5 Unusual Signs Your Man Is Into You!

  • Published: 19 August 2015
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    In this video Mat Boggs shares 5 unusual signs that your man likes you and is interested in moving the relationship forward.
    When it comes to dating advice, these 5 signs are often used to signal that he is NOT into you, however, it's important to know when it's the exception to the rule.
    Learning to understand men and their internal motivations is important for avoiding pitfalls and accidentally disengaging when you should be progressing the relationship.
    Please post a comment on this video... I'd love to hear your thoughts about this topic!
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    Mat Boggs Bio:
    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
    As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs’ dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
    Mat’s Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
    As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!
    Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.
    If you’re interested in receiving help attracting love or improving your relationship click here: www.crackingthemancode.com/coaching/

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Comments • 1 152

  • Fitri Christian
    Fitri Christian  14 giờ trước

    Hy matt i have always love ur speaks and how it inspired alot of people so much,, and i've been wondering what is ur personality type? if we may know

    • Ashley Ahrens
      Ashley Ahrens  Ngày trước

      my boyfriend is doing number 3 ☺️

      • Lillian Hulse
        Lillian Hulse  3 ngày trước

        I think you're awesome, Matt.

        • Demi Guerrero
          Demi Guerrero  6 ngày trước

          Lol awkward is cute my new bf is were both weird actually

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            • Debra Thompson
              Debra Thompson  8 ngày trước

              I know my second husband for friends zone he keeps you to himself he knows it's awkward if you go 1 time with friend was invited to a party he asked if he could take me they said no so he decided not to go that's another sign your the one for him God rest his soul I miss him so much 💔

              • Jhumru Talaiya
                Jhumru Talaiya  8 ngày trước

                How do I find out if this man ( my doctor) is interested in me? The situation is very awkward. Recently I ve been seeking advice from a doctor. He is a nice man & looks alright too very tall. Im quite a hottie myself but Im very shy..He is very shy too. First few visits we were very nervous. We barely exchanged a look he did his job I thanked him & left. That was the routine. Everyday for a week he & I monotonously did this under pin drop silence... He ensured that even while treating me he didn't touch me. Neither did he look at me. I still feel nervous when I see him.However he seems to have been a little easier gradually. I see him everyday my treatment requires that. He never talked to me initially but now we have a bit of conversation. We both maintain good distance. He sits in corner of the room I sit on far end of room. He came close to me only to do my treatment & then he moved away quickly. We barely had any eye contact or even a accidental touch. However last week my treatment came to end & next steps start only after a month or if needed When I went to see him for the last time the whole episode was very different. I entered his office.He followed me & when I sat on my usual chair he stood right in front of me & looked down straight in my eyes I looked up to him.. (this kind of behavior never happened before) He stood extremely close to me his full body on top of me... I felt a bit more shy as compared to what Im already).He is very tall and I felt like a small doll .I raised my head & looked up to him. He was looking at me a very with intense look. I said its my last visit today. He immediately sat on his chair closed the door behind him. His face was a bit sad then we discussed my treatment. Gradually he dragged his chair closer to me & leaned towards me while sitting. He looked into my eyes Isaw that he was intense & then I started looking down at the floor. I didn't look back at him.I said to him that today is my last day here then I will be seeing him after a month. With a deep breath and a sigh he said '' Hopefully'' .Even then I continuously looked at the floor.I said thanks stood up to leave he then patted gently on my shoulder.I didn't expect that couldn't believe that He never toucheme even during the treatment and this shoulder pat... ..I controlled my feelings & walked out without looking behind. I want to understand if he likes me is interested in me? Please advice

                • Johnson Yuen
                  Johnson Yuen  10 ngày trước


                  • Claire Sadlowski
                    Claire Sadlowski  14 ngày trước

                    3 of the signs were true for me...😂

                    • MORE〈3
                      MORE〈3  19 ngày trước

                      He's not into you. Is too much. Este video lo e estado mirando por cuatro años y nada. Que se hace aqui en un caso asi.

                      • Aria
                        Aria  20 ngày trước

                        IF I LIKE THE PERSON, *I TELL THEM!* Because I don't like getting hit on if I don't feel the same way, it makes me feel bad to have to say no. SO I NOW *LOOK UGLY* TO PUT EVERY GUY OFF. Because I don't like anyone, so why bother attracting? And if I ever meet The One, WELL I WILL *JUST TELL HIM* SO THAT *HE* DOES NOT RUN SCREAMING WHEN HE LOOKS AT *MY UGLY ARSE!*

                        • nana flipper
                          nana flipper  21 ngày trước

                          That is so him. Gives me goosebumps.

