7 Signs He'll NEVER, EVER Commit to You No Matter How Badly You Want It

  • Published: 04 February 2018
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    The fact is: you're not unbiased when it comes to gauging those signs he will never commit to you. Your heart is involved, so that inherently makes it more challenging to see the situation without prejudice.
    I make my living helping women just like you get clear on what they want, and to see the signs if the relationship (or...non-relationship, as it were) they're in isn't the best one for them.
    So allow me to take you on this journey as we explore those signs he will never commit to you.
    Your Coach,
    While I'm throwing my gender under the bus, I should tell you about the Male Mind Map I created: it deciphers men's actions and helps you understand what they're looking for. Download it here: secret.sexyconfidence.com/map-offer/
    You can't figure out why he can't commit to you.
    Commitment means different things to different people.
    Waste not another second on this guy if he's not right for you. Here's an overview of the signs he will never commit, followed by a more in-depth look at each sign.
    Sign He Won't Commit #1: You Feel Like You Have to Trick Him into Commitment
    Commitment is not about tricking someone or casting some ridiculous spell on them to make them want to be with you. It's about finding someone that you not only want to commit your time, your energy, and your resources to but also someone who wants to do the same to you. And if you have to trick them into that, it's not going to happen.
    Sign He Won't Commit #2: You Just Know
    Your gut can tell you those signs he will never commit.
    Sometimes your body knows better than your heart that something's not right in a relationship. Pay attention to it!
    Sign He Won't Commit #3: He Told You So
    If you are dating a guy who is telling you that he doesn't want a relationship, listen to him. He is never going to commit to you no matter how badly you want it. You only have yourself to blame if you continue down that path, thinking you can change his mind. You can't and won't.
    Sign He Won't Commit #4: He Doesn't Let You Into His Life
    His life is a locked door to you.
    If he's not letting you into his life, or he's not doing anything extra to keep you happy, or he's not making an effort to be in your life as well, then that should be a major red flag as one of the signs he will never commit.
    Sign He Won't Commit #5: He Avoids All Emotion
    When I say this guy avoids emotion, I mean both positive and negative. I think it's obvious to you ladies that if a guy is not going to commit to you, he will avoid showing any positive emotion towards you.
    Any time you start an argument, he just walks away.
    He has no interest in engaging with you, either positively or negatively, and that is a red flag.
    Sign He Won't Commit #6: His Life is Scattered
    If his life is scattered, do you think he's ready to commit?
    One day he says he's ready to commit his life to skydiving.
    Another day he's going vegan.
    One day he's ready to go back to school in a completely different field.
    Another day he's trying to move to Thailand.
    So, if you're meeting guys who are completely all over the place in their lives, realize that they're probably going to be that same way in a relationship, and they're probably not ready for a true, committed long-term relationship.
    Sign He Won't Commit #7: It Will Always Be About The Physical Relationship
    If the bulk of the time you spend together revolves around being physical, this is one of those big glaring signs he will never commit to you. Why would he? He's getting exactly what he wants.
    You can't force a man to commit. Be true to what YOU need!
    So there you have it. There are the seven signs that he is never going to commit to you, no matter how badly you want it. I want you to avoid that heartbreak of investing your time, emotion, and energy into a man who's never going to invest in you in return. You deserve better.
    Go ahead and leave a comment below that just says never again. And that means that you promise me - right here in public - to never again settle for a man who's not going to give you what you want and deserve.
    Now is the time for you to start setting those standards in your life. And once you've set those standards for what you want from a man, men will start to meet them in return. Set the bar high, and I promise, men who fit the bill will start showing up in your world.
    And finally, I have a great free "commitment" training that I want you to take advantage of. It's going to help you avoid the "casual trap," and find a great relationship. Sign up for free here.

Comments • 797

  • Demi California Girl
    Demi California Girl  4 часа назад

    I am actually married to a man like that, now I want to get a divorce! He is mentally abusive!

    • Demi California Girl
      Demi California Girl  5 часов назад

      I have met guys that were exactly like all the things you said!

