3 Things You Can Say To Make Him Want You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

  • Published: 19 July 2018
  • Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and three phrases you can say to ignite desire in your man.
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    Mat Boggs Bio:
    As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
    As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
    Mat?s Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
    As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!
    Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.
    If you’re interested in receiving help attracting love or improving your relationship click here: www.crackingthemancode.com/coaching/
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    Written By: Mathew Boggs

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Comments • 293

  • Umema Kt
    Umema Kt  Před 3 dny

    I said the same things to my ex-boyfriend what your wife said to you because i have the exact same situation at my place but that made him start disliking me, he started losing interest and stopped giving me time. I started feeling like it wasn't working out as he stopped giving me time and wasn't telling me what is the reason behind it so i called him to end the relationship and then he told me "even i was thinking of ending it as whatever you told me about your curfew and all made me feel like you aint independent, you still need to take permission for everything from your parents" and bla bla. I broke off with him right away but because of whatever he said i was really hurt and cried for weeks.

    • Elizabeth Dunne
      Elizabeth Dunne  Před 10 dny

      😂 😂 😂 😂

      • Johnson Yuen
        Johnson Yuen  Před 10 dny

        Mutual is a must of whatever sexual orientation

        • Lily Santoya
          Lily Santoya  Před 11 dny

          You make me feel hopeful I can find a healthy relationship one day.

          • Zenaida Cariaga
            Zenaida Cariaga  Před 15 dny

            Yes nice 👍

            • Nancy Crockett
              Nancy Crockett  Před 16 dny

              Mathew Boggs Being an Older Women in Love with my younger Handsome man Ive used thoese 3 secreats & more & YES! they all work nicely.....TY.....I may be back again TY Sir!

              • Rachna Anand
                Rachna Anand  Před 19 dny

                You r the one who knows nerves of guys. Hats off

                • Victoria Reynolds
                  Victoria Reynolds  Před měsícem

                  I told a guy I like that I’m normally freaked out when other people drive, (which is true btw) but I feel safe when he’s driving. When we got to his house an hour later he asked me if I was sure I was ok to drive home (another hour). I don’t spend the night at men’s homes so I said yes. He texted me to see if I made it home ok. Then tagged himself in some photos of us on social media. I’ve only known him for a short while. I’m not sure where we’re headed yet. But his family seems to like me 😁

                  • Gloria J Jackson
                    Gloria J Jackson  Před 12 hodinami

                    @Victoria Reynolds Excellent....best wishes for everything working out the way you want it!

                    • Victoria Reynolds
                      Victoria Reynolds  Před 13 hodinami

                      Gloria J Jackson not giving up anything ;)

                      • Gloria J Jackson
                        Gloria J Jackson  Před dnem

                        Victoria Reynolds.....just don't give up the cookie, and you will be good!

                        • Cheri Killingworth
                          Cheri Killingworth  Před měsícem

                          Great information!!!!.I'm in a slump right now .Good ideas for both sides

                          • Cindy Pole
                            Cindy Pole  Před měsícem

                            I've got terms of endearment for my two BFFs - hey bitches.

                            • A PASTOR & A PRISONER Carter
                              A PASTOR & A PRISONER Carter  Před měsícem

                              That’s Good and all but here are my thoughts chclip.net/video/vk7fppVa13M/video.html

                              • nila saadat
                                nila saadat  Před 2 měsíci

                                Come on That's too much 🤔

                                • Marilyn Marquez
                                  Marilyn Marquez  Před 2 měsíci

                                  My man loves me to call him, "papi".....that is a Spanish term for "daddy." I guess it makes him feel more like the stud that he is!

                                  • Kamiko Baez
                                    Kamiko Baez  Před 2 měsíci

                                    “ Hey hard worker 😘 “made him go crazy lol

                                    • Kamiko Baez
                                      Kamiko Baez  Před 2 měsíci

                                      “ You make me feel like a teenage girl with butterflies “ ... I rarely feel like this honestly I’ve been single since I’ve had my daughter and she’ll be 4 this year. But recently a blast from the past has reached out to me and we kind of been texting.. Im now picking up a lot of what you’re saying vice versa for the women in the comments saying where’s the men’s one. I think these work both ways.

                                      • Nira Tauterouff
                                        Nira Tauterouff  Před 2 měsíci

                                        I call him my Hero

                                        • Joanne Thomson
                                          Joanne Thomson  Před 2 měsíci

                                          What about saying "when I'm with you you make me feel nervous" ?

