Why Is Dating Becoming So Difficult?

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  • Brittany Pettibone
    Brittany Pettibone   7 महीने पहले

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    • The Flaneur
      The Flaneur  8 दिन पहले

      It is NOT hard for women. What a myth. Even my ugly girlfriends with piss-poor English would come home telling me how often they'd get hit on, taking the bus home.

      • ProNorden Agrarian-Nationalism
        ProNorden Agrarian-Nationalism  3 महीने पहले

        Shiraz S. ,. ...Pre-nuptial #MarriageContract.

        • ProNorden Agrarian-Nationalism
          ProNorden Agrarian-Nationalism  3 महीने पहले

          Life, Love, & Logos

          • Hunk Golden
            Hunk Golden  3 महीने पहले

            These fucking disgusting comments? It's over for them but they're too stupid to even know that. Look at these fucking stupid bitches😂😭

            • Alexander
              Alexander  12 घंटे पहले

              If you want to get a really good man, just call me 😇

              • Princess Jasmin421
                Princess Jasmin421  2 दिन पहले

                Gosh, there are a lot of He-man woman haters in the comments. Lol, so much whining about how women are the problem, women have killed dating, women are shallow, blah, blah, blah. You are only speaking on your bad experiences with shallow, dull minded women, that does not mean that all women behave this way. This applies to women as well. If you can only attract shallow, lazy, sleazy people, maybe it's because you either don't know how to pick em or you need to go and work on yourself...You attract what you are, not what you want. The whining is getting annoying coming from men and women. You can't go to a bar, the club, Tinder, Grinder, Instagram etc expecting to find your future wife or husband, let's get more realistic here people.

                • Al Luu
                  Al Luu  6 दिन पहले

                  Sorry I don't know the name too well. I just started watching your videos. The red shirt needs to smile more natural. I can sense that she is smiling but it is like a sad smile and her smile is being held back. Brittany's smile has a glow.

                  • Cool Ruler
                    Cool Ruler  6 दिन पहले

                    There is an epidemic of gold digging hoes in our country. We don’t have the million dollars they want to fuck us out of.

                    • TheBeybladeSport
                      TheBeybladeSport  10 दिन पहले

                      Begone. Thots . We Indians are the Best

                      • A W
                        A W  10 दिन पहले

                        I missed those days when women wanted the real deal, not apps like nowadays. Perfect example of vanity, shallow and gold digging women are in San Francisco, the bay area. It's all about titles and what u have. Society has fallen apart very slowly

                        • James Manalisay
                          James Manalisay  12 दिन पहले

                          Mental health decline, money, legalizing of mind altering substances, housing decline, employment to expenses changes, political issues, male bashing, food quality, traffic / population... it is all a drag on people and effects the ability for people to be more generous, loving, patient and self developing.

                          • Gamer Guru
                            Gamer Guru  13 दिन पहले

                            There's too much PC communication around here. Let's be frank: Western relationships don't work because western women don't want them to work. Western women have been covertly attacking masculinity and trying to sabotage a man's happiness for years now. You'll hear LIP SERVICE from western women claiming that they want relationships to work but the truth is they want CONTROL AND POWER over men; NOT a mutually beneficial relationship with men. That's why relationships don't work. It's like wondering why the SERIAL KILLER keeps trying to KILL you; because that's who she is, that's her pathology. Western women have a pathological hatred for any man they can't dominate and control; that's why Caucasian Jews and black females hate black men. A pathological narcissist needs a weak codependent male to dominate. Look up the JEZEBEL spirit.

                            • JackDangles
                              JackDangles  13 दिन पहले

                              Where can you meet nice people with traditional values? Church, volunteering, meetup groups.

                              • allan dyson
                                allan dyson  15 दिन पहले

                                Just ride the carousel and later get cats, Mgtow guys, stay safe.

                                • Sam Dan
                                  Sam Dan  17 दिन पहले

                                  Up until the 1920s the womans primary role was to raise children and keep her man fed and clean the house. Unfortunately by giving woman the right to vote sealed mans fate. Lets remember that apple in the garden of eden. No matter if i agree with many of a womans views I think all of the Evils in the Western world can be traced back to giving a woman the right to vote. No matter how good of a woman you have pandora has had her box opened. This is why i find it hilarious you think you are conservative or not a feminist.

