How to be FUN on a date (3 NEW WAYS!) | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

  • Published: 07 February 2019
  • Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 3 ways you can turn up the fun on your next date!

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    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

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Comments • 83

  • Pancha Campos
    Pancha Campos  2 weeks back

    While walking around, challenge him to play frisbee! 😃

    • Katty
      Katty  2 weeks back


      • Traveling Ballet Shoes
        Traveling Ballet Shoes  1 months back

        I bet Before Sunrise inspired the last one 😉

        • Elofsdottern
          Elofsdottern  3 months back

          Thank you dear! This was really helpful to me! I am gonna try it! 😃🙏🏻🌸

          • Paulomi Patel
            Paulomi Patel  3 months back

            Hi mat Boggs I just one question that I really one boy in the gym and he also really likes me too but I don’t know how to say to him please help me out

            • Ji Li
              Ji Li  5 months back

              It's always nice to be in the present

              • Sanja Skywalker
                Sanja Skywalker  5 months back

                6:30 Reminding me on Before the sunrise movie

                • beinggreen24
                  beinggreen24  5 months back

                  I like to go to an arcade and play skee ball and see who can get the highest score.. always fun and high fives can happen..

                  • Theone Jayne Wallace
                    Theone Jayne Wallace  6 months back

                    Thanks a lot for this video!!! I've been waiting to see how i can lighten up.. ;-) #Greatstuff @Matthew Boggs.

                    • Allison Williams
                      Allison Williams  6 months back

                      I love this! Now I just need to get a date : )

                      • Resurrect The Night
                        Resurrect The Night  6 months back

                        Your daughter sounds charming

                        • Jessica Flesher
                          Jessica Flesher  6 months back

                          Thank you Matt this will totally help me for a first date I'm having in a few days

                          • Alanna Kiki
                            Alanna Kiki  7 months back

                            I don’t feels kind of strange to do these games, especially number 3.

                            • Sanskruti Gupta
                              Sanskruti Gupta  7 months back

                              On my first date with my bf .. He and I went to the city museum and i started to act like savage and told him that these all were made and designed by me.. And i suggested to the king of state in 90s.. Etc etc
                              And guess what it was totally different and he really appreciate my Childish behavior.

                              • Jasmine Chew
                                Jasmine Chew  7 months back

                                Hi Matt, could you explain when a man feels safe ? Does he think he can control the situation? Calling the shots etc.

                                • Marisela Glamour
                                  Marisela Glamour  7 months back

                                  Awesome advice!!!

                                  • Samuel Sarpong
                                    Samuel Sarpong  7 months back

                                    Hey man I really need ur advice, I feel my guy doesn't want to be part of my life. I'm saying this because anytime I want to talk about my life or something about d future he kinda ignores it and sometimes wired to me, I don't know if it's because we haven't met before and it's a long distance relationship. I really dont know what to do

                                    • Samuel Sarpong
                                      Samuel Sarpong  7 months back

                                      shannon k hmmm ok

                                    • shannon k
                                      shannon k  7 months back

                                      he's telling you what you need to know: move on to someone who will invest in you. don't expect this guy to change b/c he won't. this is not the right guy so stop wasting your time. sorry this one didn't work out.

                                  • Brenda Briscoe
                                    Brenda Briscoe  7 months back

                                    Those were really run ideas, Matt!

                                    • Zechariah 4:6
                                      Zechariah 4:6  7 months back

                                      Great story about your daughter!!
                                      Thanks for this video, I'm a professional female having this struggle. I have a fast paced, serious and demanding job that keeps me in my masculine energy. I'm trying to let my feminine be the lead energy when not at work. I definitely dress the part, have gotten many compliments at work for years but once I am out and about it's lingering because I'm also a single parent of a teenager. You guessed it always in leadership always on, always thinking about the next move and making sure everything is taken care of. Any suggestions on how I break this cycle?

                                      Thanks Matt, you're the best!

                                      • shannon k
                                        shannon k  7 months back

                                        feminine energy = receiving. let him be the giver. let him open doors for you, plan dates, do favors for you. he wants to feel successful in making you happy so in every interaction give him a specific way to win (e.g. 'i don't need you to solve this problem but i really do need to be heard & understood. would you help me with that?') with every little thing he does for you, then go a little overboard with appreciation ('thank you so much for listening, i feel so much better since you understand how i feel. you really helped me a lot!'). treat him like a superhero. takes practice but you can change to this feminine energy after you leave work.

                                    • Sonny12681
                                      Sonny12681  7 months back

                                      This is my advice for women. A great way to be fun on a date is to behave like the female characters do in anime. Just watch the anime Love Live School Idol Project, the anime BanG Dream! or the anime called New Game. you will make the man very happy. You just have to study their behavior.

