Break-Ups Don’t Have to Leave You Broken | Gary Lewandowski | TEDxNavesink

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  • Published: 28 April 2015
  • Dr. Gary Lewandowski, Jr., professor of psychology at Monmouth University, makes the case that if your relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does. Leaving a bad relationship provides an opportunity for growth and learning.
    Dr. Gary W. Lewandowski, Jr. is a professor and Department Chair at Monmouth University, Director of the Relationship Science Lab, and co-editor/co-creator of www.ScienceOfRelationships.com. His well-published research focuses on the self and relationships, and his work and expertise have been featured in media outlets (The New York Times, CNN, WebMD, Scientific American Mind, USA Today). Dr. Lewandowski is also a nationally recognized teacher by The Princeton Review among its “Best 300 Professors” list.

    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • 2 2
    2 2  3 dias atrás

    Ya right, ‘I just broke up after 10 years & I feel GREAT! ...now I can work out & do things I like to do..’. Is this guy for real? The only thing I’VE seen in the people I’VE known, & agree with is the sitting alone, feeling horrible & eating the ice cream!! NOBODY (at least no WOMAN) leaves a relationship feeling like a weight is lifted & now they can become who they really are. What you are talking about is the MALE perspective.... 🙄

    • person man
      person man  6 dias atrás

      how about you control for the type of person that cant easily get a new one

      • Hubale Felicia
        Hubale Felicia  6 dias atrás

        Day 1 of the heartbreak

        • wilson Delia
          wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

          If you are heart broken but you still love your ex and wish to him/her forever I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

          • Outtastate javie
            Outtastate javie  10 dias atrás

            I wish i knew about ted talks a long time ago ..... I've been looking for something like this

            • Grace Nagy
              Grace Nagy  14 dias atrás

              The way you love someone does not determine the way that person is going to love you back. Which sucks a lot and I’m learning that the hard way watching break up ted talks crying.

              • wilson Delia
                wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

                Are you heart broken and wish to get your ex back forever? I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

                • Jen H
                  Jen H  14 dias atrás

                  this should be mandatory viewing for men. prevent them from killing a girl or shooting up places

                  • Rahul Singh
                    Rahul Singh  14 dias atrás

                    3 years relationship ended and the reason she gave me that she feel suffocated. 💔

                    • wilson Delia
                      wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

                      Do you still love her? Do you want her back forever? I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

                      • Alanna Lorean
                        Alanna Lorean  14 dias atrás

                        After 6 years with my first love idk what to do with myself

                        • Lucky Charm
                          Lucky Charm  2 dias atrás

                          @wilson Delia SPAM

                          • wilson Delia
                            wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

                            If you are heart broken and wish to get your ex back forever I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

                            • circa326
                              circa326  14 dias atrás

                              Do girls understand how hard it hits guys when they breakup? I’m wrecked right now

                              • wilson Delia
                                wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

                                I know you are heart broken right now. .do you still love her? I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

                                • Conor Walsh
                                  Conor Walsh  16 dias atrás

                                  Yes dude, something tells me that you know alot about being dumped/breakups

                                  • wilson Delia
                                    wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

                                    If you are heart broken and wish to get your ex back forever I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

                                    • Conor Walsh
                                      Conor Walsh  16 dias atrás

                                      I hope my gf gets dumped for no reason out of no where like she did to me . She's almost in her 30s and I hope that she gets dumped and has to settle for someone like all social climbing/money grubbing whores do .

                                      • Sam Oslich
                                        Sam Oslich  17 dias atrás

                                        My girl left me... and I turned into a complete and utter monster. That relationship ending ruined my life. And the funny thing is, she has absolutely no idea what happened to me, nor does she care. Talk about power 😞

                                        • wilson Delia
                                          wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

                                          I understand she broke your heart, but do you still love her? I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

                                          • pahfucy franfran
                                            pahfucy franfran  18 dias atrás

                                            I loved this girl every single day for almost 3 years. I dare say the love I feel for her now is the same as the love that sparked in me nearly 3 years ago. Sadly 4 days ago she left me. Said she's just not good enough and doesn't have commitment thus she didn't want to hurt me. That was the second BU btw. I felt devastated when she told me the message while I was at work. I was sad, and I still am. However I refuse to dwell in the dark and the sadness... I will get up and work harder so I can be better. A lot of people depend on me and because someone who supported me isn't beside me anymore, I just gotta work twice as hard. I'll update in 1 year from now. Wish y'all the best!

