Why We Don't Ask Girls on Dates: Film, Psychology, & Fear of Failure | Nuno Belmar | [email protected]

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  • Published: 02 August 2017
  • Why is it that some of us fearfully freeze at the idea of asking a girl on a date? What does this have to do with Positive Punishment, David Fincher, and Martin Scorsese? Student filmmaker Nuno Belmar attempts to shed some light on this general fear of failure, through the story of his own failure within the biggest film project of his entire life.
    Nuno Belmar is a student filmmaker from Portugal, who has worked in media production for various groups and companies. He will be studying in New York next year, and uses his film-making experience and passion for psychology to draw conclusions on the fear of failure (something he's come across multiple times throughout his short career).
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Comments • 658

  • Gerardo Morales
    Gerardo Morales  2 أيام قبل

    Never TREAT A WOMAN LIKE A STAR LIKE THIS SIMP BETA.. .BECAUSE SHE WILL ONLY TREAT U LIKE FAN...........NO DINNERS N NO COMPLIMENTS....... .

    • Drake Carter
      Drake Carter  10 أيام قبل

      Simple. You leave women alone! They don't want men approaching them every five minutes.

      • Keng Lee
        Keng Lee  12 أيام قبل

        Because the juice will never be worth the squeeze anymore.

        • koolerpure
          koolerpure  14 أيام قبل

          we live in a world where you cant meet people in person anymore and if you do you look like a creep if you cant help but show some sign of affection towards them. personally i fear asking out girls because im stuck between wanting to find the real love of my life and not ever wanting to feel the pain again that usually follows when you fall for someone and they just leave your life

          • galaxyandromeda
            galaxyandromeda  22 أيام قبل

            Did he ever finish the movie? can't find any information about it

            • Sinbad 87
              Sinbad 87  25 أيام قبل

              Most women don't know if they like you. It's stupidity.

              • Ron Froehlich
                Ron Froehlich  29 أيام قبل

                Yinz don't ask girls out because you are pussies and your women are whores.

                • iForgotTbh !?
                  iForgotTbh !?  أشهر قبل

                  Don’t date. Don’t entertain them.

                  • J J
                    J J  أشهر قبل

                    We are dating but we just aren't dating in our own country.

                    • Tigres
                      Tigres  أشهر قبل

                      Rejection depends a lot on men too... on the weekends i go horse riding, shooting range, fishing, i work on my semitruck, i go to the club, etc.. i have always had girls come to me and be like.. i have never gone horse riding, I've never shot a gun, i heard you can dance salsa..etc common folks be active be interesting.

                      • Music Oldies
                        Music Oldies  أشهر قبل

                        Basically, the whole talk had nothing to do fear of failure, giving up, adverse stimulus etc. It was all about using simple common sense: If you see people getting sprayed with water by choosing the red paper, then when it's your turn choose the green paper. If a girl throws her book at you after asking her out on a date, then don't ask that girl out anymore - there are millions others out there to choose from. If your main actress is leaving the next day, arrange for her to come back to shoot that important scene. *DUH!*

                        • Corno di Bassetto
                          Corno di Bassetto  أشهر قبل

                          Dean Martin quipped on his Roasts that not anyone can be on a Roast. Your name has to be in the telephone books. I suspect the same standards apply for TedX talks.

                          • Sidney Hurst
                            Sidney Hurst  أشهر قبل

                            Table should have been turned sideways so the colored papers were equal distance. Just saying..

                            • J. Doe
                              J. Doe  أشهر قبل

                              You should never not give up and always don't refrain yourself from not asking out a girl.

                              • Mani Maharaj
                                Mani Maharaj  أشهر قبل

                                MGTOW anyone?

                                • J J
                                  J J  أشهر قبل

                                  Always and forever

                                  • Taras Wertelecki
                                    Taras Wertelecki  أشهر قبل

                                    Why I don't ask women out on dates? Because there's much too much competition, and what would I be doing in the end? Women's penchant for humiliating men is another reason why I don't ask them out on dates. Nope, for some men, the best thing to do is not approaching women at all. Maybe some day before the Sun burns out, women in general might realize the idea of men having to do all the approaching is a bad idea.

                                    • Korri Galbraith
                                      Korri Galbraith  أشهر قبل

                                      Ask every woman once. That simple. At least 1 out of every 100 will have some interest!

                                      • Robert Maxa
                                        Robert Maxa  2 أشهر قبل

                                        I think that a major problem, with dating, is that everybody is told to go for the "10", the "hot" girl. This mentality restricts the pool of prospects. I think the outlook, should be, to be open to, and not being blind to seeing/finding your "10". I believe this outlook is a more positive, and open minded approach. Maybe the most unexpected person will end up being "your 10".

