♥ WHY DATING IS SO HARD IN 2019 + WHAT TO DO ♥

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  • Published: 23 April 2019
  • Today I wanted to talk about dating these days and my experience with it.

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  • Björn Holmberg
    Björn Holmberg  2 days back

    here is your answer dear. The Hard core truth. We know this. and get in The game Even more prepared then you. Dating and marrige is dead towards 2020. This guy teach every guy how to get beautyful and confused girl like you. watch out. The Hunt of power of The game is getting worse and worse. i agree. Its just sad. https://youtu.be/OBGGNx5zVlQ

    • Sir NUNDA
      Sir NUNDA  3 days back

      I need a lady

      • When Pigs Fly
        When Pigs Fly  1 weeks back

        14 minutes of incessant rambling, never coming to a point. Typical female.

        • Shawn Huffman
          Shawn Huffman  2 weeks back

          Not worth dating anymore. After being cheated on and left with a pile of debt, I feel no desire to date or spend any effort on women.

          • Jeremy Letendre
            Jeremy Letendre  2 weeks back

            Ill date you 😁

            • Roger Huggett Jr.
              Roger Huggett Jr.  2 weeks back

              There's a trade-off between the "good old days" and now. Because divorce wasn't socially or financially a good thing for women, yes some guys were asses, but they also knew they could be all in on a career and their woman would watch their back and not see their success as something they can use to support them as they take his kids into her next relationship. Marriage was sobering because it was permanent, but it also freed us to believe our heart was safe beyond a honeymoon period. All our relationships are only as strong as the most fickle participant, but there are less props to help us build something that can survive life.

              • Roger Huggett Jr.
                Roger Huggett Jr.  2 weeks back

                Dating apps really suck. It feels like carsoup. When you do find a person you like, have an interesting date and think finally someone worth a second date...ghosted.

                • vbboyd
                  vbboyd  3 weeks back

                  You are Dutch? All this time I thought you were American.

                  • Sara The Persian Kitty
                    Sara The Persian Kitty  3 weeks back

                    All men are horney doggies hence I have no respect for them. Their libidos skyrocketing when they see half-naked women. Having said that, I’m at risk. 😳🙁😋💕🐰🧸💕💕

                    • Lizardking5150
                      Lizardking5150  3 weeks back

                      Great video, but to add to it..... We're all acting like we're on the cover of a tabloid and we're Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie and every relationship has to be the one. All or nothing attitudes these days. And for good reason because there's a few sharks in the sea preying on 90 something percent of all the women. A few like 10 pick up artist men are probably having 90 something percent of all sex on tinder. It can all be related to the Ocean-life. I wish Sociologists and Therapists would do some real studies on this. The world is becoming cold and isolated. And to top ot all off, men are supposed to make all first moves, but yet if you misread someone's signals there's severe penalties. We all work more than ever and we're not allowed to ask someone out at work that actually knows us, or ask someone out at their job where it's awkward. I think the solution is currently unavailable. I think it needs to be a place like a travel agency with an interview by a Match Maker that is educated in sociology and therapy. Sit through a few sessions and then make matches with other match maker's clients. We should just pay someone like a $1000 fee to find us true love and stop this no sense of screening. The same Employers stop placing adds for jobs in local papers and interviewing the public, and just call a temp agency. We should have women call temp agencies for love 😂. The men apply for free and are screened and weeded through and dropped if they act like degenerates. I think it's the only way to solve it. Have Bumble Hook Up meeting places like a Buffalo Wild Wings type of place that's for picking eachother up in person. The Meat Locker Bar or something. The dating apps are just awful and don't work if you're bad at image crafting. Go to far image crafting and you're catfishing. It's all awful and ruining everyone's self esteem.

                      • Spartan Elite
                        Spartan Elite  4 weeks back

                        If a significant other is 90% of what you want and enjoy... is it worth the risk to try and date someone that is 92% of what you want? At what point is enough enough? There is going to be a huge backlash of depression when these girls start hitting their 30’s and are in direct competition with girls in their 20’s.

                        • powergirl901
                          powergirl901  4 weeks back

                          Sounds like she and her dating pool have a "dating disease" of one kind or another. Men are wrecked by porn and women are wrecked by Instagram. Doing anything over and over to the point of zero return and finally depression is the literal definition of addiction. Life isn't much worse when you actually settle for someone.

