7 Qualities That Make Men Want You

  • Published: 07 January 2016
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    In this video, I reveal 7 major qualities that men want in a woman.

    Please post a comment on this video... I'd love to hear your thoughts about this topic!



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    Mat Boggs Bio:

    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

    As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs’ dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

    Mat’s Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

    As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

    Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.

    If you’re interested in receiving help attracting love or improving your relationship click here: http://www.crackingthemancode.com/coaching/

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Comments • 918

  • Amanda M
    Amanda M  4 days back

    But what if ur an introvert and really dont go out alot . So for number 6 we can support his freedom but would he get bothered if we genuinly like staying in more than going out and hardly see our friends? Number 6 always hurt my realtionships. But Im an introvert so what can I do that shows independance and mystery?

    • Amalia Wilson
      Amalia Wilson  6 days back

      Thank you that was very interesting

      • Loreto Alejandra Santibáñez

        🤔 Top 5: Intelligence, honesty, loyalty, emotional available, masculinity...

        • Nelly Cervantes Escárrega

          Hands on
          Active and,
          Not afraid.

          • Lava Yuki
            Lava Yuki  2 weeks back

            I have a guy friend and we talk about dating, and he also uses the word cool to describe girls he likes or wants to date

            • A Cobra
              A Cobra  2 weeks back

              Some men create drama themselves...and many women do all these steps and more and still the man screws them over or dumps them....it makes the woman feel used and abused

              • zarwash fariaby
                zarwash fariaby  3 weeks back

                It is all bla bla bla... the reality is totally different.
                If you are a self loving, free minded and supporting woman not for them but for yourself, for your expression and for your own needs they get so insecure and afraid. THEY DON'T CHASE, THEY RUN AWAY!!
                I am a real woman I have much more to give, to offer, to feel, to love than you small boys ever could imagine.
                So please stopp acting as an expert or a man who really knows how big, deep and beautiful a woman is!!!!!!!!
                You have NO IDEA!!

                • Ravi Peiris
                  Ravi Peiris  3 weeks back

                  Just new to the channel. From a educated gentleman's perspective, this video is truly spot on. I'm in a new relationship, and having a safe space to be able to communicate so that any misunderstandings are minimized is critically important. This skill can be learned as I didn't have the most healthiest of parents/step-parents who always fought and never learned healthier ways of expressing their feelings.

                  • Hass An
                    Hass An  3 weeks back

                    start by not being a hypergamous ungrateful piece of shit for fuck sake

                    • Claudia Zavala
                      Claudia Zavala  3 weeks back

                      Thanks again for your videos Mat!!😀...5 topics I would want for my man:
                      4)Good Chemistry
                      5)Sense of Humor
                      Any single interesting man around there for a good woman 49 years old? I'm caucasian kind of petite mexican little bit overwheight...I try hard going to a gym😂...Blessings💖✌🙏

                      • Karmen Art4funclub
                        Karmen Art4funclub  4 weeks back

                        1. Independent
                        2. Trustworthy.
                        3. Same sence of humor.
                        -. good laughs great sex.
                        5. Sexual attractive
                        6. Confident.
                        7. Doesn't need the attention of other women to feel good about himself. He is good with himself.
                        8. Knows himself.
                        9.Uhh creative. Thinking in solutions and unlimited thoughts.
                        10. Loves himself! Not a narcissist 🤔.
                        11. Respectful.
                        12. He gives and he can receive.
                        13. Wise would be nice🤣
                        14. Treats his woman good.
                        Is this to much to ask😂???
                        Oeps, loyalty🤗❤️

                        • Teresa Cunningham
                          Teresa Cunningham  4 weeks back

                          I cant turn off my bipolar disorder

                          • babyaquino sal
                            babyaquino sal  4 weeks back

                            A man of word. A man of accept big mistakes than victories..a man of foolishness..a man of humanitarian.. A man of integrity and legacy.

                            • david mulligan
                              david mulligan  1 months back

                              All I want from a woman is sex, thats it, because I dont want a woman in my life, not long term

                              • Anna Razumovich
                                Anna Razumovich  1 months back

                                I would say that women like the same guys, with the sAme characteristics you're mentioning in the video

                                • Johnson Yuen
                                  Johnson Yuen  1 months back

                                  Some gays the look education erectile strength and attitudes are much better and much higher quality than any greedy straight abnormal bad men certainly!

                                  • Purple Melody
                                    Purple Melody  1 months back

                                    So the 7 qualities are:
                                    1) Sexual attraction
                                    2) Respect
                                    3) Knows what she wants
                                    4) Best friend, same sense of humor
                                    5) Low on drama scale - can bring peace into his life rather than stress
                                    6) Supports his freedom - has his own friends and activities, confident in him and herself, re-ignites each other
                                    7) Loyalty - Be there for you at tough time, not just good time.

