1 BIG Reason You're Single | Dating Advice For Women By Mat Boggs

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  • Published: 22 February 2018
  • Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women by sharing how to overcome those limiting beliefs that keep you from finding love
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Comments • 125

  • Susan Brimberry
    Susan Brimberry  Ay əvvəl

    Ego is the big block in my life , being enlightened removed everything that blocked me.

    • PhuongThao
      PhuongThao  2 ay əvvəl

      For those who are interested in shame, please check out Dr. Brene Brown's great book: Daring Greatly

      • TaurusGirl 81
        TaurusGirl 81  2 ay əvvəl

        This is soooooo deep.... ❤❤❤

        • Gogo Shagara
          Gogo Shagara  3 ay əvvəl

          What we block please tell me men are not responsible, they think it is essay or right for girls to hangout with them and have a good time.. No.. Love means to be responsible for a woman you might be a father and she has the right to make her relationship with her man legal by married and walk with him in front of all people around them.. Many many men will make a move or try to get the lady but what is right is right .. Why you people want the girls to choose the wrong direction in relationship ?

          • kay bee
            kay bee  3 ay əvvəl

            What if we have absolutely no one in our lives that is safe enough to tell our shame too?

            • Zari Kaz
              Zari Kaz  3 ay əvvəl

              Your video was great as always😍

              • Adela Radichetti
                Adela Radichetti  5 ay əvvəl

                Thank you

                • Rebecca Murphy
                  Rebecca Murphy  6 ay əvvəl

                  I know it... Im 12, ginger, have hella freckles and like guys that are a little older like 15 or 14🙂

                  • Sarika Verma
                    Sarika Verma  6 ay əvvəl

                    Good day Matt and fellow subscribers. Matt, I have to say, in my healing process (just over 2 years, single) I have watched a slew of videos. Videos from many dating "experts". You are one of the FEW who actually are sincere. You show that you truly care and have an invested interest in women / men finding true love through the depth of your words. I have dated and I strictly go by my instinct. Women, listen to your instinct. Like most women, I come across men who want their ego stroked and sex. Period. They too have insecurities and they mask them with big talk and over confidence, etc. Matt, you do good. You give women wisdom and courage and motivation to love themselves. I have shame with my body. In this IG world full of women who wear nothing and parade around naked (or close to) with these almost perfect bodies, lips, eyes, etc etc. *(although make'uped, botoxed, plastic surgery etc.) , it has set the standard for what men seek. Men seek eye candy; very unrealistic eye candy. This epidemic of Kardashian look alikes has brought me and most women I know shame. we feel shameful for our back fat , our unperky boobs, our thin lips, our unpolished nails, or unrooly hair after days trying to attain perfection at the gym. I've realized that loving myself is the best kind of love I am going to find in today's pretentious society. Loving myself with all my un-perfect parts is the only love that I need to sustain me. I don't trust anyone with my heart anymore. Men who want substance, intelligence, well-roundedness, balance don't exist, they are going extinct. I wish men watched videos to UNDERSTAND how detrimental to sustaining real connections , this hook-up culture and sex driven behaviour is. The block can be removed if men wouldn't do us wrong. Their selfishess and ill desires add to our shame. It's a cycle of women who feel shame for their flaws, sought out by men playing on female insecurities, manipulating us with all the right words but ill intentions, using us/abusing us, and never committing, in turn making us feel shameful for 'giving in, or not feeling good enough, or being used'. I don't see this cycle ending anytime soon. Working towards our BEST SELF is the only way to feel complete and fulfilled. Side note; Matt, you created a video speaking about dating online and the plethora of options and you give a 'benching potentials' anology. Can you please reply with a link to that video? God Bless you Matt. Keep the videos - words of wisdom and sincerity coming!

                    • Raquel French-Goetzke
                      Raquel French-Goetzke  7 ay əvvəl

                      I have a block because I don’t feel like I am good enough for anyone. I have anxiety when I try to meet guys in person but text message I can be my self. I feel that I am not pretty enough or I am not skinny enough. I am over weight and I don’t feel pretty. I have a fear of rejection and I am not worthiness

                      • Samantha Tooley
                        Samantha Tooley  9 ay əvvəl

                        I fear if I tell a guy. That I have depression and anxiety. He will ignorant to what it means to feel this way. Wouldnt know how to support me. Thus run away. I'm fighting every day to feel good.

