How To Make Him Worry About Losing You - 5 Steps

  • Published: 18 October 2017
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    Make him worry about losing you...

    Have you ever felt like you could "forget" to call your man - and he wouldn't even notice?

    Do you feel like he's taking you for granted?

    Wouldn't it be nice to make him worry for once about the relationship? And even better - make him worry that he might be losing YOU?
    I'm pretty sure every woman has asked herself these questions at one time or another.

    Knowing that someone misses you and is afraid of losing you is the ultimate power in relationships. And it's also a power you should be very careful of manipulating.

    Look, I won't kid you - we all fantasize about this from time to time. Even guys.

    It's easy to assume that the other person is always going to be there for you. Once a relationship starts, we all hope this means we don't have to worry about losing them, right?

    I mean, we all want the peace and security of being in a stable relationship. The problem is when the guy doesn't tell you where he is, what he's doing, or who he's doing it with. Leaving you feeling unsure, and insecure.

    Wouldn't it be great if you could make HIM worry about you for once...?

    Well you can... And I'm going to show you 5 ways to make him worry about losing you...

    And let me insert my little "Game Disclaimer" here:

    I don't approve of game playing... but let's face it - ALL social interactions are a form of game playing. I show you how to do these things not to manipulate, but to leverage the power of healthy interactions to get the romantic results you want...

    'Nuff said?

    Good, let's get on with it:

    TIP 1: Remind him of life without you...

    A man will quickly forget how crappy it was without you. He'll forget in just a few days just how alone and sex-free his life was before you came into the picture.

    So you should remind him on occasion. (Gratitude is forgotten quickly - but loss is felt right down the the bones.)

    There are a ton of ways you can do this one:

    - Make plans with your girlfriends on a night you usually spend with him. Be prepared for his best "sad little boy face." Let him pout it out. He needs a little incentive to remember what he's got.

    - Be vague about plans you've got that don't include him. Let him wonder about where YOU are and what YOU are up to for once. Stop being so accountable for him.

    - Stop answering his texts so quickly. Yeah, I know - he complains when YOU don't answer quickly, but when HE doesn't you get crickets.
    Flirt with other guys. No, this does not constitute cheating on your part.

    We all know women flirt. Flirting does not imply that you're a slut, either. What it does is remind him that you're not a possession - you're a subscription that is always up for renewal.

    TIP 2: Stand up to him...

    Here's something about guys you might not know:

    The reason you don't get what you want from a man is usually because you're offering the OPTION to him.

    Chances are, you've gotten used to communicating with women - where being firm and telling it like it is will get you thrown out of the group.

    But this isn't how men work.

    If you give a man an option, he'll take the one that works best for him. It's not selfishness, really. (Well, okay, it's a little bit selfish.) It's mostly about his convenience.

    So in a relationship, it's very tempting to a woman to "go along to get along." Don't rock the boat, right?


    Men respond to backbone in a woman.

    We don't like pushy, annoying women. But we LOVE it when you challenge us.

    Don't be so easygoing about your relationship. The nature of men is that we will simply take anything for granted that is handed to us.

    Don't let things get TOO easy in your relationship. 

    Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP 3: Make him wonder...

    Our imaginations are a fertile playground...  It's easy to make someone wonder what you're up to.

    Sometimes we do this by mistake... We forget an important date or event - or the time of some friend's party. And our absence is noted.

    So right now I'm telling you that you need to intentionally forget your man a little bit. And make him wonder what's going on with you. It reminds him that he's not the be all, end all of your life.

    For example, texting. Yeah, you know you do it.

    But why?

    Because texting is to a woman what ESPN is to a guy...

    A way to feel connected. In touch with the "score" - if you will - of your priorities.

    For men, that might be his pro football or basketball team.

    For women, it's your relationships.

    And the score is ESSENTIAL.

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Comments • 922

  • aljamar causey
    aljamar causey  1 years back

    I'll drop any broad who does any of this....listen to this man if you want to and you'll be wondering why A. You got left or B. Why you got cheated on by making him wonder too much so he just went and got his ducks in a row....quit playing these silly ass games

    • Zahra Abdullahi
      Zahra Abdullahi  1 years back

      Wow. This is phenomenally bad advice.

