7 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You (#3 Makes NO Sense)

  • Published: 21 October 2018
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    In this video and article, I’m going to give you some definite signs that he’s attracted to you, even if he’s trying to keep it a secret.

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    Let’s dive into some signs he’s secretly attracted to you so that you can plan your next move.

    1:31 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #1. He Gets Nervous In Your Company

    I don’t think women ever realize how completely intimidating it is for a man to approach them. He worries you’ll reject him or laugh at him. Now, I know you wouldn’t, but he has that in his head. So cut him some slack.

    If this guy is fidgety around you (and no one else), that’s a pretty good sign he’s secretly attracted to you. Reassure him that you’re interested too with a nice flirty smile or a hand on his arm.

    2:17 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #2. He Smiles and Opens His Body Language

    His body language will also communicate his interest. Rather than crossing his arms or turning away from you (which communicates the very opposite), he will face toward you and even lean in when you talk (it’s especially cute if you’re short and he’s tall and does this!).

    3:15 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #3. He’s Mean to You or Teases You

    If he teases you, tease him back!

    Instead of you running and crying in the bathroom, knowing that this actually means he likes you should help you be a little confident, and maybe get you to tease him back.

    3:57 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #4. You Get the Feeling He’s Into You

    I’m always telling you Sexy Confident women to trust your gut. If you get the feeling that he’s attracted to you, don’t let your brain overthink it and convince your gut otherwise.

    There’s a reason scientists call the gut The Second Brain: it has an eerie ability to “know” things that sometimes your brain gets wrong. So give it a try. The next time you think a guy is showing signs he’s secretly attracted to you, find out and see if your gut was right.

    4:06 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #5. He Works On Appearing Well-Groomed

    If this man is someone you’ve spent time with platonically, pay attention to whether he seems to be putting in extra effort these days into his appearance.

    Any change in his appearance for the better may indicate that he’s trying to subtly get your attention. Make sure you praise his efforts…and put in your own. Shopping time!

    4:14 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #6. He Has A Helpful Attitude Towards You

    Is he going out of his way to be helpful? He’s definitely interested!

    Men are natural providers. When we are attracted to a woman, we want to help her however we can.

    He might offer you a ride when your car’s in the shop…

    He might help with that TPS report you’ve been stressing about at work…

    He might bring you chicken noodle soup when you’re sick.

    Realize that the average dude is not going to put this effort into helping a female friend. If he’s going above and beyond, he wants to provide value to you, the same way cavemen wanted to get the approval of their caveladies when they brought home a nice juicy dinosaur steak!

    4:44 Signs He's Secretly Attracted to You #7. He’s Constantly Grooming Himself

    Men don’t even realize that they’re doing this. They may run their fingers through their hair (wishing they were running them through your hair). Or comb their beards with their fingers (hoping there are no crumbs lingering!). However he’s grooming himself, he’s trying to make sure that he’s looking his best in front of a lady he is absolutely smitten with.

    Now that you've identified the signs he's secretly attracted to you, figure out how to communicate your interest back. I give you three easy tips to implement in Part 2 of this article, but you've got to be a Sexy Confidence member to get access. Sign up now and get exclusive content, a super-supportive community, and tons of resources designed to help you find true love: https://sexyconfidence.com/club/
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  • Sexy Confidence
    Sexy Confidence   11 months back

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    • Sandra Calderin
      Sandra Calderin  1 hours back

      @Sole Be stay away he is lying

    • Vow Cow
      Vow Cow  1 days back

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    • Bishu from Nepal
      Bishu from Nepal  1 months back

      Yess...he use to tease me all the time....also copies me....and keeps his hands to my back sometimes....he stares at me....he always use to sit with me at office at canteen...he walks with me....he offers me for a lift....he use to hold my wrist, he moves his body towards me while sitting together or walking together....... sometimes when i look into his eyes, I feel like he likes me...but sometimes I feel like it's my wrong concept that he likes me because he never use to chat with me....I'm confused whether he likes me or no...but with these all of his behaviours I am attracted towards him....I don't know whether he likes me or not but now I really like him 💑....I want him to propose me one day.

    • Sole Be
      Sole Be  2 months back

      I need advice on this one, I met the man at work, he is married and have kids, his wife is not well, according to him, they don't have sex over 2 yrs, his wife told him it's ok to date, and now he wants to be with me. I said go back to your wife and make her happy, you do not need me. He never listened! What should I do?

  • Pam Voge
    Pam Voge  4 hours back

    When I like a guy I flurt

    • Ling ling
      Ling ling  17 hours back

      #4 I don't want to expect 💔

      • derrie page
        derrie page  19 hours back


        • Anurvi
          Anurvi  2 days back

          Why is my 17 yo watching this?

          • Charis Ho
            Charis Ho  3 days back

            What if the guy is teasing me about liking someone else? Ahaha so confusing

            • mai kasem
              mai kasem  4 days back

              I have a friend who do allllll those signs when we are together but there is one problem ... my best friend is in love with him

              • Daya Taya
                Daya Taya  5 days back

                I'm nice to everybody so I guess you'll never know if I like you or not.

