• Published: 11 July 2019
  • I almost got myself into a really bad situation....

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    Hi! I'm Sam and I'm a professional hairstylist from Pennsylvania. Here on my channel I post a variety of videos related to beauty and my life in general. I love teaching and inspiring others, whether that's through a hair tutorial or an advice video.


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  • Hideout Salon
    Hideout Salon  4 weeks back

    You are going about dating all wrong, my dear. You are sourcing your potential dates from a position of weakness. You need to be more dominant in your relationship experiences. I don't mean dominatrix--you need to seek out younger guys by a couple years and with whom you are more successful and probably a little smarter. Rather than look for the captain of the football team, look for the overlooked coffee barista or grad school student.

    The women's group I belong to totally clued me in on why I was seeking out what I thought was Mr. Right but assuring myself of meeting Mr. Flawed. By being the slight aggressor and picking your choices by taking the initiative, you are likely to find the shy guy that fantasizes about going out with you but is way too scared. From this group of potential guys, you will find a diamond in the rough and at the same time find the one that will basically worship you and be as loyal as a dog to you.

    Please learn from my many years of experiences. I married the football captain and was verbally abused and eventually physically abused. After cleaning him out in the divorce settlement, I opened my salon and continued to date the same jerks over and over again. Then, one weekend at a Davines convetnion, I met a special Alpha female that told me all about their group of women that helped other women out by teaching us how to use conversational hypnosis in our business and our social lives. I self-learned all about this and then obtained certification in hypnotherapy, which I use in my chair when clients desire help.

    I began using NLP and within six months of living my new and improved life, one of my clients came in for a trim just before Valentine's Day. I had never thought of him as potential mate material, but now that I had my new way of life, I really saw him for the first time. I began using my new powers to mentally flirt with his subconscious. I knew he was super shy and probably fairly inexperienced, if not still a virgin cub.

    Long story less long, I used my powers on him to get him to agree to take me out to dinner instead of paying for the haircut. He would have never asked me out, because he was way too scared. Aside from the fact that I am one of those "Wild Redheads" (natural redhead to boot) with deep blue eyes and a size 2 figure, I am 10 years older than him.

    We went to dinner, and I let him see me as a caring, kind, and very understanding person that did not judge men by how many notches they had in their belts. As the conversation slowly became more seductive, I let him know that I had been thinking about him for a long time but was too scared to say anything to him until now (which wasn't totally truthful, but I wanted him to see me as more shy than he was to give him confidence).

    I closed the deal by doing the one thing that I learned from the other ladies in our group--proposition that you want to buzz their hair off because it drives you crazy to rub the sandpaper stubble. I had been cutting his hair for 16 months, and his style was totally wrong, and because I have a huge thing for guys with burrs, and because a lot of guys secretly wished they had the guts to look like hunky marines, this tends to work.

    That night, he came home with me, and I took my 5-zero blade on my Oster Turbo 111 clipper and sheared him like a sheep. I began rubbing it and letting him see how turned on it made me. It quickly made him tense and as extended as he could be.

    I took him to bed and deflowered him that night. The next morning he told me he had been in love with me for more than a year, and he said it was not lust, but real love. He admitted that he kept coming back every 3 weeks for tiny trims just so he could spend 45 minutes with me without me rejecting him.

    He moved in with me two weeks later, and five weeks later, we went to Reno and were married. We have been married three years, and we have never had an argument or even anything close to it. Every day, he wakes up and makes coffee and then comes and massages me where he knows I get all worked up, and we begin every day making love. We frequently end the night doing the same thing. It is the most blissful life you could imagine.

    A few months into our marriage, he quit his job so he could come handle all the accounting at my salon, and then because of his brains, we were able to work a deal for me to buy two more salons. We work together and are basically together 24/7, and he tells me he feels like time is going by too fast. After 20+ years of terrible relationships and the worst marriage possible, I have found the perfect mate. He had a banner printed in my favorite color purple which reads,

    "The Law in This House: I L ove, A dore and W orship My Soul Mate."