      • Gonna Stan
        Gonna Stan  1 years back

        Why am I here ?i even haven’t a boyfriend 😂😂😂

        • shawn felix
          shawn felix  1 years back

          lol i wonder how many happy homes u ruined

          • shawn felix
            shawn felix  1 years back

            flirting is cheating fyi

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              I found that a female led relationship really helped me with this because when women take the reigns we naturally have to increase confidence and our self worth has to be high. It helped me to change how he valued me and helped us to turn our relationship around from a disaster to passionate and much more intimate.

              • Harlem Sista soul
                Harlem Sista soul  1 years back

                Give him a taste of his own medicine

                • Vincent Mark
                  Vincent Mark  1 years back

                  Broke up with my girlfriend thinking she is not serious about me. Did not contact her for two weeks. a week later, i did an attraction spell which to my greatest surprise worked to perfection.. i contacted a man i met here on youtube (drphilipspelltemple@gmail. com) i really never thought i'd ever witness something like that, ever!!I did the glass of water manifestation technique as well.

                  • Siyethemba Mkhize
                    Siyethemba Mkhize  1 years back

                    Oh look, emotional manipulation!!!

                    • Jerry Morgan JR
                      Jerry Morgan JR  1 years back

                      This is mean to anyone.

                      • Chloe Brown
                        Chloe Brown  1 years back

                        Thank you. you are awesome

                        • twizzy wizzy
                          twizzy wizzy  1 years back

                          We all know women flirt!!??? I hate it when stereotypical assumptions are thrown about, I only flirt with other men when I'm single, then I can do what I like, but when I'm in a relationship I'm strictly only interested in that person, genuinely, I wouldn't give up my freedom of being single if I wasn't. I couldn't flirt with someone else because I'm into the one im with, maybe I'm old fashioned I don't know but I can't and don't want to be any other way, if I have to be just to get him to miss me then I guess I'm destined to be alone 😕

                          • Yemaya Seashell
                            Yemaya Seashell  1 years back

                            I don't know about the friend but the other part you accurate cuz I'm flirting could take him to some other stuff but your face is accurate than you saying thank you God bless you cuz you can't run on time if you did I'm so tired of his tiff for tap
                            God bless you

                            • Trending Newsfeed
                              Trending Newsfeed  1 years back

                              Is this really works?🤔

                              • Serel Ceyani
                                Serel Ceyani  1 years back

                                If a man wants to walk away just let him. No one is forced to be with anyone and we all have the freedom of choice. I will spend all my energy on me and my journey and he cant do the same

                                • April Stimson
                                  April Stimson  1 years back

                                  I just want out after 14 years, but I stay day in & day out for our daughter. 4 more years she'll turn 18 but she doesn't want to leave so I stay

                                  • Jennifer Zimmer
                                    Jennifer Zimmer  1 years back

                                    He's about to. Because I'm sick of his monitoring me and thinking I won't go forward. This is my last week in School, I'm graduating and going forward. If he does not show up, I'm not looking back.

                                    • elaine mckenzie
                                      elaine mckenzie  1 years back

                                      am not sure if am treating them too good but all they want is what I can do for them it always go bk to were it starts me been alone

                                      • elaine mckenzie
                                        elaine mckenzie  1 years back

                                        i totally love this it's what's happening to me now he is taking me for a door mat when I call dnt get him if he call and dnt get me it's a big problem am not sure were I stand in his life he finds excuse why he can't come to my house anymore

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                                          • Ghe Tobola
                                            Ghe Tobola  1 years back

                                            Thanks for advice

                                            • Simran Kaur
                                              Simran Kaur  1 years back

                                              He doesn't take any effort to start the conversation
                                              If i will not call him for 3 years , he will also not take any effort to call me for once

                                              • Vanessa Shern
                                                Vanessa Shern  1 years back

                                                terrible video if you're done playing games. you would feel like crap if a guy did this to you ladies. Such terrible advice

                                                • Nathalie Tobing
                                                  Nathalie Tobing  1 years back

                                                  Hi, i just discover your channel, and Wouah! very good! my english not so good, but a very important question for you: I'm loving somebody already whit a person (not married + shields) : this man argue frequently with his wife, ! He doesn't want a relationship with me (because as he told me, he has a house and seem complicate with children, more over, she has a very good social status) but he has already physical attraction with me. He refuse friendship not to be attached to me and maybe should falling in love for me ?! I see a man who has points in common with me but without regular dialogue I can't know him any more! I have done all what I can so that he can see me the most often when he gives lessons of sport. But now nothing advances and I'm tired always of doing everything! I'm very in love for him! What can I do , to provoque something that will make him want to invest more in me and learn to know me a little more ??And he told me he has done a choice but he even don't know me ?!?