                                  • ALT Right Killa
                                    ALT Right Killa  18 दिन पहले

                                    The first mistake you guys did was watch a video on women talking about why dating is difficult in 2019. Stop listening to women discussing the topic of dating and relationships.

                                    • Leggs013
                                      Leggs013  19 दिन पहले

                                      These 2 Ladies are Beautiful 😍!

                                      • Chris Robert
                                        Chris Robert  21 दिन पहले

                                        These seem like decent women. Not manly with a filthy mouth, dozens of tattoos and a chip on their shoulder. Very feminine. Good to see. Extremely rare these days. Nichole comes across as a genuinely sweet woman.

                                        • L M
                                          L M  22 दिन पहले

                                          Why are mostly men commenting here and basically complaining about women? This video was not for you.

                                          • Faeries_Xylia 923
                                            Faeries_Xylia 923  23 दिन पहले

                                            *Why has dating become so difficult?* Bc instead of appreciating the person they have now, they always keep one foot out seeing what their other options are.. no one in this generation is ever satisfied anymore with the love they got, they keep looking for that perfect Nicholas Sparks love story that doesn’t exist. I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years and wanna know why everybody? Bc me and my man didn’t just walk away the moment things got too complicated or too serious but instead we worked through them together and grew so much together as one. That’s the key everyone, if you love the person you’re with and can’t imagine yourself without them then don’t push them away. *Love them for who they are, not the idea of them.* Both men and women. You don’t walk out the moment something goes wrong, grow up and sit down and talk about it like adults instead of ending it like children. *Love is patient which majority don’t have anymore.*

                                            • bc cav
                                              bc cav  25 दिन पहले

                                              I've been through a few females and I learned a lot. I'm 50 now and I don't care for dating even though I'm hit on by younger women. I'd rather spend my money on myself rather than a female pocket digger....never looked back.

                                              • Jean-Luc Du Preez
                                                Jean-Luc Du Preez  26 दिन पहले

                                                It's the illusion of choice..there I summed it up..social media has fucked everything up. Entitlement on new other worldly levels.

                                                • Charle River
                                                  Charle River  26 दिन पहले

                                                  IM GOING TO MENTION 2 REASON 1 WE FORGOT JESUS AND 2 MGTOW FEMINISM SELFISH AND A LOOOONG E. T. C.

                                                  • MMKKK 999
                                                    MMKKK 999  27 दिन पहले

                                                    BECAUSE DATING IS LIKE EMPLOYMENT. IF U DON'T HAVE THE SKILLS YOU FAIL. SO STOP COMPLAINING AND LEARN THE SKILLS THAT MAKES YOU A GOOD COMPANION, APART FROM SEX (SERIOUSLY)

                                                    • TheSnowFoxParty
                                                      TheSnowFoxParty  महीने पहले

                                                      Dating is still.....hard :/

                                                      • Clarity
                                                        Clarity  महीने पहले

                                                        lots of men in comments obviously didn't listen to the video and only clicked on it to complain about women in the comments

                                                        • Arcsecant
                                                          Arcsecant  महीने पहले

                                                          Very wise. May both you ladies get better than your heart desires.

                                                          • S. Raetz
                                                            S. Raetz  महीने पहले

                                                            "If you think you deserve better, work on yourself" That's some sage wisdom! Please thank your mother for me.

                                                            • dmaniax D
                                                              dmaniax D  महीने पहले

                                                              Watching girls like you in west makes me happy. I dont like people whose ideals are people like amber rose and kardashian . They are making society worse i gues.

                                                              • Tigres
                                                                Tigres  महीने पहले

                                                                Rejection depends a lot on men too... on the weekends i go horse riding, shooting range, fishing, i work on my semitruck, i go to the club, etc.. i have always had girls come to me and be like.. i have never gone horse riding, I've never shot a gun, i heard you can dance salsa..etc common folks be active be interesting.

                                                                • John Webb
                                                                  John Webb  महीने पहले

                                                                  Girls are bitches!!