        ELMA CARINO  2 дня назад

        Damn! All this 7 signs is what I am facing now. He only Know how to fuckin' message me Everytime he want sex!

        • Janice Bond
          Janice Bond  2 дня назад

          Never again.

          • sara
            sara  2 дня назад

            Never again (love you for your advice)

            • Dee warriors
              Dee warriors  3 дня назад

              Never again!!!

              • claudia martinez
                claudia martinez  3 дня назад

                Never again

                • N'Yasha McAfee
                  N'Yasha McAfee  5 дней назад

                  Never again!!!

                  • Enjoli Gutierrez
                    Enjoli Gutierrez  5 дней назад

                    Never again

                    • Morty Snerd
                      Morty Snerd  7 дней назад

                      men are becoming more aware about the dangers of marriage... the family court system is rigged in favor of the woman... women file about 80% of the divorces in the USA.....And they are coached by other women how to play the system..... On the other hand, men are characterized in the courts as brutes and abusers with no proof...Child support and alimony extortion is squeezed out of him at the threat of prison.... marriage is just not a good gamble for the contemporary man... for more details , google MGTOW

                      • Irene A.
                        Irene A.  8 дней назад

                        Thanks for inspiration you gave me in your video! It's Amazing!

                        • Tash D
                          Tash D  8 дней назад

                          Damnnnnn... Those truths though...

                          • JT
                            JT  10 дней назад

                            Never again!

                            • Beatriz Vasquez
                              Beatriz Vasquez  11 дней назад

                              Number 4 gave me goosebumps :( "He doesn't let you in to his life". Spot on to my experience. Except it was while in a relationship, said wanted marriage before then late found out he really didn't. They just say things, I guess just to say it. Confusing....

                              • Touihri Manel
                                Touihri Manel  13 дней назад

                                Neverrr again

                                • Shantell Wilson
                                  Shantell Wilson  14 дней назад

                                  Never again

                                  • CL TV
                                    CL TV  15 дней назад

                                    Never again

                                    • Angelica Grajales
                                      Angelica Grajales  15 дней назад

                                      I have a bf that has commitment issues and I just told him I give him space and if he would like that he said idk wat does he mean by that idk 😫

                                      • Bashi Ali
                                        Bashi Ali  16 дней назад

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                                        • Titi Chaya
                                          Titi Chaya  16 дней назад

                                          Hi from Thai girl.🙂 I watch this video you mentioned "moving to Thailand" I like western guy but I only met narc until now. I wish I could find someone to commit.😅 Thank you for your video.

                                          • Roger King
                                            Roger King  17 дней назад

                                            # 8 He Notice how easy it to easy sticking it in your butt.

                                            • Roger King
                                              Roger King  17 дней назад

                                              #8 he finds out about menopause and realizes your closing in on it.

                                              • Duyên Khánh
                                                Duyên Khánh  18 дней назад

                                                what about he told me many times : " you and me together forever and ever " ?

                                                • IAmOR8
                                                  IAmOR8  20 дней назад

                                                  Never again

                                                  • anagha mv
                                                    anagha mv  21 день назад

                                                    Never again.

                                                    • Bella Michelle
                                                      Bella Michelle  23 дня назад

                                                      Okay so, he doesn't have the majority of these signs but it's a very complicated situation. Is there a way I could private email your or talk to you? It'a the strangest and most confusing thing I've ever experienced..

                                                      • Juwita Ita
                                                        Juwita Ita  24 дня назад

                                                        All he has and he done to me. Now he is trying make distance .Thank you for wake me up

                                                        • Delilah Red Bull
                                                          Delilah Red Bull  26 дней назад

                                                          Never again am I going to give him the upper hand in my life.

                                                          • Claudia Rodriguez
                                                            Claudia Rodriguez  26 дней назад

                                                            Oh yes I will remember these types

                                                            • Peach 33
                                                              Peach 33  29 дней назад

                                                              • Kay Shields
                                                                Kay Shields  Месяц назад

                                                                My late ex fills 5/6 of these. But he's a manipulator and he lies.. telling me he wants to Marry me and yet he won't even take me on dates....