                                      • Sonny12681
                                        Sonny12681  6 months back

                                        @Tomoyo1990 if I went on a date with a woman that took my advice I will be in heaven. To be serious a lot of times men are expected to perform most of the entertainment for the woman but the woman doesn't really do much for the man so for the woman to be like the anime girl will fill the man's heart with joy.

                                      • Tomoyo1990
                                        Tomoyo1990  6 months back

                                        Hahahahaha that would be fun but a little too much 🤣🤣

                                    • Susan Winters
                                      Susan Winters  7 months back

                                      Haven’t dated in over 40 years. Lol! I’m naturally fun, light, bubbly....all those things that are attractive. I see the world through the wondering eyes of a child, waking up daily to joyful anticipation. No need for games in my universe, but these were fun to consider and I’ll likely intersperse them into our play.

                                      I believe I may have manifested that man of mine Matt. 💜 Thank you for all the fine-tuning you’ve taught me that I now get to apply.

                                      • April1989
                                        April1989  7 months back

                                        Been going out with this handsome guy,but my brain seems to freeze when around him and I don’t seems to be myself as I will.. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️I like him though
                                        I think it’s me not him

                                        • Seraphine Folebe
                                          Seraphine Folebe  7 months back

                                          Wow, I love your videos

                                          • GPAnAngelDK
                                            GPAnAngelDK  7 months back

                                            Go Matt ! 👋... Some women REALLY needs the icebreakers cuz we offen get bombed with survey quest or feels we're a job interview 😱... Or getting un~dress with the eyes from we enter a room or sit down 😒

                                            I 💖 your games... TOO many people are way to busy being grown ups , borring or serious and it REALLY kills or limits the posibilities to have fun , relax & enjoy each others time and if you like fun and the other don't ~ you find out fast & knows you're not a long term match any way 😇😉

                                            • Durchstarten
                                              Durchstarten  7 months back

                                              Good ideas! I show him fotos from my mobile about vacancys or nice places. Your dating partner is not the only person in the world. If it doesn't match it is good to separate. Thanks ❤

                                              • Mel
                                                Mel  7 months back

                                                People watching - you guess their life story, always being kind and humororous.

                                                • Clemence Thibaud
                                                  Clemence Thibaud  7 months back

                                                  Anyone know a youtube channel, compagny or forum where I can learn to be more charming with my husband? (What I mean by that, is to learn to be more funny, better dress, workout, how to use my body language and verbal language to influence the behavior of the other person)
                                                  I really love what you are doing and I'm gratefull for your content! I'm just looking for something to complete what you do, to live the best life I can have with the love of my life.

                                                  • Nastya Smirnova
                                                    Nastya Smirnova  7 months back

                                                    Thank you, Mat! Can't wait to try these on a date!

                                                    • Blanca Isela
                                                      Blanca Isela  7 months back

                                                      i usually go to the mall the first date and just start a vonversation about everything i see. for example if theres a rock band shirt ill be like " hey what time of music do you like"..? "have you heard this band?" then ill see a rugrats poster and he like "what 90s cartoons was your favorite?" and just take it from there. lol

                                                      • Bonnie Pickhardt
                                                        Bonnie Pickhardt  7 months back

                                                        Thanks Matt for those creative suggestions. I’m ready to give them a try.

                                                        • Bonnie Pickhardt
                                                          Bonnie Pickhardt  7 months back

                                                          I love your daughter’s enthusiastic response. If the conversation stalled, I would ask some questions to try to get to know my date better, - his opinions, ideas, dreams, and might relate some interesting stories about experiences friends have had. Sometimes it’s nice to just smile reassuringly, to encourage a comfortable pause in the conversation.

                                                          • 1jennifer89
                                                            1jennifer89  7 months back

                                                            You're a genius! This tips are awesome! Please post a part 2, 3, 4 and 5! Lol.

                                                            • juliem_1986
                                                              juliem_1986  7 months back

                                                              I think my thing was I was battling major aniexty on mine sort of date. It wasn't, but it was. But yeah, I think that's why I shut down is because I battle that, though, so yeah not totally fun.

                                                              • גל כהן
                                                                גל כהן  7 months back

                                                                Thanks for the advice! The games looks great and perfect for me!
                                                                My best dates are when there's actively involved like playing basketball or doing something else, but not sitting in a coffee shop or a bar...

