A Fool-Proof Way To Create Connection With Him | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • Published: 14 February 2019
  • Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and a fool-proof way to create connection with your man
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    • Jessica Morales
      Jessica Morales  महीने पहले

      Amazing, smart and nice. thanks for posting

      • alcudiababe1
        alcudiababe1  महीने पहले

        I can answer your question. My answer is, my Mom. Like you say you learned a valuable lesson and price to pay where you create the illusions of being on top of everything and you don't share your struggles and feelings. Well this has gone on for years between us but every now and again I've had a real break through with my Mom, even just last week. My Mom's a perfectionist and works hard to get things right, and I don't feel I live up to her expectations and when I think I can't do it anymore and I'm bricking it, when I can't pull off that illusion and she sees into the cracks, she sees fault, and imperfection so tells me how to do better - so I have this complex going on and then I'm going to have to try even harder to gain approval I'm never going to get? With the help of my husband I don't do that anymore so I've stopped trying to win it and try to live off knowing I'm a disappointment to her, that, made me even worse, I don't know how I managed to do it, but I have had some real break throughs. So I feel like I've gone from strength to strength of knowing my own mind, speaking from my truth, getting real with her and just aiming to get a relationship with her that feels right to the both of us xxxx

        • alcudiababe1
          alcudiababe1  महीने पहले

          You have made me so oooo unbelievably happy the fact that you can quote Brene Brown. You're quite the right person to be teaching all these findings to us all

          • alcudiababe1
            alcudiababe1  महीने पहले

            Well, around 2.06, which I've just paused, I can tell you what a woman would do, but a man, would be tough on you, get you to man up and stop crying and telling a man things like that, is their way of getting young boys to grow up into strong hard men, so for men, real macho men on a football pitch they don't do vulnerablility. Usually they cry when they do, over major losses like the loss of a loved one etc all those things, alone, where you will never see them, hear them and you will never know, even lads who have grown up in strict disciplinary conditions with their Dad's so that even they don't even do vulnerablility in front of others.

            • CA2SD
              CA2SD  महीने पहले

              This is such a valuable🙌🏻vlog!! Thanks🙏🏼Mat.

              • F
                F  2 महीने पहले

                The problem is not me being vulnerable or him struggling with it. The problem is that it appears it’s a one way street: from me to him. I am becoming tired and frustrated with it.

                • LadyShyye
                  LadyShyye  2 महीने पहले

                  The kitchen is Never a safe place for children when cooking. You added stress to your wife who was caring for her family and caused her to question her ability to be a good parent. Not good. After going through the stress of carrying and birthing her family; you didn't consider the danger and stress put on her by Playing in a small kitchen!? Not cool Dude. That was some serious stress and she actually came back to apologized for losing her cool. Wow....I found it inconsiderate on your part actually. Guess she could have asked that you take the playing to a safer part of the house but there is something to be said in safe thinking. IJS 😒😳😥😱

                  • Hey Hannah
                    Hey Hannah  2 महीने पहले

                    I really like your videos. Always with a positive attitude. :)

                    • Spooky Spectre
                      Spooky Spectre  2 महीने पहले

                      Some ppl under pressure cry, some ppl explode. I'm an explorer, but I make it clear that when I do explode, it's about something going on with me, not necessarily them.

                      • Rebecca Romzek
                        Rebecca Romzek  3 महीने पहले

                        Great video

                        • nobullshitbeauty
                          nobullshitbeauty  4 महीने पहले

                          I like you and your video love from France :)

                          • silver girl816
                            silver girl816  4 महीने पहले

                            Vulnerability just ammunition for a later argument.

                            • Insane Pinai
                              Insane Pinai  4 महीने पहले

                              Hi Matt, could you make a video about dating a guy who has Aspergers syndrome? Thanks, love your videos! 😀

                              • María Gabriela
                                María Gabriela  4 महीने पहले

                                For me, vulnerability is good because it makes part of our human nature, and is the fact that makes us let our egos to be humble and accept all of us have fears an weaknesses. The key is to overcome those situations in order to grow strong roots for our feelings.

                                • Genevieve Tran
                                  Genevieve Tran  5 महीने पहले

                                  Worthy men don’t need all this prep and prime tbh

                                  • Biscuit Tin
                                    Biscuit Tin  2 महीने पहले

                                    No, but this could be helpful advice to women to find it hard to be vulnerable and so find it hard to connect with the men they like.

