How to make him realize he's losing you | Relationship Advice - Carlos Cavallo

  • Published: 11 April 2018
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    How To Make A Guy Realize He’s Losing You… 3 Tips
    Maybe you feel like he’s taking you for granted…
    Maybe you feel like he’s not appreciating your relationship…
    Maybe he doesn’t notice all the ways you love him…
    Maybe - it’s time to wake him up!
    Before you end a relationship, you want to know that you’ve given it your best shot. You want to see if you can wake this guy out of his stupor and get him to see what he has in you.
    That’s what we’re going to focus on here - How to make a guy realize he’s losing you. I’m going to give you some specific ways to hint to him that he’s messing this up.
    And while it might feel really great to break up, and then have him come crawling back to you, that’s not something you want to risk. Especially if he might find some other woman in that time apart…
    Of course he was all into you and paying attention at the start of your relationship - before you two had slept together. That’s when a man is MOST motivated - when he’s working to get you into bed.
    You might even be tempted to think that he’s only in it for the sex, but that would be a HUGE mistake, too. He wants a relationship. He just needs the right kick-in-the-butt to realize he could lose this relationship.
    Before we jump in, I have to show you this:
    The #1 Mistake Women Make when it comes to getting respect in a relationship…
    This mistake comes up because of how you were probably raised and socialized. (And not by your parents, either!)
    You see, girls are taught from a very early age that Go Along = Get Along.
    Unlike male friendships, which are usually based on shared interests in hobbies and activities, the key to female friendships are self-disclosure and emotional support.
    Both of which are often mutually incompatible with demanding to get your own needs met as a woman.
    There are women who take the opinion that you need to be liked by and become friends with everyone. SO MUCH that they won’t turn away even from super crappy relationships.
    That’s an extreme you should obviously avoid.
    Women are brought up to go along to get along. And it’s imposed as THE rule of all female friendships and social cliques.
    So be sure to take a good long look at your own habits. Do you fall victim to this kind of thinking? Are you easily manipulated by your need to be liked and approved of?
    If so, you’ll want to root it out and manage it. Because it can often lead you into very unhealthy relationships - or prematurely end the good ones.
    Now, let’s get right into it with:
    Make Him Realize He Could Lose You - Tip 1: Let Him Eat Hot… Nothing.
    Sometimes the biggest wakeup call for a man is when he starts to sense a change in the dynamic of the relationship.
    You see, there is a place in a relationship where a guy thinks he’s got the upper hand. It usually happens a few weeks after we sleep with you.
    WARNING: I’m generalizing a bit here. But I’m also going to tell you “like it is” and not be “politically correct.” That’s why you’re here - Carlos tells you the TRUTH.
    A guy will lose his interest if it's too easy for him...
    Which is why you have to find a place to BACK OFF for a while.
    Go “dark” on him.
    What I mean is, stop answering his calls and texts for a few days. Give him a little reason to WONDER.
    Maybe even… worry.
    If you feel a bit uneasy about doing that, remember that he’s doing it because...
    For the rest, watch the video - or click the link at the top...
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    Dating Advice Guru
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Comments • 236

  • arnela bih
    arnela bih  Рік тому

    Lol I just don't deal with anyone s bull shit I play the stupid card in the end I surprise them with my level 7 brain and I exit preparer myself for next I go on when they contact me I send them a pic of my new hotter man Game over...and...I do not sleep on dates minimum 6 months until he is done bull shitting me don't believe shit they say they bull get your pussy and boost their ego so I test them I annoy them on purpose to see will they get their ego high or reply work on it hehe..

    • Marie Hernandez
      Marie Hernandez  Рік тому

      I been broken up with my boyfriend 3 times and and he get me back real quick and I don’t know but I don’t fell the same way he just nice but I’m not in love with him wished he can break up with me cause everytime I do he make me say yes

      • mary Stacey
        mary Stacey  Рік тому

        Thank you so much for your advice

        • Cynthia Kalumbwa
          Cynthia Kalumbwa  Рік тому


          • Doomer
            Doomer  Рік тому

            Im in this situation right now.. hes hot and cold with me, and i think hes using me and leading me on while talking to other girls. i think im going to ghost him for a while. :( im so attached.