                        • Samantha Tooley
                          Samantha Tooley  9 ay əvvəl

                          Do you know the song Tears of a clown by smokey Robinson. Listen to the lyrics that describes life for me.

                          • Catherine Reinhardt
                            Catherine Reinhardt  11 ay əvvəl

                            Matt, everything said in this video is so true. Ashamed of the fact that I am partially sighted and have been all my life. Don't have drivers license regular job receive disability. Also struggle w/ mental health and chronic pain.feel like I'm not good enough and never have been for anyone. Finally learning/believing it's BS story been telling myself for yrs. seeing so many people consistently in/out of relationships for yrs. is devastating. And, despite the work I've done on myself over last few years, not much has really changed. Will it ever be me ? It's suppose to be me. Instead of everyone around me. Deserve someone who commits shortly after meeting and so on. Deserve an amazing relationship more than everyone in my life because of the amount to which I have struggled in life.s d

                            • O Overlyloved
                              O Overlyloved  11 ay əvvəl

                              This video brought tears to my eyes

                              • Miss B
                                Miss B  11 ay əvvəl

                                Right on Mat

                                • dilo dilo
                                  dilo dilo  Il əvvəl

                                  Very good point! 👍

                                  • Cutie Pie!
                                    Cutie Pie!  Il əvvəl

                                    I got three friend married one in a serious years in relationship and one I think she still single she likes to cearal date. Honestly I know I'm single because I haven't tried in a while I haven't found someone I'm interested in!

                                    • Janice P Ellis
                                      Janice P Ellis  Il əvvəl

                                      My shame is my weight problem. Society is SO unkind to fat people that, over time, I've come to believe that no man would want me because I'm overweight. It doesn't help that every now and then, people who are supposed to care about me "remind" me that men don't like overweight women. Buying into those beliefs makes me eat to comfort myself, which results in a deeper sense of shame. Recently, a very physically fit man, who I get had been admiring me from afar for months, approached me. But, I seem to have pushed him away because I thought why would Mr.Fit be interested in Ms Fat? Now, he ignores me and I feel hurt and like the whole thing was some bs move on his part.

                                      • Chinchin Chokhlei
                                        Chinchin Chokhlei  Il əvvəl

                                        So powerful

                                        • Ms. Chris Cole
                                          Ms. Chris Cole  Il əvvəl

                                          I LOVE that I watched my very first Brené Brown talk, earlier today- and then watch a video of yours that mentioned her! I began crying, so hard, while watching her Ted Talk on critics- as I know I was divinely guided to watch it, to support me in my journey of achieving self-mastery while working through mental health issues from life-long narcissistic abuse syndrome and the physical and mental health issues that arose from long-term exposure to stress (cortisol) and trauma- all while currently living with my covertly narcissistic mother, because she wanted to be my “caretaker” (it took getting sick to realize what she was and why I was so I also absolutely LOVE your videos, Matt! I pray that our works will cross paths, and we’ll get the opportunity to work together.. 🤞🏻 Until then, be well and blessed be! 🙏🏻💛☺️

                                          • londeka nokota
                                            londeka nokota  Il əvvəl

                                            thanks for sharing....I can't download your videos I've been trying ...help

                                            • Mikoto Chenmai
                                              Mikoto Chenmai  Il əvvəl

                                              Mat! What if I'm super confident about myself and still can't find quality men?? whenever I go on a date with a guy, I find most of them NOT my type! and when I do find someone I can see myself with, he ghosts on me...

                                              • Does it Matter
                                                Does it Matter  Il əvvəl

                                                I do have something blocking me. I have fallen victim to a fuckboy. I for some reason can't get over him. I guess its because i actually felt special that he shared and talked about his family with me and told me a lot about them. He hasn't done it with anyone else apparently, and sometimes he goes through the halls i go through even if his class is on the opposite side of the building. I would only glance at him, but he'd stare at me. He's known to lure girls by making it seem likes he's interested when he really isnt. I know this, yet i can't break free. I have so many people i could date that actually are interested in me but i just can't! Help meee ;-;

                                                • Patty Cake
                                                  Patty Cake  Il əvvəl

                                                  Interesting point!

                                                  • Rosé Noire Rodriguez
                                                    Rosé Noire Rodriguez  Il əvvəl

                                                    I don't understand this one.... I have things i'm embarrassed about. Like parts of my body, or personality, facial features, etc. But I don't have "shame" or even guilt. I've cheated on partners but, I don't feel bad about it. That would be the only thing I could think of. Can someone explain this to me?

