5 Scientific Ways To Become More Attractive To Men - Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

  • Published: 27 April 2017
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    In this video you'll learn the main concept for how to approach men in a way that ignites their masculine energy, while keeping you in your feminine energy. When you master the skill-set of being able to initiate conversations with men you're interested in you multiply the number of new men you meet, and opportunities you have to meet an amazing life partner.

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    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
    As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs’ dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
    Mat’s Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
    As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!
    Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.
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Comments • 627

  • LA Muel
    LA Muel  Il y a 2 jours

    I want to become Mae West when I return to earth. I flirt so much and I am so sassy . Life is short make it fun. The fellows love it Red love, Navy communication, good to wear on job interviews . Scratch the grey. Perception is everything. Lol

    • Nadia Asencio
      Nadia Asencio  Il y a 3 jours

      Kindness! A man who is genuinely kind and attentive on a date gets my attention. Kindness is so rare today that finding it in a person is like striking gold. Thanks for another great video, Matt!

      • Johnson Yuen
        Johnson Yuen  Il y a 8 jours

        Money goody yummy human

        • Ikat
          Ikat  Il y a 13 jours

          Confidence, not arrogance! Kindness, thoughtful, good moral character overall- honest!!

          • Helen Elmore
            Helen Elmore  Il y a 18 jours

            so other men being attracted to a woman makes her seem more attractive? what even are men

            • Susan Winters
              Susan Winters  Il y a 24 jours

              I find confidence expressed through an ability to laugh frequently sexy as hell.

              • Trisha Ericka Aznar
                Trisha Ericka Aznar  Il y a 27 jours

                It’s honesty. I lowkey test a guy’s honesty once I sense that he likes me. If he isn’t honest then it’s a ‘no’. If he can’t be honest on the small stuff, how much more on the bigger stuff. I understand that a guy wants to impress a girl, but not to the point that he has to lie. One thing that I really love about my boyfriend is he’s VERY HONEST. Like he doesn’t care that I might be turned off, or maybe he does care but he’s just being honest anyways. So yeah, honesty. 💕

                • Eloisa Gray
                  Eloisa Gray  Il y a mois

                  I like guys who are asking questions about us and able to listen and respect our opinion

                  • SongOfGrace
                    SongOfGrace  Il y a mois

                    When a guy talks about something fun he enjoys and invites me to do it with him he automatically gets a perfect 10. "It's the best fishing spot around. You should join me there some time."

                    • DISHA POPAT
                      DISHA POPAT  Il y a mois

                      Hey @mathewboggs else where can i contact u ??

                      • chd125
                        chd125  Il y a mois

                        Wise men are the most attractive types of men!

                        • Emily Irvine
                          Emily Irvine  Il y a mois

                          Lives in integrity and can stand up to me in a good way when I need it, is strong enough to call me out when I am not being good to myself or if is fosters growth even when is sometimes hard to hear. When it's from a place of love.

                          • D. F.
                            D. F.  Il y a mois

                            1. Laugh easily 2. Smile frequently 3. Honestly communicate standards & boundaries. 4. Confidence 5. Wear red 6. Mirroring & matching

                            • GypsyRock
                              GypsyRock  Il y a 2 mois

                              I like men who do what they say they’re gonna do. I like men who initiate, plan a date, tell me where we’re going. I like chivalry. I like an arm around me. And if we get to that point I like sleeping in his arms. 🤷‍♀️current guy is good at this ;)

                              • Reitumetse Pokonyane
                                Reitumetse Pokonyane  Il y a 2 mois

                                Being fascinated by his work. Celebrating my success like his own. Fitting me into his tight schedule Involving me when he's talking to his friends

                                • kjh lk
                                  kjh lk  Il y a 2 mois

                                  I love when I am telling a story and he gets equally excited or if she tells the story and he gets excited so do I.