                                            • wilson Delia
                                              wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

                                              I understand you are heart broken right now. If you still want her back in your life forever, I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

                                              • Chaos Maestra
                                                Chaos Maestra  19 dias atrás

                                                Thank you for putting my head back on straight. It ended because it was toxic. I am free now to return to life. Anyone in Austin Texas want to go to a museum with me?

                                                • wilson Delia
                                                  wilson Delia  3 dias atrás

                                                  If you still love him, I can introduce you to someone who helped me! My husband shot me out for almost a year but mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster helped me bring him back with his power and today we are living happy. .Message him on whatsapp for help via +2348089339042.i promise to tell the world about him!

                                                  • Jonathan
                                                    Jonathan  20 dias atrás

                                                    My gf just broke up with me. We were together since freshman year of highschool. 6 years together. I’m not sure what to do anymore. I just try to keep my head up and look for the future. I know I can move on but this is hard. Hardest thing I have ever done in my life.

                                                    • Jimah Odianosen
                                                      Jimah Odianosen  19 dias atrás

                                                      Jonathan if you believe, let Dr mola help you bring her back within seven days OK

                                                      • Immortal SoFar
                                                        Immortal SoFar  20 dias atrás

                                                        I'd say the 41% who thought it was positive were the ones initiating the breakup. Losing your relationship of 16 years, job, adopted country and life of 25 years is just f*cked up, however you look at it. Sure starting from nothing is an opportunity but one I would gladly leave to someone else given the choice - which, of course, I was not.

                                                        • Brandy irizarry - blymier
                                                          Brandy irizarry - blymier  22 dias atrás

                                                          How he wants to be friends but you can’t emotionally do it, NOT even able to have him involved to raise my daughter who he raised as his own, cuz the pain of even hearing his name is soul crushing. I know it’s selfish but I’m NOT strong enough.

                                                          • Brandy irizarry - blymier
                                                            Brandy irizarry - blymier  22 dias atrás

                                                            How do you let go of the best you had because you were so damaged from life even before you met them. When you realize there pain it’s to late because they’re done no matter what you do. How do i stop the incessant pain , regrets and thoughts of all of it that haunt me 24-7

                                                            • Patrick Hurley
                                                              Patrick Hurley  22 dias atrás

                                                              Pamela Tipton made me come here.

                                                              • danskpride Hansen
                                                                danskpride Hansen  23 dias atrás

                                                                heartless cunts

                                                                • Mishka Burrell
                                                                  Mishka Burrell  23 dias atrás

                                                                  Feel like i wanna kill myself it really hurts really

                                                                  • Jimah Odianosen
                                                                    Jimah Odianosen  19 dias atrás

                                                                    Mishka Burrell please don't kill your self OK.. Dr mola can help you ok

                                                                    • 6String Pete
                                                                      6String Pete  25 dias atrás

                                                                      The key to never being heart broken is to not get into relationships. They dont last and aren't permanent. When they end everyone has to "rediscover" them selves and be happy alone. Then that happens and the cycle repeats. Get into a relationship, it fails and you're back to square one. The secret- stay single! Relationships are a waste of time and energy.

                                                                      • Mike S
                                                                        Mike S  26 dias atrás

                                                                        How does mgtow fit in this

                                                                        • 101hamilton
                                                                          101hamilton  26 dias atrás

                                                                          Great video. Thank you for posting.

