What He's Thinking When He Ignores You | Relationship Advice For Women By Mat Boggs

  • Published: 17 August 2017
  • Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women about what to do when a guy starts ignoring you, so you can stay empowered, confident, and love abundant!
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    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
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Comments • 2 575

  • Kristen Ferris
    Kristen Ferris  День назад

    If the guys I like pulls away I just think that he's really busy or is dealing with something that he's not quite ready to share just yet.

    • Emmeline Candy
      Emmeline Candy  День назад

      It hurts when he's no longer into you 😢

      • Emmeline Candy
        Emmeline Candy  День назад

        Thanks 😢😢😢

        • sha bhaois
          sha bhaois  3 дня назад

          Thank you!

          • Y R
            Y R  5 дней назад

            My strategy is , I go to the gym, unblock the hoes and go on a lot of dates 🤣is like they never existed.

            • Y R
              Y R  5 дней назад

              What if he was acting like the right guy and it was a natural flow but then he vanishes after something you did? I really thought he was the right guy because he was acting like he was .

              • Zanthe Louther
                Zanthe Louther  5 дней назад

                This is sooo accurate!

                • Serah שרח
                  Serah שרח  6 дней назад

                  When someone ignores me, I ignore them back. And when they come back with a bogus excuse, I play the high card. “oh yeah it’s been two weeks? I was also busy with my life.” Yalla Bye.

                  • Mottie Innis
                    Mottie Innis  6 дней назад

                    So right.. couldn’t agree less. 👍🏾✅

                    • Akvile Balta
                      Akvile Balta  6 дней назад

                      Thank You!

                      • Rachel McFarland
                        Rachel McFarland  9 дней назад

                        He's talking to someone more interesting and forgot you for the time being. Don't worry he will be back when the other one falls through. They always come back! Don't put all your eggs into one basket ladies. Always have backups!

                        • Trista Kerber
                          Trista Kerber  10 дней назад


                          • Ice Blue
                            Ice Blue  10 дней назад

                            Great advice, Matt.

                            • Jane Dabalos
                              Jane Dabalos  11 дней назад

                              Thank you so much Mat! Youre a gift❤

                              • joy gohring
                                joy gohring  11 дней назад

                                I like your video you should read the booked “Attached” it might help enhance what you are saying with greater clarity...about how we react when someone pulls away. GREAT BOOK!! And scientific.

                                • Anjie Domingo
                                  Anjie Domingo  12 дней назад

                                  Guys are attracted to women that has self-love, they’re respectful and not desperate to find love

                                  • Irene A.
                                    Irene A.  13 дней назад

                                    Very useful message in the video! Thank you:)

                                    • Irene A.
                                      Irene A.  13 дней назад

                                      But what if it was easy with a guy and it seemed like he is the one but suddenly all became hard and it's just nothing easy, so he is still not the right guy?

                                      • Chi Chi
                                        Chi Chi  13 дней назад

                                        thank you😍💋💗💃👆👏

                                        • Chi Chi
                                          Chi Chi  13 дней назад


                                          • Juwita Ita
                                            Juwita Ita  14 дней назад

                                            I fell down i got sick and though what did i do wrong. Now time for i love my self and move on whatever he does he can do. Bye my ex.

                                            • scripter09
                                              scripter09  14 дней назад

                                              This is true of friends, too!

                                              • ARMY's Second Life
                                                ARMY's Second Life  14 дней назад

                                                9:04 i really needed that

                                                • ters0513
                                                  ters0513  14 дней назад

                                                  Hi Mathew My bf ghost me after i have told him about a randomly guy who send me on social media..this guy send me a rude message and arogant i dont know this guy i blocked him after i told him off..so anyway i told my bf about this then the next day he started ignoring my txt and called he even blocked me deleted me on snapchat i dont what to do..im so frustrated abiut his action without talking to me..3 days after i being ignore i stop contacting him..never txt ir called him again..so im back off for now..its been 5 days with no Contact with him...I stil do my daily routine gym and work to keep my mind off from him.

                                                  • Mary swords
                                                    Mary swords  16 дней назад

                                                    I have been going thru that Mathew

                                                    • Camelia Ersando
                                                      Camelia Ersando  17 дней назад

                                                      I totally agree👍👍

                                                      • Connie Young
                                                        Connie Young  18 дней назад

                                                        I block them so they can't contact you. Its their issue if they choose to ignore you. I will make it forever😊

                                                        • Shuga Dar-lynn
                                                          Shuga Dar-lynn  19 дней назад

                                                          I play the game they play. TRUST ME, I'LL FIND A WAY TO BEAT THE MASTER AT HIS OWN GAME... HAVE DONE IT SEVERAL TIMES.