                • Daya Taya
                  Daya Taya  5 days back

                  There's this guy who doesn't ever make eye contact with me I find it kind of rude, I don't think he likes me though.😂

                  • Smilga Zolyte
                    Smilga Zolyte  5 days back

                    I would add lower than usual voice, innocent touching...

                    • Bit Jada3
                      Bit Jada3  5 days back

                      He tells me i am old sometimes he says grandma .... he says whatever u do you will look old .. but always hes smiling ... and he is always there for me he helps whether i ask for it or not

                      • Shanya Walia
                        Shanya Walia  6 days back

                        Every guy teases me like every guy😂

                        • Susana M
                          Susana M  6 days back

                          I'm debating on doing that "drop your book in the halls" technique since his locker is next to mine

                          • Grace_4ever_15
                            Grace_4ever_15  6 days back


                            • Mariana Rebellato Sawan

                              Number 3: it happened to me. I am a musician, and I am often in a studio. I am a heavy metal singer, which is rare for a woman in Brazil so I am surrounded by men. I treat everyone kindly and I am free to speak my mind, so everyone there likes me. One guy was mean to me 3 times, The third time he did it, for absolutely NO REASON, I started crying and even had my friends (guys) mad at him. It happened twice that everytime I was talking to guys, he would show up and invade the conversation in an arrogant way just to show he is there. He even showed up in the neighbour bakery once when I was with two of my best guy friends. So when the third mean thing happened, one of my male friends told me "I think he is in love with you". I was like "what??? This makes no sense! He HATES me!"

                              • Mariana Rebellato Sawan

                                HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA number 3: I LOVE how you start laughing at it HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

                                AND IT IS SOOO TRUE!

                                • Kristyl Napinas
                                  Kristyl Napinas  1 weeks back

                                  Someone is always teasing at school even on programs but when I lost my money he gave me some

                                  • Anonymous Gal
                                    Anonymous Gal  1 weeks back

                                    Aha Story Time:
                                    So it was April Fools, and there's this guy I like and he sits in front of me during Algebra. After class, he asks me, " Hey you wanna date?" USUALLY he's like really rude to me and so I'm a little shook he asked me that, I said "Whaaaa-" Like I didnt even finish my "what" and then he said "APRIL FOOLS IT WAS JUST A DARE" And then he walked away out of class. Like......WHAT TF WAS THAT LMAO

                                    • Purple Invader
                                      Purple Invader  1 weeks back

                                      A guy grabbed my bag and tripped me in the hallway...I gave him a broken nose...

                                      • Kristel Belo
                                        Kristel Belo  1 weeks back

                                        Don't know if he can't make eye contact with me
                                        I can't look at him too

                                        • Aaviancaa ___
                                          Aaviancaa ___  1 weeks back

                                          I like the 6th tip...that is so..true!! :)

                                          • Lucie M
                                            Lucie M  2 weeks back

                                            I dated an Irishman who was sarcastic to me a lot. I think it was an Irish thing. Yeah he acted like a 14 year old sometimes and he was over 50. Two weeks after I met him he told me he was in love with me.

                                            • V_ a e s t h e t i c
                                              V_ a e s t h e t i c  2 weeks back

                                              Can anyone girl talk with me right now

                                              • K M
                                                K M  2 weeks back

                                                Us Ladies we all are different. I learned to just to let things happen the way its meant to. I have trouble knowing if a guy likes me though. I try not to analyze things. However, I just cannot seem to not do so. The video was helpful though.

                                                • Kinga Grzybowska
                                                  Kinga Grzybowska  2 weeks back

                                                  There is a boy in my class and my friends say he likes me a lot and has a huge crush on me. These are the sighs:
                                                  -he always sits as near me as he can,
                                                  -he is always looking at my,
                                                  -he raises his eyebrows up,
                                                  -his eye pulpits are huge when he looks at me,
                                                  -he leans closer to me when I'm talking to him,
                                                  But... He is so different around me he is so nervous next to me but when he is talking to another girls he is less nervous

                                                  • Nea Zy
                                                    Nea Zy  2 weeks back

                                                    The only sign i have is we sometimes would look at each other. Thats it.

                                                    • Riley V
                                                      Riley V  2 weeks back

                                                      well for number 3. This one boy punched me in the back... and left me a bruise in class.... and he calls me terrible names... and he steals my stuff... weLp I need new friends 😭😭😭

                                                      • Phyllis Montoroula
                                                        Phyllis Montoroula  2 weeks back

                                                        My cush takes me out calls me he takes me out a lot

                                                        • Bulelwa Bulie
                                                          Bulelwa Bulie  2 weeks back

                                                          What does it mean if my bestfriend tells my crush that i like him and he laughs and he tells his friends

                                                          • Beauty of nature
                                                            Beauty of nature  3 weeks back

                                                            I hide my feelings 100%

                                                            • cherry pies
                                                              cherry pies  3 weeks back