                                  • Sahara Walker
                                    Sahara Walker  Il y a 2 mois

                                    my man the sexiest tho like the one who will turn my mood frm sad to happy in a heart beat while also making me food

                                    • scorch trials
                                      scorch trials  Il y a 2 mois

                                      I wore red clothes on our 1st date . Few weeks aftr tht he cheated on me . So the 1st date was basically our last date . Rip my 7 years of loyalty to him . Andddd alsooo rip my appearances . Myb i am just not too attractive to him

                                      • Andrea
                                        Andrea  Il y a 2 mois

                                        I don't know but I was talking to someone and we both laughed because what he said was funny, but when he turned back to look at me his smile just disappeared and he went silent. What is that?

                                        • Ms Nisar
                                          Ms Nisar  Il y a 2 mois

                                          So now I need you to train my 70+ dad to woo my 70+ mom again as after 50 years of marriage she really doesn't fancy my dad and she said she never found him attractive. I challenge you on trying to make my dad more attractive to my mom haha ( my sisters laughing too)...

                                          • Joanne Herk
                                            Joanne Herk  Il y a 2 mois

                                            I greatly like the sound of a manly confident voice.

                                            • Debra Thompson
                                              Debra Thompson  Il y a 2 mois

                                              What attractive to me know what they want and treat there woman as a queen polite and honest

                                              • Fern Zandstra
                                                Fern Zandstra  Il y a 2 mois

                                                Grooming is soo important. I want a guy to be secure in every way, but kind and protective without being possessive.

                                                • Masihi Geets online
                                                  Masihi Geets online  Il y a 2 mois

                                                  Love you 😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️

                                                  • banana shake
                                                    banana shake  Il y a 2 mois

                                                    I like a guy who have utmost respect and love for his parents and siblings.

                                                    • Norah Murdaa
                                                      Norah Murdaa  Il y a 2 mois

                                                      1- Laughter (Recieve his jokes) 2- Smiling (Smile at them) 3- Honesty (Demonstrate honesty by communicating exactly what you want) 4- Wear Red (It increases their desire) 5- Mirroring and Matching (Imitate his body expressions) You're welcome

                                                      • Passau10
                                                        Passau10  Il y a 2 mois

                                                        Consistency, follows through without me reminding him of what he promised.

                                                        • Isis L
                                                          Isis L  Il y a 2 mois

                                                          I like this guy he kinda gets shy at times and the a bit outspoken on other times. Got me confuse but is nice also he had an accident so he kinda walk like he is playing hop the rope all the time I think is sexy he is self counsious. Wonder what can I do to pull his attention towards me since I put him on friend zone after I said some things, but all I was doing is pushing him away a lil and see he's actions. I love when a men is confident and do not give up just on the first try.

                                                          • BT BT
                                                            BT BT  Il y a 2 mois

                                                            I think staying who you are is the best way ever. Because you can not pretending to be a funny girl or something like that if you are not have a sense of humour. If men needs you he doesn't care what you wear or what kind of person you are. They would be ready to take any risk to be with you anyway

                                                            • Queens of Dysania
                                                              Queens of Dysania  Il y a 3 mois

                                                              When he can make me laugh and he also laughs at my jokes and humor. When he says my name a lot. When he has a passion or skills that he's good at and confident in. When he has a "secret" skill: something that he is good at that he DOESN'T talk or brag about. (Like cooking, or being able to fix a leaky sink, etc.)