                          • Maureen Kam
                            Maureen Kam  23 ngày trước

                            Thank you for this video Matthew. I have conflicting signals from this guy whom I thought is into me. He has displayed some of the unusual signs you mentioned. He behaves so awkwardly that I deemed him 'weird'. He also talks to almost every woman except me. I thought how he has hated me! He behaves very nervously around me as if he was tiptoeing. Hahaha. Now, I can see why. He is supposed to be a dashing, confident man.

                            • JWfan Dick
                              JWfan Dick  29 ngày trước

                              Women likes man with a mistery...

                              • Farrah
                                Farrah  29 ngày trước

                                Highly accurate information, my boyfriend displays all of these traits. We are very much in love with each other and he said he plans to propose to me this year.

                                • Dania Dessine
                                  Dania Dessine  29 ngày trước

                                  Mathew Boggs YOU ARE A GENIUS!!!!!!!!!! That's EXACTLY what I was intrigued by!!!!!!I was feeling that I don't understand what's happening & it didn't make sense to me.

                                  • cassy corkum
                                    cassy corkum  Tháng trước

                                    This video just convinced me that literally no guy has ever been into me in my entire life.

                                    • Rocker12 abfan1
                                      Rocker12 abfan1  Tháng trước

                                      Happy my bf was like this, I thought I was getting mixed signals, cuz I saw all this in him😂😂😂

                                      • Mariah Francois
                                        Mariah Francois  Tháng trước

                                        Ugh the f this doing on my computer I swear I'll break my siblings hands

                                        • Nancy Kim
                                          Nancy Kim  Tháng trước

                                          Why men keep saying that I'm pretty cute and lovely? Non of them say that I'm beautiful at all 🙃

                                          • Sheri Kwasnik
                                            Sheri Kwasnik  Tháng trước

                                            Lol!! This is making me laugh, bc it is so true. When we were hanging out, in the “getting to know each other” phase, my bf squirmed around, and said things like “umm...so...you are really interesting” I was like “yes, I AM interesting....and fun too!” He smiled and goes, “yeah, you are, and I really enjoy spending time with you”, I go “thanks, I am pretty awesome!” He says, “yeah, so umm....”, I am vibing that he wants to ask me something serious, so I say “Are you trying to ask me something?” He goes, “umm yeah...I just umm, would you want to be with me?” I look at him, and go “I would be agreeable to that”. He smiled and loosened up a bit and goes, “so you are my girlfriend then?” I said, “yeah, that would be good”. It IS good. He is a super sweet and caring guy, kinda quirky, and kind. I am interested to see where this goes... 😊

                                            • Reshni Mani
                                              Reshni Mani  Tháng trước

                                              It's hard to understand guy's

                                              • Little Short
                                                Little Short  Tháng trước

                                                This makes me feel hopeful, he's doing ALL of these things

                                                • Christina Delrio
                                                  Christina Delrio  Tháng trước

                                                  Youself think Milo ventimiglia was teen grow up story and myself was teen grow up true story . Not Mandy Moore and Jack . Kim k lied !

                                                  • ory eberbach
                                                    ory eberbach  Tháng trước

                                                    Omg !!..this was really scary...the guy im seeing for 3 weeks its all the 5 inusual sings...and to be honest i dont know what to do...

                                                    • I AM ENOUGH
                                                      I AM ENOUGH  Tháng trước

                                                      He is NOT your man if you have to ask these questions

                                                      • Stephanie White
                                                        Stephanie White  Tháng trước

                                                        You are so correct about the laughter! My guy can make me laugh and that is so sexy to me. He really gets me and can always bring me out of a down mood with just a look or remark🤪

                                                        • Maria Makinen
                                                          Maria Makinen  Tháng trước

                                                          What man? As a male, NEVER AGAIN! After the surgery, yes. At home, on the Anglophone world. The. U.s.