                                    Thank you! They are very much on target.

                                    • Adriana Aagaard Sommer
                                      Adriana Aagaard Sommer  2 months back

                                      1. Happy with his own life
                                      2. Sexy smile, great teeth
                                      3. Honest and trustworthy
                                      4. Creative
                                      5. Crazy about me!

                                      • Shana banana
                                        Shana banana  2 months back

                                        - My top 5
                                        -A confident man
                                        -A funny man
                                        -A sweet heart
                                        -A genuine man
                                        -A honest man

                                        • Tankgirl
                                          Tankgirl  2 months back

                                          Whoa. This is actually a pretty great list. He mentions these qualities are something men want in women while also giving examples that both men and women are happy in. I particularly loved the example of men being with their friends and women being with their friends. None of that one sided, "The Man can have friends but you can't BS."

                                          • Cindy Morrison
                                            Cindy Morrison  2 months back

                                            5 Top Qualities: 1) same values (faith & political) 2) Great sense of humor 3) able to have successful relationships in many areas. 4). Stable but not trying to keep up with the Joneses. 5) Loves animals

                                            • Barbara Joann Slover
                                              Barbara Joann Slover  2 months back

                                              1) Endearment
                                              2) emotions
                                              3) playfulness
                                              4) kindness
                                              5) presence

                                              • Tina LamarDion
                                                Tina LamarDion  2 months back

                                                My man takes sites with everyone but me .
                                                What can you say of that Matt

                                                • IADORA KELLEY
                                                  IADORA KELLEY  3 months back

                                                  I prefer a man who pays attention to the physical changes my body goes thru during Love-making, so that he knows exactly what turns me on and then does them to me, ad infinitum!!! 🤓🧐😛😍🤓😁😉😝😜🤪

                                                  • chaitanya sashidharan
                                                    chaitanya sashidharan  3 months back

                                                    1. Sense of humor 2. Have common sense 3. Romantic 4. Generous 5. Handsome

                                                    • Leslee Baltazar
                                                      Leslee Baltazar  3 months back

                                                      Best man for me is Loyal, loving,caring, understanding And be proud of me being he's girl or woman

                                                      • Dep Res
                                                        Dep Res  3 months back

                                                        M so glad to find your channel thankksss u life saverrrr

                                                        • Rachel Lee
                                                          Rachel Lee  4 months back

                                                          Am higher on the crazy and low on the drama.

                                                          • Ms Nobody
                                                            Ms Nobody  4 months back

                                                            My Top 5:1. Decisiveness - he knows what he wants and he is not confused about what is going on in his life, with me and our future.2. Manliness & Passion - when he wants me he tells me and that's super hot3. Respect - I don't swear so when his guy friend does even when he is just on the phone and I can't even hear the other end... he says "dude watch your language". so hot.4. Hark Work - he wakes up 4am everyday and never late for work. even when he is tired he makes time for me to make sure I don't go to bed lacking of anything... if you know what I mean ;).5. Stability and Trust - he know how to budget and knows he can support me, be able to trust me with his pin number, phone and cards. love it.

                                                            • Joyce Agot
                                                              Joyce Agot  4 months back

                                                              For me the most important is honestly and loyalty!!!!

                                                              • Never Bored
                                                                Never Bored  4 months back

                                                                The video is about what men want in a woman. And of course women flip it in the comments and make it about them. No wonder why they are single.

                                                                • Lisa Cunningham
                                                                  Lisa Cunningham  4 months back

                                                                  I want emotional intelligence, a best friend, a good listener, a sense of humor like mine and loyalty. A man can be really smart about his job but not know how to handle his relationships. If he has emotional intelligence and listens well, he can improve any situation.

                                                                  • GayleneFlower
                                                                    GayleneFlower  5 months back

                                                                    humor listens physical touch / cuddles makes me feel special protected

                                                                    • Ella Bloem
                                                                      Ella Bloem  5 months back

                                                                      I've been with my boyfriend for 3years now and we love each other so much, he's my bestfriend and he's mine but I only have one problem with him... He never lets me in on his decisions and his plans! Like every time he wants to do something he will just do it without telling me or if he does tell me, he will just tell me for the sake of telling me not because he wants my opinion or and kind of advice... That puts me off and when I talk to him about this he gets upset and tells me he's not child he can decide for himself. Get me right ok... I don't want to decide for him but as his girlfriend of 3years I thought maybe we might be doing things as a couple. I really need a response on this I'm frustrated

                                                                      • peacefull eagle
                                                                        peacefull eagle  5 months back

                                                                        if the woman is crazy it is because the guy has issues with his masculinity.