                          • Michael Hill
                            Michael Hill  4 weeks back

                            I can’t explain the way I feel about you Chanou❤️thanx for being a friend

                            • Futile Justice
                              Futile Justice  4 weeks back

                              I can’t believe you just can’t ask somebody for a coffee, or lunch even a milkshake, just to chat , you have To be on social media and competition is like , you can be talking to 5 -10 people at one time, that already is weird not as intimate as real hi face to face , so much fear , I’m feeling exactly what you where at this point, it’s very sad can’t just say hi would you like to have lunch ! It’s like a crime, you are very attractive and I hope you have found some one special, really wish I could of met you , maybe another life , I know exactly how you feel an what your talking about, it’s very disheartening someone so beautiful even has had trouble! ✌🏻❤️😎🌹

                              • Futile Justice
                                Futile Justice  4 weeks back

                                Also wanted to say we are all human and we need a loving hug from a man or woman it’s not always about sex but feeling close to some one , your not alone , and you can share some beautiful times even if people remain friends,but this antisocial society has caused a lot of trust problems , really need a cuddle

                            • DreamWarrior
                              DreamWarrior  4 weeks back

                              you said a whole lot of nothin', you're all over the place...

                              • Ignatious Martinelli
                                Ignatious Martinelli  1 months back

                                Just live, Don’t overthink anything. and i mean anything. Pure peace.

                                • mark
                                  mark  1 months back

                                  learn to meditate

                                  • chinoy Castillo
                                    chinoy Castillo  1 months back

                                    I have never dated before

                                    • GregXXD
                                      GregXXD  1 months back

                                      OMG you said so many things that no one is talking about! I'm so tired of all that situation that you talked about and I'm glad to hear that I am not the only one 😌

                                      • Its_Chris_2003 / Chris Andrews

                                        Nowadays I feel like every girl I try going for just end up slipping out of my life no matter how hard I try. I think many people can relate to this.

                                        • Black dynamite
                                          Black dynamite  1 months back

                                          I just want a woman bent over my couch😋😛

                                          • The Blackman
                                            The Blackman  1 months back

                                            Women ain't shit
                                            Women aint shit
                                            Women ain't shit

                                            • Don Carlos
                                              Don Carlos  1 months back

                                              So I think I know how you feel, probably not though.😞 I was really interested in someone previously. I asked if she would like my number and she took it. Never called me back. Weeks go by and i ask her if she'd like to go out. She turns me down. Once, and twice. Just testing the waters, right? No interest in me, so, I moved on. It hurt like hell, but I moved on. Now her attitude has changed for me and she treats me different. I don't know how to react now. I'm so used to her being a little stuck up, to being this sweet girl that tries to get my attention. She wasn't doing that months ago. Well, I've long since given up. Forget trying to show interest in her. Smiling at her anymore. Starting conversations with her. I'm done. She stood me up twice. Sigh. Now, it's like she's trying to get my attention. Well, my will has already been broken so to speak and why should I give her the pleasure of being flirty with me, when she wasn't even interested a year ago. Honestly, I hope she feels bad and asks me out ,just like I kept asking her out, so I can have the pleasure to tell her "no". I'm sure I'm going to regret telling her no if she ever asks, but I think it is just a good idea. If someone sees that hey!!! , someone is trying to get my attention and I don't respond, well, clearly she's not into me. I'M SO CONFUSED!! 😵 Why go back and open the wound?

                                              • JACOBEEMANwarriordarknessdestroyer999999

                                                4-5 years ago I've been dating for a while but I got shut down cause of my anxiety I got anxious way too much til the point the girl I dated shut me down by just brake up with just because of my disability and I fell apart bursting crying and non stop.

                                                • Alex Atkinson
                                                  Alex Atkinson  2 months back

                                                  Lol this girl is literally proving red pill philosophy 100% correct. She’s talking about having so many options and the struggle 😂😭

                                                  • Luis D. Artavia
                                                    Luis D. Artavia  2 months back

                                                    cutee :)

                                                    • MgtowArena
                                                      MgtowArena  2 months back

                                                      Men- Unlimited access to unlimited women.... dating apps good.
                                                      Women- Find the best mate/will always want "more" AND have been socialized that "no man is ever good enough".... dating apps bad because a choice can never be made.

                                                      • Oscar Paredes
                                                        Oscar Paredes  2 months back

                                                        It’s hard because of your hypergamous nature. Stop being basic thots.

                                                        • Sony Co
                                                          Sony Co  2 months back

                                                          The wall spares not one female.

                                                          • Mystogan
                                                            Mystogan  2 months back

                                                            lol holy shit never seen such a basic looking woman think so highly of themselves. First off, you don't even know if you're datable. What makes you think any man wants to be with you, let alone being worried about a "better" one around the corner? Lady, you are someone who is settled for, not saught after. Get your head out of your ass. No man will ever need you, so stop acting like it.

