How To Flirt! 3 Proven Flirting Techniques Men Can't Resist | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

  • Published: 02 May 2019
  • Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 3 feminine flirting techniques your man simply won't be able to resist!
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    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
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Comments • 180

  • Ciara Boyle
    Ciara Boyle  5 ore fa

    I love it ? X!!!

    • Jess Jess
      Jess Jess  Giorno fa

      Some advice I would give: Laugh or smile in a warm way a bit more. I'm a bit small as in I have extremely small hands and I'm a little short so I always use things about me to my advantage. Usually I try to measure my hands with theirs when we are really close since my hands are small. I always move in close when he's talking and focus completely on him. I think guys that like you want to be your center of attention. So I always listen to them talk first or ask them intriguing questions since I'm a bit of an introvert. Then I NEVER touch my phone and I just focus in on them completely and make sure to react well. Like saying wow and really and getting wide eyed or smiling. And if I like the guy it is usually a genuine thing. Another trick to make them feel special is to look at them thoughtfully while they look away then when they look back kind of act like you didn't want them to see you looking at them and look away shyly. Another thing is just complimenting the alot. That sounds like a given especially if I like someone like right now but what I mean is compliment them on something that is not really obvious or something they may be insecure about but you like. Like I am seeing a guy I really like right now so I always tell him how he has nice hands and a nice nose. Or I'll tell him I like his sense of style or his voice. His ears or his neck. Stuff like that. Doesn't have to be physical. I think it mostly depends on the guy you likes personality. If you have more of a dominant or sarcastic personality which I dont usually try to watch your words and actions. Try to soften them because he too may be nervous about you. Or he may be wondering about what you think of him. Edit: I'm not a cold deceiving person I'm just saying some stuff guys I've dated have said they like that I do. It's not really a strategy for me just something they tend to like about me. 😂

      • Leopard Lily
        Leopard Lily  2 giorni fa

        Sexy cute body language, flash sweet smiles using the eyes, make him laugh tell jokes, be kind, compliment his amazing qualities :)

        • Leopard Lily
          Leopard Lily  2 giorni fa

          Aw I’m assuming that is your wife... she’s so lovely & beautiful ❤️

          • Maria West
            Maria West  3 giorni fa

            OMG flirtings Drives me crazy

            • LA Muel
              LA Muel  3 giorni fa

              Help , I do I get rid of boyfriends ,I have too many. I generally ask him how many monsters he slayed today?

              • Patricia Pinti
                Patricia Pinti  6 giorni fa

                Hello Mr. Boggs, I'm watching all of your videos from Italy😊🤗 I was wondering if your research and your tips are universal? Doesn't culture or ethnicity play a role on the effectiveness of your tips? Thwnk you in advance and lots of greetings from Italy

                • gioovannabp
                  gioovannabp  6 giorni fa

                  I’m going to my date acting like a Disney movie character 100% successful

                  • Mary Kathleen Sapp
                    Mary Kathleen Sapp  7 giorni fa

                    And so playful!!!!

                    • Sandy Lexi
                      Sandy Lexi  7 giorni fa

                      Palm reading my ass...wait til I smack that big fat ass!!! 😂😂😂

                      • Mila
                        Mila  7 giorni fa

                        I am too shy to do the first one. I can prob do the 2nd one, but third... idk maybe if I am felling comfortable already.... :(

                        • brandi bishop
                          brandi bishop  8 giorni fa

                          😂😂During the palm reading he stares down her shirt at her cleavage like 😍 but pretends to look at their hands 😂👏👍❤

                          • Mary Kathleen Sapp
                            Mary Kathleen Sapp  7 giorni fa

                            Want him to watch your hands? Watch how revealing you blouse is..

                            • HerSupreme
                              HerSupreme  12 giorni fa

                              “Feminine position” slightly below him.... yuck

                              • Aria
                                Aria  19 giorni fa

                                1. The "Kiss me now." 2. The non-sequitur. 3. The fake palm read.

                                • Gyo Truth
                                  Gyo Truth  20 giorni fa

                                  Reading palm is a No No for christians. .... just saying.

                                  • Donna Williams
                                    Donna Williams  27 giorni fa

                                    The palm reading was actually cheesy!

