5 Reasons Men Stop Chasing You

  • Published: 10 November 2016
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    So you've been spending time with this awesome new guy, and things are going really well.

    ...Or so you thought. Suddenly, he's disappeared! He's stopped calling and texting, he's stopped asking you out. What happened?! Did I have something in my teeth?!
    In this week's video, I reveal 5 possible reasons why he stopped pursuing the relationship.This experience can be very painful and disheartening, but understanding his motivation will not only clear things up for you, it will leave you empowered in knowing how to pursue future connections.
    Please post a comment on this video... I'd love to hear your thoughts about this topic!
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    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
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Comments • 652

  • Buttercup Garcia
    Buttercup Garcia  5 hari yang lalu

    Last guy was a complete lazy asshole glad things didn't work out he never tried to take me on a date

    • dr zedzdead
      dr zedzdead  9 hari yang lalu

      Men are so complicated and fragile.

      • Johnson Yuen
        Johnson Yuen  11 hari yang lalu

        Poor ugly fat old sick unless is old ugly sick almost die but wealthy! Hahahaha

        • Flibgonrt Sheglis
          Flibgonrt Sheglis  11 hari yang lalu

          Okay, so what about chemistry and friendship, but, like a zillion miles between you? Lol.

          • Johnson Yuen
            Johnson Yuen  12 hari yang lalu

            As all other women have not yet died!

            • JennyMadeinAmerica
              JennyMadeinAmerica  16 hari yang lalu

              Nice video Matt

              • Abara Charlotte
                Abara Charlotte  16 hari yang lalu

                I feel for those who dislike.

                • Marie Tanner
                  Marie Tanner  18 hari yang lalu

                  Good Lord, and woman are crazy? It's us, we 're complicated

                  • MGD BEATS
                    MGD BEATS  21 hari yang lalu

                    1# bitches play 2 many games making guys wait when she really isn't doing shit women don't have much going in life. 2# women standards are too high when she doesn't bring shit. 3# Women think men are mind readers our society teaches equality if I can approach you. She can approach me. 4# Women have too many options so you just give up 5# Women don't take men serious until they are in their late 30s when they are teens they wanna ride the cock carousel.

                    • AdvPalwasha khan
                      AdvPalwasha khan  22 hari yang lalu


                      • Darla Jokinen
                        Darla Jokinen  24 hari yang lalu

                        What if he just wants you for a friend with benefits and then ghost u ,?

                        • jasiaaj
                          jasiaaj  24 hari yang lalu

                          No matter what i do i attrack only assholes...

                          • ava constante
                            ava constante  27 hari yang lalu

                            after watching this video i understand why men doesn't pursue a relationship with me..im looking forward to that guy who would have the courage to accept and embrace me for who i am.thanks for this video!

                            • Maria Makinen
                              Maria Makinen  29 hari yang lalu

                              I'd choose not to be pursued by men, or do the thing myself. Physically, i feel in- between. In this state of an unclear libido, it makes no sense. At all. I hate most men.

                              • MrsQuietMusic
                                MrsQuietMusic  Bulan Yang lalu

                                This video is off-putting. I knew this already, but it still is off-putting.

                                • khoi huynh
                                  khoi huynh  Bulan Yang lalu

                                  The thing is why do you need to know because that person is not for you anyway

                                  • Denise van der Merwe
                                    Denise van der Merwe  Bulan Yang lalu

                                    I totally do 4 where I feel uncomfortable because the guys fall to fast and makes me want to bail. I totally get treated like number 5 as well, it makes me uncomfortable as well.

                                    • Earth Love Skin
                                      Earth Love Skin  Bulan Yang lalu

                                      This is good, but pro-man. It would only work with this caveat: if he makes it very apparent that he likes you for you, and is interested to get to know you as a person. Otherwise, if you apply this to a man not worthy of your value... You're risking to show all your cards and he's gonna think you're predictable and so into him. Very important is to match his level of investment - NO MATTER HOW NICE HE IS, DON'T GIVE HIM BOYFRIEND PRIVILEGES if he hasn't made you both exclusive.

                                      • Bold and Beautiful
                                        Bold and Beautiful  Bulan Yang lalu


                                        • Kenia Sharpe
                                          Kenia Sharpe  Bulan Yang lalu

                                          I’m jus gonna do me it’s not fair that men get to have all these quirks n us women gotta jus sit there n wait fuck that wit they confused ass i see y women turn gay

                                          • Kat Parks
                                            Kat Parks  2 bulan yang lalu

                                            Hell I haven't had a first date in years lol!