    This is the type of man all women deserve to have. I say if you want this perfect spouse, you need to look for Mr. Shy Overlooked and forget the football captain or the corporate wolf.

    • Kayla stylesxo
      Kayla stylesxo  1 months back

      I just looked him up 😨

      • 079ShrimpBoi 102
        079ShrimpBoi 102  2 months back

        That is scary:O

        • jocelynroca28
          jocelynroca28  3 months back

          Sam!!! Where are you ?? I literally watched this video 3 times.. I been checking to see if you have any new videos uploaded.. But noo.. nothing yet! 😞 Well I hope your okay! I'm pretty sure everone is waiting for the next story to come 😳 ☕

          • Sam Vay
            Sam Vay   3 months back

            jocelynroca28 just uploaded! 😊

        • itslaurenyo308
          itslaurenyo308  3 months back

          Thank god you didn’t go! So scary

          • Dayna Brailey
            Dayna Brailey  3 months back

            Dating sites can be dangerous, there are nice guys I have actually met people in a public place and made 4 great friends off of there. One of which a dated but there are also a lot of guys that just want hook ups and some creeps out there. I have a friend that was going to meet someone at a Park that i know is not busy at all and in the dark I begged her not to go and she didn't luckily.

            • Raquel L
              Raquel L  3 months back

              Men treat women like they weren’t born from one
              They will do this to a random woman, but if someone did this to their sister, it’s not ok lol
              People like that gotta be institutionalized or something

            • LovedHappy
              LovedHappy  3 months back

              That’s so sick and horrifying. I’m so glad you were safe and he was put away. I hope he got a LONG time. I’m glad you shared so other women can be more aware.❤️🙏🏻

              • Anna Fröjdh
                Anna Fröjdh  3 months back

                Omg... 😳

                • Samantha Con
                  Samantha Con  3 months back


                  • Amy Flowers
                    Amy Flowers  3 months back

                    It’s really sad that the “ new normal “ is to go to a strangers house! I dont care how well the conversation is going.. you don’t ever go to a strangers house! Get to really know the person a little at least! Look you think it’s so innocent but it would not have been so innocent.. your such a beautiful girl ! Don’t ever put yourself in that kind of situation! It’s like the start to every scary movie lol! Have fun! But be safe! When the restaurant or bar closes maybe it’s just time to go home that’s the safer route! You can always meet up again and get to know the person better! I know I’m a mom lol. But iv been there done that! And in my experience it doesn’t end well.. just be Extra careful! Ladies and gentlemen! Cause people be so weird and scary these days! Lots of love to you All! Xoxo 🧡🌺

                    • Amy Flowers
                      Amy Flowers  3 months back

                      Sam Vay I totally agree 🌺

                    • Sam Vay
                      Sam Vay   3 months back

                      Amy Flowers I totally agree. But I wouldn’t say it’s the “new normal” ... It’s been super common for decades for people to have one night stands and go home with strangers. The difference now is that we meet people online first and it seems we live in a much more dangerous world compared to 30-40 years ago. And unfortunately, even after you get to know someone, they can still be dangerous! You just always have to be smart and safe no matter what and always listen to your gut!!

                  • Adil Draws
                    Adil Draws  3 months back

                    Online dating is very risky.

                    • Ashleys Twist
                      Ashleys Twist  3 months back

                      I love all the story times! Yet another amazing video!!!🧡😄

                      • sillysandy123
                        sillysandy123  3 months back

                        You look like Kylie Jenner 🥰

                        • Nesreen Habbas
                          Nesreen Habbas  3 months back

                          Wish I had you as an older sister! You give such good advice!

