How To Turn Men On | Relationship Advice For Women by Mat Boggs

  • Published: 10 August 2017
  • Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women about how to turn men on and keep things exciting in the bedroom ;-) SUBSCRIBE!
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    5 Things Never to Say When Fighting (How To Communicate)
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    7 (FALSE!) Reasons You?re Still Single
    Funny First Date Story! Gotta hear this?
    What NOT to do on a First Date (Strange But True)
    Why he acts interested, then disappears?(The inside answer most don?t know)
    Scared of getting hurt again? Use this mindset?
    When Should You Sleep With Him?
    The Kind of Confidence Men Find Sexy
    5 Unusual Signs Your Man is into You!
    How to tell if he is emotionally available
    3 Affirmations to Attract Love
    3 Ways to Create More Self-Love
    Uncool is the New Cool (5 ?Uncool? Things I Do)
    Mat Boggs Bio:
    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
    As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
    Mat?s Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
    As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!
    Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.
    If you?re interested in receiving help attracting love or improving your relationship click here:

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    Dating Advice For Women
    Relationship Advice For Women
    Relationship Coach For Women
    Dating Coach For Women
    Dating, Relationships, understanding men, Dating Advice, Love Advice Relationship Advice, How Men Think, What Men Want, What attracts men, How to attract a man, how to create lasting love, how to know if he likes you, signs your man likes you.

Comments • 239

  • Mathew Boggs
    Mathew Boggs   2 il əvvəl

    Hey ladies! Here's the link to the free eBook "5 Feminine Qualities High Value Men Find Irresistible --

    • Stephenie Messer
      Stephenie Messer  10 ay əvvəl

      Your heart makes a person sexy

      • elma aparece
        elma aparece  Il əvvəl

        wowwwww what an amazing vlog.....u make our lives alive! tsuppppp

        • Lilliemai Parker
          Lilliemai Parker  Il əvvəl

          Mathew Boggs what makes me sexy? is EVERYTHING about me!!!! I gotta go look up this movie now!!! when Harry met Sally... I'm on it now😉

          • Elizabeth L
            Elizabeth L  Il əvvəl

            Mathew Boggs you're the best!

            • Sharon Fleming
              Sharon Fleming  Il əvvəl

              Mathew Boggs why dont i care about sex? And i find all that stuff that turn men on really stupid.

              • babyaquino sal
                babyaquino sal  7 saat əvvəl

                I'm feel sexy..when i sang a rock n roll songs while in a motion...

                • Cat Raisor
                  Cat Raisor  3 gün əvvəl

                  Not true I'm always turned on

                  • Healthy Bio Solutions
                    Healthy Bio Solutions  7 gün əvvəl

                    Thank you!!! I enjoyed the movie when Harry met Sally the scene in the deli was hysterical the lady sitting next to Sally was actually the director, Rob Reiner's mother!

                    • Yo Uniqca
                      Yo Uniqca  13 gün əvvəl

                      Do yoga haha 😂 my way to feel feminine and good

                      • Johnson Yuen
                        Johnson Yuen  18 gün əvvəl

                        How to turn off women, how to turn men on as sticking stickers while turning off all women urinary fountains in the whole world!?

                        • Aria
                          Aria  21 gün əvvəl

                          -The way you walk. -The way you look at him. -When YOU are turnedon. -She is INTO IT, toes curling, making noises, scratching his back with her fingernails. -When YOU are turned on, HE is turned on. -Put HIM in your head too. -When YOU know you look good, HE is turned on because of the way you feel.

                          • Aria
                            Aria  21 gün əvvəl

                            'What makes you sexy?" Me: Uh.... NOTHING and NOTHING and NOTHING and NOTHING Oh! And NOTHING.

                            • Shana banana
                              Shana banana  21 gün əvvəl

                              Yet your picture is super seductive lol. Love yourself.

                              • rissa moxin
                                rissa moxin  29 gün əvvəl

                                non... I dont think so..😉 but maybe hes just tired of his work..

                                • Jessica Morales
                                  Jessica Morales  Ay əvvəl

                                  amazing knowledge

                                  • Mimi Rose
                                    Mimi Rose  Ay əvvəl

                                    i’m trying to focus but he’s giving me a single lady your a powerful woman 🥰😍 talk

                                    • Esperanza Hernandez
                                      Esperanza Hernandez  Ay əvvəl

                                      It's super simple for me but what helps me feel sexy is.....drumroll, please..... My red lipstick 💋 having red lips it is super empowering and damn sexy!