                                                    • Angela Woods
                                                      Angela Woods  Il əvvəl

                                                      Do you think your partner is cheating on you? Don't wait to catch them red-handed. Contact @fredparker_ today on Instagram. He's a pretty good hacker. I strongly recommend him. He's a professional,he's fast and reliable.

                                                      • Katherine H.
                                                        Katherine H.  Il əvvəl

                                                        Hi Matt, you're amazing. Can you make video about how to talk with man who have to talk with you, because it is his job, like barmans? How to separate yourself from crowd? Thanks love you.

                                                        • Audra Bryant Booking
                                                          Audra Bryant Booking  Il əvvəl

                                                          This is a great video Matt!! For years my shame were my scars! I hid myself from men and especially myself. I finally got a place where I was able to accept myself and I used it in my art : azclip.net/video/9omSfX-IMkE/video.html

                                                          • Eveline Pol
                                                            Eveline Pol  Il əvvəl

                                                            I agree so much with Cher Monroe, especially when the ogre comes out, usually when you're sharing a roof together. Simple choice is living alone, or joining the demons. Only real love is from Mum and Dad, and other close relatives, a conclusion which is often made with many tears. Mat is really right with the automatical blocks, but they are there to protect you from wrong people, it is your intuition which tells you. I was not blocked at all when I met my husband, because he was normal. Wish you so much luck ladies, and keep watching Mat for expert advice, super to give us a clue into male behaviour.

                                                            • Kerrie Mills
                                                              Kerrie Mills  Il əvvəl

                                                              Thank you, Matt well explained.

                                                              • Elizabeth Maillet
                                                                Elizabeth Maillet  Il əvvəl

                                                                I love Matt but this video makes no sense. I live in small town Canada. The only men who want me are either married or men that I'm not attracted to at all physically or mentally. I've been alone for almost 3 years now. I feel this video was just words. I love myself as I don't settle out of fear of being alone. There is just NO quality men around. Online dating is a joke. There are no clubs to join that fit my work schedule or interesting and in the dead of winter here in Canada there isn't much to do. I'm sorry but this video was just not helpful.

                                                                • Grazz
                                                                  Grazz  Il əvvəl

                                                                  I love your dual book cases that don't have enough books to fill either of them....

                                                                  • Tigger
                                                                    Tigger  Il əvvəl

                                                                    I had never thought about it like that before. I suppose I am ashamed of my appearance; I am ashamed that no one wants to date me; I am ashamed that I have got so far in life and no one has ever liked me enough to want to marry me. And I am ashamed of my feelings if I meet someone I like. I recently met a man through work that I felt very attracted to: he's tall, handsome, masculine, intelligent, charming and very easy to talk to. The instant I realized I liked him my barriers went up, the shutters came down and I was very off hand with him, probably almost bordering on being a little bit rude. And the reason: I was terrified he would realise I liked him and be repulsed by me. All I could think as i sat with him was: "Poor guy, fancy having an old troll like me attracted to you. Don't worry, I won't embarrass you by making it publicly known, and I will make sure I stay away from you. I expect he's sitting there thinking 'Why did it have to be you that processed me. Why couldn't it have been a woman who was: prettier/younger/blonde/slimmer - anybody but you' ". And ever since I have made a point of making sure I am not in the vicinity, if I know he may visit our building.

                                                                    • Rim Ime
                                                                      Rim Ime  Il əvvəl

                                                                      Big shame is having streaching marks on my body make me feel discusting feel like monster i don't know if man gonna accept me with this and i am kind of shy personnne i don't i think i don't like everything about me

                                                                      • charleen hopkins
                                                                        charleen hopkins  Il əvvəl

                                                                        yea the past is gone

                                                                        • charleen hopkins
                                                                          charleen hopkins  Il əvvəl

                                                                          thank your for the reminder

                                                                          • charleen hopkins
                                                                            charleen hopkins  Il əvvəl

                                                                            no i have been lazzy in almost every sense

                                                                            • Wong Lu
                                                                              Wong Lu  Il əvvəl

                                                                              Love your videos Matt!

