5 Texts To Make Any Man Obsess Over You

  • Published: 09 July 2017
  • http://www.CoachNorth.com/Texting --- 5 Texts To Make Any Man Obsess Over You

    There’s no denying that phones are a big part of where we live our romantic lives. Since everyone and their mother seems to have and carry around a cell phone in today’s world, making a man obsess over you can be as easy as sending him the right text messages. But, what are the “right text messages” and which ones will have the opposite effect?

    Hey ladies, Amy North here, welcome to my channel. As you may or may not already know I’m a relationship coach from the west coast of Canada and author of The Devotion System — a program I’ve designed to help women find and create the love lives they want and deserve. From being ready for love to locking down Mr. Right, the program covers every aspect of romantic relationships, so if you’re looking to improve yours then you may want to consider checking it out.

    That aside though, today I want to share with you five types of text messages you can send men to make them obsessed with you. Yes, obsessed as in he won’t be able to eat, sleep or go about other daily tasks without thinking about you.

    Before I jump into the messages you should be sending your guy, I want to first talk a bit about the types of text messages you shouldn’t send him, because believe me, even if you send him the most heavenly texts, the wrong ones can be huge deal breakers.

    For starters, the generic “hey, hello, or what’s up” texts. These messages suck because they don’t do anything to stir up emotion in your guy, and not to mention they make you seem incredibly boring.

    While I’m talking about these dull messages, it’s also worth mentioning that sending your man updates on your every move isn’t a good idea either. Believe me, as much as you think it’s the end of the world that the coffee shop is out of your favourite bagel, or how you’re feeling bloated from your weekend of partying, he doesn’t care, nor does he want to know. Sure, you may be smitten, but you’re not doing yourself any favours by sending these mundane types of text messages

    Same goes for sending him “what are you up to messages.” Why? Because if he doesn’t willingly tell you what he’s doing then it’s probably because he doesn’t feel it’s worth sharing. When you send him these kind of text messages it’ll seem like a chore for him to respond to you… which is 100% the opposite of what you want if you’re looking to make him obsessed with you.

    And at all costs avoid sitting around, staring at a black screen, desperately waiting for him to reply to you. This is important for a couple reasons. First, if you respond too quickly it will give him the impression that you’re sitting around, waiting to hear from him. Second, it comes across as clingy, and third, responding too quickly implies that you have no life outside of him and the relationship.

    To prevent this from happening, keep busy! By doing so it’ll help you fight the urge to text him back too soon, and not to mention, it’ll give you something new to tell him about when he asks how your day was. In those scenarios where you don’t have much happening when he texts, still make a point to hold back for at least a few minutes to give him the impression that you’re busy with other things. Not making his text messages your number one priority will give you time to do other things that keep you active and happy, and time to properly think about your response. Of course if you’re in the middle of a conversation with him, or he asks you a question that is time sensitive and needs a quick reply, then don’t leave him hanging. If you do, you risk coming across as self-centered or rude. Be respectful of his needs, too.

    Before I move on to the juicy part of this video it’s also important to mention how much of an impact grammar has on your relationship. If you’re text messages are littered with misspelt words or lack common sense, then that’s going to be a huge turn off for him, and let’s face it, you’re not going to look like the brightest crayon in the box. So save yourself the embarrassment and make sure that you read over and edit your text where necessary.

    Don’t think this is a real issue? Just Google search it and you’d be amazed at some of the cringeworthy misspellings you find. Or, learn from my friend’s experience. He was seeing a girl who would text “hoo,” as in “H-O-O” when referring to “who” as in “W-H-O.” He tried giving her the benefit of the doubt, and hoped it was just a strange auto-correct or voice to text memo, but after she sent him the same misspelt version of “hoo” multiple times, he realized that he couldn’t be with someone.

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  • Baby Gurl
    Baby Gurl  8 months back

    *OMG LOL* so *TRUE*
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    • Amy North
      Amy North   6 months back

      I appreciate the feedback, Baby Gurl! Thanks for watching and don’t forget to subscribe so you won’t miss out on my upcoming videos! ;-)

  • pratap kumar
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    • Mranal Trivedi
      Mranal Trivedi  4 days back

      I think just be you and if a guy isn't really paying attention and cannot understand your feelings than he is not the one for you. For sure thing love youself and do whatever it takes to make you feel happy. There is no guy worth your tears and the one who is will never make you cry. And that's the truth just be genuine

      • AngeLof Lourdes
        AngeLof Lourdes  1 weeks back

        3:17 on ... are you having a stroke? LMAO 😂😂

        • Kimberly Robertson
          Kimberly Robertson  1 weeks back

          Hi Amy I need your advice lower my ex has contacted me saying he still has some of my stuff do I want it or should he bin it I haven’t replied what should I do ? Would really Appreciate any advice xx

          • HKvideos
            HKvideos  1 weeks back

            1. Comical texts
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              Look, he's so immature he'll give me a shy/weirded out look if i flirt....or try to xD

              • Kyesha blackbutterfly
                Kyesha blackbutterfly  1 weeks back

                This doesn't work on narcissists LOL

                • Wackamo
                  Wackamo  1 weeks back

                  Any other guys taking notes?