                                    • Neon_Green
                                      Neon_Green  27 giorni fa

                                      Well for me being a shortie does that mean I'm accidentally flirting with a guy from #1...?

                                      • Carol Jones
                                        Carol Jones  Mese fa

                                        I really enjoy your dating advice.Love your personality. I will have to try Palm reading.

                                        • oraigan o
                                          oraigan o  Mese fa

                                          Literally someone has done the palm reading thingy on me Omgg

                                          • AdamRadz Sinclair

                                            i will always asked for birth date.. and i will describe him.. and tell him seems like i know you bla bla bla.. i can use it turn them off as well by saying my zodiac sign not compatible with this (your) signs and this sign annoyed me so much.. 😁😁

                                            • Alana Fulvio
                                              Alana Fulvio  Mese fa

                                              holdng the gaze and the small smile and blink and eye contact

                                              • Aditi Mukhopadhyay

                                                Please make a video for those who are in long distance relationship..

                                                • Scar Letto
                                                  Scar Letto  Mese fa

                                                  I laugh so hard on the palm reading but definitely going to try it..lucky, I do can read it a bit..

                                                  • Jessica Morales
                                                    Jessica Morales  Mese fa

                                                    you guys are sooooo funny. I cannot stop laughing. I hope I can be so daring as you tought to us!!!

                                                    • PinkMuffin
                                                      PinkMuffin  Mese fa

                                                      I'm just really positive. Worked out for me. When I'm comfortable with a guy, I paint my nails for the second Date (nothing to crazy but noticable) and 6 out of seven guys made a Comment on it. I then ask them if they know why i like them long. I always say "My cat absolutely loves when I scratch her like that" and then i carress either their neck or their arm (depending on how much i like him yet). Sounds straight forward but never failed me.

                                                      • Анастасия Сорокина

                                                        Matthew, your voice is so seductive😉

                                                        • Amelia Myers
                                                          Amelia Myers  2 mesi fa

                                                          Thought I was about to watch a porno during the palm reading part 😋

                                                          • Julie Coffman
                                                            Julie Coffman  6 giorni fa


                                                            • Zinnia Hardy
                                                              Zinnia Hardy  2 mesi fa

                                                              New subbie💙😁

                                                              • Tracy Williams
                                                                Tracy Williams  2 mesi fa

                                                                I just give him the look.

                                                                • Evgenia Mikheeva
                                                                  Evgenia Mikheeva  2 mesi fa

                                                                  Mmm...if the guy was telling me smth he's passionate about then I'd better listen to him than give him that absent minded look and say smth off topic, no? I just imagined myself sharing things and him half listening I would be disappointed))...Palm reading is fantastic, there's a scene in Jane Eyre movie where Mr Rochester dressed as an old gipsy is reading Jane's palm in a library, one of the most romantic and lovely scenes indeed!

                                                                  • Keara  B
                                                                    Keara B  2 mesi fa

                                                                    Ok..ok.. Get it Wifey.. I need more tips from her😂😂she's BEAUTIFUL!!

                                                                    • Rachel McNicol
                                                                      Rachel McNicol  2 mesi fa

                                                                      😮 I've just realised why men think I fancy them when I dont. I do no.1 all the time around all men cus I'm nervous around guys I dont know.

                                                                      • Sam Ready
                                                                        Sam Ready  2 mesi fa

                                                                        I cringed so much at the palm reading

                                                                        • Amaka Onyesoh
                                                                          Amaka Onyesoh  2 mesi fa

                                                                          What should i do if my bf cheats on me?

                                                                          • isabella Rose
                                                                            isabella Rose  2 mesi fa

                                                                            You should leave you deserve better

                                                                            • Kimberly Foster
                                                                              Kimberly Foster  2 mesi fa

                                                                              The glasses off and between the lips while reading the menu and off course the running finger across the margarita glass to lick salt off my finger.

                                                                              • jazz girl
                                                                                jazz girl  2 mesi fa

                                                                                No lies told.