                                                          • MORE〈3
                                                            MORE〈3  19 дней назад

                                                            I let them go.

                                                            • Aife Ocubillo
                                                              Aife Ocubillo  24 дня назад

                                                              1. With the right guy, it's going to feel easy. 2. Match his level of investment 3. Focus forward

                                                              • LA Muel
                                                                LA Muel  24 дня назад

                                                                Oh hell we don't text about movies. Lol We talk about how we fit together , love together, sex together, play together. Education, values and morals, religion, goals, politics, life experience. FIgure it out the first three dates if it doesn't match or you can't live it ,just move on.

                                                                • Bettina De
                                                                  Bettina De  25 дней назад

                                                                  So goooooood :) thank you!

                                                                  • babygirl tess
                                                                    babygirl tess  25 дней назад

                                                                    Can someone please help. My boyfriend overthinks a lot and recently it got to the point where his overthinking takes control in a bad way he accuses me of doing stuff that I'm not. I need Help!! He said recenly he's deeply in love with me. Remind you He's also never done this b4. He's a great guy

                                                                    • sharon viquez
                                                                      sharon viquez  26 дней назад

                                                                      the first thing he said is sooooo true...when you are with the right guy it feels easy...that is exactly what I felt with my husband and we have been together for 20 years...

                                                                      • Rai Cosp
                                                                        Rai Cosp  27 дней назад

                                                                        When I dont get the attention I deserve from him, I think this "treat others the way you want to be treated". It was hard when I realized that this guy was not as into me as I was. With that phrase I understood that I needed to date or to talk to other guys who do prioritize me. I invest time and effort and If I dont get the same treatment... Im not asking not as much but at least a lil, minimal concern from them towards me, then I say, I cant waste more time, I need to move on. Even if I dont want to cus I like that person.

                                                                        • LaChainedeVaime
                                                                          LaChainedeVaime  27 дней назад

                                                                          I had to hear thid

                                                                          • Nicki Daisy Reddwoodd
                                                                            Nicki Daisy Reddwoodd  27 дней назад

                                                                            Romance is a carnal attraction. It can in very rare cases contain also real love but that only happens with people who have a strong compassion center in the brain. Haha. My recommendation to women out there is to keep relationships open even in marriage. I would tell my sugar hubby to screw the other ladies anywhere else other than in the home that he and I share and to take a shower and put new clothes on before coming home again. I will do the same. Then we can all be happy. Nobody owns another living being like a piece of furniture.

                                                                            • Mary Rebecca Israel
                                                                              Mary Rebecca Israel  8 дней назад

                                                                              No one listen to this lady. Shes is settling and asking for aid, herpes or STDs. Standards.

                                                                              • Nicki Daisy Reddwoodd
                                                                                Nicki Daisy Reddwoodd  27 дней назад

                                                                                But romance is not love. It's a common misunderstanding. What Tom Ford has with his partner is true love I use this as an example because they are two men. Tom is super attractive also to women and his partner is a very feminine man who looks very kindhearted and artistic. So their love is not that much based on vanity and much more on mind which is real love. My love for my dog Dave is real love. A person taking care of an injured owl that is real love.

                                                                                • Tina Maselli
                                                                                  Tina Maselli  Месяц назад

                                                                                  Why do we have to played when they know very well that we like them ignores damn it all I'm am awesome 👍 epic but guess I'm ether to good or not always treated them right damn it all

                                                                                  • Kayotic217
                                                                                    Kayotic217  Месяц назад

                                                                                    🤣 Hayoooo🙋‍♀️ Just as Poppy stated many moons ago IF he is interested - HE will be!

                                                                                    • Trisha Dibiase
                                                                                      Trisha Dibiase  Месяц назад

                                                                                      Great refocus!!! loved this, we get so caught up in fearful thoughts and rejection we fail to to clearly. thank you

                                                                                      • Charmagne Sumalde
                                                                                        Charmagne Sumalde  Месяц назад

                                                                                        I message him he reply but he delete immediately i did not read the message what does it mean? but i never message him again.. I just met him exchange number hang out good conversation... after few days

                                                                                        • Lonely Heart
                                                                                          Lonely Heart  Месяц назад

                                                                                          Good information, for those who are new in dealing relationship. I hope i can apply them to me just in case the time comes😊

                                                                                          • Miriam Capistrano
                                                                                            Miriam Capistrano  Месяц назад

                                                                                            All your saying is true and thank you I learn something thank

                                                                                            • Hellnogizmo
                                                                                              Hellnogizmo  Месяц назад

                                                                                              If I didn't message a man for a whole week cause he didn't msg me, I wouldn't care if he didn't text at all. Lol.