                                                          • culchie
                                                            culchie  Tháng trước

                                                            I met my first boyfriend in a club and he initially let me know he liked my looks but after a couple of hours together that same night he also let me know he liked my personality. No complications 😂

                                                            • Jessica Morales
                                                              Jessica Morales  Tháng trước

                                                              thanks for your usual level of high quality wisdom

                                                              • Bridget Edwards - Stress Consultant & Author

                                                                Excellent tips shared here.

                                                                • Chinenye Obiozo
                                                                  Chinenye Obiozo  Tháng trước

                                                                  You are describing a psycho in love...no thanks.

                                                                  • Second Sister
                                                                    Second Sister  2 tháng trước

                                                                    I can totally relate to all the points. I've seen them in men attracted to me. Some signs are kind of funny, but sweet too... such as the awkwardness. The guy not coming on physically is a definite sign that he respects you. Great video, thanks!

                                                                    • Steph Broughton
                                                                      Steph Broughton  2 tháng trước

                                                                      #3 and #5 now make total sense. Thank you for posting this video xx

                                                                      • MindOfHerOwn
                                                                        MindOfHerOwn  2 tháng trước

                                                                        Why do guys use strategy? Just be normal.

                                                                        • Spooky Spectre
                                                                          Spooky Spectre  2 tháng trước

                                                                          I have to disagree with you on the one where he doesnt introduce you to his friends. Your explanation makes no sense. Every guy in the past who liked me did, and the ones who just wanted sex didn't. Men arnt that complex in that respect

                                                                          • Gina Wilhelmsen
                                                                            Gina Wilhelmsen  2 tháng trước

                                                                            Oh my goodness, I think my friend is into me!!

                                                                            • Air Fusion
                                                                              Air Fusion  2 tháng trước

                                                                              Can someone answer this for me. The guy I like said he is fat and I told him "have you even looked at me" and he said "Wdym I look at you everyday" I'm so confused, someone help

                                                                              • Tania Richter
                                                                                Tania Richter  2 tháng trước

                                                                                ILOVE MY MAN TO THE MOON AND BACK. ME BEING HIS TIGERESS TOGETHER.😜😜

                                                                                • Gabriela Medina
                                                                                  Gabriela Medina  2 tháng trước

                                                                                  Young Beautiful & Old empowering Boss.. Freaks and tricks ..lol old dirty 🐕

                                                                                  • baileyspack
                                                                                    baileyspack  2 tháng trước

                                                                                    This revived me! Thank you soooo much! My man is into me...🙌

                                                                                    • OmegaEmperor The Great God of The Monsters

                                                                                      .Thanks Matt yOu are awesome and your staff!!!, so ..You are right.. this amazing guy (btw he is introvert) "go under" playing mysterious -"pulling" strategy after he got me with his "over" approach..SO WHAT IS THE RIGHT FEMININE RESPONSE? ..to make our interest and love relationship to each other get deeper, more intimate, sort of giving him certainty ( in light of committing longterm for each other)...when our man start acting for a period of time this "under" approach???..I got tired sometimes..he will pull or play hard to get( I know He is into me)..like he will agree to talk when i respond/offer to his subtle requests for days/ weeks of asking me "if i want to talk over the phone or video" but when I agree for phone/vid call date (LDR) .. ((note that he knows I went out the night prior to this, he didn't ask Q about and just close the convo by saying "K have fun"?...,He agreed to talk the next day (night to him, morning to me) but))---He ditched me next day..I called 3x and text said it will be the last reaching out,, and then suddenly he text within a min. , gave his apology and said "I love you..I was late coz I told my friend about you"..i can't accept it told him to at least send me a short txt to cancel our appt..he ditched and wasted my time BTW this is 2x he did it to me though the rest he is always present and communicate (chat ) at least 1-2x a day . everyday....What can u say about this scenario.????? .BTW he has all the signs of a great guy and someone who is really in love and committed, someone who is best match in lasting marriage and relationship..but he is in err to this phone date 2x already I am really pist....He initiated to meet this June but i bargained JULY since I am very busy that month He agreed...He said before that he wish he can make us exclusive now though we haven't met yet but then he also gave a feedback that we have to be realistic, to keep my dating with other guys open for the reason being "what if" when we met it is possible we may fit or not fit to each other" he said I may could have missed someone that could be greater than him that may fit better..it got me confused.. i do not know if he is testing me or he really meant it..coz from OCT to present these are not what I see in him "he wants to have a relationship with me"..but I keep it under conditional status since I told him that sweet talks and LDR are just thoughts..I will only believe when I see him fly over my place (WE PHYSICALLY MEET)then I will believe that he is serious..--so these are our background story.