                          • J Ray
                            J Ray  3 months back

                            This is why I don’t trust anyone 😩 I’m glad you never met him irl.
                            I have a family gc and my location is always on too, I’m paranoid.
                            I would never go to someone’s house after just meeting them, I probably would have when I was a teen but not now lol

                            • jocelynroca28
                              jocelynroca28  3 months back

                              Thank God your okay! This video is sooo good!! I'm happy you shared your safery tips with us! It's really good that you and your friends came up with those safety ideas. I'm gonna shared them with my love ones. Again Thank You! Your the best ❤

                              • Ashlynn McGovern
                                Ashlynn McGovern  3 months back

                                Hey girl! Love your videos from Pennsylvania 💜💜

                                • rockerchick6168
                                  rockerchick6168  3 months back

                                  That is so freaky! I’m glad you didn’t go. Him asking to meet at the last minute is a little odd, and sounds like he had an agenda. I met my husband on our first date at a meeting point before our date and he offered to drive me there, and I was nervous about it. But my mom also had a picture of him and his name and where we were going. Then later on he asked me if I wanted to use the bathroom at his apartment, which also concerned me. I kept thinking, what if he’s a serial killer? Lol I was lucky but yeah you really just never know.

                                  • dev0n james
                                    dev0n james  3 months back

                                    he sounds like a white guy.

                                    • dev0n james
                                      dev0n james  3 months back

                                      @Ellie E. how am I being stereotypical?

                                    • Ellie E.
                                      Ellie E.  3 months back

                                      dev0n james maybe u shouldnt be stereotypical sooo.....

                                    • dev0n james
                                      dev0n james  3 months back

                                      @Sam Vay well it's still white male behavior..sooo...

                                    • Sam Vay
                                      Sam Vay   3 months back

                                      Actually, he's not.. sooo...

                                  • Abby Lesjak
                                    Abby Lesjak  3 months back

                                    “ something small like a DUI “ ... 😦

                                    • Eleisha Ulmer
                                      Eleisha Ulmer  3 months back

                                      Abby Lesjak I’m glad someone said it! That was very alarming 😮😳

                                  • Chuck
                                    Chuck  3 months back

                                    LMAO, just hilarious! Over whelming majority of women are sexual predators! Most girls have BODY counts high then a professional hitman. Most women got more strokes then a old diesel engine has miles on it. And most women have had their fun zones be rezoned to be biohazard zones from the STDs. Most women ride the cock carousels, chase paper dreams, wait for prince charming to their 30s! Come your 30s, you get to meet the wall, and its undefeated. There are no good/ nice/ smart men looking for you! You made yourselves Toxic to be in a relationship with, dangerous to be around, and plain high risk. With over 50%+ men out of the dating game and more so in the younger generation of men, theres only a few types of men bothering to look at you. You women are left with the bad boys who are going to use you as the public sperm toilet and come your 30s, hes gonna replace you for a younger you. Because lets face it ladies you have always out #ed men, now over 50% of men are out of the game, those few guys willing to play, know theres mile long lines of women waiting to ride the ride! 85% of your life choice routes lead to you becoming and staying single in your futures! FYI = Men are replacing you with other things in mass #s from video games, porn, work, realistic sex dolls, hobbies, hentai, anime, and the list goes on and on!

                                    You ladies are your own bad situations/ worst enemies. You make bad life decisions daily on repeat! Only women could find a way to weaponize marriage and kids. I 100% support womens rights to remain Single independent career working women living in your apartment tombs with only your netflix subscriptions and cats to comfort you to your graves.

                                    • ha' az mat
                                      ha' az mat  3 months back

                                      Mine's worse. Once, I almost dated a YouTuber, stopped her from pursuing her dozen-cat destiny, and made her dumpster fire into my dumpster fire. I just unsubscribed from this channel so hard. Chuck thanks for speaking out!!

                                    • Chuck
                                      Chuck  3 months back

                                      @Shara Assad - You have brought me to my knees with that comment! My dignity is shattered, my self respect has reached a new low, and i am certain your god OLAF or whatever will punish me. All hail the Free Public sperm toilet!

