7 Signs He'll NEVER, EVER Commit to You No Matter How Badly You Want It
- Published: 04 February 2018
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The fact is: you're not unbiased when it comes to gauging those signs he will never commit to you. Your heart is involved, so that inherently makes it more challenging to see the situation without prejudice.
I make my living helping women just like you get clear on what they want, and to see the signs if the relationship (or...non-relationship, as it were) they're in isn't the best one for them.
So allow me to take you on this journey as we explore those signs he will never commit to you.
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You can't figure out why he can't commit to you.
Commitment means different things to different people.
Waste not another second on this guy if he's not right for you. Here's an overview of the signs he will never commit, followed by a more in-depth look at each sign.
Sign He Won't Commit #1: You Feel Like You Have to Trick Him into Commitment
Commitment is not about tricking someone or casting some ridiculous spell on them to make them want to be with you. It's about finding someone that you not only want to commit your time, your energy, and your resources to but also someone who wants to do the same to you. And if you have to trick them into that, it's not going to happen.
Sign He Won't Commit #2: You Just Know
Your gut can tell you those signs he will never commit.
Sometimes your body knows better than your heart that something's not right in a relationship. Pay attention to it!
Sign He Won't Commit #3: He Told You So
If you are dating a guy who is telling you that he doesn't want a relationship, listen to him. He is never going to commit to you no matter how badly you want it. You only have yourself to blame if you continue down that path, thinking you can change his mind. You can't and won't.
Sign He Won't Commit #4: He Doesn't Let You Into His Life
His life is a locked door to you.
If he's not letting you into his life, or he's not doing anything extra to keep you happy, or he's not making an effort to be in your life as well, then that should be a major red flag as one of the signs he will never commit.
Sign He Won't Commit #5: He Avoids All Emotion
When I say this guy avoids emotion, I mean both positive and negative. I think it's obvious to you ladies that if a guy is not going to commit to you, he will avoid showing any positive emotion towards you.
Any time you start an argument, he just walks away.
He has no interest in engaging with you, either positively or negatively, and that is a red flag.
Sign He Won't Commit #6: His Life is Scattered
If his life is scattered, do you think he's ready to commit?
One day he says he's ready to commit his life to skydiving.
Another day he's going vegan.
One day he's ready to go back to school in a completely different field.
Another day he's trying to move to Thailand.
So, if you're meeting guys who are completely all over the place in their lives, realize that they're probably going to be that same way in a relationship, and they're probably not ready for a true, committed long-term relationship.
Sign He Won't Commit #7: It Will Always Be About The Physical Relationship
If the bulk of the time you spend together revolves around being physical, this is one of those big glaring signs he will never commit to you. Why would he? He's getting exactly what he wants.
You can't force a man to commit. Be true to what YOU need!
So there you have it. There are the seven signs that he is never going to commit to you, no matter how badly you want it. I want you to avoid that heartbreak of investing your time, emotion, and energy into a man who's never going to invest in you in return. You deserve better.
Go ahead and leave a comment below that just says never again. And that means that you promise me - right here in public - to never again settle for a man who's not going to give you what you want and deserve.
Now is the time for you to start setting those standards in your life. And once you've set those standards for what you want from a man, men will start to meet them in return. Set the bar high, and I promise, men who fit the bill will start showing up in your world.
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