            • Mercy Isaac
              Mercy Isaac  Рік тому

              That's cool

              • ME
                ME  Рік тому

                First of all you have the most relaxing, soothing voice! Great video!

                • Downtown Doctor
                  Downtown Doctor  Рік тому


                  • Kira Anastasia Andersen
                    Kira Anastasia Andersen  Рік тому

                    Great helpful video!! but i dont really get the part where u say that cooking and cleaning would make him appreciate you?? have played it back a couple of times, and i might be misunderstanding something. PLEASE answer meee haha (this vid was even posted on my birthday so come on)

                    • Nina Guerra
                      Nina Guerra  Рік тому

                      This is great

                      • Tommy Williams
                        Tommy Williams  Рік тому

                        This is so right. Stand firm in what you want. It will get his attention for sure. All of these steps work.

                        • Fari Rajput
                          Fari Rajput  Рік тому

                          Thanks I ll change big time

                          • Kimberly Bolton
                            Kimberly Bolton  Рік тому

                            Thank you so much for sharing.

                            • J OneLife
                              J OneLife  Рік тому

                              telll him your leaving town!

                              • LILLY BEAN
                                LILLY BEAN  Рік тому

                                THANK you Carlos great advice!

                                • Heidi Kreft
                                  Heidi Kreft  Рік тому

                                  This is how to manipulate your man. Manipulation is not love. This advice leads to an u healthy relationship with a cringe worthy dynamic

                                  • Lyndy Binder
                                    Lyndy Binder  Рік тому

                                    You are amazing. ... Thank you for all your good advice.

                                    • TheLadyIzabela
                                      TheLadyIzabela  Рік тому

                                      I did all of that and at the end he told me that I am too selfish and too confident and that it always has to be my way cause I have chosen the move or decided on when we are going shopping. I guess it depends on a men! ☺️☺️

                                      • babygirlpink73
                                        babygirlpink73  Рік тому

                                        Please read this😢 What if you are married? We have been Married for 18 years and He is the type of person I absolutely cannot communicate with he doesn't notice settle things I've tried to communicate desperately it just doesn't seem to work in my favor he will turn around what I say and this is no exaggeration into an argument for the past few weeks if I come downstairs he will leave the room he'll talk to me for maybe a few minutes but then after he will leave the room find something else to do play with her granddaughter whatever it is to avoid talking to me he says things and anger that are hurtful and then he apologizes and I'm at the point where I don't listen anymore but I want to save it and I don't know how anymore can someone please help me?

                                        • Sofía Lettier
                                          Sofía Lettier  Рік тому

                                          all this videos of condecending men trying to remind you of your own worth like you didn't know it. why do you all asume my relationship problems have to do with being summisive?

                                          • Cheche Lights31
                                            Cheche Lights31  Рік тому

                                            Love it

                                            • themindblow100
                                              themindblow100  Рік тому

                                              Whenever I feel like down and depressed due to toxic relationship, I would search for this kind of video. I do still love and miss him. Sometimes, we have to be strong and let go of a man who isn't appreciated our effort. I've done a lot of things. It's hard for me to move on. But I must do this, for me and myself. I do cry a lot. But what to do, we, women must be strong.

                                              • Sea Gypsies Belly Dancers
                                                Sea Gypsies Belly Dancers  Рік тому

                                                If you have to do all this then he's not the right guy! This is exhausting!

                                                • 007DFWAngel
                                                  007DFWAngel  Рік тому

                                                  Great advice

                                                  • Abiodun Omikunle
                                                    Abiodun Omikunle  Рік тому


                                                    • laura nebular
                                                      laura nebular  Рік тому

                                                      Im doing all this now... Its working but it probably too late. This is the second time ive gave him a chance and i feel like a chump.

                                                      • Margaret Niedan
                                                        Margaret Niedan  Рік тому

                                                        Why don't men do everything for a woman?

                                                        • italo latina
                                                          italo latina  Рік тому

                                                          Thank u

                                                          • Ramtin Godminuez
                                                            Ramtin Godminuez  Рік тому

                                                            This advice is how to lose a man aka being a sketch woman

                                                            • emie areglo tolentino
                                                              emie areglo tolentino  Рік тому

                                                              What i heard abt your advice is what im doing right now and its amazing his full focus is on me!😉

                                                              • Dr. Vitali
                                                                Dr. Vitali  Рік тому

                                                                Just send him the video. If he's not braindead, he'll get the message just from the title.