                                      • Charlene Maeder
                                        Charlene Maeder  2 ay əvvəl

                                        Pretty sure it’s how fit and pretty you are....even though it’s nice to think it’s all these subtle things...

                                        • Josh Jman
                                          Josh Jman  2 ay əvvəl

                                          Taking a bath....feeling clean

                                          • AKmamma
                                            AKmamma  2 ay əvvəl

                                            Wearing lingerie, black to be specific, under regular clothes, knit shirt, no bra. Hmm I gotta go guys!

                                            • Denise 1101
                                              Denise 1101  2 ay əvvəl

                                              I love having my hair looking great wearing jeggings a cute top and some type of sexy sandals or heels or wedges...oh and my favorite lip gloss! 😉

                                              • Joanna Kal
                                                Joanna Kal  2 ay əvvəl

                                                You are a very mature men, I think every guy wants to be you. My question is: If a girl hasn't been with a guy, yet and they just dating. What is the right time to start playfully teasing him and doing striptease and all that when you get into the Relationship Status?

                                                • Gail Fisher
                                                  Gail Fisher  2 ay əvvəl

                                                  🌸 granny panties.... oh lord I think I nearly died sipping my tea ☕️ I’ve never laughed that hard to AZclip video

                                                  • Wildwoman
                                                    Wildwoman  2 ay əvvəl

                                                    Being near or at my weight goal always makes me know and feel my sexiness. I am 72 years old and I have always known that men are attracted to me physically, especially in that weight range. I let myself carry 150 pounds for years, after I read that Marilyn Monroe would be considered overweight in the late 1980s. There is a famous picture of her leaning over a high-rise railing in a weight knit dress, where one can clearly see her tummy and other curves we women generally shudder over. And, I can't reveal on AZclip what I did that has built my sexual confidence for all time. (^_-) I also read the research on the two scents that men find sexy...and wear one all the time. I have had so many men ask me what I am wearing since I started doing this! Also, red is my best color and research always says to wear red on your first meeting. And, then, I don't know, why do they always want to have sex right away?

                                                    • Martha Kidd
                                                      Martha Kidd  2 ay əvvəl

                                                      I also find wearing a top around the house which covers in front but allows the curve of your buttocks to show very effective

                                                      • Martha Kidd
                                                        Martha Kidd  2 ay əvvəl

                                                        I find that internally squeezing together as you would to grab a gentleman’s penis inside you, is somehow picked up by males although the movement is subtle and drives them wild

                                                        • Egle Davidsoniene
                                                          Egle Davidsoniene  2 ay əvvəl

                                                          These tips how to turn man on inspires many ladies and do not let to give up dream men. Grate this lecture.

                                                          • mars hutch
                                                            mars hutch  3 ay əvvəl

                                                            Nothing! Nothing makes me sexy, and I'm good at it.

                                                            • Rachel Lee
                                                              Rachel Lee  3 ay əvvəl


                                                              • Rita G. Bowman
                                                                Rita G. Bowman  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                This will be the stand-out comment you will ever get on this video. I met my guy on Two weeks after texting and calling, we met in Cleveland (I'm in MI, and he's in MS). I took my laptop, and we watched When Harry Met Sally while propped up on our bed and eating the best pizza in town. He had never seen the movie. He absolutely loved the famous scene; and now, six months later, he still talks about it in a very playful way! It will forever be the "scene" that brought us together. Yep, November 7, 2018 was the day it happened. That movie and the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame will forever be our favorite memories from that weekend. Well, there are others ... but that's all you get! I took a huge risk in meeting him, but it turned out to be one of the best decisions of my life.

                                                                • Lava Yuki
                                                                  Lava Yuki  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                  I'm really into role play and dress up, I know some guys seem to be into it but others are like what the hell. A few of my friends think dressing up as a french main or school girl weird. For my I'd love a partner who was into that

                                                                  • peacefull eagle
                                                                    peacefull eagle  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                    2:10 that is the feminine bliss they just want to be special

                                                                    • Iaco B
                                                                      Iaco B  4 ay əvvəl

                                                                      You guys Matt Boggs is the real deal. I spent years agonizing over miserable relationships and trying to figure out where I was going wrong and why I couldn't find a man that actually wanted to stay. I listened to Matt's videos for years it feels like and one day it just clicked! This guy knows what he's doing and his advice has been amazing. (By the way he didn't pay me to say this :) ) I've started to realize not a lot of success stories come back to post, and I always told myself I would once I "got the guy". Because of him, and a few other youtube dating advice channels I now have finally found a man who loves and RESPECTS me and I was able to do it all without really trying. I promise you ladies and gentlemen... good men are out there! Keep the faith, keep your heart open and listen to these videos. They will help you! They did for me.