                                          • Lo ve
                                            Lo ve  Před 2 měsíci

                                            Joanne Thomson nok nok nok who is that? I’m divorce 😩😂

                                            • amanda harmse
                                              amanda harmse  Před 3 měsíci

                                              I looked in eyes and asked in á soft voice "Please help me do this, I can't seem to get it right."' He smiled and said: Of course...you don't even have to ask!!!

                                              • Spooky Spectre
                                                Spooky Spectre  Před 3 měsíci

                                                You gotta be careful with pet names. Some guys get cringy and take it as you getting the wrong idea about the status of your relationship. Only try pet names if it's been established you are a couple or if hes done it first already

                                                • Rita G. Bowman
                                                  Rita G. Bowman  Před 3 měsíci

                                                  "YOU MAKE ME FEEL like I'm on the greatest adventure of my life." John Boy (from Walton's Mountain) is my pet name for him (John). No No No ... Don't take the voice up an octave. Take it down - much sexier. Take it from me, a speech-language pathologist. ;-)

                                                  • Ji Li
                                                    Ji Li  Před 3 měsíci

                                                    Words are always powerful, in any situations. I wish that I knew it long time ago

                                                    • CherryTree
                                                      CherryTree  Před 3 měsíci

                                                      "That color or shirt looks great on you!" Or I've said a compliment on something specific I like or admire. Like " I really love how you ........(fill in the blanks) that's very admirable of you to be able to that." Or my favorite. "I trust you to take care of this. I feel safe with you."

                                                      • mureka valentine
                                                        mureka valentine  Před 4 měsíci

                                                        I love your advises sir,but am having very big probem I think u can help. What to do if your boyfriend can't text you first or even if he does always wrote u hi!!? Only...nothing special

                                                        • Josephine Nangonzi
                                                          Josephine Nangonzi  Před 4 měsíci

                                                          Thanks Mathew

                                                          • Oj oj
                                                            Oj oj  Před 4 měsíci

                                                            when you're looking for advices on getting a man and you realize you used all of them before you even knew they are such turn ons 😂😂

                                                            • Alam Loubna
                                                              Alam Loubna  Před 4 měsíci

                                                              In fact he did all this with me I didn’t notice it till now do y think he has a crush on me ?

                                                              • Insane Pinai
                                                                Insane Pinai  Před 4 měsíci

                                                                Hey Mathew! Could you please make a video about dating a man with Aspergers syndrome, and how to communicate with them? 🙏

                                                                • Easy Learning
                                                                  Easy Learning  Před 5 měsíci

                                                                  If you look like a nerd and have a simple job, you can say what you want, he wont commit to you!

                                                                  • Shannon Mayer
                                                                    Shannon Mayer  Před 5 měsíci

                                                                    What if he is not making you feel good? I want to make him feel good, but I don't want to lie..

                                                                    • beinggreen24
                                                                      beinggreen24  Před 5 měsíci

                                                                      I get the best sleep when I'm next to you .. I feel so safe.

                                                                      • A Taylor
                                                                        A Taylor  Před 5 měsíci

                                                                        Hey sweetness you just made my day!

                                                                        • Datt 14
                                                                          Datt 14  Před 5 měsíci

                                                                          This lesson is so powerful

                                                                          • Lashiwe Lungu
                                                                            Lashiwe Lungu  Před 5 měsíci

                                                                            Is it wrong to mostly be the one to text first??

                                                                            • Berta Lets Cook Easy & Yummy
                                                                              Berta Lets Cook Easy & Yummy  Před 5 měsíci

                                                                              This video is a bomb Love it .

                                                                              • bartek Bgraczyk
                                                                                bartek Bgraczyk  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                Useless self made experts ,total Idiots. Laughable

                                                                                • Sharon Price
                                                                                  Sharon Price  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                  How do you communicate with a guy that emotionally guarded?

                                                                                  • Tina Leeth
                                                                                    Tina Leeth  Před 3 měsíci

                                                                                    Try a widower that hasnt grieved .. it sucks

                                                                                    • Claudia Sanchez
                                                                                      Claudia Sanchez  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                      I use loving body language when I touch a man, whether it is a give or take or push or pull, my movements are careful and caring.

                                                                                      • Seraphine Folebe
                                                                                        Seraphine Folebe  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                        I love your videos but what if he asked you to send naked pics of your body, what can I do since he is far away from me and how can I trust him ?

                                                                                        • L2design
                                                                                          L2design  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                          TOTALLY BOGGS!! I'll try it!! i found my soulmate oMGGGGG we have not met yet!!