                                                                          • Alison Triffett
                                                                            Alison Triffett  27 dias atrás

                                                                            Great talk...but I do agree with you when you say "maybe I'm weird"...you know why? Your stick figures have three legs!! lol :)

                                                                            • Marlene Nodine she is amazing the best act

                                                                              I’m sorry I am broken I feel worthless my friendship ended to my best friend of. 13 years she was also the little sister I never had we where neighbors we went to church together we were both from New York we lived in sc we had soo much in common neither of us had any relatives in sc all our people lived in New York we did everything together shopping we went to the gym trips sang in the choir together I’m not gonna forget I’m not going to get better my heart is broke in a million pieces I’m depressed even suicidal going to counseling but it does not help it doesn’t erase memories that I remember everywhere I go when my best friends dog died he was16years old I went over her house held her and cried with her and then took her shopping that’s what friends do I work 3rd shift her car broke I stayed up every morning and took her to work and picked her up I never asked for anything in return no money because that’s what real friends do I can’t believe she’s gone from me it’s a complicated situation she just didn’t want to be bothered with me after she met a guy on Facebook so I just walked away I had to quit our church to painful to be there knowing she did not act the same I did not change I was still the same person I would take her back in a minute I miss her every day I’m soo sad depressed tired hopeless I feel empty lost suicidal I don’t really want to go on some days I’ve come close the best part of me is gone I don’t know how to live I’m just faking a smile everyday while inside I’m dying I can’t believe she abandoned me like I didn’t even matter I have not heard from her in ❤️7months dont know what to do my whole world has been pulled out from under my feet my husband is older and he has had cancer and he is a severe diabetic so I keep everything inside I can’t make him worry but I really don’t know how much longer I can go in like this dinged greuvung

                                                                              • Hamstering Around
                                                                                Hamstering Around  Mês atrás

                                                                                Why do those stick figures have dicks?

                                                                                • vargas cynthia
                                                                                  vargas cynthia  Mês atrás

                                                                                  I meant a friend who directed me to spell caster called Dr Ben online who help people to solve their relationship and marriage problems. I was really skeptical before i wrote to him and he told me not to worry about anything, that i should give him a day for him to cast a spell for me and after 2 days i was really surprised my ex called me and started begging for me to take her back . That is how my ex came back to me and she no longer think of other people, but me and me alone and am happy my money was not wasted. Write the Doc on drbenharbalhome @ gmail. com or whatsapp +(1) 8287990994 I'M a testimony believe it of not. I HAVE DONE MY PART BY PASSING OUT THIS INFO To people outside having love issues and marital problems.

                                                                                  • Padfoot
                                                                                    Padfoot  Mês atrás

                                                                                    Gary was my moms best friend in highschool and college. They always liked each other at different times so it never worked out. So proud of him for a million views.

                                                                                    • Roland Ostwald
                                                                                      Roland Ostwald  Mês atrás

                                                                                      The sound is suuuuper low

                                                                                      • Infinity Mixtapes
                                                                                        Infinity Mixtapes  Mês atrás

                                                                                        I'm in so much pain right now...

                                                                                        • g robo
                                                                                          g robo  Mês atrás

                                                                                          God move the person from your life for a new and better life...

                                                                                          • Taylor Tha Mayor
                                                                                            Taylor Tha Mayor  Mês atrás

                                                                                            This too shall pass

                                                                                            • Ronaldo Dela Cruz
                                                                                              Ronaldo Dela Cruz  Mês atrás

                                                                                              😭 14 years relationship/ marriage has just ended 💔

                                                                                              • Mike Xxxx
                                                                                                Mike Xxxx  Mês atrás

                                                                                                Well, how many of those 41% who considered it positive who thrive on breakups were narcissists NPD or BPD's? Also as a previous poster said this talk apples to those who were unhappy in a relationship and ended them, as well. The person who gets dumped does not feel that way for sure.. So the data is not fully explained and is terribly misleading.

                                                                                                • Kristen Scott
                                                                                                  Kristen Scott  Mês atrás

                                                                                                  The 4-yr-old illustrations were actually extremely effective and relatable.

                                                                                                  • Sunshine Personified
                                                                                                    Sunshine Personified  Mês atrás

                                                                                                    who else still thinks breakups still make you miserable ?

                                                                                                    • Thomas Ruston
                                                                                                      Thomas Ruston  Mês atrás

                                                                                                      This talk only applies to those who were unhappy in a relationship and ended them. It doesn't apply to those who loved the other person and was dumped.

                                                                                                      • Emorut Godfrey
                                                                                                        Emorut Godfrey  29 dias atrás

                                                                                                        He can restore your relationship in 42hours.