                                            • Sara D.
                                              Sara D.  2 bulan yang lalu

                                              Mens are complicate 🤯 I’m just gonna keep waiting for God to bring the right one into my life. He will know I’m the one when he sees me, and won’t have second guess about it.

                                              • Tania Richter
                                                Tania Richter  2 bulan yang lalu

                                                If a SPECIAL MAN makes you his target, And a 🚺 WOMAN😄💝😄Respond ssssssz to all his disires and PASSIONS its🎉🎈🎉 a COCKTAIL for 💘 LOVE and FIREWORKS🎉🎉💝😜😁😉😄🐺🐼🐰🐷🔤🐴🚜🎅

                                                • lotta lotta
                                                  lotta lotta  2 bulan yang lalu

                                                  Earn the right to be commited??? And then there are vids on how to get him to commit... how complicated men are exactly?

                                                  • Stiainin Beglan
                                                    Stiainin Beglan  2 bulan yang lalu

                                                    Wow. Ok, so lots of hate on men's egos. Oddly enough, I've been hearing about how fragile men's egos are since I was a little girl. I certainly don't know all the little manipulations to make or keep that ego benefiting me, but I sure know how true this aspect is. All you ladies throwing hate all over something that makes men what and who they are don't realize the negative affects of your own egos on them.

                                                    • Spooky Spectre
                                                      Spooky Spectre  2 bulan yang lalu

                                                      Thank you Matt for giving different origanal answers on this topic. So many other coaches say that the woman is not busy enough in her own life, or not responding the way the man needs to trigger his instinct to chase. Finally, you answers are around "what if its him? What if hes the one getting it wrong?" Thank you, thank thank you, for not wholly shaming the woman in this case. So refreshing!! 🙂❤💋

                                                      • yvette tworabbits L.
                                                        yvette tworabbits L.  3 bulan yang lalu

                                                        I like your videos. Thank you.

                                                        • dana morgan
                                                          dana morgan  3 bulan yang lalu

                                                          Wow you have sympathy:)

                                                          • Miss Kitty
                                                            Miss Kitty  3 bulan yang lalu

                                                            When a man stops chasing you it's because he has someone else who he thinks is better.

                                                            • Ji Li
                                                              Ji Li  3 bulan yang lalu

                                                              Maybe it's inbuilt for a man wanting to lead and provide. So let them do it.

                                                              • Scott Brown
                                                                Scott Brown  3 bulan yang lalu

                                                                As a guy, I’d say #4 is so true. If you come on too strong and fast out of the gate I will pull away because I think these things need time to develop and I don’t want either party to get hurt if things don’t work out early on.

                                                                • Lexie Mae
                                                                  Lexie Mae  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                  Men in America are like this. They have small 🍆. I live in Germany and the men are all 🍆 like a horse and they try so hard to please. Go to Europe ladies!! Germany, Egypt, Albania, England, it’s a big world!! And the men overseas are hotter, better in bed, always hard 😂, alphas but sweet. I’m 38 and couldn’t find a man in America and now I live in Germany and I can’t keep up with all the guys!

                                                                  • Lexie Mae
                                                                    Lexie Mae  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                    If you are looking for marriage go to Egypt, if you are looking for a big one go to Albania or Germany, if you want a romantic guy go to England and if you want drama go to Ireland 😂.

                                                                    • MrPhotic
                                                                      MrPhotic  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                      This comment section is hilarious. The women should clearly research more before saying there's no videos or attempts to know what a women wants & dating tips, its all over youtube and other sites. And this guy is so off the money, only a simp will act this way. Rules have changed in recent years due to Feminism and Hypergamy. Men have woken up to womens double standards while wanting equally at the same time, and they're now leaving.

                                                                      • jennifer
                                                                        jennifer  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                        If they found out your not sexy, too easy women for sex, and the guy is just playing around. And lastly they are stingy for a date and yeah some men are gold diggers

                                                                        • margaret johnson
                                                                          margaret johnson  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                          so glad i'm old and no man will ever look at me again. whew.

                                                                          • Shiela May Julianda
                                                                            Shiela May Julianda  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                            Just proofs that guys are narcissistic immature jerks. They always like girls to stroke their egos and their pride. They only like ideas of independent women but can't stand one when they already meet one.