                                    • Alicia Caver
                                      Alicia Caver  5 महीने पहले

                                      Your wife is perfect

                                      • Praise P
                                        Praise P  5 महीने पहले

                                        VIDEO REQUEST: Can you please make a video about Emotional Affairs? I already knows the signs.. but id like to know What does it say about someone's official relationship when they find themselves in an emotional affairs w/ someone else. does that mean their relationship has been broken long before the emotional affair begins? Is it just Boredom or a subconscious desire that drives this emotional affair to seek a deeper connection outside of the relationship? PLEASE Respond!! Thank you :)

                                        • Elizabeth Jones
                                          Elizabeth Jones  5 महीने पहले

                                          This guy wears the coolest shirts! 😎

                                          • fuzzypeach
                                            fuzzypeach  5 महीने पहले

                                            My mom

                                            • Carmen Michaelian
                                              Carmen Michaelian  5 महीने पहले

                                              That story made me cry. I would be open and vulnerable with my adult daughter. We have our differences and it would be a change to open up to her and be vulnerable.

                                              • 1LaOriental
                                                1LaOriental  5 महीने पहले

                                                Beautiful Matt. Very heart-warming and encouraging. You made my day!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

                                                • Antigoni Pafiou
                                                  Antigoni Pafiou  5 महीने पहले

                                                  You are a great storyteller Mathew 😊 that was a very good story...very inspiring !

                                                  • Golden boi
                                                    Golden boi  5 महीने पहले

                                                    This is hard. Gunna give up and get some cats or whatever.

                                                    • Andrea Grabner
                                                      Andrea Grabner  3 महीने पहले

                                                      It sounds, that I did offend you. Please, forgive me. That was never my intention. Thank you.

                                                      • Golden boi
                                                        Golden boi  3 महीने पहले

                                                        Andrea Grabner I’ve owned cats before and this was a joke with the indication that cats are easier than men. I’m well aware that you should probably take care of your animals. Just a joke. Namaste.

                                                        • Andrea Grabner
                                                          Andrea Grabner  3 महीने पहले

                                                          Oh, dear, there is a lot to learn from cats. About vulnerability and when and when not. These are one of the most vulnerable creatures . But please, as a. At mommy, only get cats, if you can take care of them for years to come. Namaste.

                                                          • Sandra DiBiaso
                                                            Sandra DiBiaso  5 महीने पहले

                                                            Being entirely vulnerable is not healthy.

                                                            • 1LaOriental
                                                              1LaOriental  5 महीने पहले

                                                              Sandra DiBiaso Not true, dear. Vulnerability opens up your intuition. It allows you to sense danger and know when to move away from those who would be harmful to you. The world desperately needs more open hearts!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

                                                              • Pique NY
                                                                Pique NY  5 महीने पहले

                                                                1st time in my life I was actually vulnerable enough to share something with my “I thought was partner” and all he did was lie to me. Good thing I picked up his deceitful way. Left before I became emotionally attached. Heart still hurts a little to be honest

                                                                • Mais J
                                                                  Mais J  6 महीने पहले

                                                                  This is beautiful and useful. Thank you.

                                                                  • Hira Khalid
                                                                    Hira Khalid  6 महीने पहले

                                                                    Yeah, vulnerability really make connections but only with empaths, beware of vulnerability with "narcissists"

                                                                    • charleen hopkins
                                                                      charleen hopkins  6 महीने पहले

                                                                      what about lonely ness . i,m always getting attracted to men that dont want me.

                                                                      • Abc Def
                                                                        Abc Def  6 महीने पहले

                                                                        Damnnnn you are sooo handsome Mat😍. Well i would like to ask you a question personally about an issue. May i know thru which way i can connect with you😊 thank you.

                                                                        • PMD90
                                                                          PMD90  6 महीने पहले

                                                                          Please talk about how to get him to propose without asking him directly.

                                                                          • maha gharib
                                                                            maha gharib  6 महीने पहले

                                                                            This is a great topic to share with us..... thank you so much.

                                                                            • EmbraceTheOpposite
                                                                              EmbraceTheOpposite  6 महीने पहले

                                                                              This is great advice! A question I also like to ask to increase vulnerability or transparency is what would you do with your time if money wasn’t an issue? It encourages people (especially in anew relationship) to stop talking about the small stuff and be a little bit more open about their passions.

                                                                              • Durchstarten
                                                                                Durchstarten  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                Any man should discover me, not the other way round! The only thing i do, is to smile at him. When dating i always admit being nervous.