                                                                                          • Kimberly Hicks
                                                                                            Kimberly Hicks  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                            My man loves it when I call him Babe,Baby Honey Sweetheart my Romeo and my Macho Man

                                                                                            • RR's FoodZone
                                                                                              RR's FoodZone  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                              I proposed to my bf saying.. " I love you (his full name and surname) and he absolutely loved it ...

                                                                                              • M
                                                                                                M  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                                Gotta try it to my baby then😜

                                                                                                • Alison Couacaud
                                                                                                  Alison Couacaud  Před 6 měsíci

                                                                                                  That is so true

                                                                                                  • Karla Winter
                                                                                                    Karla Winter  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                    Can I use these same steps with men who may or may not have Children?

                                                                                                    • Stephanie Marr
                                                                                                      Stephanie Marr  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                      I tell my guy how much I appreciate him, but with the statements, I've said 'I'm so picky, I've never been in a serious relationship, and not many guys can make me laugh as much as you for the qualification statements. For empowerment statements I've messaged him I'm happy and excited that HE is messaging me and they he makes me day. For endearment names, I've called him handsome, cutie, and chico. Thanks for your info!

                                                                                                      • Natalia
                                                                                                        Natalia  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                        Lol you shouldnt have to tell.him anything .....

                                                                                                        • Najoua Ghandouri
                                                                                                          Najoua Ghandouri  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                          Based on what you re saying men are so stupid!

                                                                                                          • Dodie Saunders
                                                                                                            Dodie Saunders  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                            My man plays music and he is very animated. He jumps around alot. I started calling him my jumping bean. Later I shortened it to bean. I didnt realize the impact until i hadnt used it for a while and out of nowhere i said so how is my bean today. His reply floored me. He said...awwwe you havent called me that in a while, I really like my special name...so you are absolutely right. I never thought a name like bean would be liked so well. I dont day it every time we talk, cause I dont want it to wear out, but I also call him handsome quite a bit...

                                                                                                            • mrspleats
                                                                                                              mrspleats  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                              You are so amazing down to earth and so easy to listen to.You make your videos so interesting love them! and they are a great confirmation for things I practise daily. I have also learned from you. I had to subscribe the first time I watched one of your videos and thumbs up all your videos. You rock. Happy life to you and yours!

                                                                                                              • anurada69
                                                                                                                anurada69  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                                You right,I made everything too easy for him,now Im paying the consequences..!!

                                                                                                                • Maryumi Vlogs
                                                                                                                  Maryumi Vlogs  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                                  hi,I am a pilipina I like to watching your video's, I'm dating a men now but the problem is we're so far each other but we like each other so much,I like him so much but I don't know how to keep better our relationship.please advice me how to grow better our relationship.. I am Philippines and he's from Scotland.hope you can advice me

                                                                                                                  • Изабел Момчилова

                                                                                                                    I am so sorry darling that the man you like/love is so far from you. I had a relationship from distance and this is what I learned. The relationship can be strong but not forever. There has to be hope and a plan that you guys will be together (living together or in the same city) soon enough. Otherwise it won't last because it won't be perspective.

                                                                                                                    • NTHUSANG BOEMELWANG
                                                                                                                      NTHUSANG BOEMELWANG  Před 7 měsíci

                                                                                                                      Wooow, um gona keep saying it to him.. ' u make me feel hottie '...

                                                                                                                      • E Santa
                                                                                                                        E Santa  Před 8 měsíci

                                                                                                                        Do you know what makes him crazy? When I say something dirty in Spanish! He is bilingual. Mamame la Chocha! or Mamame mi Toto💁🏽What u saying is boring! doesn’t work.. I bet u ..U dick got hard reading this ...

                                                                                                                        • Brandy Boone
                                                                                                                          Brandy Boone  Před 8 měsíci

                                                                                                                          This so great 💓💓💓💓

                                                                                                                          • LIL Laura
                                                                                                                            LIL Laura  Před 8 měsíci

                                                                                                                            I have noticed with my boyfriend smiling more when I'm with him or sending a picture telling him I want him with my eyes and smile really makes him feel amazing. Also like you said calling him handsome he loves that. I try to show him how happy he makes me with body language and the way I look at him. I don't use that with anyone else so he know just how bad I want him.i also like to whisper in his ear " I want you so bad handsome!" While we are out and "Take me somewhere else baby!" Haha he loves that. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this they are very helpful.