                  • Yukichill
                    Yukichill  2 weeks back


                    • LibraLady nior
                      LibraLady nior  2 weeks back

                      He might be like what am I wearing ? He ll be like I’m busy right now and you asking me what I’m wearing? ... and why should we have to lure him with sex ... this is bull shit no thanks

                      • Carmen V
                        Carmen V  2 weeks back

                        In short, this is a lesson on how to manipulate people into feeding your desperation for attention. These are the best tips for empty, emotionally draining, attention seeking parasites, but not good for the majority who struggle with low self esteem and insecurity issues.
                        Being a narcissist on the low-key is still being a narcissist. You may attract an unsuspecting victim this way, but the good ones will see right through your tricks and run the hell away. They will perceive your "confidence" as dominance. You also don't want to trigger the wrong personality that does become obsessed and then goes crazy and tries to kill you when you realize you want out of the relationship.

                        Ask those who endured toxic relationships where they had to be constantly at the beck and call of their partner fussing over them all the day long. They will tell you how they had the life sucked out of them, and then when they weren't allowing themselves to be manipulated anymore, there was hell to pay when the attention seeker wasn't getting their daily supply. When the "obsessing" stops the attention needy person then starts questioning if their partner really loves them or immediately suspects cheating. This never ends well.

                        Rather be a person with good values, and build relationships with those who treasure those good values, then you wouldn't be focused on how much(quantity) attention you receive, but on the QUALITY of your interactions.

                        If you believe you have to make anyone obsess over you, then you have a problem of being controlling and that stems from being insecure. Work on your insecurity issues first and maybe your perception of a relationship will change.

                        • Karen Jefferson
                          Karen Jefferson  2 weeks back

                          Any I tired your advice and it seems to be working he wants to see me more and every time he sees me he is all over me ...is this a good thing?

                          • Christine LeGrant
                            Christine LeGrant  2 weeks back

                            Bad advice. Teaching woman to play games is setting them up for failure. Just be yourself and honest. Don’t try too hard. It’s not necessary to overthink things.

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                              Shawn Brian  2 weeks back

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                                  Evelyn Utulo  2 weeks back

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                                Jude Belinda  2 weeks back

                                I am. I got the jacobfifth77gmailcom remote spying application to keep track of my mans social media conversations and texting. I don’t think he knows yet.

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                                Sidika Ridwan  2 weeks back

                                Yes I did contact jacobfifth77gmailcom for the remote spying app. My boyfriend doesn’t know what is coming.

                              • cecile white
                                cecile white  2 weeks back

                                I am a grammar Nazi and I can confirm men don’t give a shit about grammar and spelling! Most of the ones I get from men have tons of misspelled words and awful grammar.

                                • Sinead King
                                  Sinead King  3 weeks back

                                  My favourite part was the accidental typo shortly before commenting on the importance of using correct spelling 😂

                                  • Terry Nales
                                    Terry Nales  3 weeks back

                                    Bitch get to the messages

                                    • AxZer_ia
                                      AxZer_ia  3 weeks back

                                      I don’t have a crush on this kid he started talking to me and he’s always the first one to text me I don’t like him I don’t think he likes me back idk I like somebody else but THAT SOMEBODY ELSE DOESNT NOTICE ME and the guy who I think likes me always sends memes and annoys me but isn’t that what all of them do we’re pretty good friends but the guy I like we don’t even communicate I ask myself what I’m doing wrong or what I should do I don’t even have his number I ask myself and if I like him or if I love him do I even know what love means why IS THIS SO COMPLICATED WHY DO I HATE HIM BUT LOV— OF LIK— UGHH

                                      • noga 1
                                        noga 1  3 weeks back

                                        You can't make a man obsess over you , if he's not into you . but if he's into you , that's another story

                                        • Ned Bainbridge
                                          Ned Bainbridge  3 weeks back

                                          Not thay tru. I want my girl to text me back not literally wait there its fuggin annoyin

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                                            • Amie N
                                              Amie N  3 weeks back

                                              Does this really get a guy? I dont see a ring on your finger. Woman , just be real and natural and sweet. Too many games here. I always respond right away and he shows me the same respect back.