                                                                      • Ferline Momentous Photography

                                                                        Love this background!! 😍 I couldn't help, but staring at it the whole time. Is it because am a photographer? Idk

                                                                        • teal tee
                                                                          teal tee  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                          I have been told that my eyes are sexy and seductive and my voice is sexy. That makes me feel sexy and empowering great feeling.

                                                                          • Ontrend50 Sandy Alderson
                                                                            Ontrend50 Sandy Alderson  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                            You Nailed It! Sexy clothes or lingerie, High heels, and a favorite perfume!

                                                                            • ARIES #Aries#Fearless
                                                                              ARIES #Aries#Fearless  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                              ☺☺☺☺☺😍😍😍😍😍 Hahaha i can relate 😂😂😂😂😂😂 focus and do what he wants .. ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺ be confident in bed ......

                                                                              • Nora Dinggo
                                                                                Nora Dinggo  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                When my lipsticks and Eyebrows are on point,I feel sexy while wearing a sexy cleavage shirt on😘😘😘

                                                                                • Sofi Yassin
                                                                                  Sofi Yassin  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                  I have different problem.. I don't want men to feel that I am sexy first in our relationship.. 😊... I learned from this video that I am the one who is MAKING them feel that way... So, I will do all the opposite of what you advise to ensure that men focus on knowing me than seeing me sexy.

                                                                                  • Senshi Leonard
                                                                                    Senshi Leonard  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                    This was great, love all your advice. My routine every month is to take a full day and do a DIY spa day where I pamper myself from head to toe. And that means the works steaming bath essential, oils, flower petals, my favorite music, lotions, everything that makes me feel like a Tiger when I'm done 😘😉

                                                                                    • ninajainen
                                                                                      ninajainen  6 ay əvvəl

                                                                                      What makes me sexy is that when I wear tight jeans and top which hugs my curves. My boyfriend loves my curves

                                                                                      • william lieske
                                                                                        william lieske  7 ay əvvəl

                                                                                        I'm gay lol

                                                                                        • Kelly ng
                                                                                          Kelly ng  7 ay əvvəl

                                                                                          what makes me sex: unique personality, kind of Stubborn! spiritual richness, vary, mysterious, stylish, fragrance, creative, fantasy, individual style, self confidence, love freedom!

                                                                                          • jessica sthul
                                                                                            jessica sthul  7 ay əvvəl

                                                                                            Your videos are brilliant! Love you😘

                                                                                            • Rabab Elwetidi
                                                                                              Rabab Elwetidi  8 ay əvvəl

                                                                                              I described you coincednly n u never know Ur videos became on my my daily routine

                                                                                              • Samira Basharat
                                                                                                Samira Basharat  8 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                Hahahahaha....thnx for all these ideas....yes I always applied dark lipsticks accordingly to my dress color ,yes m super confident, beautiful n BOLD, after me all girls in office appying dark lipsticks 😊😊 n yes I find him always on n in turn on mood when m excited n cheer up, he z too, I hv a problem,can u guide me for that by replying....m afraid of to show my emotions n love to him...I hv been deceived in love every time....nw m no more interested to approach or trust anyone.. .but his actions r more louder than his words....he z continuously gvng me all postv signs what u all guided in ur videos ....what do I do now hw do I bring that confidence in me... Plz reply...highy appreciate Mathew

                                                                                                • Craftytatlady Savage warrior.

                                                                                                  My Personality..The way I want my man..I get turned on easily by my guy.💪

                                                                                                  • Paloma Healing
                                                                                                    Paloma Healing  8 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                    My gift of God, my voice! I play with my drives men wild!!!

                                                                                                    • LIL Laura
                                                                                                      LIL Laura  8 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                      I guess what turns me on is the way he is with me and how he makes me feel. I like to show him by the way I look at him playfully, tell him how bad I want him, dress my best for him. Making myself look and feel sexy and beautiful for him makes me feel so incredible and I can't help but show him with the way I talk the way I act and feel. My best practice would be looking in the mirror as if he's right there and seeing how he makes me feel and smile.

                                                                                                      • cynthia taylor
                                                                                                        cynthia taylor  8 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                        Kiss is favorite for just playing the lips it's play for and I like hair on a man's chest where you can comb the hair with your fingers it's like combing the hair. I don't like chest without hair. Combing hair is also fun to curled with my fingers.

                                                                                                        • BigSky Family
                                                                                                          BigSky Family  8 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                          When a woman feels sexy, she wants to be sexy!!