                                                              • steph potter
                                                                steph potter  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                The 5 Scientific Ways: 1. Laughter - have a great time and enjoy yourself to attract others. 2. Smiling vs. Not Smiling - when you smiles, you feels better and people smiles at you. It brings good energy and they associate that good energy with you 😁😉 3. Honesty - showing honesty by communicating what you, which shows not only honesty but confidence (which is a bonus attractive trait) 💁🏾‍♀️ 4. Color - specifically the color... RED! 💃🏾 5. Mirroring and Matching - mirror body position. We tends to like people who are like us. 👫 :)

                                                                • Shahrin Islam
                                                                  Shahrin Islam  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                  Sure everyone loves loves loves ❤️ 💗 💕 honesty until.... UNTIL U R HONEST ABOUT THEM! OPEN CHALLENGE PROVE ME WRONG ANYONE

                                                                  • Anjali Briel
                                                                    Anjali Briel  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                    We find each other irresistible, oodles of chemistry, intelligent conversation; we make each other laugh. He has gorgeous posture, and a resonant voice. It happens effortlessly, and we feel as if we've come home. One very special man sat at my feet. When he longs to take me Salsa dancing, he's got me for life! Who needs diamond rings and palaces?

                                                                    • Natasha Vazquez
                                                                      Natasha Vazquez  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                      If you have an ugly laugh, laughter is going to be annoying therefore I can’t laugh so make a video on how to laugh cute☹️

                                                                      • Lucky Charm Trish
                                                                        Lucky Charm Trish  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                        What guys do that attract me is...letting the child out in themselves ...just join in singing along with street singers or acting silly .. being spontaneous .. iI find making plans to do one thing then we end out doing something or going some place else that we both agree on .. very exciting / challenging at times . You can't get lost taking the wrong road ... it's just a different / adventure road and ' your not alone ' ... great way to show each other that your both there for each other .

                                                                        • Tarynn
                                                                          Tarynn  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                          For me it's the subtle stuff, like before he comes in to kiss you he gets this look in his eyes and their jaw tenses up or clenches. Or when he is thinking really hard and his hand comes up under his chin. It's small stuff like that that kicks my butt every single time. Or if he just watches you, with a thoughtfullness. Not like creepy stalker stare hahahahahahaha because there is a difference.

                                                                          • cindy mcreynolds
                                                                            cindy mcreynolds  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                            I agree. I've noticed how much my daughter laughs when she's having fun and how attractive it is. I'm a little jealous because the older I get the less I laugh & wish I could be as light hearted and cheerful as she is.

                                                                            • Katie Latour
                                                                              Katie Latour  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                              A man that gives you a wonderful smile when looking at you.

                                                                              • Chris A
                                                                                Chris A  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                                To me attractive is intellect. I need that intellectual stimulus in my brain someone is well-educated and a smile and eye contact go a long way

                                                                                • alshima salah
                                                                                  alshima salah  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                                  Responsibility , gentleness , kindness , ambitious .

                                                                                  • patricia amaro
                                                                                    patricia amaro  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                                    Prime qualities for a guy to have: hygienic with good presentation, with good manners , curious and intelligent. Is it asking to much??

                                                                                    • Mih Zip
                                                                                      Mih Zip  Il y a 3 mois

                                                                                      Get a watch the size of Big Ben, check!

                                                                                      • Kal Account
                                                                                        Kal Account  Il y a 4 mois

                                                                                        #1 emotionally: be responsive, attentive & emotionally available. #1 socially: you cannot be too respectful of others. Go overboard with respecting others... holding the door for an older couple etc. Talking positively about someone whenever possible. Do it all the time when I’m not around and it will be authentic and I’ll hear about how great you are. #1 physically: not in an obvious way just how you would in your office alone... show defined forearm (roll up long sleeves on a dress shirt while in public so I can’t touch). Forearms are my favorite physical attraction on any man, a little muscular but not too veiny. Only if in a relationship talk softly and dirty while in public- not too early on. Keep it simple at one sentence.

                                                                                        • Vacation Ideas 98
                                                                                          Vacation Ideas 98  Il y a 4 mois

                                                                                          Seriously, mirroring and matching is something I find extremely off-putting. It shows me that the guy can only be an imitator and has no original thoughts of his own. Extremely boring... Next!!

