliphant
                                                                                                                                                    Julie Oliphant  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                    Why can't he just break up with me?

                                                                                                                                                    • Julie Oliphant
                                                                                                                                                      Julie Oliphant  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                      Why does he bother to text if he's not interested?

                                                                                                                                                      • Mish Mello
                                                                                                                                                        Mish Mello  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                        Julie Oliphant it’s a boost to his ego

                                                                                                                                                        • Chi L.
                                                                                                                                                          Chi L.  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                          thank Matthew, all the reasons are found in my case. I think I know what to do next :)

                                                                                                                                                          • Vannie Stuff
                                                                                                                                                            Vannie Stuff  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                            What if they stop putting in the effort after you said I do?

                                                                                                                                                            • Cathy Kirchner
                                                                                                                                                              Cathy Kirchner  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                              This just happened to me recently. He was very aloof and tried to turn things around and asked me if I had other boyfriends which I do not. He said he had been chatting with other women online, so I told him if he was on the fence between me and someone else, not to choose me. I haven't heard from him since but I don't play that.

                                                                                                                                                              • Ciarra Hickling
                                                                                                                                                                Ciarra Hickling  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                I know that's right!

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                                                                                                                                                                  Abdullah Ahmed  6 أشهر قبل

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