                                                                  • Shag Wellington
                                                                    Shag Wellington  महीने पहले

                                                                    Good video. Well done. You are stunning twins. You make some good points.

                                                                    • realitybites
                                                                      realitybites  महीने पहले

                                                                      Genuine, honest communication is the key to any successful relationship... It ain't rocket science. Nice vid, cheers.

                                                                      • Pimp Sidious
                                                                        Pimp Sidious  महीने पहले

                                                                        My attention and resources are too valuable for thots

                                                                        • Egon Speneder
                                                                          Egon Speneder  महीने पहले

                                                                          I've personally seen too many people ruin their happiness and their lives because they cannot face losing the financial investments of their last 40 years if they would be honest with themselves and their partner. They'd rather live in misery waiting for the other to die than cut ties and be free! Me, at 67 I rent and have very little with respect to financial assets because of poorly made decisions during my years from 20 to 40. But I don't judge myself based on my financial worth but on what I've learned and what I know. I have one significant "other", and got rid of foolish so called "friends".

                                                                          • CCW Noob
                                                                            CCW Noob  महीने पहले

                                                                            The one on the right talks too much. The one on the left is perfect ... and says more.

                                                                            • Matthew Ryan
                                                                              Matthew Ryan  महीने पहले

                                                                              Dating is getting harder because individualism can't maintain the level of collectivism required to maintain the functionally that matchmaking requires. The focus of individualism on the individual undermines any relationship and only breakdown social bonds while failing to replace what it has destroyed.

                                                                              • Death Metal
                                                                                Death Metal  महीने पहले

                                                                                i dont' think either of you will have problems dating men i mean c'mon you're both extremely attractive physically fit you speak well what else

                                                                                • S. Sarajlić
                                                                                  S. Sarajlić  महीने पहले

                                                                                  I would fuck you both.

                                                                                  • Opt Out
                                                                                    Opt Out  महीने पहले

                                                                                    I learned early how shitty females are to boys- I avoid them like the plague.

                                                                                    • Michael Andreyev
                                                                                      Michael Andreyev  महीने पहले

                                                                                      If you place your value on the things you do like career, fitness etc, then you're the most miserable and unhappy person.

                                                                                      • Jared Jesensky
                                                                                        Jared Jesensky  महीने पहले

                                                                                        well said

                                                                                        • kayneassasin
                                                                                          kayneassasin  महीने पहले

                                                                                          While you two seem to have it more or less understood....your friend that you talked about, you missed the point horribly and you kind of miss it through out but I suspect the two of you know it. Men care about 3 things in terms of long term marriage in this order: 1. Are you hot? Yes we understand you will age and become physically ugly, but if we are going to put a ring on your finger, you better be hot and give us your peak sexual years of hotness in return because we men will hit our physical attractive peak when you are too old to find anyone else. 2. Are you a good homemaker? Can you cook? clean? take care of a house? Can I trust you not to bankrupt me? Am I marrying a mountain of debt? Failure to pass this test which has other questions, = bad homemaker = turn off for long term relationship. 3. Are you a good mother? Assuming you pass part 1 and 2....What is your mental core like? Are you a bitch? Are you high maintenance? Will you shut the fuck up for 2 seconds or must you talk 24/7? I Don't expect a perfect score here, but the less bitchy you are and the more feminine and submissive you are(while not being the very definition of a dumb blonde) the better job you will do here. That's what men want in a wife. We don't care about your job, your career, what school you went too or any of that crap. Quite frankly we find it mostly boring. And odds are you are dumber than the guy you are dating too. We want the 3 things I just mentioned. To translate, we want a good conservative girl who hasn't slept with the whole neighborhood that looks good and takes care of herself and wants to and knows how to be a good homemaker and has experience with kids because she wants kids of her own. Liberal women will fail this checklist even if they get married, many men get married to total bitches and are miserable for it. Your friend, sounds like a nice girl, but she sounds like she has a girl power chip on her shoulder. Lose that, and she'll find a guy.