                                                                                          • Jéssica Mella
                                                                                            Jéssica Mella  Il y a 4 mois


                                                                                            • Katy Sproule
                                                                                              Katy Sproule  Il y a 4 mois

                                                                                              Summary: Get you some CBD &/or THC. Just sayin'. Then again, that's probably because of my anxiety, panic disorder, depression & adhd... so I suppose I am biased here because the only time I can feel enough happiness is when I have been able to have (legal) access to thc/cbd. At the very least it turns off the constant inner cycle of negative self dialogue & allows me to be more in the moment, thus more social and able to communicate with others. Just saying.

                                                                                              • Cortanna Orient
                                                                                                Cortanna Orient  Il y a 4 mois

                                                                                                Tips start at 1:55

                                                                                                • NEW LILLY
                                                                                                  NEW LILLY  Il y a 4 mois

                                                                                                  I can't stand pushy men and men that are aggressive even when kissing. I like softness and humbleness at first. Aggressiveness is a turn of and makes me angry

                                                                                                  • Lava Yuki
                                                                                                    Lava Yuki  Il y a 4 mois

                                                                                                    Time to fill my wardrobe with red!

                                                                                                    • Bella Bijou
                                                                                                      Bella Bijou  Il y a 4 mois

                                                                                                      Nothing more irritating than a woman who is laughing loudly at EVERYTHING. It’s like she’s overcompensating and is fake. Especially when they are loud. In a restaurant when I’m trying to have nice meal and over the top “look at me” laugher lady is at the next table makes me want to punch her in the face.

                                                                                                      • Sakuri Sake
                                                                                                        Sakuri Sake  Il y a 5 mois

                                                                                                        When a guy runs his fingers through his hair for hair products reasons or not and his jokes.

                                                                                                        • I live for JOOE
                                                                                                          I live for JOOE  Il y a 5 mois

                                                                                                          Mature Responsible Cares about me Humanitarian Open minded

                                                                                                          • Carmen Michaelian
                                                                                                            Carmen Michaelian  Il y a 5 mois

                                                                                                            I enjoy when my date is asking me questions about me. Being aware of my being there.

                                                                                                            • Cole OLS
                                                                                                              Cole OLS  Il y a 5 mois

                                                                                                              You talk to much between each step

                                                                                                              • SlovesL
                                                                                                                SlovesL  Il y a 5 mois

                                                                                                                Smile. If you look at a guy and you don’t smile, he doesn’t want your negativity in his life.

                                                                                                                • Sandra DiBiaso
                                                                                                                  Sandra DiBiaso  Il y a 5 mois

                                                                                                                  Sarcastically mean people are not funny.

                                                                                                                  • Kimber Jennings-Peterson
                                                                                                                    Kimber Jennings-Peterson  Il y a 5 mois

                                                                                                                    A who works everyday is attractive.

                                                                                                                    • Kate Kate
                                                                                                                      Kate Kate  Il y a 5 mois

                                                                                                                      I find humor and excellent manners attractive

                                                                                                                      • Sandra Tinajero
                                                                                                                        Sandra Tinajero  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                        I like it when men makes a woman feel special whether that be to cook something yummy on a Friday night instead of going to a resturant.

                                                                                                                        • Helen McKinnie
                                                                                                                          Helen McKinnie  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                          I love men who stands up for me no matter what. A man who is highly intelligent, highly educated and funny. A man who uses his own strategy to put me right when I am being stubborn. It makes me feel I am dealing with someone above me and my respect increases for him.

                                                                                                                          • Chantalita
                                                                                                                            Chantalita  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                            The study about men finding honesty attractive, only proves man "think" they want honesty, or that they wish they valued modesty, it doesn't prove they actually would react positively to the demonstration of concrete honesty. But women can still play with it and tell them stories (true or false) about them being honest...