                                                                            • Kaythia Star
                                                                              Kaythia Star  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                              I like watching fantasy videos. This dude must be on one of the coasts. Rural dudes are not like this and I wish they were. No dates for me cause I don't put up with My gun, my dog, my truck, and my beer. Men, as he describes, do not exist in the middle of the US or in the south of it. *6:40* Are you kidding me!!! Guys do this to women constantly! Neither side is right to do this, but that, what you just described, is MORE OFTEN seen in behavior in men than women! And Now, I am just losing it. You really should not have made this about 5 reasons MEN stop pursuing you. IT should have been Reasons another person does not pursue you romantically. Putting gender on this video was flamboyantly stupid because this shit goes both ways!

                                                                              • Juliana Ventura
                                                                                Juliana Ventura  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                But if he feels he is already selected, he might think that I fell in love, no?

                                                                                • silver girl816
                                                                                  silver girl816  4 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                  You are just too cute!!!!

                                                                                  • Ariel Rouissi
                                                                                    Ariel Rouissi  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                    Guys are not so kind to think wether they're going to hurt your feelings by any means.

                                                                                    • Cindy Lou
                                                                                      Cindy Lou  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                      Don't put out ladies!

                                                                                      • Elani Lorenzo
                                                                                        Elani Lorenzo  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                        Well, my problem is definitely number 4. Can you clarify the solution to number 4? I feel like it would be awkward to say it as bluntly as "you need to prove to me you can be my boyfriend."

                                                                                        • Free2016
                                                                                          Free2016  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                          All of this is true for women too. Friends - good guy whose got it together but no chemistry, hot guy - usually fun but irresponsible and immature, and the boyfriend/husband material.

                                                                                          • Rogie Beep
                                                                                            Rogie Beep  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                            be yourself and if he doesn't like you for you then he can fuck off. if you connect with someone you shouldn't have to think so much and walk on egg shells to win him. this is pure bullshit

                                                                                            • Rogie Beep
                                                                                              Rogie Beep  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                              basically fuck men

                                                                                              • Cocablitzhair Design
                                                                                                Cocablitzhair Design  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                Don't want that kind of man fragile ego.

                                                                                                • I am hello earth
                                                                                                  I am hello earth  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                  Wow I'm amazed at how many women struggle with men. If you were more open and receptive of the decent guys hitting on you, you would find a good guy between them... The problem most of you have is this idealistic image of your perfect man.

                                                                                                  • Venessa Callaghan
                                                                                                    Venessa Callaghan  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                    I think some of you ladies are missing his point. Why should women only need to feel special? Why shouldn't men? They are human too, last time I checked...

                                                                                                    • Venessa Callaghan
                                                                                                      Venessa Callaghan  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                      Mat gives us suggestions, and ways to get how men think. That is not to say he says be subserviant. It is just to say this is how guys are.

                                                                                                      • Venessa Callaghan
                                                                                                        Venessa Callaghan  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                        And for all those out there still single and tired of the b.s., please remember, you only get what you give. And if you have a CLEAR picture in your head heart and mind of what you are looking for, you WILL find it. It is up to YOU to visualize what YOU want.

                                                                                                        • Venessa Callaghan
                                                                                                          Venessa Callaghan  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                          Thank you so much for your ongoing videos! I still watch them, even though I am in the throes of an amazing new relationship with a sweet man who lives and loves to surprise me. Thank you, Matt!! I honestly would never have changed the mantra in my head about what I wanted if not for you. And ladies, if you have read this far, I wish I could show a pic of me an my man! Thanks again!!

                                                                                                          • Ms. Kitty
                                                                                                            Ms. Kitty  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                            My problem is that I tend to develop romantic feelings too quickly. :/ Like, I could talk to a guy for, about, a few minutes and already become attached.

                                                                                                            • Shirley Olvera
                                                                                                              Shirley Olvera  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                              Taking advice from someone who doesn’t know how to spell relationship “#4 inta-releationship” Lmfao

                                                                                                              • Happy Natsu
                                                                                                                Happy Natsu  5 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                Number Four: Tf no, no no no no. Don't do this, if I'm unsure, if I don't know if I want to be in the relationship don't pursue.

                                                                                                                • NarnianLady
                                                                                                                  NarnianLady  6 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                  Videos like this make me very sad, the dating scene these days is very damaging to both men and women. Life is too short for stupid games. The best advice about authentic, genuine relationships on YT is from Susan Winter. She speaks a lot about these things, and isn't setting one gender against the other.

                                                                                                                  • M Sherazi
                                                                                                                    M Sherazi  6 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                    Where are these straight men that truly just want a female friend? 😂

                                                                                                                    • Andrea Ali Boucas
                                                                                                                      Andrea Ali Boucas  6 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                      I appreciate you too! Good points! It's like you said one 'When you meet the guy for you it's easy.' And I've learnt you can't say the wrong thing to the right person. 😍 The three categories make sense!

