5 Subtle Signs Someone Feels Attracted To You

  • Published: 03 December 2018
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    Have you ever been confused on whether someone likes you?
    Maybe you’ve been indirectly flirting, at least verbally, but have been blowing your cover with your body language
    What are the signs?
    Fear not, Charisma on Command is back again to slay the confusion dragon
    Today we’re talking about 5 common indicators of interest!
    0:30 - Point #1: How The Person Breaks Eye Contact
    1:13 - Point #2: How They Touch You
    1:59 - Point #3: How They Touch Themselves
    3:04 - Point #4: Where Their Body Points
    4:26 - Point #5: How They Talk About Potential Admirers
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Comments • 2 722

  • Jimmy Merchak
    Jimmy Merchak  10 jam yang lalu

    ok WHAT IF a girl starts to imitate your selfies??? Could this be sign or something?

    • Bob Dylan
      Bob Dylan  12 jam yang lalu

      they let you grab 'em by the p*ssy.

      • project intersteller
        project intersteller  Hari Yang lalu

        what if someone is just staring at you insistently

        • I IdentifyAsAUnicorn
          I IdentifyAsAUnicorn  Hari Yang lalu

          You’re adorable btw ;)

          • I IdentifyAsAUnicorn
            I IdentifyAsAUnicorn  Hari Yang lalu

            Sometimes if I liked a guy I used to purposely pay no attention to him, but talk with everyone else lol eventually we went out on a date and he mentioned about how I used to ignore him ;) I was shy and it was more calming to try and ignore him than be a basket case of nerves around him lol

            • Esther B.
              Esther B.  2 hari yang lalu

              I like you a lot, but stop doing the hitler hand movement

              • Esther B.
                Esther B.  2 hari yang lalu

                all girls know about the slide, please stop sliding on 13 year old girls, adult men

                • Suck my Pipi
                  Suck my Pipi  2 hari yang lalu

                  Girl: Takes me to Prison Me: He Likes Me

                  • Sarah Leung
                    Sarah Leung  2 hari yang lalu

                    Awh you're cute

                    • Figrin
                      Figrin  3 hari yang lalu

                      you sound like a guy who has to bring an oxygen tank on his dates

                      • Susan Fudge
                        Susan Fudge  4 hari yang lalu

                        Most women are oblivious of how men interpret our completely innocent touching. I had no idea that men make so many assumptions about touch.

                        • Marauding Umbreon
                          Marauding Umbreon  4 hari yang lalu

                          I'm never sure how applicable any of these social situations videos are for my life when their always described in terms of being at some bar. Very different kinds of people go to bars than I ever interact with. I live in a mostly rural area where the most town has are some fast food restaurants and a walmart. And the social circles clubs? Their all places filled with geriatics. I shouldn't have to take up smoking hookah or take up drinking just to find eligible people my age to talk too.

                          • Hope Willochell
                            Hope Willochell  5 hari yang lalu

                            Haha see I’m in band and I play sax so I play w my neck strap 🤠

                            • Mark McMarkface
                              Mark McMarkface  5 hari yang lalu

                              Inappropriate touching is the best touching.

                              • DeShawn
                                DeShawn  6 hari yang lalu

                                those signs are anything but subtle

                                • Mer Ber
                                  Mer Ber  6 hari yang lalu

                                  Lol #1 I keep eye contact like a creep, #2 never touch people for no reason, #3 yeah true, #4 I avoid my crush, so there no pointing shoes at them either lol #5 my crush is instantly gone when they talk about potential admirers

                                  • Dion
                                    Dion  6 hari yang lalu

                                    Oh my gd how do I remember all of this

                                    • Yoon
                                      Yoon  7 hari yang lalu

                                      Thumbnails be like "Look at their nipples"

                                      • Usagi
                                        Usagi  8 hari yang lalu

                                        Lol I’ve been watching your videos because of IDclips recommendations and I finally see your face and this video was uploaded on 2018 😂😂 This video randomly popped up too 😂😂

                                        • Olivia Kiyoko
                                          Olivia Kiyoko  8 hari yang lalu

                                          The problem is I first need to find out if she’s also into girls and then I’d have to actually try to make her interested and I mean she talks to me sometimes and asks me questions but I don’t feel like I’m good enough

                                          • Mariya Dimitrova
                                            Mariya Dimitrova  8 hari yang lalu

                                            No wonder guys can never tell if I'm interested, I don't do almost any of these things (other than standing nearby but not facing them) :D

                                            • klimp fandango
                                              klimp fandango  10 hari yang lalu

                                              For men. If you are interested in a girl/lady just pop your willy out of your trousers. They will get the hint.

                                              • raptor theok
                                                raptor theok  10 hari yang lalu

                                                crush: breathes me: u you like bread!?