                                                                                                                            • Sharon Mikalauski
                                                                                                                              Sharon Mikalauski  Před 8 měsíci

                                                                                                                              Hey Mathew..what are your suggestions for long distance relationships and who should be the first to visit whom?

                                                                                                                              • Lavinya Michaela Işıksu
                                                                                                                                Lavinya Michaela Işıksu  Před 8 měsíci


                                                                                                                                • Joyخت Atam
                                                                                                                                  Joyخت Atam  Před 8 měsíci

                                                                                                                                  Woow cool😃😃😃😉😊thank you

                                                                                                                                  • ميديا الساهر
                                                                                                                                    ميديا الساهر  Před 8 měsíci

                                                                                                                                    Hey. U r goerguese Nathew. 🙈🙈

                                                                                                                                    • Mariannie Zayas
                                                                                                                                      Mariannie Zayas  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                      When my man is having a bad day at work and I tell him "that sucks. I'm sorry you're going through that." I don't try to solve the problem for him or give him advice but just listen and try to empathize w his frustration.

                                                                                                                                      • Dayle Clarke
                                                                                                                                        Dayle Clarke  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                        Am interested in this guy we're friends now but I want us to be more how can I make it more

                                                                                                                                        • julieth jeremiah
                                                                                                                                          julieth jeremiah  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                          I am in love with a white man....you guys are so sweet...DM me insta account.....whatsapp number miss_sua_empire...the one who is willing to marry me

                                                                                                                                          • SquaddieSoul
                                                                                                                                            SquaddieSoul  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                            This stuff is brilliant. Men must hate you giving us all this inside knowledge. So far im on track to getting my man.

                                                                                                                                            • Kayla R.
                                                                                                                                              Kayla R.  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                              I don't do nicknames. 😱

                                                                                                                                              • Gaia Goddess
                                                                                                                                                Gaia Goddess  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                Sweet checks, butter butt, Super Man, Babe! So many more, we are always calling each other pet names, its fun!

                                                                                                                                                • Vijaya raj
                                                                                                                                                  Vijaya raj  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                  Yr videos have a very low voice quality....plzzzz upgrade it....

                                                                                                                                                  • H. M.
                                                                                                                                                    H. M.  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                    I have been with someone and I used some of your techniques with out knowing how powerful they are , just felt he is the right one . So yeah words do magic when it comes from the heart .

                                                                                                                                                    • Ezan Adikaram
                                                                                                                                                      Ezan Adikaram  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                      Relationship doesn't guarantee happiness, hanging out with someone whom you vibe so well that you enjoy the moment doing stuff you both enjoy and having such good laugh, sex if you must just full of fun nothing to do with commitment

                                                                                                                                                      • Sulata Das
                                                                                                                                                        Sulata Das  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                        Ur formula always workimg... I m getting good rejults...

                                                                                                                                                        • grace grace
                                                                                                                                                          grace grace  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                          Not to be rude ....but when are we going to see your beautiful wife! !!!!

                                                                                                                                                          • Julie Gibson
                                                                                                                                                            Julie Gibson  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                            Wow so true.

                                                                                                                                                            • Susana 7
                                                                                                                                                              Susana 7  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                              Hi handsome lover 😁😚

                                                                                                                                                              • victoria bartlett
                                                                                                                                                                victoria bartlett  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                                I use to go to my sister's house all the time for a meal and her husband would cook. I would always compliment him on how nice his cooking was so that his next meal would be nicer or maybe just as nice. Little did I realize that this was giving everyone the idea that he and I were having it off. But don't worry my sister knew nothing was going on and she's the one that counts isn't she?

                                                                                                                                                                • Paula Briggs
                                                                                                                                                                  Paula Briggs  Před 9 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                                  I'm very bubbly vibrant, my husband used to LOVE to make me shy & blush...It was a secret language just between us...I think secret languages or inside jokes are very powerfully bonding. I had one man who would randomly quote movies and an other who quoted lyrics from songs... I caught on quick & would sometimes have whole vignettes with them in this secret language almost always leading to giggling and then deep luscious you're so gonna get it stares that made me so ready for him later when naturally I might be tired or over it, that earlier juiciness whould push me over that into still wanting him ... I know men are known as visual well I'm auditory so laughing or kind words or wanting me verbally expressed burns into desire...

                                                                                                                                                                  • Charis Leigh
                                                                                                                                                                    Charis Leigh  Před 10 měsíci

                                                                                                                                                                    A simple, “I’m so proud to be with you” goes a long way.