                                                                                • Spunky Bear
                                                                                  Spunky Bear  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                  Hey Matt, How can a woman especially after divorce feel confident in determining whether a man is genuinely someone they can trust enough to be vulnerable with?

                                                                                  • xolaaxo
                                                                                    xolaaxo  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                    Great vid..something i struggle so much with! Sigh

                                                                                    • 1LaOriental
                                                                                      1LaOriental  5 महीने पहले

                                                                                      xolaaxo It gets so much better, dear. Believe in yourself!!!!!

                                                                                      • Joanna Kal
                                                                                        Joanna Kal  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                        Nowadays the standards of our generation set up too high and usually PERFECT. Its so hard to be perfect, because --- we' re human being, not a human doings. Imagine a world with perfect individuals -- it would be no meaning in Self-Transformation & Development -- A Break through is a healthy reaction on your body. It helps you to Let everything out, in order to get over it and move on. The hard thing here is to let everything inside and be shown as a Cold , unhearted person, that doesn' t help you to connect with people and also to connect with your heart. On our society especially boys are being taught to be muscular and tough and not show any kind of valnerability. The problem here is the "weight" that they carry on to their shoulders it makes them to have a more difficult journey but also descreses their energy levels // so does their productivity // .I believe that even men need sometimes to open their heart even to only one person either a friend or girl.

                                                                                        • L DLF
                                                                                          L DLF  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                          Beautiful, thanks for being real

                                                                                          • Claribel Corona
                                                                                            Claribel Corona  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                            Mr. Boggs ...this was a great video. Thank you, I’ve been dealing with many life stressors and my ‘go-to’ is to smile more and not let Anyone too close. This is exactly what I needed to hear especially how your wife was feeling in your example , as I relate all too well. Thanks!

                                                                                            • marie chonko
                                                                                              marie chonko  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                              Regarding this video, ALL of our relationships would benefit by letting people judiciously see our "real" selves. I am also a Brene Brown fan and have heard her speak, read her books, etc. I appreciate what you are bringing to the "connection" table, Mat. All good things but it's ALL about us women. What about the men? What about coaching men how to be better partners, be more open and vulnerable, be sexier, more engaging, better communicators, make us feel like we are "it", etc? A lot of guys go into dating behaving as if they are entitled and afford us the lowest common denominator of themselves or they don't have the communication skills and think that it's just fine and we should just accept the "I am, what I am" mindset. I'd like to see how many men would actually engage in your coaching in order to be better relationship partners. You do a great service to us gals so here is a challenge. How about doing your gender a huge favor by opening the forum up to enlightening men on how to step up their game? I'd support that as well because it does go both ways, but you already know that, ;)

                                                                                              • Joey
                                                                                                Joey  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                How would you suggest bringing out the vulnerability in a man who has trouble expressing emotion and seems to always want to be seen as perfect? My boyfriend is 36, we’ve been together for 10 years, but I really see him when he’s at his best. I’ve had plenty of moments where I have shown him my vulnerability, but he rarely shows me his. I’d love to know how to bring it out of him!

                                                                                                • Joey
                                                                                                  Joey  5 महीने पहले

                                                                                                  @Hersha Rele thank you. :)

                                                                                                  • Hersha Rele
                                                                                                    Hersha Rele  5 महीने पहले

                                                                                                    Joey just tell him that you want to have an honest conversation with him and that you except him in all his ways. His strengths and his weaknesses you also share with him that you would love him more if you knew all of him and that you will respect everything that he shares with you

                                                                                                    • LJ Campbell
                                                                                                      LJ Campbell  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                      Thx for this Mat ... great message. I agree ... vulnerability is important in relationships but the key is mutual trust. I really value the talking points you provide in your videos. Concepts are great but sometimes we just need the actual words to say so I love the idea of asking if I can be vulnerable or if I can be real for a minute. Those are great! I’ll definitely use those. Thank you!

                                                                                                      • Victoria Sutherland
                                                                                                        Victoria Sutherland  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                        My boyfriend is 20 years younger than I am and I'm turning 65 in a couple of weeks. I'm afraid if I share with him that I feel time rushing away from me and I want a real commitment sooner than later that he'll feel pressured.

                                                                                                        • patricia beckman
                                                                                                          patricia beckman  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                          This truly is the most difficult thing for me to do. And yes, you are right bc I recently felt the most connected to a man who shared his vulnerability to me. Darn me for not sharing myself.