                                                                • sromona das
                                                                  sromona das  Рік тому

                                                                  My question is How long? How long will a woman be selfish when she doesn't want to ? How long will she continue to flirt when all she wants is his attention and love? Isn't it more of a brain work than the emotions itself?

                                                                  • scott sanger
                                                                    scott sanger  Рік тому

                                                                    soy boy 101, follow his advice........youll be at home.

                                                                    • scott sanger
                                                                      scott sanger  Рік тому

                                                                      single mother man are not anything like a woman, SEX is the only commonality.

                                                                      • scott sanger
                                                                        scott sanger  Рік тому

                                                                        guys do not need women...........there is a new bus every 10 minutes. What does a woman bring to the relationship table??

                                                                        • Cerystal Gaming
                                                                          Cerystal Gaming  Рік тому

                                                                          I don't have a relationship but I'm bored and in UAclips

                                                                          • Millamua
                                                                            Millamua  Рік тому

                                                                            Been with my boyfriend for a year and he doesn’t ever call and barely texts me. He lives 2 hours away from me and I seen him once every two weeks.

                                                                            • red beans n rice
                                                                              red beans n rice  Рік тому

                                                                              So even though you love him so very very much and that you'd do anything for him. Show him you are boss, that you don't need him. You just want him

                                                                              • Lame Valentina
                                                                                Lame Valentina  Рік тому


                                                                                • Nikki P
                                                                                  Nikki P  Рік тому

                                                                                  You are a great teacher

                                                                                  • Nikki P
                                                                                    Nikki P  Рік тому

                                                                                    This is amazing haha But if i change my password, my boyfriend thinks im cheating

                                                                                    • Janet Evari
                                                                                      Janet Evari  Рік тому

                                                                                      Thank you so much. This video is very helpful and it has opened up my mind to see new ways into my relationship. Thank you...

                                                                                      • Theresa Jimenez
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                                                                                        • LeiraLovable
                                                                                          LeiraLovable  Рік тому

                                                                                          Oh yes thanks i need to tell my fwb that hes kinda creeping me out :,3

                                                                                          • Ni Na
                                                                                            Ni Na  Рік тому

                                                                                            Oooo nice info

                                                                                            • Keletso Dudu
                                                                                              Keletso Dudu  Рік тому


                                                                                              • melanie beltran
                                                                                                melanie beltran  Рік тому

                                                                                                It’s not’re just checking ur market value 😂😂😂😂

                                                                                                • simran kaur
                                                                                                  simran kaur  Рік тому

                                                                                                  if he is upset from us nd giving silent treatment what to do ??

                                                                                                  • kiki lu
                                                                                                    kiki lu  Рік тому

                                                                                                    this is me right now and has been for awhile. i thought by doing all those things for him he wud appreciate me more but all hes doing is taking me for granted. now hes totally controlling me, my life and money and also threatening me when i dont do as he told. im also having trouble getting him out! he doesnt pay rent, or food or anything and just fully realies on me now. it's so stressful.

                                                                                                    • Mary Chinda
                                                                                                      Mary Chinda  Рік тому


                                                                                                      • Tee Francis
                                                                                                        Tee Francis  Рік тому

                                                                                                        I like this amazing video, Thank you

                                                                                                        • CiCi Chambers
                                                                                                          CiCi Chambers  Рік тому

                                                                                                          The weight loss looks good on you!

                                                                                                          • Lori Owens
                                                                                                            Lori Owens  Рік тому

                                                                                                            alright, so what i dont understand is why is it that when a man talks down to a girl he claims to like or even if he doesnt want her around, then why in the crap would he regret losing her? if he didnt want to be around her? makes absolutely no sense to me at all.