                                                                              • Melanie S
                                                                                Melanie S  Il əvvəl

                                                                                Wow amazing thank you Matt

                                                                                • Felicia Frempong
                                                                                  Felicia Frempong  Il əvvəl

                                                                                  pls can I get email or any contact media?thanks

                                                                                  • Sharon Thomas
                                                                                    Sharon Thomas  Il əvvəl

                                                                                    Right on time, never heard it this way... But this is that one truth

                                                                                    • Kylie Wali
                                                                                      Kylie Wali  Il əvvəl

                                                                                      Wow the shelves behind are gorgeous!

                                                                                      • Chryss Par
                                                                                        Chryss Par  Il əvvəl

                                                                                        the most amazing and profound advice I had the chance to hear in my life!! thank you!

                                                                                        • SoftAndWarm
                                                                                          SoftAndWarm  Il əvvəl

                                                                                          Thanks for this video, Mat! Spot on. I feel restrained and shameful for family reasons and I have this strange pervasive feeling of being absent in my own life. I guess things will improve if I can share these feelings with close people but so far not many people around to talk about it...

                                                                                          • Chiara Simeoni
                                                                                            Chiara Simeoni  Il əvvəl

                                                                                            My personaly esperience was when I was in relationship with a boy and I notice only lately that his life couldn't be setle down with me has he made me think and built a future togheter. I felt shame to share a part of my precious years with a wrong person. When he new we wouldn't be together. It's shame to trust folish silly person like him. But we all know experience in life teachs us to open our eyes !

                                                                                            • Zeeba Neighba
                                                                                              Zeeba Neighba  5 ay əvvəl

                                                                                              Rejection is God'protection

                                                                                              • Janet L
                                                                                                Janet L  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                Excellent video, thanks Mat for delving into this topic. Our inner beliefs manifest in our physical reality outside and yes, clearing that shame will clear the blocks to that love we're seeking. Thank you for this reminder.

                                                                                                • Patti Lacey
                                                                                                  Patti Lacey  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                  Shame is me being on disability and financially having to live with my parents at my age when I have had this disability since I was a teenager and lived without my parents right after graduation. If someone wants to date me I want to have a talk together with a doctor before a first date together. (Having heat stroke means I need a permanent relationship where I am not left alone and need proper housing with proper working air conditioner at 70 degrees or relocating to a year-round temperature of 70's). Medicaid is already on cuts so who knows what would happen in the future and having a family. It makes me feel like I will never have a future.

                                                                                                  • Kesha Kellogg
                                                                                                    Kesha Kellogg  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                    Patti Lacey Much love to you, Patti.

                                                                                                    • isabel ramos
                                                                                                      isabel ramos  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                      Attracting men physically and maybe mentally to me is not hard, the hard part is keeping them interested. They usually stick around but just because of my body. I guess I'm just considered a sexual object. Sometimes I feel like my personality is not enough to keep someone. I guess dating is not for me. Well I don't know what my block is but whatever I'm just gonna use that block to protect me from distracting me of what is important right now.

                                                                                                      • Cheree M
                                                                                                        Cheree M  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                        isabel ramos thanks but I'm not looking or hoping to meet anyone.

                                                                                                        • isabel ramos
                                                                                                          isabel ramos  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                          Cher Monroe I really hope you can heal your heart, find someone who loves you and doesn't want to take advantage from you. Wish you all the best!

                                                                                                          • Cheree M
                                                                                                            Cheree M  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                            I always meet the ones that just want pussy and my paycheck. There are no decent men, they're all sex hungry lazy bums looking for a woman to cater to them.

                                                                                                            • Monica Sancio
                                                                                                              Monica Sancio  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                              Good advice, Kesha, thank you! I'm in the process of attracting a conscious guy, too : )

                                                                                                              • Kesha Kellogg
                                                                                                                Kesha Kellogg  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                There are lots of good men out there; the trick is knowing where to find them. What about looking for a man who is on the same spiritual path as you? I've found men are less likely to be shallow or use you if you connect spiritually. Feed yourself spiritually (whatever that means for you) and you'll be in the right crowd. ;-)

                                                                                                                • Misha Lezhava
                                                                                                                  Misha Lezhava  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                  Mat, YOU, YOURSELVES, are the gift for us dear!!! Love, trust and relationships are the things brought from two sides! If any from two humans, close friends or partners are not at the very level, don’t have strength enough to feel or own the love, trust or the high sense of equal relationships and do not carry on the devotional respect of sincere, reciprocal relationships, tender values to each other, love is not being built!!! Love is the huge affectionate feeling, inner sense and obligation created by the UNIVERCE!!!