                                                                                                          • vangothengirl
                                                                                                            vangothengirl  9 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                            I feel sexy when my bf makes me orgasm during foreplay and sex. I also feel sexy when I'm naked, masturbating, and turning my man on

                                                                                                            • charleen hopkins
                                                                                                              charleen hopkins  9 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                              play full and when i,m into him

                                                                                                              • Abeer Fawzy
                                                                                                                Abeer Fawzy  9 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                Being myself.

                                                                                                                • JustmeJoy7
                                                                                                                  JustmeJoy7  9 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                  So listen . . . you are right. I recently got a response from 2 clients, that I was not expecting. When I greeted them, all I did was motioned my hand for them to follow me, and I didn't realize that because I felt confident I looked good that day, I exuded sexiness to them. I was so shocked by Guy 1's response, that his remark made me blush. His comment was a compliment, not anything to make me feel creeped out. I tried to gain my composure by asking a question to change the subject, and then after Guy 1 answered, I complimented the men in an observation I saw about their work. But, Guy 1 responded in such a playful way, that I let my guard down and we kept this playful banter up for about 15 seconds. While Guy 2 said nothing. He did smile at me when I waved for them to follow me, but he said nothing during this time. In that short, back and forth, playful banter with Guy 1, I felt like I could take it a little further and they wouldn't get offended. In my mind, I thought we were just having fun and they wouldn't take me seriously. Well, I was wrong. After I said the playful remark, Guy 1 said, "THAT WAS HOT!" And then something happened to me that has never happened before. I couldn't turn it off 😱. I was trying to, but EVERYTIME I OPENED MY MOUTH TO SPEAK, these guys were getting turned on. It resulted in both guys wanting to get in touch with me afterwards. But Guy 2 was the only one that made the initiative to talk to me alone. When our eyes locked, I knew I was experiencing something I have never experienced before . . I felt like I wasn't in control anymore, SHE WAS (sexy me). I knew I would say YES to whatever Guy 2 would ask me, but I couldn't because I'm married 😀. I had to walk away and leave Guy 2 hangin'. I am not sure if I will see them again due to the nature of the business. I learned from that encounter, to not let my guard down in those situations, just smile and change the subject, and don't engage. So far, that has worked.

                                                                                                                  • codzydee
                                                                                                                    codzydee  9 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                    i love the way a man stares when he wants you to me thats a total turn on when men get jelous not right i know shouldnt do it when men are good fighters with a good temprament thats a turn on when they can dance without being gay no offence thats what turns me on other women could be totally different oh nice sexy eyes nice smile looking good in jeans 3 day growth beards buzzcuts on men too some baldys like 2 pac goatee like tim magraw just how they wear it how they carry themselves as men oh and if hes a mechanic on cars trucks motorbikes intelligence is a hot one builders list goes on for me but thats just me hope this helps oh american men im talking about their georgous in and out black an white hispanic native americans ya all beautiful xox

                                                                                                                    • Nata Kabola
                                                                                                                      Nata Kabola  9 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                      To feel sexy and turn man on, woman need take care of herself, in all possible ways, not be shy of her naked body in front of mirror, and yes, woman have to turn on herself, to spark the sexy energy, no way otherwise, man can feel that always, even on distance. Thanks 😊👏👏👏👍

                                                                                                                      • Dark Angel
                                                                                                                        Dark Angel  8 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                        Lol, it seems you had lots of fun....!

                                                                                                                        • michelle martin
                                                                                                                          michelle martin  10 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                          My best practice is my daily skin routine.. always keeping my skin all over my body & face smooth as silk 👍🏼 men melt when they touch a woman’s skin that feels smooth as butter .

                                                                                                                          • Nordia Campbell
                                                                                                                            Nordia Campbell  10 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                            Since my husband tried very hard to get me away from the tom boy dressing and attitude and i start dressing as how a female should start loving and accepting myself,i tell u our sex life moves from lame to we cant get it enough of each other dwl

                                                                                                                            • fatma M
                                                                                                                              fatma M  10 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                              I dont feel sex what so ever cuz i hate sex itself

                                                                                                                              • rezotydnic
                                                                                                                                rezotydnic  10 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                When my bf gives me the look, I feel sexy. When he groans while I kiss him, I feel sexy. And yes certain clothes make me feel sexy. But its mostly when I get a positive reaction from my bf.

                                                                                                                                • Anne Vile
                                                                                                                                  Anne Vile  10 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                  The woman in that movie When Harry Met Sally who says I'll have what she's having was apparently Meg Ryan's mother. I totally concur with what Matt said.