                                                                                                        • Valerie Smiley Jackson
                                                                                                          Valerie Smiley Jackson  29 dias atrás

                                                                                                          He can bring your ex back and restore your relationship.

                                                                                                          • Merle Brown
                                                                                                            Merle Brown  Mês atrás

                                                                                                            It really broke my heart when my ex boyfriend dumped me, nonetheless i got results in 2weeks & was able to get back together after i ordered a love spell. In case anyone is wondering here is the email address that i had reach.. "[email protected] COM" it started with phone calls then he came home like nothing happened.

                                                                                                            • Emorut Godfrey
                                                                                                              Emorut Godfrey  29 dias atrás

                                                                                                              Contact priest Ade via WhatsApp; +234813 249 4802,he can help you bring back your ex. He works very fast

                                                                                                              • NoobMaster 69
                                                                                                                NoobMaster 69  Mês atrás

                                                                                                                March 2 2019. On our 6 months. we broke up. It’s been so hard since then. I’ve been drinking. Getting into fights. Verges of suicide running in my mind. She’s having the time of her life.. She doesn’t care for me anymore. “Well for One, her heart, belongs to another. And no other heart will do” - Mac DeMarco.

                                                                                                                • Valerie Smiley Jackson
                                                                                                                  Valerie Smiley Jackson  29 dias atrás

                                                                                                                  I once found myself in same situation .

                                                                                                                  • Alexandra Faraday
                                                                                                                    Alexandra Faraday  Mês atrás

                                                                                                                    who is here after Dennis Lloyd??

                                                                                                                    • Tauney Elysia
                                                                                                                      Tauney Elysia  Mês atrás

                                                                                                                      It took me a little longer to learn and love that about myself. "Michelle Rodriguez on Fast and the Furious" The words "She's so hot, I love her." Everybody was like umm What..? Lol. I even lost people because of their ignorance, but I stayed true to me and it's worth it. Thank You for helping a lot of us with this. You're amazing Love ♥️Tauney

                                                                                                                      • Emorut Godfrey
                                                                                                                        Emorut Godfrey  29 dias atrás

                                                                                                                        @Valerie Smiley Jackson i contacts him yesterday and my ex is back now.

                                                                                                                        • Valerie Smiley Jackson
                                                                                                                          Valerie Smiley Jackson  29 dias atrás

                                                                                                                          Tauney elysia. If you want your relationship restored and your ex back. Contact priest Ade now via whatsapp; +234813 249 4802. He works very fast.

                                                                                                                          • Daryl Skinner
                                                                                                                            Daryl Skinner  Mês atrás

                                                                                                                            I had a 8-year relationship & it ended

                                                                                                                            • Daryl Skinner
                                                                                                                              Daryl Skinner  Mês atrás

                                                                                                                              I had a 8 years relationship

                                                                                                                              • Tiffany Hill
                                                                                                                                Tiffany Hill  Mês atrás

                                                                                                                                If you're missing someone, would love for you guys to check out my latest song 'One More Night' - hope it helps x

                                                                                                                                • Tiffany Sanya
                                                                                                                                  Tiffany Sanya  Mês atrás

                                                                                                                                  Having experienced heartbreak at a very severe level, I can relate to anyone who is also experiencing the same. Recently created a 3 minute video sharing the mental shift that has brought me clarity and peace. @PTIk

                                                                                                                                  • Petal Pinkton
                                                                                                                                    Petal Pinkton  Mês atrás

                                                                                                                                    This is the most ridiculous talk I've ever wasted my time listening to. Breakups are life changing, dreadful and you lose part of yourself.

                                                                                                                                    • Fahad Ayoub
                                                                                                                                      Fahad Ayoub  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                      I understand that I get tunnel vision and only focus on the negative side of my life when my heart is broken , yet I still suffer anyways and think that death is the only way out

                                                                                                                                      • AB 18
                                                                                                                                        AB 18  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                        He broke up with me two days ago. And I wonder why it had to happen. The problem was, he boosted my confidence. He said that I was beautiful just the way I was. I thought he saved me from drowning into an endless pool of self doubt and insecurity. He was my first boyfriend. And I found a love like that after waiting for 22 years. The six months of being a part of the most beautiful phase of my life till now ended when he told me he was still in love with his ex. And because it was an LDR, which initially strengthened our love, given how many sacrifices we made for each other, turned for him a weakness. An excuse that added to his other main reason. For the first time in my life, I was not single. For the first time in my life, I believed that I could be loved like this too. It was in 2 days that he decided to break what we had.