                                                                                                                  • Milan Nikolic
                                                                                                                    Milan Nikolic  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                    OMG!!! I meet a woman of my life last week!!! lane.onlinewebshop.net/recommends/love-of-my-life/

                                                                                                                    • Petra Larouche
                                                                                                                      Petra Larouche  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                      Thank you for sharing your thoughts on what might be blocking our progress in love. My shame though is about a gambling problem I developed in the past year. And of course this has caused me some serious financial problems and on top of that I lost my job due to health issues. I tried to forgive myself so I can remove the blockage and move on but I have a very difficult time with it. I even tell myself that God loves me unconditionally and that perhaps the gambling was supposed to be part of my journey as a life lesson but I'm still stuck. Not sure what else I can do.😢

                                                                                                                      • Kenza Bk
                                                                                                                        Kenza Bk  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                        Thank you..Now i understand . LOVE FROM ALGERIA

                                                                                                                        • IMOTILA JAMIR
                                                                                                                          IMOTILA JAMIR  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                          Have been single for quite a long time now but its hard to get over from the past after being cheated and lied several times at me. Not that easy to accept someone new again.

                                                                                                                          • Lerato Rakgolela
                                                                                                                            Lerato Rakgolela  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                            Thank you Mat, indeed this is going to be a powerful conversation. For me it was shame, after breaking up with the Father of my child, I was ashamed of what will people say, worse he left me for another woman, that dented my self-esteem ect. However, I had a break through....grace things😊 God connected me with 4 amazing woman whom I call my muffins. It was at that point where I started to open up and a process of healing started. It did not happen over night, but with opening up to them I was able to even open up to others imparting lessons. I am currently in a relationship with someone who is going through what I went through and I am reaching out for I relate and understand {there is no better nurse than the one who was once a patient😉}.....the aim is to heal through giving/sharing tons of Love, and being patient with ourselves and others. Be Blessed Mat🌸

                                                                                                                            • What Not To Do At a Stoplight

                                                                                                                              Simple: your standards are too high or you aren’t considering people or giving them enough of a chance.

                                                                                                                              • JEN TANG
                                                                                                                                JEN TANG  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                This video's content is so deep. Great work Matt you are always wonderful

                                                                                                                                • Cheree M
                                                                                                                                  Cheree M  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                  Romantic love is a lie anyway. A man will tell you everything you want to hear, show you what you want to see and act like he wants the same then, when he gets what he wants, usually sex and adoration, he flips the script and the ogre reveals himself. I was married to one for 22 years and then he disappeared for a week called me and said I'm filing for divorce in the morning. I was totally blindsided. Men need to go back to hell where they came from. They are lying, abusive, manipulative demons!!!

                                                                                                                                  • Ella220000
                                                                                                                                    Ella220000  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                    Mat thank you for teaching me so much. You are the best. I have been single for so long on the survival mode. There are very few handsome and decent men around to my eyes. It is a question of supply & demand. It all seems such hard work!

                                                                                                                                    • Tahi Lei
                                                                                                                                      Tahi Lei  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                      Thank you Matt. Yes i am about to be FREE.. Im feeling postive and couragrous! About to stomp on my past!!!!

                                                                                                                                      • charleen hopkins
                                                                                                                                        charleen hopkins  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                        no i,m not worried about failing school, or having a low paying job

                                                                                                                                        • Aida Felix
                                                                                                                                          Aida Felix  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                          I love your videos and listening to the content Mat, you are and sound caring and very knowledgeable. Thank you for continuing to post.

                                                                                                                                          • Clara Rodriguez
                                                                                                                                            Clara Rodriguez  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                            how true Matt. you said it spot on. thank you for the affirmation ❤❤

                                                                                                                                            • D Reyes
                                                                                                                                              D Reyes  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                              My block... I'm affraid that no men that I've dealt with has had a true intention of getting along or accepting my 8yrs old daughter as an important part of my life... Then, would my decision of staying single be a normal decision for someone in my situation? I do feel tired of trying and getting nowhere

                                                                                                                                              • A Little Taste Of Tribe Of Doris

                                                                                                                                                Thank you so much Matt for sharing this with us so much appreciated! "The shame that binds you" from John Bradshaw is a great book too! I definitely recommend John Bradshaw's work on shame and more and you can find videos of his work on youtube. Much love ;)

                                                                                                                                                • Kesha Kellogg
                                                                                                                                                  Kesha Kellogg  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                  Amour Thanks for the reminder about him!