                                                                                                                            • Amanda Garcia
                                                                                                                              Amanda Garcia  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                              Mathew??? THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO AT A TIME WHEN I THOUGHT I HAD TRULY HIT "rock bottom", I did not want to keep going on in the "dating" world, and I did not believe I would ever find a message like this that HELPED ME SO MUCH!......this message that you wrote is soooooooooo inspirational and helpful to so many people, so THANK YOU so much for making and posting this:-) Your channel is wonderful and you!!! are!!! fantastic! You are such a wonderful and amazing speaker:-) I absolutely LOVE! hearing your beautiful voice! Keep up the good work:-)

                                                                                                                              • Lina Kadri
                                                                                                                                Lina Kadri  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                I did smile when he smiled 😁😉 i think he's right ❤️

                                                                                                                                • Suzanne Plumley
                                                                                                                                  Suzanne Plumley  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                  Does this work for woman who are not "gorgeous" to men? How do we "match" a great looking man if we are not perfectly attractive?

                                                                                                                                  • Erika
                                                                                                                                    Erika  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                    Laughter...whether I made the joke or he did...there must be joy and happiness that makes both of us have that connection, smiling too! Showing me that he wants to protect me and will fight for me, is the kind of a man I desire and need!

                                                                                                                                    • Kira S.
                                                                                                                                      Kira S.  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                      Laugh at guys' jokes. Smile at them while they talk. Seem really interested in what they're saying. Etc. Basically: make him feel that you like him... therefore make him feel good about himself. With men, it's a lot about ego validation.

                                                                                                                                      • Gina G
                                                                                                                                        Gina G  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                        That's why I wear black all the time

                                                                                                                                        • football fever
                                                                                                                                          football fever  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                          1:50 thank me later

                                                                                                                                          • Inkdraft
                                                                                                                                            Inkdraft  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                            Men with deep voices, men with well-groomed beards, and men with a talent, something they've put effort into that isn't work related. Something they have a passion for. Music, art, martial arts, photography, singing, etc. But sports, maybe not so much. But that's just me.

                                                                                                                                            • Lyrz Bulado
                                                                                                                                              Lyrz Bulado  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                              thanks a lot sir. my way of attracting him was just being and staying here as a good friend as I know a man likes me but I wanted to manage myself well..to live incontrol and busy with goals after we figure things out for us because as I see he's not also sure about what's going on with us but we found ourselves interesting. Hahahah. 😁😆😍

                                                                                                                                              • arliciawalker
                                                                                                                                                arliciawalker  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                                God I love your this particular video! Oh my God my man gave me a joke and Lol but I was mad at something already,...but the joke was funny tho!

                                                                                                                                                • Nichola Kabaganja
                                                                                                                                                  Nichola Kabaganja  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                                  Thanks teacher

                                                                                                                                                  • Sallie Mae
                                                                                                                                                    Sallie Mae  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                                    I laughed at his sex teaching jokes on youtube.He cant see me smile because both of us are doing this on youtube.Im honest on my youtube comments.What about the color red.i have only one red dress.I like his i love you message on youtube. I have not met this man yet or did we?I dont know how he looked like without the bun.

                                                                                                                                                    • Catherine Dobbs
                                                                                                                                                      Catherine Dobbs  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                                      I appreciate it when a guy is a good listener and takes an interest in me by asking personal questions.

                                                                                                                                                      • elalaouisosseynabil
                                                                                                                                                        elalaouisosseynabil  Il y a 6 mois

                                                                                                                                                        Girls, DON'T DO ANYTHING TO CHANGE YOURSELVES after reading this! You're beautiful as you are & YOU RUN THE WORLD FOR A REASON 😍 Guys always go for physical traits, sure, but learning how to make men really fall in love with you will probably prove to be invaluable... trust me... some girls just need to learn how to attract men with their feelings and not just by looks. No offense, but that's what made all the difference for me personally 😍 if you need a good guide on how to actually captivate a man with more than just your looks to make him fall deeply in love with you, i definitely recommend checking out ReelingHimIn.com 🙏 Personally, I feel like I was getting nowhere with all the different FRclip channels though until I discovered that site lol. gl babes 💞 🙏