                                                                                          • bauhaus
                                                                                            bauhaus  महीने पहले

                                                                                            6:00 this is a good pre-filter. I'm a "recovering lefty" and the moment I brought up the GOP, not even Trump, I was being labeled as a follower of Nazis and right-wing bigots. It's quite incredible. I think the division is actually a good thing if you're seeking a traditional person. You really shouldn't be tempted with an intolerant leftist person as their intolerance and hypocracy will typically bleed into the rest of their lives and interactions. These people have a difficult time playing well with others, which is odd because they all sortof resemble the Borg/bee colony. Very hive minded. I was actucally center-left, but even being a moderate, I've found that I simply do not identify with anything being pushed by the Dems right now.

                                                                                            • Diego Yanes Holtz
                                                                                              Diego Yanes Holtz  महीने पहले

                                                                                              I think that dating is so hard is because they view virginity as bad thing. Male virginity is as a bad thing in men. And most of the men want loose their viginity when they are a teenager. And I think that porn have been very negative. Most men thinks that porn is relationship.

                                                                                              • amber wolf
                                                                                                amber wolf  महीने पहले

                                                                                                the roles are reverse women in competion with men men are women

                                                                                                • RJC 72
                                                                                                  RJC 72  महीने पहले

                                                                                                  Quality women like the Pettibone sisters are few and far between. Most other women are corrupted by the world and want Mr. Right Now, not Mr. Right. Besides, what guy in his right mind wants to roll the dice on an institution like marriage when it has a 50% failure rate? Feminism is to blame for that! It's made men very jaded about marriage and relationships, and even very wary about associating with women. Between no-fault divorces, false rape accusations, and the man getting raked over the coals financially in divorce court, it's no wonder MGTOW is gaining momentum and popularity among today's men. The risks are too high, and the vetting process to separate the good women from the bad is not very clear-cut. This has to change, or society as we know it will collapse.

                                                                                                  • Ara Amirian
                                                                                                    Ara Amirian  महीने पहले

                                                                                                    MGTOW

                                                                                                    • Fred Neecher
                                                                                                      Fred Neecher  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                      The "great job" is a strike against a woman in the dating game. The job will forever pull you away from the relationship. You may think otherwise, but it is an objective competitor. It is the other way for men. A man's "great job" (if he is lucky enough to get one) is a reason for staying in the relationship because it (the relationship) stabilises him and he is motivated to work to support it through his work.

                                                                                                      • 8 of 11 assimilted
                                                                                                        8 of 11 assimilted  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                        MGTOW getting bigger and bigger and bigger. More and more younger guys are finally getting it. Soon there will be next to no dating as the vast majority of men will go their own way. I try to "recruit" every guy I meet (except manginas and soyboys who are beyond reason cuckolds,) link a guy to a few vids on youtube, tell him air conditioners are not sexiat and toilet queues are not sexist and boom they go MGTOW. The younger guys go pump and dump and the older guys go full monk (which the younger guys will become once they have wealth). And every insane Feminazi comment on TV or social media, every /false accusation and story of evil justice divorce raping men makes them even more convinced MGTOW is the only way for guys. Guys are stopping caring about anything women say, they can have their feminazi utopia just don't expect us to come along for the ride any longer.

                                                                                                        • Antyvas
                                                                                                          Antyvas  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                          I like twins.

                                                                                                          • Electro Man
                                                                                                            Electro Man  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                            MGTOW is the unfortunate, yet inevitable, consequence of feminism. Men are treated like garbage then they are villainized and enslaved by the family courts. Men are totally defenseless in this system. So they don't want to play anymore... AKA... MGTOW.

                                                                                                            • Pythor P Chunsworth
                                                                                                              Pythor P Chunsworth  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                              Don't get married go mgtow leave the plantation

                                                                                                              • jane swan
                                                                                                                jane swan  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                ....all thanks to liberal retards

                                                                                                                • Alan Stordal
                                                                                                                  Alan Stordal  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                  Adam and Eve. We help each other. Complete each other. Helpmates. Created to be with one another. 1+1=1. Marriage.