                                                                • inner strength
                                                                  inner strength  7 дней назад

                                                                  aww pity you

                                                                  • Kit Chuen Ho
                                                                    Kit Chuen Ho  Месяц назад

                                                                    so true

                                                                    • Michelle Mann
                                                                      Michelle Mann  Месяц назад

                                                                      Never again!

                                                                      • Jude Stephens Music UK, Live piano, songs, fusion

                                                                        He wasn't committed, only met me every 3 to 4 weeks. I decided I didn't like the part time girlfriend label, he hardly communicated in between dates, never let me meet his friends or family. Blamed it on his shyness. I never want to date someone like that again!

                                                                        • Princess Emlano
                                                                          Princess Emlano  Месяц назад

                                                                          Sad but True..need to let go

                                                                          • Natasha Richard
                                                                            Natasha Richard  Месяц назад

                                                                            Never again!

                                                                            • Cielo Santos
                                                                              Cielo Santos  Месяц назад

                                                                              I just wish I have watched this video a little earlier.

                                                                              • Mycah Ray
                                                                                Mycah Ray  Месяц назад

                                                                                So confused.. watching so many videos on this. Been in a 2 year relationship and he’s never had a problem with committing to me, relationship wise, but he is so back and forth with future things.. some days he’s talking about getting married and having babies, then he’s saying he doesn’t know what he wants and he’s confused because he doesn’t want to plan any future.. ugh

                                                                                • lovelyxskinny
                                                                                  lovelyxskinny  Месяц назад

                                                                                  What if he acts super interested in you and your life, asks you how your day is, wants to know all the details and seems to care but he has mental health problems so he told me he can't be in a relationship for a while until therapy helps him. He didn't just say that either, he is seriously depressed

                                                                                  • Christophe Valiant
                                                                                    Christophe Valiant  Месяц назад

                                                                                    Girls! Listen to him! Don't date a broke ass, liar, player! He just wants deli sliced ham!

                                                                                    • dua dWitch
                                                                                      dua dWitch  Месяц назад

                                                                                      Did all men are the same even they are growing in different culture .

                                                                                      • Jas 72
                                                                                        Jas 72  Месяц назад

                                                                                        Never again

                                                                                        • Ave Sushi
                                                                                          Ave Sushi  Месяц назад

                                                                                          This helps a lot

                                                                                          • Bettina Puskás
                                                                                            Bettina Puskás  Месяц назад

                                                                                            If i have to trick a man into commitment, that's already shit. If you feel something is wrong, then something is wrong!

                                                                                            • Jane Fiddler
                                                                                              Jane Fiddler  Месяц назад

                                                                                              Watching this crying. Yea anyway who needs to be happy...😔😔💔

                                                                                              • Grace Aaron
                                                                                                Grace Aaron  Месяц назад

                                                                                                Never again.

                                                                                                • Krista Corbett
                                                                                                  Krista Corbett  Месяц назад

                                                                                                  NEVER AGAIN

                                                                                                  • Awakened Warrior
                                                                                                    Awakened Warrior  Месяц назад

                                                                                                    Never again.

                                                                                                    • Peggy London
                                                                                                      Peggy London  Месяц назад

                                                                                                      Never again!!!!

                                                                                                      • Pieces by Suna
                                                                                                        Pieces by Suna  Месяц назад

                                                                                                        Never again

                                                                                                        • Monique LeBaron
                                                                                                          Monique LeBaron  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                          Never Again!

                                                                                                          • Romen Tsaturyan
                                                                                                            Romen Tsaturyan  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                            Very narrow minded

                                                                                                            • Your Best Life
                                                                                                              Your Best Life  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                              lol that thumbnail hilarious!

                                                                                                              • Amanda Landry
                                                                                                                Amanda Landry  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                Never again! :D

                                                                                                                • Bettina Puskás
                                                                                                                  Bettina Puskás  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                  Lmao!😂 THANK YOU FOR THE VIDEO, ADAM! ❤

                                                                                                                  • angie gallego
                                                                                                                    angie gallego  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                    I was in the relasionship for 12 years but he doesnt like commit..many years i wasted and i hope i still fined someone even im nearly 40 years old thats life...