                                                                                                          • Chuck
                                                                                                            Chuck  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                            vulnerability is EXTREMELY BAD for guys! Its blood in the WATER! If you show the slightest sign of weakness, you might as well commit suicide, because the ONLY thing coming your way is a line of sharks ready to take advantage. NEVER back down in the FACE of Anger or you will be the face everyone will disrespect for years and years and it spreads like a plague. Girls dont find that attractive! Vulnerability for women is looked at she is trying to get sympathy points and see how many suckers she can reel in! Its a bait game program, guys already know that trick we already watch to avoid this! There are no more Knights to save you ladies, you have gotten your independence, please enjoy it! When someone ask if Im ok for them to share something vulnerable with me, I always say its best to share it with someone you can trust like a family member or a friend! Men are avoiding you ladies like a plague! :Your high risk to look at, have a conversation with, be in the same room, work with, date, marry, and to even have a kid! Look at all those false allegations and always with the guys losing their asses! You want a fool proof way to create a connection make a screen name and find a random person, its truely the only option left! The ONLY men willing to talk to you women are the ones too dumb to learn their lesson and chances are high your a # on his list!

                                                                                                            • Chuck
                                                                                                              Chuck  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                              @Zed - Why am I here! Thats easy, because youtube has decided to do a Mass purge of all the channels I subscribe too and watch, putting this video in my popular to watch vids place. So I thought I would watch and comment. Never stated anything about how I feel, bad intentions, I simply stated HOW things are and gave a piece of what I thought was good information/advice! If anything you should show me some gratitude for enlightening you from the OTHER gender perspective on how a MAJORITY of men look/view things! Dont shoot the messenger.

                                                                                                              • Zechariah 4:6
                                                                                                                Zechariah 4:6  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                He thinks I'm stupid Matt - thank you so much for asking this question. A question we all must contend with an answer for ourselves. I believe vulnerability is a good thing, a necessary thing, a thing that can build character. Social scientist brene Brown talks extensively about this in many of her works and books. I have a question for you--- how do I allow myself 2 maintain, cherish my vulnerability and be willing to share it when it has been disrespected over and over again. I'm very clear with the men I date - only if the question goes in that direction and only if they ask about my prior experience with emotional abuse and domestic violence. In general they all seem two very much want to care for me, but it says if they forget that vulnerability as the relationship progresses and in some instances repeat the same mistakes of my ex. I I'm very clear not to project old stuff from my ex onto new potential boyfriends, that is so not fair. But in several very clear instances on dates there was just blatant disrespect, I was ghosted a couple of times after being told that I was this amazing woman that a gentleman was excited about our future together. I stayed in my feminine, and allowed these gentlemen to simply walk away, reminding myself that they were doing me a favor by self-selecting themselves out of my life. However it's kind of tough to share that painful part of my past with someone only to have them give lip service to being sensitive to that when they really aren't. So, any suggestions? For the record there were two gentlemen in the last year that I dated where I allowed myself to be vulnerable. The information was shared after several months of dating so it wasn't something I blurted out in the beginning to scare them off. As I said above this information was only shared after the conversation turn to questions about my past marriage and prior why it did not succeed.

                                                                                                                • liesa scott
                                                                                                                  liesa scott  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                  You can only connect with someone who wants to connect with you. If both people want a strong connection they will get one. They can't help it.

                                                                                                                  • beautylife310
                                                                                                                    beautylife310  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                    A man needs to be emotionally mature enough and has the capability to respond to a woman's true emotion. (Of course, if a woman is mature enough, she would know how to show her emotion better.) I have met two types of man, the mature one and the lack of capability one. It is a risk to show your true feelings, but for the mature one, it did help to build connection as he totally opened up his feeling too. For the incapable one, you won't get the similar response as he just responded very lightly. So there is nothing wrong to be vulnerable, just to make sure choose the one who deserves your true feelings. I won't be with a man if he is not emotionally mature enough. If he does not know how to deal with it, then he does not deserve me.

                                                                                                                    • butterfflyess
                                                                                                                      butterfflyess  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                      youre such a good bloke

                                                                                                                      • butterfflyess
                                                                                                                        butterfflyess  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                        is it good or bad? depends on the receiver

                                                                                                                        • oddlilbird
                                                                                                                          oddlilbird  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                          I love the stories in this video!