                                                                                                                  • DigitalDreams
                                                                                                                    DigitalDreams  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                    I never met an unmarried person in the countryside. Rural areas bring out your ancient nature. Cities are toxic environments for the normal human. Too many stimuli. Info overload. Sex overload. Sex in ads. Porn. Money. Stress. Traffic. Millions of people, but you don't know anyone. Everything you need to live is 5 minutes away, yet you obsess about the little things you don't have which has no real value. I encourage you to read the "Human Zoo" which outlines it very well. Or look up the mouse utopia. Cities are unnatural environments that after reaching a certain level of success, descend into a destructive path of trying to annihilate itself so that the cycle can be repeated. This happens over and over again throughout human history.

                                                                                                                    • virtual240
                                                                                                                      virtual240  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                      Where can I find a woman like one of you and how do I get one to notice me?

                                                                                                                      • virtual240
                                                                                                                        virtual240  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                        It's only difficult for men. End of discussion.

                                                                                                                        • Eric Kokin
                                                                                                                          Eric Kokin  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                          I just came across this vid! As an 80's man I already knew that I wanted to "keep" what I made. This was selfish back then, But now I know God silently told me about the "rotten" apple. For nearly the past 25 yrs, I have lived a life of freedom and prosperity:) I know what my good male friends went through. Again, I thank God for keeping single and providing for myself and my mother that is "81" yrs. old. She's from Argentina, and appreciates a good man:)

                                                                                                                          • ted garner
                                                                                                                            ted garner  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                            Women's lib gone amok ..

                                                                                                                            • Edward Miller
                                                                                                                              Edward Miller  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                              THE Average American Girl has had at least 10 Sexual partners by age 21.... SHE'S NOT QUALITY MARRIAGE MATERIAL.

                                                                                                                              • Steve Lunde
                                                                                                                                Steve Lunde  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                Thanks ladies. From a man's perspective, or at least mine based on what I've seen and experienced, our society has gone from a traditional mindset to a hook-up culture because men have become increasingly afraid of divorce. On the surface of it, men seem to be the biggest losers in terms of the financial end, they lose their right of visitation (in varying degrees) and,in some cases, are ostracized by friends and family. I'm saddened by the seeming impasse that the fear of family court is widening the gap between most men and women. Nicole brought up the point that it's incumbent upon each of us to improve ourselves so we are ready and willing to recognize a partner when opportunity presents one. To recognize reality and differentiate it from fantasy, I think, is the key. Anyway, thanks for making this video. It has and will continue to help me be more cognitive and realistic about my own situation.

                                                                                                                                • rtl2002
                                                                                                                                  rtl2002  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                  Best advice for fellow men: Work hard and save all year, forget about dating apps and restaurants, and take a 3-week vacation in Thailand or the Philippines. You will of course have a lot of fun there but, most importantly, it will be with women who are truly feminine.

                                                                                                                                  • Beserk Ash
                                                                                                                                    Beserk Ash  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                    You both are very pretty.😍 Me MGTOW. ✌

                                                                                                                                    • Alison Mihailovich
                                                                                                                                      Alison Mihailovich  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                      Why dont you come to Toronto and see why ? There is no Women worth to Marry here ! You have all those ugly Feminists in a Relationship with a Gay husband and having kids too . Just like Justin Trudno '' . He is Gay ! Everybody knows . He never misses a Gay parade in Canada and he is buddy with the Irish PM too. Openly gay guy . ....and then you have all the whores form the Suburbs who will have a white boyfriends and sleep around with black guys on the weekend . Bars and clubs are full of Feminists shit talking rude whores . Only girls who are smart and lady like a the Asian women. I could see my Asian co workers ....they don't drink and are reliable . Good workers too . My son left the city . He is in Japan now .

                                                                                                                                      • Gus Rudder
                                                                                                                                        Gus Rudder  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                        cultural marxism... feminism... blame on the "commies".