                                              • Hannah Valentine
                                                Hannah Valentine  3 weeks back

                                                i posted a video on instagram a guy is sleeping on the bed and am sitting my head leaning on his legs now my boyfriend is saying i aint have boundaries so what should i do he wanna end things

                                                • sandra setlla
                                                  sandra setlla  2 weeks back

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                                                • Hannah Valentine
                                                  Hannah Valentine  3 weeks back

                                                  i need help what should i do

                                              • PATIENCE TETTEHDZI
                                                PATIENCE TETTEHDZI  3 weeks back


                                                • Sumayyah Ali
                                                  Sumayyah Ali  3 weeks back

                                                  Thank you so much 😊😊😊

                                                  • TheMisswoods86
                                                    TheMisswoods86  3 weeks back

                                                    I'm 33, not 17. I don't have time for games. But when you play hard to get and indifferent about them, they're all over you. I'm about done with men, period.

                                                    • Lorna Swasey
                                                      Lorna Swasey  3 weeks back

                                                      I go after mine

                                                      • seok empire
                                                        seok empire  4 weeks back

                                                        Is it necessary to send nudes? Please help me I love him but he keeps asking me for nudes

                                                        • WIZ* Sone
                                                          WIZ* Sone  4 weeks back

                                                          Why can’t we just be honest? I do literally nothing all day why am i supposed to lie?

                                                          • Qai Za Da
                                                            Qai Za Da  4 weeks back

                                                            I will try this

                                                            • Leanna Hostetler
                                                              Leanna Hostetler  4 weeks back

                                                              Not only are you annoying to listen to but your advice sucks. How many men do you have obsessive over you.

                                                              • Leanna Hostetler
                                                                Leanna Hostetler  4 weeks back

                                                                You are totally lame. I have been doing this all since I could talk. I wasted my time not only on your lame sales pitch but for your $49 course then switched over to YouTube. What a waste of time. My 2 year old niece could figure this all out. Ladies she doesnt tell you anything you still have to have the charm, sex appeal, humor and everything else to come up with these text yourself. Please stop wasting your time and find what naturally works for you. Trying to be something your not, not only will make you come off as awkward but why are you trying to be something that you arent. That is only going to get you through the door, if you cant keep it up in person you are t going to be able to hang on to a guy anyway

                                                                • Girl tips!!
                                                                  Girl tips!!  4 weeks back

                                                                  Who else is watching on a cracked phone?

                                                                  • TONUSREE DAS
                                                                    TONUSREE DAS  4 weeks back

                                                                    I am in love with him for 1 year..🙂 but I don't know how to tell him.. actually I'm sacred of being rejected...it's hard to tell him and harder to forget him...I'm absolutely clueless about his feelings for me..But I love him. Can you please Help me?🙂

                                                                  • J N
                                                                    J N  4 weeks back

                                                                    Urgh...this is too much work. I'd rather just hang out with the cat and maybe one day I'll come across a man that actually wants me without me doing all of this to get him "obsessed."
                                                                    So basically sext him to get attention...that's excellent advice if you're looking for a no strings attached hook up. Men aren't dumb ladies, they date who they like and they pursue the women they want. If they're not pursuing you, they don't want you. You know how we get those guys that send those texts and we roll our eyes and wonder why he just doesn't go away...don't turn into the female version of that guy.

                                                                    • Waffle Cat
                                                                      Waffle Cat  4 weeks back

                                                                      I've been doing EVERYTHING WROOOOOOOONG!!!!!!!!!!

                                                                      • Confidence Princess
                                                                        Confidence Princess  4 weeks back

                                                                        Me *sitting down and watching this video, while waiting for him to reply to my message 🤣*

                                                                        • Confidence Princess
                                                                          Confidence Princess  2 weeks back

                                                                          sandra setlla no thanks for the offer

                                                                        • sandra setlla
                                                                          sandra setlla  2 weeks back

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                                                                      • Fikile milky
                                                                        Fikile milky  4 weeks back

                                                                        this isn't true.

                                                                        • Linus So-oabeb
                                                                          Linus So-oabeb  4 weeks back


                                                                          • trizah muriuki
                                                                            trizah muriuki  1 months back

                                                                            Why go through all this because of a Man??

                                                                            • Amber Campbell
                                                                              Amber Campbell  1 months back

                                                                              No. Not playing games w a grown ass man cuz I'm a grown ass woman.

                                                                              • Amber Campbell
                                                                                Amber Campbell  1 months back

                                                                                Really. Hoo? He was mad at hoo?.. Lmbo

                                                                                • just Bfree
                                                                                  just Bfree  1 months back

                                                                                  INTJ...... access denied

                                                                                  • Sophie Bourgeois
                                                                                    Sophie Bourgeois  1 months back

                                                                                    I will tell him I have pizza simple