Sales and Dating are the same thing

  • Published: 10 July 2019
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Comments • 82

  • Dj Quaresma
    Dj Quaresma  1 weeks back

    This video deserves a lot more views.

    • DimOut strange mofo
      DimOut strange mofo  3 months back

      4:04 is the guy holding fat joints? 😂

      • Neelam khalil
        Neelam khalil  3 months back

        Can you make a video on personal development you mentioned in video needed for sales.

        • Neelam khalil
          Neelam khalil  3 months back

          Fake it till you make it is not a good idea

          • auroraborealis x
            auroraborealis x  3 months back

            American approach

            • Momen Mawad
              Momen Mawad  3 months back

              You started using the word closing I see...

              Dan Lok is everywhere

              • Game on
                Game on  3 months back

                Get redpilled

                • Joseph Jesus Granillo
                  Joseph Jesus Granillo  3 months back

                  Dating is about being yourself and finding someone who will love you for who you are. There is no comparison to make between sales and money. Money and sales will never be a way to link you to your better half. Just be yourself and find happiness and you will eventually come access someone who loves you unconditionally. Never make the connection between sexual marketing value and selling yourself because you will never find that special someone, You will only find fools gold...

                  • Josh Lipovetsky
                    Josh Lipovetsky  2 months back

                    It's not just about being yourself. It's about being your best self. The dark side of me is my self as much as the light side of me, but I know which one I want to give the reigns to.

                • samy ichiro
                  samy ichiro  3 months back

                  That hit the nail !
                  Basically confidence = competence + tolerance to the rejections that comes in the way.

                  • Pinnacle Of Man TM
                    Pinnacle Of Man TM  3 months back

                    I've been saying this for years. Why I'm soooo good at sales 😉

                    • S CP
                      S CP  3 months back

                      SN I love his voice. Almost as soothing as the School of Life guy.

                      • Lava Yuki
                        Lava Yuki  3 months back

                        I got one of my guy friends to help me with my dating profile

                        • Jackson Fung
                          Jackson Fung  3 months back

                          So ok let me get this straight, subscriptions=booty calls

                          • Duece Lee Productions
                            Duece Lee Productions  3 months back


                            • Life Progress - a channel for introverts

                              *_You have to appeal to them both emotionally, that is the type of creatures we are_*

                              • Ron Solo
                                Ron Solo  3 months back

                                Bruh I'm right here, why is your voice so loud? 😅

                                • Ethan Hunt
                                  Ethan Hunt  3 months back

                                  Robert Kiyosaki said it best in one of his podcast episodes.

                                  He said something like...

                                  Are you good at getting laid? Then you'll be good in sales.

                                  • bbreimm
                                    bbreimm  3 months back

                                    If you want to treat a nice girl like a costumer and act as genuine as a freaking telemarketer, please stay the fuck out of the dating scene and don't make people lose their time on your sorry psychopath ass...

                                    • Quinton Oosthuizen
                                      Quinton Oosthuizen  3 months back

                                      Are we supposed to ignore how blatantly this objectifies women? They're fucking people too, get it through your thick skulls already.. If she's not interested, you won't win her over with a godly 'sales-pitch' or whatever. This video obviously assumes you don't think you deserve someone because of who you are, and that you need to manipulate someone into a relationship; that is the real reason you'll never find someone, not your "sales skills"

                                      • Richard Richardson
                                        Richard Richardson  3 months back

                                        Just be very good looking issue solved.

                                      • Ashu Tosh
                                        Ashu Tosh  3 months back

                                        Confidence Comes From Knowledge!

                                        • Burhan Qerimi
                                          Burhan Qerimi  3 months back

                                          Be a gentleman don't objectify women for they are not a trophy

                                        • O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me

                                          *SALES - presenting something in a way that emotionally resonates with the potential buyer*

                                          • For Wakanda
                                            For Wakanda  3 months back

                                            women like to be lied to

                                            • bbreimm
                                              bbreimm  3 months back

                                              Nobody likes being lied to...