                                                  • Vishal Mothilall -Art
                                                    Vishal Mothilall -Art  1 years back

                                                    Lol this is why relationships end

                                                    • Ruhe1986
                                                      Ruhe1986  1 years back

                                                      All of three would backfire and he would say "I can't trust you anymore. We are over."

                                                      • Time To Thrive
                                                        Time To Thrive  1 years back

                                                        From an open mans perspective, 1 or 2 of these are very good, most are Very bad and will cause more harm than good!

                                                        • Uvbi Obaseki
                                                          Uvbi Obaseki  1 years back

                                                          wow thanks
                                                          but how can you make a man so caring and lovely to you?

                                                          • Nicole
                                                            Nicole  1 years back

                                                            I have been married for 30 years and have been true my husbands abuses for looooooooonge Your amazing thanks for advice 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼Carlos you are awesome 👏

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                                                              Dulanjali Perera  1 years back

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                                                              • Ana Raposo
                                                                Ana Raposo  1 years back

                                                                You are so right about everything you said

                                                                • Veronica Pimentel
                                                                  Veronica Pimentel  1 years back

                                                                  I looked up the link he mentioned at the end... read the whole thing hoping it would finally give me the phrases for the " obsession switch" and it lead me to something saying for one small payment of $48 blah blah.... $48??? Not cool

                                                                  • synysterxdave
                                                                    synysterxdave  1 years back

                                                                    Wow that's healthy. Make the guy paranoid and weak at the thought of losing you rather than building a relationship on trust

                                                                    • twizzy wizzy
                                                                      twizzy wizzy  1 years back

                                                                      Hmm 'remember the little coy game you played when you first met him?, when you played it extra cool when you first started seeing him?'...erm, no. I didn't play any games, coy or otherwise, I didn't respond to him straight away or seem too keen because I wasn't in the beginning, I didn't have feelings for him then like I do now, why does it always have to be the game? I'm clearly rubbish at playing it, I don't want to play games, I just want my man to want me like I want him, and to feel secure in the knowledge that he really does love me too, is that really too much to ask? Do I really need to show him my worth by letting him know I could drop him if I chose coz others find me attractive too? Coz it would be so fake of me when that's not what I want him to think and not what I really think, I don't know, maybe I'm just not cut out for this relationship malarkey, lol, it's not and never has been how I felt it should be with anyone so maybe I should become celibate 😂

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                                                                        • Lindsey Hebert
                                                                          Lindsey Hebert  1 years back

                                                                          1,2,3 I am dealing with I feel like he is taking me for granted , I feel taken advantage of , 5 I wish I was adored I feel like I am losing my passion if he doesn’t respond does it mean he doesn’t like me he was a very nice guy that offered me commitment he says I was their sweet girl and was loyal and their #1

                                                                          • Jlees Dollies
                                                                            Jlees Dollies  1 years back

                                                                            I tried this and it got me into trouble... how do you handle a man that is too possessive?

                                                                            • italo latina
                                                                              italo latina  1 years back

                                                                              This helped so much. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

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                                                                                mitchelyn terona  1 years back

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                                                                                • SerialVapist
                                                                                  SerialVapist  1 years back

                                                                                  LOL "how to control your man 101" what a joke. have fun with your cucks ladies. that's all you have left now thanks to the #metoo movement and the feminist movement in general

                                                                                  • dafoufoune dorcin
                                                                                    dafoufoune dorcin  1 years back

                                                                                    Why he ask me for money so if I don’t give him the money he stop calling me

                                                                                    • HeatherJaKobe PhillipsFamily

                                                                                      Nd wat if he dont even care bout sex. Wat then...

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                                                                                        Quinton TV  1 years back

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