                                                                                                                                                  • Beth Peacock
                                                                                                                                                    Beth Peacock  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                    Hi Matt! I really enjoy all your pieces but I have to unsubscribe because when you post that you have a new one, it automatically puts and keeps it on the bottom right hand side of my screen and my boyfriend of only seven months saw your last.ish post on my screen and it had an innocent on your part, yet very negative title ... something about how to loose a guy? Holy sh**! You're helping me but your not! Lol!

                                                                                                                                                    • Lynda Lee Abdo
                                                                                                                                                      Lynda Lee Abdo  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                      Thanks so much for sharing this very important information!

                                                                                                                                                      • yasha ememzadeh
                                                                                                                                                        yasha ememzadeh  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                        another block im feeling is fear of failling AGAIN or better, being left again! of cours it can easely be linked with shame of not being able to......(keep a relationship ecc..) What im doing now to open up slowly again is... learning about relationships and bettering my ways. Greeving in an intelligent way to get over the last break up. Thinking in terms of what have a learnt how did that experiance make me grow or where it is I have to heal inside to bypass thease everending split ups. Instead of pushing hate on .... (the one whos behavior is hurting me) im pulling in his energy ! Learning about relationships gives me some new confidence and possitive thoughts.

                                                                                                                                                        • Qalbee Nizam
                                                                                                                                                          Qalbee Nizam  9 ay əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                          yasha ememzadeh I feel you😔

                                                                                                                                                          • Soumi Banerjee
                                                                                                                                                            Soumi Banerjee  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                            excellent

                                                                                                                                                            • Najy Hyuuga
                                                                                                                                                              Najy Hyuuga  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                              I knew it was a good idea to subscribe to your channel Matt. I love how you abourd a topic and how you can explain it so well and give us your perspective so we can feel it and make ourselves think if there is anything we can do to improve ourselves in any aspect of our lives. I live this video and many more, a lot! Thanks for sharing with us ❤️

                                                                                                                                                              • As Pam's World Turns - An Awakening

                                                                                                                                                                What happened to me was.. My parents marriage was miserable. Me not understanding what the gloom and doom was, I made the decision. . if that's what happiness is I don't want it. From that moment on I rejected relationships. I was 7 years old. I also blamed myself for their misery. I became ashamed to be me.

                                                                                                                                                                • Michaela R
                                                                                                                                                                  Michaela R  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                  Hello Matt I am Michaela I like your videos. I would like to put coment: I can be myself only with guy that I know he is not free. I am funny a make jokes and so on. As soon as I like guy who is free I am stuck. I am afraid that I will say something wrong. I am listening and waching. I can not even look at him... I know that my behaviour is strange in situation like that ....

                                                                                                                                                                  • Beth Keller
                                                                                                                                                                    Beth Keller  Il əvvəl

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                                                                                                                                                                    • Ania Aitchison
                                                                                                                                                                      Ania Aitchison  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                      Yeh every time on the dateing site I chat to a bloke They wonna show there man hud first .why .puts me stright off them I wanna date a d meet someone who dosnt have to prove his willy size Why dose this prove a chat up line?

                                                                                                                                                                      • Sheri Peterson
                                                                                                                                                                        Sheri Peterson  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                        I started dating a guy he is so kind and sweet, he has told me something. That he is impotent he's been having problems getting erection due to having diabetes I'm not sure how to handle this I like him a lot. Just seems to be a red flag for me. Any advice.

                                                                                                                                                                        • LemansSunset350
                                                                                                                                                                          LemansSunset350  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                          Sheri Peterson Why would it be a red flag when he’s just being honest with you?

                                                                                                                                                                          • Christella Laguerre
                                                                                                                                                                            Christella Laguerre  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                            What a big truth! choosing safety over authenticity does not allow you to come from your heart neither enter someone else's. Thank you Matt!

                                                                                                                                                                            • Water Fishes
                                                                                                                                                                              Water Fishes  Il əvvəl

                                                                                                                                                                              Thanks Mat- BUT, I really don't know what about me that I would be feeling shame, besides the Past. And, you know, I had to tell him only because I'm on probation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!