                                                                                • Anelise Bugalho
                                                                                  Anelise Bugalho  2 mesi fa

                                                                                  I used the "fake palm read" technique twice on two different dates and it worked! Guys get really relaxed and laugh a lot when you touch them gently and be silly. Totally recommended 👍😄

                                                                                  • Sherrytza Sherrytza
                                                                                    Sherrytza Sherrytza  2 mesi fa

                                                                                    My strategy is a bit more subtle(sneaky even? - but I don't feel guilty at all). I'd normally pick a very serious, non sexy topic(kids in Africa, physics, tax, whatever) speak quieter and move in reaaaly close. So close that he can feel my body heat though there's no touch.(appart from a few "accidental" little touches that I always apologise for). So close that my static hair would stick to his cheek, as we sit side by side. Poor guy would feel bit ashamed for his thoughts while I'm on about serious stuff and have no ideea that's me flirting. If they like me they would be looking forward for a more light-hearted moment to make a move. They'll think it was all their idea. 😁😅

                                                                                    • Sherrytza Sherrytza
                                                                                      Sherrytza Sherrytza  2 mesi fa

                                                                                      Ew, first one is bad... Who wants to be the woman looking up with big teary eyes, like a dog begging for attention. Not me.

                                                                                      • truending
                                                                                        truending  2 mesi fa

                                                                                        Ahahaha is your strategy to ask him to kiss you? Very smart!

                                                                                        • Milena Perez
                                                                                          Milena Perez  3 mesi fa


                                                                                          • Chris A
                                                                                            Chris A  3 mesi fa

                                                                                            Matthew this is been so helpful I'm a woman in my late 50s . I decided to try one of the techniques the person I'm very interested in glancing at his lips but just a few seconds I don't know if you know this but I did and we had a wonderful conversation

                                                                                            • Kimberly Ritchie
                                                                                              Kimberly Ritchie  3 mesi fa

                                                                                              Thanks so much for another great video Matt! I will try your suggestions, and we'll see what happens, wish me luck!

                                                                                              • Debra Smothers
                                                                                                Debra Smothers  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                I need Help I have played with my hair that didn't work, I wear Sexy Tank Top with no bra on that didn't work what the hell am I doing wrong ?

                                                                                                • Belinda Melvaine
                                                                                                  Belinda Melvaine  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                  Going back and watching Disney movies for dating tips! 😂

                                                                                                  • SongOfGrace
                                                                                                    SongOfGrace  Mese fa

                                                                                                    I'm surprised he skipped the "do me eyes" in The Lion King.

                                                                                                    • Rebeca Rojas
                                                                                                      Rebeca Rojas  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                      I tried the palm reading...and he loved it..:) in fact keep asking for

                                                                                                      • skucha
                                                                                                        skucha  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                        🤣🤣🤣🤣 Im dying who would have told me I could learn flirting moves from disney

                                                                                                        • Esperanza Hernandez
                                                                                                          Esperanza Hernandez  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                          Flirt??? What is that??

                                                                                                          • anastasiya *
                                                                                                            anastasiya *  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                            Devil's invention

                                                                                                            • Egle Davidsoniene
                                                                                                              Egle Davidsoniene  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                              My flirting technic wors then yours in this video. Bad for me.

                                                                                                              • Cindiy Alvarez
                                                                                                                Cindiy Alvarez  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                My brain farted

                                                                                                                • JetBlackBerry
                                                                                                                  JetBlackBerry  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                  Idk, that palm reading thing looks kind of retarded

                                                                                                                  • Prolific One
                                                                                                                    Prolific One  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                    When i flirt I’ll compliment him while giving eye contact and smile afterwards. Another way i flirt is by touching his hands or grabbing them. Sometimes ill sneak in my hug and gently pull his arm when going opposite directions after hugging. 😉

                                                                                                                    • Rose Garcia
                                                                                                                      Rose Garcia  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                      I find I draw people close to me when I laugh wholeheartedly at what they say. Men, women, children....

                                                                                                                      • moonucky hellen
                                                                                                                        moonucky hellen  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                        I say" its very hot here" to him usually it's's fun he tries to cool me off but im talking about him

                                                                                                                        • awdah homud
                                                                                                                          awdah homud  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                          you really incredible...⚘

                                                                                                                          • Michelle Mendoza
                                                                                                                            Michelle Mendoza  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                            Loved this video. Lol

                                                                                                                            • First Trillionaire
                                                                                                                              First Trillionaire  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                              You ARE AMAZING

                                                                                                                              • Ciara Boyle
                                                                                                                                Ciara Boyle  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                Wow oh wow let me at Him !!