                                                            • quxantipe
                                                              quxantipe  2 months back

                                                              You just discribed this, human tendency behavior: "keeping options open, and not closing options":
                                                              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhrdMoLeTKo
                                                              http://danariely.com/2008/02/27/the-advantages-of-closing-a-few-doors/
                                                              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpvpCLI5wxE

                                                              This behaviour will result, in bad results. keeping options open, creates non succesfull outcomes (if one want 1 commited relationship). What creates better outcomes then, is limiting your options. Thus closing doors/options.

                                                              • Grant Orrewe
                                                                Grant Orrewe  2 months back

                                                                not me I have big ass bank account ;)

                                                                • Bradley S
                                                                  Bradley S  2 months back

                                                                  Biggest problem is people getting into relationships and over-committing in the infatuation stage. If you aren't best friends, you aren't going to last.

                                                                  • J T
                                                                    J T  2 months back

                                                                    So, you don't know? Lol. Thought if get an answer 😂 how stupid was I?

                                                                    • Sobeewan
                                                                      Sobeewan  2 months back

                                                                      Upset because men won't commit, even though you weren't ready to commit? WTF?
                                                                      Also, if this woman doesn't know whether or not men are feeling or thinking something, it's because she's not listening or just doesnt really care anyway...probably both.

                                                                      • Frank L
                                                                        Frank L  2 months back

                                                                        wow ! I feel sorry for the guys that "DATE" you. My "crazy detector" just kept on clicking.

                                                                        • shredded guy
                                                                          shredded guy  2 months back

                                                                          cool video!, you really summed up what dating has become in the modern day, awesome!

                                                                          • Michael Clark
                                                                            Michael Clark  2 months back

                                                                            A big thing we’re going through is to many people are looking for a perfect person,
                                                                            Reality check! That person doesn’t exists!

                                                                            We got to stop with the perfection bull shit!

                                                                            • Scott
                                                                              Scott  2 months back

                                                                              Holy cats! You don't know what you are looking for at all, just flavor of the day. Well, maybe you need to work on figuring yourself out before you hit the wall and it's too late.

                                                                              • Cenk Toplar
                                                                                Cenk Toplar  2 months back

                                                                                In this era even if you are a Superman women will STILL doubt you and think "Is this the best I can get ?". So they will mind game you or nagging and make it nightmare !

                                                                                • Holypikemanz
                                                                                  Holypikemanz  2 months back

                                                                                  "Dumb spoiled white women" have "too much choice". Dude, FK YOU.

                                                                                  • Holypikemanz
                                                                                    Holypikemanz  2 months back

                                                                                    lol my comment was instantly deleted? hahaha

                                                                                    • FireRose
                                                                                      FireRose  2 months back

                                                                                      If you want something different you have to do something different

                                                                                      • moveaxebx
                                                                                        moveaxebx  2 months back

                                                                                        How do you measure who is better?
                                                                                        It takes a life time to get to know the person and you can do that over a tinder profile?
                                                                                        Look, stop being selfish. Life is hard. Find a person that is WILLING and able to travel with you.

                                                                                        • MKK
                                                                                          MKK  2 months back

                                                                                          I'm 28 and never had a girlfriend. I feel like giving up. I'm tuned in

                                                                                          • Holypikemanz
                                                                                            Holypikemanz  2 months back

                                                                                            Make money, go to dating sites and dont get emotionally invested in women who waste your time. Women like Coco, who are so extremely spoiled, are what women are like now. I just got back in the dating game, and its so hard (for men). For women its never been so easy to get everything you want. I really hate how she thinks its hard for women. Smile, say hello, and dont be fat= 90% of what women need to do to get a man.

                                                                                        • Loren P
                                                                                          Loren P  2 months back

                                                                                          2019: have fun, don't commit, keep it 100 brah...every1 riding that carousel 🔥

                                                                                          • EL MARIACHIE
                                                                                            EL MARIACHIE  2 months back

                                                                                            You know the answer?..


                                                                                            Watch your own video.


                                                                                            11:06 i just want to have meaningful connection.




                                                                                            Proceed on advice people to play hard to get.



                                                                                            Youre contradicting yourself

                                                                                            • Holypikemanz
                                                                                              Holypikemanz  2 months back

                                                                                              shes a spoiled western cunt. What did you expect? She wants a relationship and then also wants "no expectations".

                                                                                          • 张智中
                                                                                            张智中  2 months back

                                                                                            You sweet honey with babe.