                                          • Gabie Qc
                                            Gabie Qc  3 months back

                                            Theodore, for only 1 $ you can hang out with a cool person like me ☺
                                            Would be nice tough 💕😙

                                            • MrLardax
                                              MrLardax  3 months back

                                              @Ka1d0 AHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH IM DYING

                                            • Ka1d0
                                              Ka1d0  3 months back

                                              Gabie Qc i’m open for a blowjob

                                          • SyNc Life!
                                            SyNc Life!  3 months back

                                            "Sales and Dating are the same thing" - Unfortunately yes, because people tend to fall for narratives instead of seeing facts.

                                            • Zutnop Holmgren
                                              Zutnop Holmgren  3 months back

                                              I work in sales and always use exactly the same techniques when I hit on girls as I do at work. Felt like a fucking psychopath when I realized that it actually works.

                                              • bbreimm
                                                bbreimm  3 months back

                                                Yes because girls don't expect a fucking psychopath to apply selling techniques on them to get into their pants. Unfortunately, you are one, and you disgustingly do...

                                            • M Katendra
                                              M Katendra  3 months back

                                              I like his voice, way of saying and of course the content. Thank you.

                                              • Bekaotik
                                                Bekaotik  3 months back

                                                I love the comparison

                                                • Moon in Joon
                                                  Moon in Joon  3 months back

                                                  I just hate people, not many people I meet I like, some I meet annoy me or I find faults with them, I have high standards, a loner, I’m not saying I’m perfect or amazing, I just find people are assholes, what can I do, I don’t do charm I don’t have charisma, I can not put on an act or smile when I don’t feel it. I’m not interested in listening to people, their likes and dislikes and problems it’s boring, just as I don’t like talking about myself. Equally people don’t get me and are repelled. What can I do?

                                                • TheSkokan
                                                  TheSkokan  3 months back

                                                  Dating = selling
                                                  This concept makes me kinda sad xD

                                                  • TheSkokan
                                                    TheSkokan  2 months back

                                                    @Eugene Murray just look at how the need to sell is affecting the world.

                                                  • Eugene Murray
                                                    Eugene Murray  2 months back

                                                    Selling is ok...
                                                    Dating is ok...
                                                    Both are fun
                                                    So long as it is
                                                    Win win...

                                                • Rafi Charkasian
                                                  Rafi Charkasian  3 months back

                                                  the MEGA psychology selling course... lol 😂😂

                                                  • Danielle D
                                                    Danielle D  3 months back

                                                    Almost single person I go on a date with wants a second date. I've also made a great salesperson! The key is just seeming interested and entertaining. You don't need to be the most unique or special person, but have an opinion on what others say and add to the conversation. Be well-read. I find being well-read and absorbing meaningful, interesting content is the best thing you can do for your personality. We can only put out what we take in. Don't spend all day watching Reality TV, curate a passion, unless you want to end up with someone... who spends all day watching Reality TV.

                                                    • S CP
                                                      S CP  3 months back

                                                      this part: "we can only put out what we take in"

                                                  • BetterEveryDay
                                                    BetterEveryDay  3 months back

                                                    If the girl/customer wasn’t interested in your product in the first place, no amount of selling will help.

                                                    • humanix
                                                      humanix  3 months back

                                                      Bro, I've been saying this for years.


                                                      • Jorge Gonzalez
                                                        Jorge Gonzalez  3 months back

                                                        What if you got the girl that you want your already dating and taking her home, but shes not as charismatic or funny as you😅

                                                        • Shione Cooper [Google Me]

                                                          *_Word dawg_*

                                                        • Kumanova R
                                                          Kumanova R  3 months back

                                                          My librarian always tells me

                                                          *READ MORE*

                                                          • John Marist
                                                            John Marist  3 months back

                                                            You got me. I was like why isnt it working I wanna read it

                                                          • Duece Lee Productions
                                                            Duece Lee Productions  3 months back

                                                            Bastardooooo!!! 😂😂😂

                                                          • Mr Dylan
                                                            Mr Dylan  3 months back

                                                            We’ve been tricked, we’ve been backstabbed, and we’ve been quite possibly, bamboozled.