                                                                                                            • JUICYRED 70
                                                                                                              JUICYRED 70  Рік тому

                                                                                                              THANK U SIR WOW AMAZING ADVISE I APPRECIATE U MY WARNINGS AND YOUR TIME. GOOD 😊 MORNING! ☁✨✨☁✨✨☁ ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ ☁✨✨✨✨✨☁ ☁☁✨✨✨☁☁ ☁☁☁✨☁☁☁ 🌻 MY SUNSHINE 🍸🌹🌹🍸🌹🌹🍸 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 🍸🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🍸 🍸🍸🌹🌹🌹🍸🍸 🍸🍸🍸🌹🍸🍸🍸 🍸🍸🍸🌹🍸🍸🍸 🍸🎁😊❤☺🎁🍸

                                                                                                              • CactusHeart79
                                                                                                                CactusHeart79  Рік тому

                                                                                                                Thank you, Carlos. This is more insightful than I expected: it also reveals that the whole “go along to get along” mentality has a lot to do with my difficulty in making and keeping female friends. I absolutely hate the “go along to get along” types. It was in front of me this whole time and I wasn’t even aware😖

                                                                                                                • Walter Miller
                                                                                                                  Walter Miller  Рік тому

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                                                                                                                  • Pretty Fancypants
                                                                                                                    Pretty Fancypants  Рік тому

                                                                                                                    for valentines day buy yourself flowers and say someone from work likessss youuu. :o

                                                                                                                    • O
                                                                                                                      O  Рік тому

                                                                                                                      “That’s just checking your market value “😂

                                                                                                                      • Starlight5
                                                                                                                        Starlight5  Рік тому

                                                                                                                        Need some input Carlos..the guy I am with is holding onto his adopted daughter as #1 even though I try very hard to be fair. My time time is running out and I am sick of it..

                                                                                                                        • Starlight5
                                                                                                                          Starlight5  Рік тому

                                                                                                                          Excellent seek the upper hand right sad

                                                                                                                          • Kelebogile Motshoane
                                                                                                                            Kelebogile Motshoane  Рік тому

                                                                                                                            Speaks so well

                                                                                                                            • Delita Smith
                                                                                                                              Delita Smith  Рік тому

                                                                                                                              My guy left me again again he has been gone out of my life now for four years! I bought a house moved out for the first time in my life for him. We spent 2 more years with each other! I have had him In my life now ever since i was 18 years old! I feel like I have lost him for good now! He had it made with me but he left me again! His idea for us to reconnect after begin apart for 10 years! Should I not answer is texts anymore he is out of the country now he said he would let me know when he got back home????

                                                                                                                              • Dawa Zabibu
                                                                                                                                Dawa Zabibu  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                each time we get in problem and he apologizes... still repeats the same mistakes while he tells me he Love's me.

                                                                                                                                • Brenda B
                                                                                                                                  Brenda B  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                  The person who cares less is less likely to be hurt or taken for granted. Boyfriends should never get husband privileges.

                                                                                                                                  • Bush Ahmed
                                                                                                                                    Bush Ahmed  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                    He loves me cares me, support me or my family, give respect me, hear and understand my situations more then I love him but he doesn't marry me. I'm so worried in this situation.

                                                                                                                                    • Gloria Lewis
                                                                                                                                      Gloria Lewis  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                      It work's.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

                                                                                                                                      • shweta MG
                                                                                                                                        shweta MG  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                        That’s right Carlos you said it accurately. It’s such a game it’s almost crippling:) I stopped caring but wanted to reassure myself that I was wise in giving up .

                                                                                                                                        • bia 11
                                                                                                                                          bia 11  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                          Ladies, if a man treats you that way, don't waste your time trying to change him. Move on and be happy, we don't need no men to depend on!

                                                                                                                                          • Kate Woods
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                                                                                                                                              • Angela Owusu
                                                                                                                                                Angela Owusu  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                                What if you work at the same do you do that??.please help

                                                                                                                                                • Angela Owusu
                                                                                                                                                  Angela Owusu  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                                  What if you work at the same do you do that??.please help

                                                                                                                                                  • Gillian Moody
                                                                                                                                                    Gillian Moody  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                                    Really appreciate this.

                                                                                                                                                    • FoodShowFan
                                                                                                                                                      FoodShowFan  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                                      This only works on certain types of guys. Some men will see right through it, and will hold the door open for you as he shows you the way out. These guys value themselves alot higher than you expect. Tread carefully.

                                                                                                                                                      • Reymariz Garcia
                                                                                                                                                        Reymariz Garcia  Рік тому

                                                                                                                                                        Thanks for your videos it helps me a lot