                                                                                      • Shijila Afsal
                                                                                        Shijila Afsal  2 tháng trước

                                                                                        Bogs how to make man happy When he is sad

                                                                                        • Rachna Anand
                                                                                          Rachna Anand  2 tháng trước

                                                                                          You have explained it so beautifully. Yeah it happens

                                                                                          • Αμαλία Καπούτση
                                                                                            Αμαλία Καπούτση  2 tháng trước

                                                                                            Hello from Athens Greece......Matthew. ...i know someone who does all of the five points you've mentioned...ALSO All of the six points you stated in another video regarding if he's having a crush.......This Last one ....IN this video here was again dead on.....He tries the under reacting....Being mysterious and intriguing etc......SO I guess he likes me eh?...........anyways .....time Will tell....by the way you are so cute in the way you describe and discuss these pointers.......Sincerely Emily

                                                                                            • wendy stephens
                                                                                              wendy stephens  2 tháng trước

                                                                                              That was really interesting and its also very much the same theory for people who i work with not following through.

                                                                                              • Sally Va
                                                                                                Sally Va  2 tháng trước

                                                                                                I mean obsessed

                                                                                                • Sally Va
                                                                                                  Sally Va  2 tháng trước

                                                                                                  My boyfriend said he is bossed with me,does he really. In love with me

                                                                                                  • Lindsay Finn
                                                                                                    Lindsay Finn  2 tháng trước

                                                                                                    I’m just a complicated person and clueless when a guy likes me, I don’t Pay attention because I start acting weird

                                                                                                    • Fatima Leonardo
                                                                                                      Fatima Leonardo  3 tháng trước

                                                                                                      Lol “man-ray vision” 👓👓

                                                                                                      • BKLNHobo
                                                                                                        BKLNHobo  3 tháng trước

                                                                                                        Not sure about #4. What he might be trying to hide by not introducing you to anyone could be the fact that he's already married or in another relationship.

                                                                                                        • Karen Huggins
                                                                                                          Karen Huggins  3 tháng trước

                                                                                                          Thanks Matt. I've been divorced for 2 1/2 years and ready to date. I've met someone I think is pretty special and really wanted to find out if he digs me as much as him. I'm laying back and waiting for him to make moves but need to know what I can do that will not push him away. Looking forward to more of your videos.

                                                                                                          • Tina Leeth
                                                                                                            Tina Leeth  3 tháng trước

                                                                                                            What are you watching? A show Hmm that was awkward

                                                                                                            • Pr3ssPl4y
                                                                                                              Pr3ssPl4y  3 tháng trước

                                                                                                              That first segment is so true. I've forgotten my name on occasion when being awe struck by a gorgeous women.

                                                                                                              • Geneva Livingstone
                                                                                                                Geneva Livingstone  3 tháng trước

                                                                                                                In to me...yup He gives a little more of himself each time we get together. He respects my boundaries in a very large way. Plus he compliments went from the usual stuff to much smaller things he notices about my character.... Since we don't spend a tonne of time together or texting it seemed like he wasn't that into me. So interesting...

                                                                                                                • Linda Cannings
                                                                                                                  Linda Cannings  3 tháng trước

                                                                                                                  please do any one have any answers to this one i like to know thanks

                                                                                                                  • Linda Cannings
                                                                                                                    Linda Cannings  3 tháng trước

                                                                                                                    I know im in to a great friendship with this older man he ask me where are you i say home whe i ask him a question he dont respond i get up set and sayd im not tonque tied then he skips away for awhile but i know i had enough of his silence so i blocked him then a week later i un block him theres no conservation what so ever i think he found a lady friend but he dont send me messages like he used to any more i im laying low now thats not a man why dont he come out of his shell for once and say what hes hiding we have been friends for 2 years but i now ecnore him but he send me a message 1 day ago how are you for me i dont answer him finish with his games

                                                                                                                    • ydasda42
                                                                                                                      ydasda42  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                      I think about you and other coaches when it comes to those who deny male and female; i.e. there's no difference. Male and female energy is undeniable. Maybe that's why a transgender male will marry a transgender female. One cannot deny that energy. Thank you for your videos. ❤

                                                                                                                      • lora wyrick
                                                                                                                        lora wyrick  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                        Very TRUE! Great Video! My Man did ALL of these, Lol

                                                                                                                        • Tammy Rios
                                                                                                                          Tammy Rios  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                          He brings up sex a lot but also wants more

                                                                                                                          • Fun Videos
                                                                                                                            Fun Videos  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                            This guy is describing complete idiot guys. Avoid any guy who behaves like that.