                                                                                                                          • Monica Levy Tyler
                                                                                                                            Monica Levy Tyler  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                            And how about when we are too vulnerable and the guy closes off because of that?

                                                                                                                            • charleen hopkins
                                                                                                                              charleen hopkins  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                              so even forgetfull ness is ok?

                                                                                                                              • Y
                                                                                                                                Y  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                I truly appreciate your advice and thoughts. Your videos are a breath of fresh air because you inspire women to be themselves and live their truth. I thank you for reminding women to remind themselves that they are deserving of real love.

                                                                                                                                • Debra Smothers
                                                                                                                                  Debra Smothers  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                  I was honest with one of my friends and told him that I Like Him and I have had a crush on you for the past 2 years and I fell in love with you when I first met you and now we don't talk about it and are conversations are weird we don't know what to say to one another

                                                                                                                                  • Alejandra Damián
                                                                                                                                    Alejandra Damián  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                    With my sister. ❤❤❤

                                                                                                                                    • Gyöngyvér Tamás
                                                                                                                                      Gyöngyvér Tamás  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                      vulnerability builds connection. it might be scary and hard to do in a romantic relationship, but I guess it's our only chance - to remain ladylike and not to lose his attraction as a man (talking out of experience) as for Your question, Matt, it would be my brother... feel like losing him for a long a time :(

                                                                                                                                      • Olivia Godinez
                                                                                                                                        Olivia Godinez  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                        I personally do not cry in front of anyone

                                                                                                                                        • Olivia Godinez
                                                                                                                                          Olivia Godinez  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                          Good

                                                                                                                                          • Kara
                                                                                                                                            Kara  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                            where did you get that shirt??

                                                                                                                                            • Erika
                                                                                                                                              Erika  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                              All I want and need is a hug...or ice cream

                                                                                                                                              • Seraphine Folebe
                                                                                                                                                Seraphine Folebe  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                Your video is greatMy present relationship is going so well now compare to the past one because I'm able to be vulnerable with him, even though it is a long distance relationship, I can tell he adores me because we are able to share together,like me, I'm being vulnerable with him, what I hardly share with friends or my ex I can share with him, be vulnerable is also being yourself

                                                                                                                                                • Heidi Bedoya
                                                                                                                                                  Heidi Bedoya  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                  Matt you are amazing! One of the big networks should give you a TV 📺 show. You could be the next Dr. Phil!

                                                                                                                                                  • Pamie Watkins
                                                                                                                                                    Pamie Watkins  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                    My mother or my husband just questions about life that I would want her opinion that I'm having a hard time doing like just something during the day where you're just like frustrated and you just feel like calling your mom and let her know

                                                                                                                                                    • Pamie Watkins
                                                                                                                                                      Pamie Watkins  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                      Matthew I thought about it yesterday and I can't remember what it was I was going to talk to her about where I usually don't have an answer for and I wanted to be vulnerable with her but I forget what it was

                                                                                                                                                      • Amber Mann
                                                                                                                                                        Amber Mann  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                        As I read the comments of those feeling let down I think about the question we need to ask ourselves. Are we being vulnerable for our sake, to grow, to express ourselves, to share who we are? Or are we being vulnerable hoping a person will give us something in return that we are seeking? If we believe love doesn’t seek itself in return then we should be vulnerable just to be vulnerable and not need anything from another person. I believe the heart ache comes when we are seeking some certain response from them and place that weight on them often without communicating that’s what we want. We cannot control others and this isn’t love. Be vulnerable for you... no strings attached and I find I’m a much happier person because of it.

                                                                                                                                                        • Peigthon Barth
                                                                                                                                                          Peigthon Barth  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                          Yiu are so good vulnerable doesnt work for boys

                                                                                                                                                          • beautylife310
                                                                                                                                                            beautylife310  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                            Well said. That's why being vulnerable is not easy, it is brave to show your true feelings and be ready to face any consequences, it needs courage! A woman who is not afraid to show her true feeling in a proper (sensible) way is admirable, if a man cannot or does not know how to deal with it, then he does not deserve her.

                                                                                                                                                            • Nancy Singh
                                                                                                                                                              Nancy Singh  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                              Very wise Amber!

                                                                                                                                                              • Tiffany Morrison
                                                                                                                                                                Tiffany Morrison  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                Vulnerable is something I am not good at! Thanks for showing me how vulnerability can be positive.

