How To Make Him Worry About Losing You - 5 Steps
- Published: 18 October 2017
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Make him worry about losing you...
Have you ever felt like you could "forget" to call your man - and he wouldn't even notice?
Do you feel like he's taking you for granted?
Wouldn't it be nice to make him worry for once about the relationship? And even better - make him worry that he might be losing YOU?
I'm pretty sure every woman has asked herself these questions at one time or another.
Knowing that someone misses you and is afraid of losing you is the ultimate power in relationships. And it's also a power you should be very careful of manipulating.
Look, I won't kid you - we all fantasize about this from time to time. Even guys.
It's easy to assume that the other person is always going to be there for you. Once a relationship starts, we all hope this means we don't have to worry about losing them, right?
I mean, we all want the peace and security of being in a stable relationship. The problem is when the guy doesn't tell you where he is, what he's doing, or who he's doing it with. Leaving you feeling unsure, and insecure.
Wouldn't it be great if you could make HIM worry about you for once...?
Well you can... And I'm going to show you 5 ways to make him worry about losing you...
And let me insert my little "Game Disclaimer" here:
I don't approve of game playing... but let's face it - ALL social interactions are a form of game playing. I show you how to do these things not to manipulate, but to leverage the power of healthy interactions to get the romantic results you want...
Good, let's get on with it:
TIP 1: Remind him of life without you...
A man will quickly forget how crappy it was without you. He'll forget in just a few days just how alone and sex-free his life was before you came into the picture.
So you should remind him on occasion. (Gratitude is forgotten quickly - but loss is felt right down the the bones.)
There are a ton of ways you can do this one:
- Make plans with your girlfriends on a night you usually spend with him. Be prepared for his best "sad little boy face." Let him pout it out. He needs a little incentive to remember what he's got.
- Be vague about plans you've got that don't include him. Let him wonder about where YOU are and what YOU are up to for once. Stop being so accountable for him.
- Stop answering his texts so quickly. Yeah, I know - he complains when YOU don't answer quickly, but when HE doesn't you get crickets.
Flirt with other guys. No, this does not constitute cheating on your part.
We all know women flirt. Flirting does not imply that you're a slut, either. What it does is remind him that you're not a possession - you're a subscription that is always up for renewal.
TIP 2: Stand up to him...
Here's something about guys you might not know:
The reason you don't get what you want from a man is usually because you're offering the OPTION to him.
Chances are, you've gotten used to communicating with women - where being firm and telling it like it is will get you thrown out of the group.
But this isn't how men work.
If you give a man an option, he'll take the one that works best for him. It's not selfishness, really. (Well, okay, it's a little bit selfish.) It's mostly about his convenience.
So in a relationship, it's very tempting to a woman to "go along to get along." Don't rock the boat, right?
Men respond to backbone in a woman.
We don't like pushy, annoying women. But we LOVE it when you challenge us.
Don't be so easygoing about your relationship. The nature of men is that we will simply take anything for granted that is handed to us.
Don't let things get TOO easy in your relationship.
Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP 3: Make him wonder...
Our imaginations are a fertile playground... It's easy to make someone wonder what you're up to.
Sometimes we do this by mistake... We forget an important date or event - or the time of some friend's party. And our absence is noted.
So right now I'm telling you that you need to intentionally forget your man a little bit. And make him wonder what's going on with you. It reminds him that he's not the be all, end all of your life.
For example, texting. Yeah, you know you do it.
Because texting is to a woman what ESPN is to a guy...
A way to feel connected. In touch with the "score" - if you will - of your priorities.
For men, that might be his pro football or basketball team.
For women, it's your relationships.
And the score is ESSENTIAL.
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