                                                                                              • Janett Gonzalez
                                                                                                Janett Gonzalez  Месяц назад

                                                                                                I dated someone .. 2 females. Love is love. Said she met what she has been waiting for for 10 yrs.. Then said that on day 10 & 11 they realized that we weren't in the same place. It was insane from such a smart and professional person. I mean they said l was everything. Even met her family...Only kissed. I can't figure it out..l haven't heard from her.. Never in my life...said wants to be my friend..That l am beautiful etc...l told her a friend is possible but NO BENIFOTS...Was quiet...She seems so immature and lt was by phone. Beyond Confused and turned off

                                                                                                • Julia Manalo
                                                                                                  Julia Manalo  Месяц назад

                                                                                                  gossh!!! i'll JZ LOVE MYSELF..---WHY INSIST MYSELF TO SOMEONE WHO IGNORES ME! ..this' the thing---"if he do ignores [email protected] HE's the TENDENCY TO DO IT ALWAYS---it's ATTITUDE!!! ..there's lot men to think about of..why settle to one who knows how to IGNORE---SOOO CHILDISH!!! SORRY!!! am not into such kind of guy!

                                                                                                  • Hyacinth Tiffany Jungco
                                                                                                    Hyacinth Tiffany Jungco  Месяц назад

                                                                                                    Crazy. He won't text me for 3-5 hours then I begin to overthink and be on my detective mode. LOL

                                                                                                    • Cara M.
                                                                                                      Cara M.  Месяц назад

                                                                                                      If a guy is hurt" from the emotions of a breakup" he will ignore a women // TOO

                                                                                                      • Phoenix Gomes
                                                                                                        Phoenix Gomes  Месяц назад

                                                                                                        You have no idea how much ur video has helped me! Thanks a lot🙏

                                                                                                        • robin proctor
                                                                                                          robin proctor  Месяц назад

                                                                                                          when a man ignores me, i just turn around, and walk away.Never looking back, or going back.Within myself, if you do not want me around, then say so. If you want some one else, then say so.Do not try and lie to me, for i can read your body, movements, looking at your watch, phone, and avoiding eye contact with my eyes.Because you are telling on your self.Remember what you are telling me at all times.Telling me one thing, then later telling me some thing else.Let me tell you about a real woman,she never forgets.WE have a memory, that never fails.Never take a woman to the places, that you have taken others.Because others will be there, looking for you, just to see , why you have not called me. WHen, a man takes you to his places, where he can brag about himself, beware. he is just making himself feel good.So, do not go to your own personal places, instead find your new place for the two of you.Why?. Because no one will know you.Its like, knowing a place where you both can go, knowing no one else knows.Most important, do not become an L O VE G I R L? Legs that open easily, no when he really cares, he will not ask.Take one step at a time.You have to teach men to respect you, if you do not they will not.Sit down by yourself, write down he things you want in a man, things you do not.Compare them, the answers are staring back at you.Remember, you are beauitful, smart, loving, caring, and you are sitting on a pot of gold,Beware of the miners, you let in.? Blessings to all.Robin

                                                                                                          • Rose Chen
                                                                                                            Rose Chen  Месяц назад

                                                                                                            This is the 1st time I watched your video, I absolutely like it.

                                                                                                            • Crystal Grose
                                                                                                              Crystal Grose  Месяц назад

                                                                                                              Great video Mathew!

                                                                                                              • Crystal Grose
                                                                                                                Crystal Grose  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                The right guy won't ignore you.

                                                                                                                • Jemila Ahmed
                                                                                                                  Jemila Ahmed  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                  Thank you so much❤❤❤

                                                                                                                  • Nina Nickel
                                                                                                                    Nina Nickel  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                    He likes the other girl at the gym and it’s obvious why.

                                                                                                                    • Tamika Nelson
                                                                                                                      Tamika Nelson  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                      My bf was on top of his game initially & tried to maintain but he started to have severe issues in his business & started stressing about it, then a significant death in his family. He isn't in the clear yet...should I be understanding or leave?

                                                                                                                      • Nikki Doe
                                                                                                                        Nikki Doe  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                        Pull away from me and 😘 kiss my beanie weenies FOR GOOD! DON'T E V E R LOOK BACK!