                                                • boyddeath
                                                  boyddeath  11 hari yang lalu

                                                  Bold of you to assume that my crush touches me

                                                  • TristenDoesGames
                                                    TristenDoesGames  12 hari yang lalu

                                                    I must be the biggest mong on the planet, because apparently women are into me.

                                                    • The_17th_Dragon
                                                      The_17th_Dragon  12 hari yang lalu

                                                      When their friend starts pointing out that they’re tripping over words and things of that nature

                                                      • militaryminded85
                                                        militaryminded85  12 hari yang lalu

                                                        me: see's all the signs, then makes a move. her: ew no!...............no!

                                                        • Jeb Atman
                                                          Jeb Atman  13 hari yang lalu

                                                          Number 5 has been perfected by feminists. So what does that actually mean?

                                                          • Lydia Nicoli
                                                            Lydia Nicoli  14 hari yang lalu

                                                            My feet and body were pointed towards this screen through the whole video 😜😂

                                                            • Peter Raab
                                                              Peter Raab  14 hari yang lalu

                                                              I think this BOY is INTO himself

                                                              • Caleb Bramblet
                                                                Caleb Bramblet  15 hari yang lalu

                                                                Crush: lives on the same continent Me: this could be a sign

                                                                • Sunmoon Stars
                                                                  Sunmoon Stars  15 hari yang lalu

                                                                  Good tips and video + thanks etc! The part about touching is more nuanced than described here imho, as this varies so much from country to country. I have a sense that California is much more touchy-feely than, say, London, for example (correct me if I'm wrong), where wide-spread hugging does NOT happen and is reserved for a select number of close friends and family and, even then, is only done very occasionally. Plus, bitching about other people, to bring oneself up in the eyes of others, doesn't happen in London (not in my circles, anyway), but we would moan and criticise full-pelt the government, famous people, Remain or Brexit, the political parties etc, anyone in the media, music etc...

                                                                  • cirquemedia
                                                                    cirquemedia  16 hari yang lalu

                                                                    Being good looking and smelling nice helps too. :)

                                                                    • Abrianna Fedor
                                                                      Abrianna Fedor  17 hari yang lalu

                                                                      There was a random guy that just stared at me. Even when I stared back, he just stared and smiled, but it wasn’t creepy- I-

                                                                      • Dorothy Tran
                                                                        Dorothy Tran  17 hari yang lalu

                                                                        Yooo this is scary. I always play with my necklace around my crush/fix my hair😳

                                                                        • Anyanwu Chrisangelo
                                                                          Anyanwu Chrisangelo  18 hari yang lalu

                                                                          That emoji that crossed the screen when he said "How they touch themselves" Lmao

                                                                          • Dan M
                                                                            Dan M  19 hari yang lalu

                                                                            Conclusion: it could be a sign or it could not

                                                                            • BlueGrenadeTom
                                                                              BlueGrenadeTom  19 hari yang lalu

                                                                              How they touch themselves 😳 😂

                                                                              • John L
                                                                                John L  20 hari yang lalu

                                                                                One sign she’s attracted to me is when she smiled after pulling out my black card.

                                                                                • havingfun1968
                                                                                  havingfun1968  20 hari yang lalu

                                                                                  I couldn't agree more with everything he said. I do that all the time when I hug someone or touch someone I'm attracted to. THIS IS SPOT ON.

                                                                                  • selma grein
                                                                                    selma grein  20 hari yang lalu

                                                                                    Am I the only one recognising how huge his mouth is?

                                                                                    • Satya Daka
                                                                                      Satya Daka  20 hari yang lalu

                                                                                      #1 SIGN. SHE IN MY DM

                                                                                      • Ani D
                                                                                        Ani D  20 hari yang lalu

                                                                                        I always play with my hair and ring maybe more when I’m nervous or annoyed but I realy do this with everybody ! Now boys are gonna think it’s a sign 😓😓😂

                                                                                        • I Want Rosé's Body
                                                                                          I Want Rosé's Body  22 hari yang lalu

                                                                                          I actually touch my nose not my hair 😂

                                                                                          • Cognyze
                                                                                            Cognyze  23 hari yang lalu

                                                                                            How bold of you to assume someone might be attracted to me.

                                                                                            • greekgodlamb
                                                                                              greekgodlamb  23 hari yang lalu

                                                                                              This dude is talking thru experience..

                                                                                              • Marco Rossainz
                                                                                                Marco Rossainz  23 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                No 2 is creepy AF

                                                                                                • bernardthedisappointedowl
                                                                                                  bernardthedisappointedowl  23 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                  Is someone being outraged by my cabbagy musk a sign? ^oo^

                                                                                                  • Sergio Landro
                                                                                                    Sergio Landro  23 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                    The only person who touches me is my grandma...

                                                                                                    • Mad A
                                                                                                      Mad A  24 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                      You’re smile is just.....

                                                                                                      • greynezz
                                                                                                        greynezz  24 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                        I do the fidgeting when I'm nervous not necessarily when I like someone

                                                                                                        • Jammy Joo
                                                                                                          Jammy Joo  24 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                          is she into you? Yeah again there's really no way to tell so your best bet is to keep your wits about you and keep looking for signs.