                                      You suck at man shaming and liking your own post makes you look stupid and desperate for someone to give you approval like a dog! LMAO

                                    • Chuck
                                      Chuck  3 months back

                                      @Claire Lewis - Women are Attention Whores, constantly needing to say something to defend themselves or someone they know, get the last word in, or flex their pretend brain musculus. You can always tell how much a woman matches a description by the shear # of replies, when they try to start correcting grammar/ spelling, man shaming, and are just unable to come up with a basic logical rebuttal to any part of a argument !

                                      TY Claire, Looks like everyone knows how much you fit my description now. Your positivity bubbles are popping, reality is setting in, and chances are high that you will be single independent women to your graves! Because lets face it come your 30s, the wall hits hard and is undefeated, and all routes lead to you becoming and staying single independent women in your apartment tombs!

                                    • Shara Assad
                                      Shara Assad  3 months back

                                      Obviously an incel

                                    • Claire Lewis
                                      Claire Lewis  3 months back

                                      @Chuck Lmfao you're a loser bye

                                  • PeechieMeechie11
                                    PeechieMeechie11  3 months back

                                    Anytime a guy is like let's meet right now it's the biggest red flag ever

                                    • Kayla stylesxo
                                      Kayla stylesxo  1 months back

                                      Why is it a red flag

                                    • Amy Flowers
                                      Amy Flowers  3 months back

                                      PeechieMeechie11 yes! I totally agree! That never a good idea! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

                                    • Sam Vay
                                      Sam Vay   3 months back


                                  • sandy California
                                    sandy California  3 months back

                                    That’s scary 😩

                                    • Blanca W
                                      Blanca W  3 months back

                                      Damn girl! You really dodged a bullet! Thank God you had that gut feeling that something was off and you stayed home. More people need to listen to that feeling, I've found it never leads me wrong. That's very good advise about sharing your location and sending all the info to a girlfriend. Very smart!

                                      • Maria Mia
                                        Maria Mia  3 months back

                                        Ok so she knew those rumors but didn’t tell you the first time?

                                        • Sam Vay
                                          Sam Vay   3 months back

                                          Maria Mia true!

                                        • Maria Mia
                                          Maria Mia  3 months back

                                          Sam Vay still if someone asked you about someone you heard that about wouldn’t you maybe tell them?? Lol I would!

                                        • Sam Vay
                                          Sam Vay   3 months back

                                          I think she just thought he was a player in high school, and since nothing came of the rumors, she just assumed they were just rumors.

                                      • Aisling Finnerty
                                        Aisling Finnerty  3 months back

                                        Kylie Jenner vibes 😍

                                        • Colette McMillan
                                          Colette McMillan  3 months back

                                          ok this story is crazy but your blush.... so CUTE!

                                        • jasmine secret
                                          jasmine secret  3 months back

                                          OMG!!!! You were lucky!! omg!!!!! that's creepy and scary! wow!! thanks for sharing.. 😊this can save others from making such mistakes. 😊 i want an update about ur current relationship and see him on ur channel 💞 whenever ur ready though❣ love you 💜

                                          • nybsbfan18
                                            nybsbfan18  3 months back

                                            U dodged a bullet, Sam.

                                            • Nicole Ramírez
                                              Nicole Ramírez  3 months back

                                              i’m loving the blushy cheeks on you! 😍

                                            • Sonja Freeman
                                              Sonja Freeman  3 months back

                                              I'm so glad you didn't meet up with him the night before he left!

                                            • Jennifer Lozada
                                              Jennifer Lozada  3 months back

                                              I loveeeeee ur blush looks so
                                              Good on you like that !!

                                            • Courtney H
                                              Courtney H  3 months back

                                              GIRL what blush are you wearing

                                              • Sam Vay
                                                Sam Vay   3 months back

                                                "No Vacancy" by Colourpop

                                            • Shannon Stacy
                                              Shannon Stacy  3 months back

                                              Hi! Your face makeup looks great what blush are u wearing?!Thanks😊

                                              • Sam Vay
                                                Sam Vay   3 months back

                                                Thank you! "No Vacancy" by Colourpop

                                            • Ely Caamal
                                              Ely Caamal  3 months back

                                              Love your story times!