                                                                                                                                        • PaulieDann
                                                                                                                                          PaulieDann  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                          this guy made my day better

                                                                                                                                          • xotaeisbae xotaeisbae
                                                                                                                                            xotaeisbae xotaeisbae  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                            This happened to me yesterday. Hm.

                                                                                                                                            • Misunderstood Magician
                                                                                                                                              Misunderstood Magician  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                              Dennis Lloyd brought me here...

                                                                                                                                              • Mario Carvalhal
                                                                                                                                                Mario Carvalhal  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                It's all fun and games but break ups just leads you to be more careful next time, specially hard break ups.. Doesn't matter what the experts say. Feelings don't measure. Every person is 100% of the experience. You can't put everyone in the same bag like we are the same as everyone.

                                                                                                                                                • Kathy O'connor
                                                                                                                                                  Kathy O'connor  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                  When going through depression due to relationship break up, it seems your happiness have been quenched. i have also lost my boyfriend to another girl but he came back begging. i search for help online when i found a spell caster that cast a reuniting love spell to reunite us together. lovespellsolutiontemple.wordpress. c o m E m a i l: [email protected] c o m

                                                                                                                                                  • ryan sikes
                                                                                                                                                    ryan sikes  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                    When you realize that you’re the person holding back the other one in the past relationship< This may have had a negative impact on me...

                                                                                                                                                    • Bellamy Adler
                                                                                                                                                      Bellamy Adler  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                      I never really believed in love spells but I was losing my girlfriend cos we argued a lot, i needed help and somewhere to turn badly. I then witnessed a breathtaking spell work on my fiancee that brought her back into my arms via this email address:- DRPHILIPSPELLTEMPLE @YAHOO. COM we were apart 11 weeks though lol It worked like magic so I just thought i should share.

                                                                                                                                                      • Bide Wu
                                                                                                                                                        Bide Wu  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                        I think most people end up here are heartbroken. But hey, what happened already happened, and one thing we know for sure is that overthink won’t do any good. I know is hard, is hard for everybody. But life goes on, this is not the end of the world. I hope you all feel better. Love yourself.

                                                                                                                                                        • Daniel Sander
                                                                                                                                                          Daniel Sander  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                          Thumbs up for Dennis Lloyd

                                                                                                                                                          • Gal Dolev
                                                                                                                                                            Gal Dolev  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                            Who came here because of Dennis Lloyd?

                                                                                                                                                            • Urban Mind
                                                                                                                                                              Urban Mind  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                              Dennis lloyd just showed me that golden speech

                                                                                                                                                              • Anna shvartz
                                                                                                                                                                Anna shvartz  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                who is here from dennis lloyds music video?

                                                                                                                                                                • Adam Lempicki
                                                                                                                                                                  Adam Lempicki  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                  me. did you find at what time he says it>?

                                                                                                                                                                  • Train of Taught
                                                                                                                                                                    Train of Taught  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                    Am from Dennis Lloyd...anyone else?

                                                                                                                                                                    • MFTW
                                                                                                                                                                      MFTW  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                      Thank you Dennis Lloyd

                                                                                                                                                                      • ALPENGLOW MOTIONS
                                                                                                                                                                        ALPENGLOW MOTIONS  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                        Anyone from denni’s music video?

                                                                                                                                                                        • Brave Heart
                                                                                                                                                                          Brave Heart  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                          I really wish all of us broken hearted find acceptance and inner peace...🙏❤🙏

                                                                                                                                                                          • Brave Heart
                                                                                                                                                                            Brave Heart  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                            @Jean Claude VAN DAMME I know...it's really difficult...but we can do this

                                                                                                                                                                            • Jean Claude VAN DAMME
                                                                                                                                                                              Jean Claude VAN DAMME  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                              It might take time... Its hard.