                                                                                                                                  • The Moms view - lol StarDustEnergy

                                                                                                                                    Agreed thanks Much Light, Namaste💓❤💜💙💚💛👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

                                                                                                                                    • Alana Wilson
                                                                                                                                      Alana Wilson  11 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                      Wearing sexy underwear/night gowns, wearing anything fashionnova, doing my makeup, doing my hair, taking sexy pictures. What he’s saying is true about men being able to tell that you think you’re sexy because you feel good in what you’re wearing. When you walk by in a T-shirt and jeans, you may not necessarily feel bad in it but you don’t feel sexy like if you were wearing something sexy either so 🤷‍♀️ you’re confidence level all starts with you

                                                                                                                                      • felice Casale
                                                                                                                                        felice Casale  11 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                        No way

                                                                                                                                        • anna av
                                                                                                                                          anna av  11 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                          hey u give good advise wish you already had ur blog when i was still single it must really have been helpful

                                                                                                                                          • Augusta Yarteh
                                                                                                                                            Augusta Yarteh  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                            you are a guy,you need to answer for some of us. the reason that makes me sexy is,one my contact to my guy secondly I believe my self to make my guy feels so great. Then my guy should know that i am very intelligent of what i am doing in the outside and the inside of me. Finally I am so sexy right of my inside i. know God and i am serving him in spirit and truth.

                                                                                                                                            • Erica Lipe
                                                                                                                                              Erica Lipe  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                              I. Try. To turn my co-worker. Except no fake orgasm. I mean nonw

                                                                                                                                              • Erica Lipe
                                                                                                                                                Erica Lipe  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                Good. Sence of humor

                                                                                                                                                • Virginia Costa
                                                                                                                                                  Virginia Costa  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                  I feel sexy with my lipstick on

                                                                                                                                                  • Kassy D
                                                                                                                                                    Kassy D  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                    Interracial porn

                                                                                                                                                    • Ileana Lopez
                                                                                                                                                      Ileana Lopez  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                      I once sent a message to someone I like allot. It was a sticker that said; " You create butterflies in my stomach." He told me; " I love it." He asked me to go out with him and friends to get to know each other more.

                                                                                                                                                      • vape_ queen_144
                                                                                                                                                        vape_ queen_144  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                        When a man touches my back it makes me feel sexy amazing and for some reason it makes me feel useful

                                                                                                                                                        • Linda Shepherd
                                                                                                                                                          Linda Shepherd  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                          How do I feel sexy and turned on...First I do my makeup, spritz some highly concoctingly (not a word but you get it) erotic scent over my body, pick out something to wear that matches my mood, how I feel and how I want to look. I dress with the selected attire, I complete the look with selected jewelry, shoes, bag, give myself a final once over in the mirror, apply that hauntingly arousing lipstick to my lips and go get my man....😍

                                                                                                                                                          • Jen Jen
                                                                                                                                                            Jen Jen  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                            Taking a pole dancing class has made me feel very sexy, and my man loves that I’m taking it! It’s given me new confidence, and I’ve seen women (even men) of all shapes and sizes taking these classes! 💗

                                                                                                                                                            • Anouk C
                                                                                                                                                              Anouk C  3 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                              Jen Jen I took a pole dancing class too! And it’s true I’ve seen women of all shapes. Was difficult to learn though.

                                                                                                                                                              • Nicole Kim
                                                                                                                                                                Nicole Kim  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                my ass in yoga pants

                                                                                                                                                                • Nurul Syafiqa Rosli
                                                                                                                                                                  Nurul Syafiqa Rosli  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                  I was standing in the train facing my man, putting both my hand on his shoulder and i look at him in the eye and smile flirtily but he suddenly push me away and whisper to me that it turns him on 😂

                                                                                                                                                                  • Stephenie Messer
                                                                                                                                                                    Stephenie Messer  10 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                    If that was me I would have kept doing it and then tood in front so no one could see when it gst up.. I guess that's why he ask me to get married. P.s. been married 11 years.

                                                                                                                                                                    • Craftytatlady Savage warrior.

                                                                                                                                                                      Feeling Sexy is when a Man you loves knowa you are Confident in your self. at least thats how my man is :)

                                                                                                                                                                      • Kelley Thorrington
                                                                                                                                                                        Kelley Thorrington  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                        Your videos are amazing Mathew. Thank you so much xx

                                                                                                                                                                        • Norma Deluna
                                                                                                                                                                          Norma Deluna  Il əvvəl


                                                                                                                                                                          • Michaela Garcia
                                                                                                                                                                            Michaela Garcia  10 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                            My boyfriend isnt attracted to me I dont turn him on