                                              • Sabrina Faith: beauty & lifestyle

                                                holy shit this is insane

                                                • Yaima verdecia
                                                  Yaima verdecia  3 months back

                                                  Girl you dodged a bullet😮. What lipstick are u wearing?

                                                  • Sam Vay
                                                    Sam Vay   3 months back

                                                    It's an Ofra liquid lipstick in "Pasadena" - it's pretty old though, so I'm not sure if it's still available

                                                • Chick FilA
                                                  Chick FilA  3 months back

                                                  Wow 😳 so grateful you weren’t that women! Be careful out there... there’s so many mean ugly people.

                                                  • Alessandria Taylor
                                                    Alessandria Taylor  3 months back

                                                    Omgg I remember this.. he ended up getting life in prison. So crazy thank god you avoided that whole situation

                                                    • Madison L
                                                      Madison L  3 months back

                                                      @Cher Horowitz Omg what a freaking CREEP! I'm so glad he is in prison for life now

                                                    • Cher Horowitz
                                                      Cher Horowitz  3 months back

                                                      @Madison L His name is Seth Mull. He was 30 and living in eastern PA with a friend at the time he was caught.

                                                    • Madison L
                                                      Madison L  3 months back

                                                      I think I heard about this too! Was the guy Kyle Hilliard? That's who I heard about. So freaking terrifying 😱

                                                    • Sam Vay
                                                      Sam Vay   3 months back

                                                      GOOD! I actually hadn't kept up with the story, but I just looked up the most recent articles now. I didn't even realize how much he had actually done!!! It's crazy!

                                                  • Kate Sally
                                                    Kate Sally  3 months back

                                                    I'm so glad that you are safe. That is a very scary situation. I just wish that every body could be safe. 😔

                                                    • Sam Vay
                                                      Sam Vay   3 months back

                                                      Thank you! Me too!!

                                                  • MsBeautyLatina
                                                    MsBeautyLatina  3 months back

                                                    Staaaahp!!! I know exactly who u r talking about one of his charges was SEX TRAFFICKING!!!!!

                                                  • Chelsea Caton
                                                    Chelsea Caton  3 months back

                                                    Please (if you haven't already) talk about long distance relationships 😊

                                                    • Nicolasahhh
                                                      Nicolasahhh  3 months back

                                                      I’m loving your story times girl! Did you ever have any girl drama or crazy friendship stories?

                                                      • ♡ Ashley Elyse ♡
                                                        ♡ Ashley Elyse ♡  3 months back

                                                        OMFG!!!!!! You dodged a bullet.
                                                        That poor girl. Just goes to show if it doesn't work at first.... Just leave it alone. I feel so bad for her 😞. That's so scary. Bastard

                                                        • Laura Christina
                                                          Laura Christina  3 months back

                                                          Ummm Kylie Jenner vibes HELLO. 😍🔥 what blush is that? Gorgeous

                                                          • Sam Vay
                                                            Sam Vay   3 months back

                                                            Thank you! It's "No Vacancy" by Colourpop

                                                        • Chiquita_ Xo
                                                          Chiquita_ Xo  3 months back

                                                          That is such a scary situation sam! Omg can you imagine if you where like " yeaaa fuck it mood " and would of met up with that dude at 10 😭

                                                          • Chiquita_ Xo
                                                            Chiquita_ Xo  3 months back

                                                            @Sam Vay amennn gurl!

                                                          • Sam Vay
                                                            Sam Vay   3 months back

                                                            I KNOWWWW!!! I think about that a lot. Thank god I didn't!

                                                        • Kairy Fuentes
                                                          Kairy Fuentes  3 months back

                                                          What lipstick are you wearing? It’s so pretty!

                                                          • Sam Vay
                                                            Sam Vay   3 months back

                                                            Ofra liquid lipstick in "Pasadena"