                                                        • Saeed Mohammad
                                                          Saeed Mohammad  3 months back

                                                          how to coning question plz

                                                          • Forbidden Knowledge
                                                            Forbidden Knowledge  3 months back

                                                            bullshit, if you make the sell you make money, but in dating you are out of money regardless of the outcome, you may score some pussies but that is what prostitutes are for, a lot cheaper with 100% guarantee of pussy.

                                                            • tatesz
                                                              tatesz  3 months back

                                                              @bbreimm Agree

                                                            • bbreimm
                                                              bbreimm  3 months back

                                                              @tatesz You're not ready for a relationship either.

                                                            • bbreimm
                                                              bbreimm  3 months back

                                                              @Forbidden Knowledge You're not ready for a relationship.

                                                            • tatesz
                                                              tatesz  3 months back

                                                              @Forbidden Knowledge to get pussy

                                                            • Forbidden Knowledge
                                                              Forbidden Knowledge  3 months back

                                                              @Jared Nelson thanks, I see the point, especially "the need for acceptance" point, but to what end? why the hell you need the acceptance from a woman, unless she is my manager or boss.

                                                          • StarBlack RockShooter
                                                            StarBlack RockShooter  3 months back

                                                            True shit 😂

                                                            • Da'marius Wingfield
                                                              Da'marius Wingfield  3 months back

                                                              Confidence is not something you tackle directly but a byproduct in your state of mind.

                                                              • Vomiting Larry
                                                                Vomiting Larry  3 months back

                                                                @Da'marius Wingfield Can't agree more. Doing what you have a passion for and surrounding yourself with quality people(I feel this gets overlooked) is important for self improvement

                                                              • Da'marius Wingfield
                                                                Da'marius Wingfield  3 months back

                                                                @Vomiting Larry Bonus: Stick to your passions and find friends and mates who have them as well.

                                                              • Vomiting Larry
                                                                Vomiting Larry  3 months back

                                                                That is great advice.Thank you!☺

                                                              • Da'marius Wingfield
                                                                Da'marius Wingfield  3 months back

                                                                @Ralph Orland Leynes Correct.

                                                              • Ralph Orland Leynes
                                                                Ralph Orland Leynes  3 months back

                                                                Which comes naturally from self improvement.

                                                            • Mindprovement
                                                              Mindprovement  3 months back

                                                              Self belief and charisma are extremely important if you want to sell effectively, and improve your social life.

                                                              • BetterMints
                                                                BetterMints  3 months back

                                                                Business is all about nurturing a *relationship.* Same with dating.

                                                                • Flower on Discord
                                                                  Flower on Discord  3 months back

                                                                  I’ve been selling stuff ever since grade 1 but still have no confidence lmao

                                                                  • Waffle Daily
                                                                    Waffle Daily  3 months back

                                                                    I’m fairly early, might as well mention that I upload waffles every day

                                                                    • Siddharth Verma
                                                                      Siddharth Verma  3 months back

                                                                      The correct way to see it is, every time you face a rejection your chances of succeeding increases not decreases, you are one less rejection away.

                                                                      • O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me

                                                                        *SALES boil down to ability to handle interpersonal relationships.*
                                                                        If you are genuine and convincing, people will buy whatever you are selling: product, service, personal brand.
                                                                        People follow YOU

                                                                        • Al Callaghan
                                                                          Al Callaghan  3 months back

                                                                          Man I really like your comments in every video that I watch: they're genuine and gives value. Your channel could use some of my feedback. Focus on creating content that solves people's problems. We catch fish by giving them what they like.