                                                                                                          • Linn Zaitzewsky
                                                                                                            Linn Zaitzewsky  24 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                            You have soooo beautiful smile!!!

                                                                                                            • EuJi Han
                                                                                                              EuJi Han  24 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                              Erm...I personally think this can be really misleading for people like me because I do all of these actions while talking to most or certain people but I never ever was attracted to any of them. And then there was one time when I suddenly just kept on playing with my hair (almost frantically) and I just realized that everyone mustve think I was flirting like crazy when all I could remember was that I was extremely nervous at that time because I was asked a question (it was a really simple question, "Tell me your favourite film, and why?") by a film director in front of everyone in the auditorium.

                                                                                                              • Nick Don
                                                                                                                Nick Don  25 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                so often times i have woman drage there hand down my chest what does that mean? i dont want to assume its sexual but that hows it feels.

                                                                                                                • Swedish_Louise
                                                                                                                  Swedish_Louise  25 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                  I'm watching this so I can avoid people who are into me

                                                                                                                  • M
                                                                                                                    M  25 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                    Girl: *shows all the signs* My good pal anxiety: Abort mission.

                                                                                                                    • I IdentifyAsAUnicorn
                                                                                                                      I IdentifyAsAUnicorn  Hari Yang lalu

                                                                                                                      M haha 😆

                                                                                                                      • Sean F
                                                                                                                        Sean F  17 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                        😂 facts

                                                                                                                        • 乁dragon違
                                                                                                                          乁dragon違  25 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                          Hopefully men are not doing the same to women? Uh wat. So women have free reign to 'drag' along a man's body, and it's a nono for men to do?

                                                                                                                          • AddictionSequence
                                                                                                                            AddictionSequence  26 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                            My ceiling keeps leaking in my dreams

                                                                                                                            • M V-H
                                                                                                                              M V-H  26 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                              Is it weird ...I have never done any of these, because I was into someone?

                                                                                                                              • Horton Hears A Bitch Ass Liar
                                                                                                                                Horton Hears A Bitch Ass Liar  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                I'm on an endless search for confirmation that this person likes me back because for reasons I can't ask them myself and everyday I'm just more convinced that they do

                                                                                                                                • Redeye Flight
                                                                                                                                  Redeye Flight  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                  Women are allowed to touch men. Men are not allowed to touch women? Sorry, but until the world regains it's sanity any woman that puts a hand on me is getting reported for sexual harassment.

                                                                                                                                  • Zinnia Jane
                                                                                                                                    Zinnia Jane  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                    The thumbnail...

                                                                                                                                    • kevin xiazhu
                                                                                                                                      kevin xiazhu  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                      Im sorry but everytime his mouth is really open I just think of that giant mouth with a high pitched squeak meme.

                                                                                                                                      • Kino Strong
                                                                                                                                        Kino Strong  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                        I touch myself

                                                                                                                                        • GOAT
                                                                                                                                          GOAT  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                          Okay, plastic surgery it is...

                                                                                                                                          • idan willenchik
                                                                                                                                            idan willenchik  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                            You can't do or say anything these days without offending someone.This world has finally lost its mind!

                                                                                                                                            • Jazz25
                                                                                                                                              Jazz25  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                              Lol 😂 I See a cute walk near me what I Do is I keep a serious face if he looks at me I look even more serious hehe 🙃 and then he goes away lol me in my mind why didn’t he like me back I looked at him what more does he want lol shy girl issues ☺️😆

                                                                                                                                              • Zainab Sultan
                                                                                                                                                Zainab Sultan  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                Someone interesting in the work place -> Dwight 😂

                                                                                                                                                • Adam Albrecht
                                                                                                                                                  Adam Albrecht  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                  Women will sit with their legs toward you when sitting with you- like pointing their crotch at what they desire. Pay attention, if a woman doesn't like a person they will point away.

                                                                                                                                                  • Berries 20
                                                                                                                                                    Berries 20  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                    I watch these to improve on my writing, I'm too ugly to have use for these in my personal life

                                                                                                                                                    • Berries 20
                                                                                                                                                      Berries 20  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                      I do most of these because I have anxiety, God I can't begin to wonder how many people thought I liked them just because I was being anxious in general

                                                                                                                                                      • Daryl Richardson
                                                                                                                                                        Daryl Richardson  27 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                        Yesterday there was a group of us & the female was dancing on her man. While looking dead at me. I was uncomfortable, but dam that azz looked good

                                                                                                                                                        • Jason Walsh
                                                                                                                                                          Jason Walsh  28 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                          Consent matters

                                                                                                                                                          • Spencer Frank Clayton
                                                                                                                                                            Spencer Frank Clayton  28 hari yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                            1:53 What would be offensive about that? #MeToo