                                                                                                                      • charleen hopkins
                                                                                                                        charleen hopkins  6 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                        ok it takes time to know what makes him standout

                                                                                                                        • Yohonna Brewer
                                                                                                                          Yohonna Brewer  6 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                          Damn this video made me realize that I'm friend zoned or guys are usually just attracted to me sexually 😂

                                                                                                                          • Bamboo Songs
                                                                                                                            Bamboo Songs  6 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                            How is it off-putting to men who think that women are in love with them too fast when it's the men who get upset with women for not being in love with them and not acting like we are in a relationship with them right away? It takes time to form a relationship and a true connection and to love someone but they fall in love too soon, not us.

                                                                                                                            • Repent and Believe
                                                                                                                              Repent and Believe  6 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                              Personally when I stop chasing after a woman. It's when I feel she is unintrested. I agree with some of your points. You're right I want to feel special to a woman too like you said and there are women who want you to make them feel special but they won't make you feel special.

                                                                                                                              • Robin Cameron
                                                                                                                                Robin Cameron  6 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                I just broke it off with a guy I really liked today. He wasn't a good planner and would always say something that screamed red flag...I realize now that there's someone out there that's better for me who will invest his time and energy into me. Just be single and happy :-)

                                                                                                                                • Fabienne Frölich
                                                                                                                                  Fabienne Frölich  7 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                  you are so cool! i love watching your funny yet informative videos! thank you!

                                                                                                                                  • Dashia James
                                                                                                                                    Dashia James  7 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                    If a man stops chasing a woman, usually means he only sees you as a friend, he feels that's not the woman isn't right for him, there's no point in chasing her or cuz ya'll dont have nothing in common or maybe you aren't giving him good sex !!

                                                                                                                                    • Doona Jhavier
                                                                                                                                      Doona Jhavier  8 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                      If the men are good he know who's the women for him not he playing games just for sex.

                                                                                                                                      • MrArbeter
                                                                                                                                        MrArbeter  8 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                        Yeh nah ignore these facts the biggest reason is the chasing stopped as soon as women backstabbed men with femenism and the metoo movement following up with alot of fake sexual assault charges against innocent men . And women youtube why men arent chasing anymore?

                                                                                                                                        • Zayed bin Sultan Al Nahyan
                                                                                                                                          Zayed bin Sultan Al Nahyan  8 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                          I rather lay tile and paint houses than chase women. I make $20,000 plus each job and it only takes me 3-4 days. When I spend 3-4 days with women I don't.

                                                                                                                                          • Emel Kent
                                                                                                                                            Emel Kent  8 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                            Great stuff. Thank you.

                                                                                                                                            • Kylie Harrison
                                                                                                                                              Kylie Harrison  9 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                              Guys are literally just a pain in the ass. They don’t text back, they have no thoughts in their heads, they aren’t romantic and seriously don’t make any effort with anything.

                                                                                                                                              • Just For Today
                                                                                                                                                Just For Today  9 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                Love this! So good to understand how to speak to men and how they operate! And my knowledge is paying off!! I am having great results.

                                                                                                                                                • Enigma The INFJ
                                                                                                                                                  Enigma The INFJ  9 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                  6:18 tho 😅😆😂

                                                                                                                                                  • Kylie J. Carrigan
                                                                                                                                                    Kylie J. Carrigan  10 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                    This guy and I went on 3 fantastic dates. We were very into each other or so I thought. We mutually decided to take things slow. We did not sleep together and we were both ok with that. Then all of a sudden, I was ghosted. I have no idea why. I was never too pushy or crazy and just went with the flow of things. I complemented him when when he did well, appreciated him and told him so, didn't expect too much too soon. I was just being myself which he said he found refreshing. He was even talking about going on a road trip together in the spring. I am in total shock. I did remove him from my Snapchat, FB and so forth because clearly he no longer has any interest in me. Obviously I'll get over it but I just don't get it. It's so incredibly confusing and frustrating.

                                                                                                                                                    • anawonka
                                                                                                                                                      anawonka  10 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                      Omg how true

                                                                                                                                                      • Kate Fisher
                                                                                                                                                        Kate Fisher  10 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                        Love your videos!!

                                                                                                                                                        • calistyle95
                                                                                                                                                          calistyle95  10 bulan yang lalu

                                                                                                                                                          I've been told I'm too independent... and it's intimidating... go figure...