                                                                                                                                                                              • Brave Heart
                                                                                                                                                                                Brave Heart  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                I like "Kintsugi" I should write the word and put it somewhere visible to remind myself...

                                                                                                                                                                                • DarkAdrielm
                                                                                                                                                                                  DarkAdrielm  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                  My girlfriend woke up one morning after a long relationship and said “I don’t love you anymore”. After everything....it hurts..I didn’t do anything..😭😞

                                                                                                                                                                                  • Egle Davidsoniene
                                                                                                                                                                                    Egle Davidsoniene  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                    This video gives a lot of information about lovers Hart brake. Thank you. 1M best wishes.

                                                                                                                                                                                    • Vasco Pita
                                                                                                                                                                                      Vasco Pita  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                      im about to breakup with the nicest human being iv ever met, i love her but im not in love with her anymore, my biggest obstacle is hurting her, i hope she can move on and be the best she can be, doesnt make it easier but its the right thing to do. having said that dont mistake ´hollywood love stories´ to real life, love is beautiful but its enjoyment does diminish after a certain time, its both your jobs to grow together as a couple or it will all fall apart. stay safe everyone,

                                                                                                                                                                                      • Lauren
                                                                                                                                                                                        Lauren  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                        I feel like death and this video didn't help me

                                                                                                                                                                                        • Susan Darby
                                                                                                                                                                                          Susan Darby  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                          @Chris W. because life changes and just when you think things are awful and nothing will ever be good again, you will meet someone new or win the lottery or something else good. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Things will get better. Things will change. If it hasn't changed yet, just wait a little longer. It will. Also read How To Fall Out Of Love by Deborah Phillips.

                                                                                                                                                                                          • traildogg
                                                                                                                                                                                            traildogg  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                            i couldn't agree more...good luck with it all

                                                                                                                                                                                            • Chris W.
                                                                                                                                                                                              Chris W.  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                              I feel the same. It's been 4 months for me as of tomorrow morning. Each day actually gets worse for me. Week after week I get one day closer to ending this pain. When you lose what's 100% irreplaceable, when what was so precious was selfishly stolen from me, why live a life without joy and love? Why continue to wake up and feel worse for the rest of my life????

                                                                                                                                                                                              • mutatedfetus66
                                                                                                                                                                                                mutatedfetus66  3 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                “When your relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does”. Powerful stuff. I ended my last relationship and it’s not any easier than being dumped, but knowing I had to do it because of what the quote above says is very empowering.

                                                                                                                                                                                                • alana blight
                                                                                                                                                                                                  alana blight  3 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                  It's day 5 and I feel terrible. I know I can make it through this though, every one of us deserves love and to be loved the way we need to. First, I need to work on myself. Wish me luck!

                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Panko Film
                                                                                                                                                                                                    Panko Film  3 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                    Dennis lloyd brought me here

                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Adam Lempicki
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Adam Lempicki  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                      found it 45 seconds

                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Elliot Brown
                                                                                                                                                                                                        Elliot Brown  3 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Great video but no need for the apostrophe at 5:36. Damn, maybe that's why my wife is leaving me! (That and the booze).

                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Elliot Brown
                                                                                                                                                                                                          Elliot Brown  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                          @Susan Darby Understood. Also: do you want to go out on a date? I'm reading a compilation of Cicero's Orations (if that helps my case).

                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Susan Darby
                                                                                                                                                                                                            Susan Darby  2 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                            Actually, the apostrophe is correct in that case because "the breakup's impact" is a possessive. If he had written "the breakups impact," it makes "breakups" plural and makes the phrase meaningless. If he had written "the breakup impact," it would be missing the possessive. The booze has ruined many relationships, but it is a symptom of something festering beneath.

                                                                                                                                                                                                            • InSight Dude Perfect
                                                                                                                                                                                                              InSight Dude Perfect  3 meses atrás

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                                                                                                                                                                                                              • milena potter
                                                                                                                                                                                                                milena potter  3 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                                that 41% were those, who ended the relationship

                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Michael Ponce
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Michael Ponce  3 meses atrás

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  This is amazing. Rediscovery of the self and routine activities, such a simple, but effective concept. I’d like to add that by practicing and conditioning your mind to be more positive definitely helps with the coping aspect. 🙂