                                                                                                                                • Ketty Cabrera
                                                                                                                                  Ketty Cabrera  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                  I love the hand reading technique!! Please more of this concrete actions, also for texting 🤗 I’m dating a marine and he’s away so I need texting techniques hahaha

                                                                                                                                  • لمى الشريف
                                                                                                                                    لمى الشريف  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                    The Disney part is hilarious!😂

                                                                                                                                    • FluffyCakes Lives
                                                                                                                                      FluffyCakes Lives  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                      Hehehe!!! I used that palm reading flirt about 5 years ago! My partner adored it so much that now he gets turned on when I start caressing his palm!😊

                                                                                                                                      • marian arguelles
                                                                                                                                        marian arguelles  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                        I will do this to my man. Omg I can't wait to try it!!!!

                                                                                                                                        • Heidi Stotz
                                                                                                                                          Heidi Stotz  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                          I kind of combine your first two. When we're both laughing at something and maybe I playfully pushed him like... "Stop it. You're too funny." I do the look and the grin, tilt my head to the side all innocent and ask... "Are you ever going to kiss me?" Timing is perfect. It's almost always stellar. I'm definitely incorporating the palm reading one next time though... I'll say... "This line says a girl you like wants you to kiss her." or... "This line says you're a great kisser but I'm not so sure." Also near the end of a date I don't want to end I ask... So what time do you turn into a pumpkin? Idk... The guys think that's cute. 💁

                                                                                                                                          • FacciaBella5
                                                                                                                                            FacciaBella5  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                            Ive done the kiss me now look without knowing it. It definitely works lol😉

                                                                                                                                            • Dilly Dalie
                                                                                                                                              Dilly Dalie  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                              oh no way in hell.... no reason to try to find a man, it is so much better to be single. Hassle free life, Freedom, and no money lost, live your life for yourself...!!!!!!!

                                                                                                                                              • Kavita Malhotra
                                                                                                                                                Kavita Malhotra  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                Praising him for small things he do, talking about his achievements..

                                                                                                                                                • Pisces In love
                                                                                                                                                  Pisces In love  3 mesi fa


                                                                                                                                                  • Chiara L
                                                                                                                                                    Chiara L  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                    Hey Mat! So I've been watching your videos for a while now and they've really helped me. Awesome work! But I also have a question about this guy I've known for 6 months already. I'm 100% sure that he's in love with me, because we text all the time but I don't know when or if he'll ever ask me to be together with him. He constantly keeps telling my friends that "he'll ask me out soon" but now i'm just not sure. what do i do? i need answers please. Love your work, greetings from Austria.

                                                                                                                                                    • Ligeia D.Aurevilly
                                                                                                                                                      Ligeia D.Aurevilly  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                      Take a little bit of distance. Change your attitude. Get busy. Let him miss you. Usually that works. If you do have friends in common, you can always ask then to talk with him. But I would use distance. Mostly, it works wonders

                                                                                                                                                      • Jiexi Ai
                                                                                                                                                        Jiexi Ai  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                        I was awkward watching you flirt with your wife!😂

                                                                                                                                                        • Ciara Boyle
                                                                                                                                                          Ciara Boyle  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                          4:10 very cheeky

                                                                                                                                                          • Ciara Boyle
                                                                                                                                                            Ciara Boyle  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                            Oh my goodness

                                                                                                                                                            • CoQueen
                                                                                                                                                              CoQueen  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                              Do you have an email address you can be reached at?

                                                                                                                                                              • Sheila Diane
                                                                                                                                                                Sheila Diane  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                                It always work we look into each others eyes kiss everytime We love kissing

                                                                                                                                                                • Rebecca Hoffmann
                                                                                                                                                                  Rebecca Hoffmann  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                                  Very Beautiful wife. Incorporate her in your videos..she's very relatable

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                                                                                                                                                                    • Lana L
                                                                                                                                                                      Lana L  3 mesi fa

                                                                                                                                                                      What does it mean if he grabs my neck from behind and squeezes it lightly while telling me something? I mean I never saw anyone do that I am confused haha