                                                                                                                                        • acgillespie
                                                                                                                                          acgillespie  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                          *USA needs to eradicate all non whites & leave only 75 million of the most healthy beautiful females and 25 million of the healthiest most handsome males and try this experiment again* With all closed borders of course

                                                                                                                                          • acgillespie
                                                                                                                                            acgillespie  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                            *Power of the Pink - love pink*

                                                                                                                                            • waltermh111
                                                                                                                                              waltermh111  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                              Might as well add my comment even though it will be repeating a lot of the same things. This only applies to Western women, or non-Western women who have lived in the West and integrated. 1) So many women give up the sex for free that it has lost its value. So some men who would commit, dont have to anymore. Bad boys can have babies with multiple women and still keep going from girl to girl and we actually know from psychology that many women find a man more attractive if she knows he is desired by other women. So being a player is not a turn off anymore and can be an attraction. I have seen it myself at my work place and when I lived in a dorm that was part of a collection of them, mostly lived in by 20-early 30somethings. 2) Nobody likes to think long term anymore. Its all girls just wanna have fun, live in the moment, post modernist trappings that keeps people making bad decisions. 3) Women used to know that she needed a man to give her and her future child the best life. So she was raised learning how to take care of him also. It was all about the partnership for a better future for her and her family. The man was raised to feel the same. So she took pride in what she could add to the relationship, and accepted sacrifice, as he did. But now, women are not only not taught anything about how to benefit a relationship, they are raised to take pride in not having anything to contribute except their presence. Their value now is supposed to only be that they are born. While they still expect everything from a man. And it becomes sexist if you ever expect her to sacrifice anything for you, while you must sacrifice everything for her, or she will leave you and take half your stuff, which she might do anyway. And in some places, you dont even have to get married. Once the gov thinks you 2 have lived together long enough, you could end up being liable for her well being once she leaves you. 4) That leads to this point. Women dont think they need men anymore. They have everything provided for them by the gov, by businesses offering more and more which mostly benefits women, by society, by constant glorifying of them all over. Not realizing/caring that its men building everything they use, the civilization they have, paying most of the taxes (one study noted that men pay in 150k average over life time and women take 50k (meaning they take out all that they pay plus another 50k more. Men pay a net amount. But this taking out is only in services, many government policy are made to mostly benefit men but are not counted as a service. We pay the most into company insurances also while women take the most out and we can go on and on. Men are also the protectors etc... So women think they dont need men, so what else do they want men for? It comes down to the dick. I have seen it too often. If the man cant get the womans pussy wet at first sight, he doesnt stand much of a chance. This is shown in studies where women basically admit it, social experiments, and in studies of online dating. 80% of women are only interested in less than 20% of men, regardless of the mans level of confidence, stability, etc... 5) It is too dangerous for men. A 20 year old man meets a woman in a college bar. They drink, they go back to his or her place for only 5 minutes, they go back to the bar and split up. She accuses him of rape the next day for whatever reason. The videos show she was not stumbling, she was completely willing, and it was only 5 minutes in the room. The rape kit showed no signs of struggle/tearing, and she had no bruises. He gets 20 years. This happens over and over. If I ask a woman out at work and she doesnt like it, I can get in trouble, if I go to the bar and meet a woman, I can be accused of sexual assault or rape if I touch her or step out of camera view. If I ask a woman in the street, she can scream, call me a creep, etc... Why take a chance? Online I get maybe 1 match out of every 50 swipes, and those matches dont reply to messages, or give me one or 2 lines like they care, then disappear, despite me not being boring (I dont just say hey) 6) The expectations a woman has of a guy are unrealistic. Which is more infuriating that they keep dating and even having kids with failures and you can see why, then they complain about it after awhile as if they didnt have any agency, and you will say, how about this guy, he is good, and she will say, yeah but you need some attraction also. Why? This is a very new thing, the idea that attraction is the most important thing to a relationship, that can override all other things. In fact, the problem is that attraction used to be more loosely defined and a mans utility was part of it or things about him that made him look like he would be a good father/husband, but now since women can get 100 proposals a week, or because there are no more social pressures on them, attraction means only the hottest need apply. 7) This expectation gets worse if the woman has a degree or thinks that in some other way she is worth a lot more than she really is. Hypergamy means that a woman is always looking for more, and this used to be controlled by the cost of a relationship and social pressure. Now, they have no limits and an ego constantly being inflated by society, media, etc... 8) Men used to be rewarded for all the responsibility they had, for all that they did for society. Now they are told that despite all that is against them, they should take on responsibility but with no reward, and accept the risks with no upside. That being expendable itself should be good enough because that is fulfilling enough by itself. Even JBP, who I love, falls for this. It is what is ruining traditionalism, and why we call them tradcucks now. Because they have ignored that men need things also and that we seek to gain. That is how the human race got to where it is. Sacrifice with the chance of reward. Not simply by sacrifice alone. Very few men are ok with that scenario. Very few men can be fulfilled that way. You will be fulfilled for a short time until you get burnt out or screwed over and find you have nothing to show for it and that being expendable has more downsides than upsides. I love taking care of my woman, providing, protecting, and all the things that made relationships good in the past. I would be a dream guy for women 100 years ago, but today I am just another nice guy that they cant stand because I dont get their pussy instantly wet, so I have to listen to them complain about all of their past relationships while calling me just a friend or more often the case, I listen while they complain to other men because I wont pander to them anymore and be their wet towel or friendzoned male friend. I tried the dating game here not too long ago when I moved back to the USA after having wonderful fulfilling relationships overseas. I hate that I needed to come back, but I tried and it didnt work out, I got screwed over and rejected in the rudest ways. I will keep an open mind but I am not actively trying anymore because most women disgust me. Too many tattoos, oddly places piercings, proud bitchiness, little to offer and proud of it, sluttiness, etc... I am sure I will end moving back to Asia (my current plan) and starting a family there. I am just setting myself up better right now since I know what to do, unlike the first time I went over.