                                                                                                                        • Cindy Langit
                                                                                                                          Cindy Langit  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                          I don't do anything if he pulls away. I'm dealing with it right now. I just focus on trying to improve myself and doing things I enjoy. It sucks but oh well. It is what it is you cant make someone like you.

                                                                                                                          • blue bunny
                                                                                                                            blue bunny  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                            Don't know why it always takes me so long to process but I finally decided yesterday to just let him go. He chased and love bombed me for a year morning and night and then when I decided to give him my heart he went cold in an instant! All I asked for was honesty and told him it was fine to change his mind about me.... He couldn't give me that. I would never treat someone this way and be so cruel and wreckless with their feelings....He will never know my past and the courage it took for me to open up and let him in and he obliterated that trust......

                                                                                                                            • Jinrim
                                                                                                                              Jinrim  Месяц назад


                                                                                                                              • Nsubuga Nagadya
                                                                                                                                Nsubuga Nagadya  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                Match their level of investment

                                                                                                                                • Анастасия Сорокина
                                                                                                                                  Анастасия Сорокина  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                  Mathew, I love your channel! You give me all the advice I need at the right timing! I wish you all the best and I keep watching your amazing videos. You do a great job for us women. Keep it up please😉😉😉

                                                                                                                                  • Nina Rochelle
                                                                                                                                    Nina Rochelle  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                    I love this!😀😄😅 I needed this the other day!

                                                                                                                                    • Michaela Cannon
                                                                                                                                      Michaela Cannon  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                      Work work work!

                                                                                                                                      • Sky Schofield
                                                                                                                                        Sky Schofield  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                        Too funny! Love your sense of humor but true😜

                                                                                                                                        • Syrena Xhaferi
                                                                                                                                          Syrena Xhaferi  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                          some men do reverse psychology stuff too....they will ignore and pester and ignore and pester ....i dont call ignore him and then he pesters me...he is annoyed though and rude....If i can see your game, which i can ..ill have to wait until your done with the games...the end....i dont act ...im a real person

                                                                                                                                          • Syrena Xhaferi
                                                                                                                                            Syrena Xhaferi  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                            yah we think about it and then move the heck on......another annoying child man playing games ....lame

                                                                                                                                            • Kiki Anoh
                                                                                                                                              Kiki Anoh  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                              Hey, there's something I don't understand about men. My boyfriend and I started off great in our relationship and all of a sudden his mode changed towards me. He doesn't text me like he uses so I was trying to figure out what I did that triggered this silent treatment he's given me. He keeps sending me pictures of what he is doing and also kept saying he is being trying to call me and not getting through. I am so nervous and stressed out because this is someone I really care about. What should I do in this case?

                                                                                                                                              • Everybunnyloves Somebunny
                                                                                                                                                Everybunnyloves Somebunny  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                                Pull away when the man pulls away

                                                                                                                                                • Everybunnyloves Somebunny
                                                                                                                                                  Everybunnyloves Somebunny  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                                  Match the level of interest they are exhibiting.

                                                                                                                                                  • Darcy Marie Druck Tcb
                                                                                                                                                    Darcy Marie Druck Tcb  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                                    Why is it ok for him to ignore me but when he texts me and I don't reply right away, he gets mad?? So unfair!! If a guy ignores me, he is DONZO. I don't deserve that treatment or will tolerate it. His loss. I'll ignore him right back. Period.

                                                                                                                                                    • Ten Veils
                                                                                                                                                      Ten Veils  Месяц назад

                                                                                                                                                      He pulled back and I pulled back and another guy started to push up and he's NOTHING like the guy that pulled back so it's frustrating when you like a person that doesn't completely pour into you. All I know is that it all sucks because when you like a particular person everybody that starts to pull up seems more and more different than the guy you like and for me realizing how different and unique guys are can make one feel sad and lonely. You can have three men that you date but you will connect a special way to just one and if he pulls away it just sucks having to start over Day 1 with a new interest especially one who doesn't like anything the guy you liked was interested in. The new guy is interested in a completely different sport, different style of music, different everything yet he's attracted to you. I just feel like it's playing Jenga. Move the wrong piece and the foundation is destroyed. I always hated that stupid game. I hate relationship games too. If you never played Jenga you are missing NOTHING!!!!

                                                                                                                                                      • Tonya Rich
                                                                                                                                                        Tonya Rich  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                                        What does it mean when a guy tells you that he wishes that y'all had more History?

                                                                                                                                                        • K B
                                                                                                                                                          K B  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                                          My focus is my child and God! Excellent advice 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I deserve better🙌🏾