                                                                                                                                                                • Kirsten Orndorff
                                                                                                                                                                  Kirsten Orndorff  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                  But why be vulnerable when the person your with isn't emotional. They can't fully understand. They don't have the empathy. They'll say sorry but not comfort you or try to make you happy. They'll just wait it out until you're okay again.

                                                                                                                                                                  • Alea J
                                                                                                                                                                    Alea J  महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                    Does he not care or does he not know what to do

                                                                                                                                                                    • Intuitivelogic
                                                                                                                                                                      Intuitivelogic  5 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                      Drop that boy in a heartbeat, you need to find an artist , somebody who is passionate about expression, and your needs will always be met when your emotions are being catered to in a sincere way . Human emotion is beautiful, and romantic, the good and the bad , feeling is what gives us meaning , and if they dismiss you for your expression they arent worth your time . Speaking in a generalistic sense , how I treat all women : I would show you a new world when it comes to compassion, ,because the one we live in now has raised men that lack the skills to nurture a womens mind . I would quicky understand you intimately because everything you feel will always mean so much to me , because it matters to you, and you matter to me Find a poet , a dancer , a philosopher, a psychologist . Or maybe all 4

                                                                                                                                                                      • Wanda Sexton
                                                                                                                                                                        Wanda Sexton  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                        Especially if they're a narcissist because they're so good at manipulating situations. But you have to be smart enough to read the signs of one of those so you don't become involved with one but in today's world of dating it's very difficult because people are so shallow and non empathetic because they haven't gotten over their own baggage

                                                                                                                                                                        • Peigthon Barth
                                                                                                                                                                          Peigthon Barth  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                          Jesus this is happening. To me now

                                                                                                                                                                          • HappySmile
                                                                                                                                                                            HappySmile  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                            Talk to them about it in a kind way, tell them you wish they were more caring and understanding, because to you they really are important. And see if you'll notice any difference, if they will try to comfort you and really listen to you the next time you're gonna be upset about something..If they really try to change and make it up for you, then there's a good chance they're worth of your time..

                                                                                                                                                                            • Mel Berry
                                                                                                                                                                              Mel Berry  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                              Great message for Valentine’s Day! Being more vulnerable is a great way to dispel any illusions in all your relationships and you will find out who is truly for you and who is not

                                                                                                                                                                              • Juliann Harry
                                                                                                                                                                                Juliann Harry  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                                I am with a man for 5 years now.. he has had cancer and doing great... he now is resistant to me loving on him...I cant get him to cuddle or hold my hand....what can I do...its not easy to talk to him because he shuts me out after the first sentence... I have tried to talk to him...made statements... gave hints...everything beside slapping him on the side of the head...what can I do to get it back...or just move on I want to know how do I get him to open up about what is going on in his head..I can be vulnerable all day long it doesn't work... he has shut down.

                                                                                                                                                                                • Marion
                                                                                                                                                                                  Marion  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                                  Thank you so much for this illuminating video. What you said about choosing whom to be vulnerable with and how they must earn that right really resonated with me. I value authenticity so showing vulnerability comes pretty naturally. However, in the past I shared my vulnerabilities with partners too soon and some used that against me.

                                                                                                                                                                                  • moorekloves
                                                                                                                                                                                    moorekloves  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                                    Good morning it's 5:50 am and I just want to thank you for the gift of sharing. Thank your wife for sharing your with us.I've openly been vulnerable so now I need to evaluate my situation in front others. Happy Valentine's day to you both💞💝

                                                                                                                                                                                    • BY&C Dating Stories and Advice
                                                                                                                                                                                      BY&C Dating Stories and Advice  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                                      I think the issue is more who you are vulnerable with. We just can’t open up to everyone. Being vulnerable with the right people should be natural and normal. And it is necessary to have a degree of vulnerability in relationships.

                                                                                                                                                                                      • Ormah
                                                                                                                                                                                        Ormah  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                                        Happy Valentine everyone💃💃

                                                                                                                                                                                        • Natalie Property of Jesus
                                                                                                                                                                                          Natalie Property of Jesus  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                                          Happy Valentine's @officialormah

                                                                                                                                                                                          • Sonia Verma
                                                                                                                                                                                            Sonia Verma  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                                            Love your videos. How well u explain

                                                                                                                                                                                            • Sonia Verma
                                                                                                                                                                                              Sonia Verma  6 महीने पहले

                                                                                                                                                                                              Send a close friend some love messages..I don't know how he takes it..