                                                                • Ashley Peipei
                                                                  Ashley Peipei  7 months back

                                                                  I'm 33, still can have a lot of fun in a park ( not the sexual way ), play like a kid 😆😆😆😆

                                                                  • J
                                                                    J  7 months back

                                                                    Matt thank you for all your videos I am learning a lot from you, thank you for sharing with us. Can you do a video when you will have time to explain us how to deal with the fear of loosing the person you love. I am in a long distance relationship with a boy from Argentina (I live in France). We love each other a lot. But a lot of times I am so worried that I will lose him. It makes me sad. Thank you a lot, I really admire your work.

                                                                    • elizagms
                                                                      elizagms  7 months back

                                                                      Hey hello, I was impressed by the games. I don't like competing on the date, I love you be social and of course fun! I've always been successful with looking for things that my date didn't like and try and find other ways to look into the box and enjoy these in a personal way. Like one date didn't like to try different foods he didn't usually eat! I asked for:
                                                                      If he had a choice what would or wouldn't he try? He answered never sushi! So I asked what then in the Japanese government would he try? He said nothing!
                                                                      My challenge: finding out what...
                                                                      I asked some type of foods with no successes and thought... this is to look inside the box an other way----so I remember the chefs with the grill and tossing foods around! I suggested that we go without asking about pallets. His eyes lightened up and clearing his mouth smirked trying to say no, and yet I caught it and laughed out softly with a smile and tilting my head looked up towards his eyes and said calmly and assertively:
                                                                      For our next date You pick the Japanese restaurant and when we arrive I'll act like a dizzy dummy and ask all the questions for you. Any questions you have you ask me if? Then we can order 2 different meals and I'll ask for some samples! He loved the idea of looking in control of the ordeal and I would help without showing it!
                                                                      He agrees and the date was fun, funny and he got to enjoy Japanese foods, that opened up the door for other restaurants and home cooking different foods for each other.
                                                                      A other way was with church, with a long distance relationship when we would see each other periodically.
                                                                      My date had questions about how important the Biblical history, the facts confuses, how this applies to his life? He didn't want to get pulled or forced into religion.
                                                                      So being a Seven Day Adventist from birth. I asked for some stuff and helped him understand somethings and connected to him by asking him to open up and allowing me to answer what I can. He didn't happily and when he needed a authority to talk to him o asked him to look for a SDA church and visit without comment and he found one he liked and started working with bible studies with his requesting. This bought us closer and more trust built between us.
                                                                      Hope this helps???
                                                                      Thanks for your videos 😀

                                                                      • aViolet Gordon
                                                                        aViolet Gordon  7 months back

                                                                        It's great to have fun games because this way you can be more flexible and open in sharing your true self. Thanks Matt great job👍

                                                                        • aViolet Gordon
                                                                          aViolet Gordon  7 months back

                                                                          I play the truth and dare game with my online friend

                                                                          • Lalai Li
                                                                            Lalai Li  7 months back

                                                                            Eres lo máximo, you really rock

                                                                            • charleen hopkins
                                                                              charleen hopkins  7 months back

                                                                              i look for joke props or story props .
                                                                              i can do impersonations too.

                                                                              • charleen hopkins
                                                                                charleen hopkins  7 months back

                                                                                cool story one

                                                                                • charleen hopkins
                                                                                  charleen hopkins  7 months back

                                                                                  it,s been 4 yrs

                                                                                  • Elite
                                                                                    Elite  7 months back

                                                                                    That third phone game is SO cringey! Ladies, don't do that.

                                                                                    • Marina Tiunova
                                                                                      Marina Tiunova  7 months back

                                                                                      Thank you. )

                                                                                    • shannon k
                                                                                      shannon k  7 months back

                                                                                      @Marina Tiunova cringing is to make a face like something is difficult or a bad idea.

                                                                                    • Marina Tiunova
                                                                                      Marina Tiunova  7 months back

                                                                                      Sorry. What do you mean by "cringey"? I'm Russian. I don't quite understand.

                                                                                    • Wallis
                                                                                      Wallis  7 months back

                                                                                      Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. My hair was standing on edge just hearing the role play... hahaha

                                                                                  • Lisa Amaral
                                                                                    Lisa Amaral  7 months back

                                                                                    Love this!! I love games!!

                                                                                    • Halli Ceola
                                                                                      Halli Ceola  7 months back

                                                                                      Thanks! These are great tips, I need to remember them, I could use more tips on making the date fun. I'm definitely going to write these down!

                                                                                      • Laura Semenzato
                                                                                        Laura Semenzato  7 months back

                                                                                        Great ideas! Thanks.

                                                                                        • maha gharib
                                                                                          maha gharib  7 months back

                                                                                          Thank you very much Mat. For the tips.... this is a very good issue to help us with.