                                                              I'm a girl but i do almost everything boys do when they like girls💀

                                                              • Jazmyn Decou
                                                                Jazmyn Decou  3 weeks back

                                                                I'm watching this because a guy is doing it to me he touchs my thigh and idk what that means and he toches my back

                                                                • Mommy Moments
                                                                  Mommy Moments  4 weeks back

                                                                  Don’t kid yourself women are attracted to men by eyes too LOL

                                                                  • Shalu Bhalu
                                                                    Shalu Bhalu  4 weeks back

                                                                    No one is interested in me

                                                                    • Cassiee
                                                                      Cassiee  4 weeks back

                                                                      all my crush has ever said to me is what grade r u in then he nodded his head he always looks at me tho and when I LOOK AT HIME HE LOOKS AWAYYYYYYY

                                                                      • goodnight enemy
                                                                        goodnight enemy  1 months back

                                                                        My crush deeply stares at me (Its like he can see through me lol kinda creepy) but doesn't say anything or smile at me and break away the eye contact it doesn't makes sense

                                                                        Or is there somthin on mah face omg?

                                                                      • OtakuTrash
                                                                        OtakuTrash  1 months back

                                                                        One guy was really mean to me on social media but said he was attracted to me.... I just thought he was just trying to play with me. Tho it wasn't just teasing but straight up bullying.

                                                                        • yellxw mix
                                                                          yellxw mix  1 months back

                                                                          Thumbnail is my everything!😂😂😂

                                                                          • Silivia Johansson
                                                                            Silivia Johansson  1 months back

                                                                            DUDE THE PERSON I HATE DOES NUMBER THREE ALL THE TIME wait does that mean he likes me O-O....

                                                                            • joanne g
                                                                              joanne g  1 months back

                                                                              I work around a lot of men..
                                                                              These signals are soooo true!
                                                                              Men are awesome

                                                                              • Doggo Bread
                                                                                Doggo Bread  1 months back

                                                                                I already know he likes me. Lel. Why am i here. Idk if i should like him or not

                                                                                • no ewe
                                                                                  no ewe  1 months back

                                                                                  the guy i like t posed around me does that count as opening up his body (#2)

                                                                                  • Rubi 'E
                                                                                    Rubi 'E  1 months back

                                                                                    I think I'm a man.. ahahhahaha.. I do all of these when I like a guy..hahahhaha

                                                                                    • Roseley Thelus
                                                                                      Roseley Thelus  1 months back

                                                                                      When i look at this one guy.. He stares into my eyes for about 3 seconds and then looks away or looks down and keeps smiling, then puts his head in his shirt still smiling. When i ask him why.. He says he just cant take me serious. I dont understand at all... Helpppppp!!!

                                                                                      • Sucharita Mitra
                                                                                        Sucharita Mitra  1 months back

                                                                                        Well yes. He is mean to me and teases me.

                                                                                        • Lizzypoo
                                                                                          Lizzypoo  1 months back

                                                                                          Nothing new but this dude reminds me of Seth Macfarlane lol

                                                                                          • Keyla Sandoval
                                                                                            Keyla Sandoval  1 months back

                                                                                            I would not say the guy I think he likes me is mean but sometimes I cannot read him because suddenly he ignores me completely like if I don't exist but there are many other times he gets involved in my conversations when no one was talking to him and he could talk like 30 mins or more

                                                                                            He is a coworker and he has 3 years of experience in the field so I have seen he does anything but anything on his power to help me out that to me is attractive

                                                                                            But is confusing because even though he has shown some light interest on me is not for sure sometimes he ignores me...the other day he said got a new number and we were 3 girls in the chilling room at work so he said if u guys want to call me let me give u my nymber I did not ask for it then he said ok I thought someone was gonna ask me for my number so I did and the rest of the girls but he just gave it to my friend not to me. So its confusing there are some signs but then he tells me things like hey I am single or hey if u don't have a boyfriend when u have the time we can watch this tv show together I can cook for u also because he was a chef....but dude why he has not come and ask me my number or ever have seriously invited me to dinner or anything i mean seriously. Don't know what to do

                                                                                            • pompom2001
                                                                                              pompom2001  1 months back

                                                                                              I went on a date yesterday and we went to a bar the we went to a park and climbed up a hill to see the London skyline. I took snacks and a picnic blanket too. It was such a good date. While we were still in the bar he showed signs of attraction. Brushed my hand, stared at my face, commented on my "cute" habits (moving my hair out of my face, asking lots of questions, sipping my drink slowly). Went up the hill sat down and we started talking. He said he felt like hes known me for ages to which I agreed. It felt like we knew each other. He held my hands and became obsessed with the softness. We talked more and just chilled. Then we cuddled cuz its hella cold and we kissed. I told him it wont go belong it for now. He said thsts okay. He admitted he liked me already. He was so happy when walking me to the bus stop, and was skipping along me. He went home and sent me a pic of his dinner, a dish that I said is my fave... next day I messaged him....he shut me down and told me he went on another date...what the hell happened?