                                                                                                                            • JULES C
                                                                                                                              JULES C  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                              I feel like if they were into you, you wouldn’t have to search this up.. 😢...

                                                                                                                              • Aeshma
                                                                                                                                Aeshma  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                1. my boyfriend was super awkward when we first talked on the phone, he barely talked and in chat he only said "ok" LOL. he was so nervous and then he started just randomly complimenting me saying my soul is beautiful and im beautiful LOL. 2. we def do that, show each other new bands, i want to do shit with him he likes etc. i wanna do gardening with him tho i hate gardening 3. he didnt pressure me at all into sexual things, tho he was rly sexual with girls before me. and he said its because he immediately thought i was perfect and wife material, unlike any girl hes ever met. 4. i have no idea if he does, but he told me they called me hot. so i think he probably doesnt want me to meet them then LOL 5. he still does that after 1 year. he plays guitar shittily for me, slaps his ass. whatever embarrassing and stupid thing he can do LOL.

                                                                                                                                • a b
                                                                                                                                  a b  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                  Focus more on these signs at 2:27 , 3:17 and 7:12..... 🤨🤔The 1st on at 0:39 happens when u have just started dating and the 4th one is at 5:15 is contradictory .... doesn't work with 98% of men out there so ladies please don't get confused with what is in the video.... and step forward with caution....

                                                                                                                                  • Beanz Burrito
                                                                                                                                    Beanz Burrito  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                    Your friend sounds manipulative af. Mystery is fine but not one first dates. If they are interesting they shouldnt have to try.

                                                                                                                                    • Alesya Kach
                                                                                                                                      Alesya Kach  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                      "Have I looked into space enough" lol

                                                                                                                                      • Lisa McGrath
                                                                                                                                        Lisa McGrath  4 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                        Thank you Matt

                                                                                                                                        • Catarina P
                                                                                                                                          Catarina P  5 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                          when my man invited his friends to get in a pub where we were he was SO happy after they left he just said like "see that was so cool, now you met my friends" (in the most excited way possible), after that he started to be very touchy and kissing me a lot (when he never does it in public). However I dont think he is into me...

                                                                                                                                          • WindowOfFantasy
                                                                                                                                            WindowOfFantasy  5 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                            I do really enjoy it ! thanks for video ! it makes us learn more about others brains ! OuO they are so interesting !

                                                                                                                                            • etera2011
                                                                                                                                              etera2011  5 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                              5 unusual signs your guys is into you: 1. He's awkward 2. He allows you to influence him 3. He doesn't make a move physically 4. He doesn't want you to meet his friends 5. He acts out for your attention You're welcome.

                                                                                                                                              • lilioshka
                                                                                                                                                lilioshka  5 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                                Jaja..inchis hombres.

                                                                                                                                                • Marga Torralba
                                                                                                                                                  Marga Torralba  5 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                                  90% true! ❤️😍

                                                                                                                                                  • tsukisakura1
                                                                                                                                                    tsukisakura1  5 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                                    The guy I like always has me laughing whenever we talk on the phone or when we’re alone. It’s nice cuz it’s different when we are with people we know that are not any of our friends. But there’s other things that make me unsure... :/

                                                                                                                                                    • Tran Tran
                                                                                                                                                      Tran Tran  5 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                                      Thank you for the video because my boyfriend did not take any physical move up to three months but he made a progress to meet me every weekend and moved forward. He also did not want me to meet his friend either. I was confused too. Finally I find out he is very sweet and thoughtful boyfriend that I have ever dated

                                                                                                                                                      • Sofia Yan Z
                                                                                                                                                        Sofia Yan Z  5 tháng trước

                                                                                                                                                        I have been longing for a second date with a guy who initiate the chat everyday after our first date.(He said sth like cant wait to meet u again.I miss u blah blah) But the day before the second one,he suddenly told me he felt ill and had to postpone our date. I was so pissed off and block his chat but then I regret and unblocked him later. He hasn't come back to me yet. Should I ask him why?😭