                                                                        • Ryanne Gordon
                                                                          Ryanne Gordon  5 months back

                                                                          How do you build sexual attraction if you are celibate? I have the others down? Is there a video on that?

                                                                          • Krisi Alayna
                                                                            Krisi Alayna  5 months back

                                                                            I feel like I have all of this...and yet I'm single and watching this 😐 #GivingUp even if you're good enough, he still won't care.

                                                                            • Brytanika Gonzalez
                                                                              Brytanika Gonzalez  5 months back

                                                                              Matt, I have explained my situation in the comments on another video but I'll recap really fast. I have been in an 8 year relationship and we have 3 beautiful children together as well as other children from previous relationships and it's always been complicated until I started taking your advice and it's made a huge impact on my relationship. For example last night before my love went to work I did something for him to make him happy, content and stress free and his response to me was" I just can't get enough of you and that's a good thing". I was just so flattered, happy and content myself so my point is all your advice has worked for me and has turned our relationship into a much better one. Again, I cannot thank you enough. B

                                                                              • preet moon
                                                                                preet moon  5 months back

                                                                                I Ask him why me , he answered ,i was cool, kind, Always listening, sexy, smiling, n naughty

                                                                                • Rachael Curran
                                                                                  Rachael Curran  6 months back

                                                                                  my coolness

                                                                                  • Heavenly Goddess
                                                                                    Heavenly Goddess  6 months back

                                                                                    Trustworthy, Honesty, Loyal, Understanding, And Loving

                                                                                    • Kate Peck
                                                                                      Kate Peck  6 months back

                                                                                      This is wonderful, what you're trying to do, but you should also include that the man must also be like this. Because I did all that with my husband (ex husband) but it didn't work because he wanted to be an alcoholic. His best efforts went toward that. So both parties need to be of healthy mind and body for any of this to work. Just sayin'.

                                                                                      • tainted pure
                                                                                        tainted pure  7 months back

                                                                                        Thanks for this video Matt. I have all these qualities yet men still leave me. Its men who have the issues. I have noticed that this is a more recent thing. What is the world doing to men. Is there something in the water?

                                                                                        • Stephanie P
                                                                                          Stephanie P  7 months back

                                                                                          #1 Financial provision
                                                                                          #2 Emotional maturity
                                                                                          #3 Continued wooing
                                                                                          #4 ambition and growth
                                                                                          #5 empathy and emotional support

                                                                                        • Stefanie O'brien
                                                                                          Stefanie O'brien  7 months back

                                                                                          My top 5 qualities in a guy,
                                                                                          1. Humour
                                                                                          2. Respect, I’m funny and a bit ‘over the top/ in appropriate’ with it at times but mostly I’m just cool and chilled. I want someone that will know that I’m not always 1 thing but that I have a sparkling personality that is sometimes full throttle and sometimes relaxed, I need a guy to just not react negatively to that but just accept and respect that that’s who I am and not judge but call me out on it if I’m too over the top. Strength and understanding.
                                                                                          3. Honesty. Not just being truthful about what he’s doing/ done or been but clarity on what he wants, if I’m not for him, where things are going. If I’m not being communicated too that this is working for him and I feel like I can’t ask that because I might scare him off if makes me want to avoid the topic and find someone else that is more forthright.
                                                                                          4. Thoughtfulness. I want a guy to show that he’s thinking of me when he doesn’t typically have too; anniversary’s/ birthdays etc. Just that he saw something I might like a meme/ a concert/ a new psychological paper/ a new chocolate bar and got it for me or told me about it. Intelligence.
                                                                                          5. Sex. If he wants me and finds me sexually attractive I want him to show me whether it’s been 5 minutes or 5 years, feeling wanted sexually by your partner has to universally be a turn on no?

                                                                                          • Stefanie O'brien
                                                                                            Stefanie O'brien  7 months back

                                                                                            Question... Ok but there’s a lot of guys I know that love high drama women, high drama! because they get to be the ‘hero’ constantly, they don’t get exhausted by it they thrive on being needed, why?

                                                                                            • Sheila Diane
                                                                                              Sheila Diane  8 months back

                                                                                              I love this video
                                                                                              Cool is a great word my boyfriend and I iare soulmates
                                                                                              Opposites attract. We love the same things
                                                                                              All these 7 things you to are everything we have in our relationship
                                                                                              Sexual attraction dynamite and a match
                                                                                              So much passion sexually energy
                                                                                              Cant get enough if each other

                                                                                              • Senada Pasic
                                                                                                Senada Pasic  8 months back

                                                                                                if he wants to be with other women, it's not your job to stop him .  just run like hell because most men just don't get it