                                                                                                                    • Marie Dietlin
                                                                                                                      Marie Dietlin  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                      never again

                                                                                                                      • *Jaded.By.You* Jade N
                                                                                                                        *Jaded.By.You* Jade N  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                        NEVER EVER AGAIN !!!! It's sad when u have spent so much time and effort on a person / relationship to realize it's not going to go anywhere, especially when you feel like u have lost urself and the person u are all because u were trying so hard to save what u thought u could have in the future. No more, from this moment forth NEVER EVER AGAIN!!!! THANK YOU🙌🏾

                                                                                                                        • Mina Rhenaye
                                                                                                                          Mina Rhenaye  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                          Never Again! First and last time I put myself in this situation, ended badly and embarrassed myself in the process. But if a guy says they don’t see a relationship with you, they don’t see a relationship with YOU. Doesn’t mean anyone 🤷🏾‍♀️

                                                                                                                          • Zo Finney
                                                                                                                            Zo Finney  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                            Never again!

                                                                                                                            • june mccracken
                                                                                                                              june mccracken  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                              Thank you .... I'm saying never again

                                                                                                                              • Rebecca Carraway
                                                                                                                                Rebecca Carraway  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                #4--interpretation==> he’s just a f*ckboy

                                                                                                                                • Rabia Iqbal
                                                                                                                                  Rabia Iqbal  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                  Yes never again.Adam ! you spoke so right.Your advises are of great help.Do tell about red flags in a man

                                                                                                                                  • Janae D
                                                                                                                                    Janae D  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                    I hate being the agressor

                                                                                                                                    • Tyanna Billy
                                                                                                                                      Tyanna Billy  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                      Never again

                                                                                                                                      • Deeksha meena
                                                                                                                                        Deeksha meena  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                        Bro..u r absolutely apt in describing..the things...n doing a great job..god bless u..keep it up👍

                                                                                                                                        • Ramakrishna L
                                                                                                                                          Ramakrishna L  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                          Thanks a lot I was confused is he love me or not but now I know he don't want to commit with me😭😢😫😀

                                                                                                                                          • Adriana Levrints
                                                                                                                                            Adriana Levrints  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                            Never again

                                                                                                                                            • Dalila Watts
                                                                                                                                              Dalila Watts  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                              I've been single for 3 years. I think I'm over the idea of ever getting married and having a family of my own.

                                                                                                                                              • Jocelyn Hutchinson
                                                                                                                                                Jocelyn Hutchinson  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                                What is confusing for me though is he said he doesn’t want a relationship, yet introduced me to his extended family (grandparents, aunt). Is it just me that thinks you only introduce someone to your extended family that you think is gonna be around a while?

                                                                                                                                                • Danielle Bosley
                                                                                                                                                  Danielle Bosley  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                                  3 and a half years !🙈🙈🤔. No more energy left 🙄🙄

                                                                                                                                                  • Lorna Wee
                                                                                                                                                    Lorna Wee  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                                    never again

                                                                                                                                                    • Tam Kash
                                                                                                                                                      Tam Kash  2 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                                      Never again

                                                                                                                                                      • Shevis Robinson
                                                                                                                                                        Shevis Robinson  3 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                                        This guy has 4 signs you talked about. Never again!!! I deserve better I know that!!

                                                                                                                                                        • Leilani Light
                                                                                                                                                          Leilani Light  3 месяца назад

                                                                                                                                                          I understand that there is a biological imperative in the “nesting instinct” in women, but, notice that you don’t see videos on how to get a woman to commit. Men need to WIN us. In nature, even the female SPARROW requires the male to dance (to prove genetic soundness) and woo her, and compete against other males, and after she chooses him, he MUST BUILD THE NEST (home) BEFORE she will actually let him impregnate her, and then he must do half the hunting to feed that nest of babies. Why is a sparrow more intelligent than a human female? Well, it’s not intelligence, it’s INSTINCT. So, then the next question becomes, WHAT HAS TURNED OFF OUR ANIMAL INSTINCT to protect ourselves from men who are fully capable of impregnating us with no ties?????