                                                                                                                                              • Armor Cake
                                                                                                                                                Armor Cake  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                Thank you for this video, both of you took the words right out of my mouth. Keep up the amazing work!

                                                                                                                                                • Craig Irvine
                                                                                                                                                  Craig Irvine  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                  Lol don’t think men care since they are going their own way.

                                                                                                                                                  • Hannah Dare - Gentile
                                                                                                                                                    Hannah Dare - Gentile  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                    Why is dating becoming so difficult ? It's because of the way people are this day and age. Dating's not worth it - don't even bother. I became single back in 2001 when I was 19 years old. I've been single ever since, and I'm 37 years old now. I sure as hell can't complain about being single - becoming single and staying single was the best god damn decision I ever made. I can't even begin to describe in words all of the shit that I've seen out of people (both male and female) during the last 20 years. It's terrible. It really is. And all that's happening is that this shit is getting worse as time goes on. If people are like this now, and continue being like this, I'm sure you can probably imagine how people will be during the next 20 years. #singleforlife

                                                                                                                                                    • Weazel
                                                                                                                                                      Weazel  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                      Ladies... no offense, but you sound lazy and entitled. Finding the man who will father your children is not as simple as sitting down and watching Netflix, nor should it be.

                                                                                                                                                      • BossManSays
                                                                                                                                                        BossManSays  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                        Why is it difficult because 6's think they deserve 10's. Feminism has given mediocre women false sense of value.

                                                                                                                                                        • Carlos Hortuvia
                                                                                                                                                          Carlos Hortuvia  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                          Too msny Disney's movies...

                                                                                                                                                          • musclesdude
                                                                                                                                                            musclesdude  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                            @10:47 "not compromising" ..... meaning your standards are way too high that no man will ever live up to your princess expectations?

                                                                                                                                                            • musclesdude
                                                                                                                                                              musclesdude  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                              Women don't want a relationship, they want to impress their friends with the "stuff" their man buys for them (in return for sex until they find a upgrade man). And women wonder why we are so skeptical of them all of a sudden. Try to be a man for a change and think about knowing that the next woman is purely out to use you as much as possible before eventually upgrading once she takes everything for granted that you do/give her and simply want more because shes naturally greedy and materialistic. Take the example of how many guys get rejudged by what they drive even before sharing their inner qualities. Shallow women are making all miss out. Its not men's fault.

                                                                                                                                                              • Ulthmonsta
                                                                                                                                                                Ulthmonsta  2 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                Men just don't want to take the risk anymore. Thnak 3rd wave feminisms, the sjw movement and the #metoo's of this world. Anything we do can get us in trouble and potentially ruin our lives, and I am speaking from personal experience also, just complimenting a woman at work saying her top looks nice nearly got me fired.