                                        • David Araya
                                          David Araya  2 أشهر قبل

                                          Poor presentation, the whole movie thing couldve been avoided. The experiments were also unnecesary and cringy

                                          • The BattlefieldxD
                                            The BattlefieldxD  2 أشهر قبل

                                            risk is not worth the reward

                                            • joimumu
                                              joimumu  2 أشهر قبل

                                              The BattlefieldxD special when you wont get the reward.

                                              • InChrist
                                                InChrist  2 أشهر قبل

                                                You obviously ain't never done nothing hard LOL and they gave you a TED Talk for this? High School wrestling show me this lesson and I've been applying it ever since

                                                • only1 bracey
                                                  only1 bracey  2 أشهر قبل

                                                  I dont date because i'm cheap and refuse to spend money wondering 'what if' with the possibility of her dating and collect multiple plates and cocktails daily from other men.. i'm not here to compete. I am the prize

                                                  • joimumu
                                                    joimumu  2 أشهر قبل

                                                    only1 bracey but what of the girls that want free food at the fancy restaurant?

                                                    • shane hester
                                                      shane hester  2 أشهر قبل

                                                      women are too hypergamous in todays times.

                                                      • Cenk Toplar
                                                        Cenk Toplar  2 أشهر قبل

                                                        A lot of "taken" women pretend like as if they are single. They let you come close to you and the reason they do this is because they test their beauty etc. and when you ask them out they say they are married or have boyfriend etc. and when you get rejected they laugh inside , they enjoy their ego but what they really missing out is that maybe the guy goes home and feel sad , lonely , cry , depressive , low self-esteem And than we see school shootings , mosque shootings , Vegas shootings , Andreas Brevicks etc.

                                                        • Eddy Colon
                                                          Eddy Colon  2 أشهر قبل

                                                          Change failure for "waste of time"

                                                          • Emma C
                                                            Emma C  3 أشهر قبل

                                                            why are there so many mgtows and low iq woman haters in the comments section...? 🤔

                                                            • J. Doe
                                                              J. Doe  أشهر قبل

                                                              People make a cost benefit analysis on pretty much anything in life and see if it's worth doing. When the cost gets way too high and the reward gets too low, they will stop pursuing it even when it is something they'd really like to do such as having a partner, falling in love, getting married, having kids etc. If you genuinely see the mgtow men as "low iq women haters", you should be happy that they are out of the dating pool.

                                                              • Matt Tillman
                                                                Matt Tillman  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                Because they know how to read the news papers and study the stats. They're not "low IQ", they're "well informed and making a rational decision." Their basis is something called "Risk vs. Benefit Analysis." You might want to look it up.

                                                                • Ben Freeman
                                                                  Ben Freeman  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                  With some shockingly toxic views on women??? I don't get it - how can people think they will have a relationship with those kinds of beliefs? I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone who thought those things about me.Yuck!

                                                                  • Mb. KHATIBI
                                                                    Mb. KHATIBI  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                    You cannot go and ask every random girl that you see attractive. Just consider if every guy would do that girls would never feel comfortable at public places since too many person would approach them. You should just approach a person when you feel you feel something special or get a signal from her at that moment even rejections do not bother you because you try for someone you at least a little care about.

                                                                    • Virgil Williams
                                                                      Virgil Williams  3 أشهر قبل

                                                                      If she didn't show any signs that she's interested in you why go over their to bother her then cry, and complain about women this, and women that. I'm sorry. But it's not her fault if the guy doesn't pay attention to peoples body language.And besides. She was reading a book. Does it looks like she want's to be bothered at that time.

                                                                      • Sirena Spades
                                                                        Sirena Spades  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                        zzzzz nobody cares about the film stuff... So the real reason that girls rebuff guys is because we are afraid they are creeps. They need a better approach. If they approach in a good way, then they don't get the chocolates in their face (as in the example). However, all guys just ASSUME they will get denied. Almost none even try. I would even guess 99% have never even dared ask a girl out.

                                                                        • dante sparda
                                                                          dante sparda  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                          We do not approach women if they didnt show interest by body language, like olaying with their hair, smiling looking at you. But all the signals women send them to a minority of guys. The parito law, 80 % of women want the top 20% of men. SO today I wont approach a woman until I fix my life and be on the top. Once achieved I will pump and dump. Because that is what most of you deserve.

                                                                          • BOONIQUE
                                                                            BOONIQUE  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                            The juice is no longer worth the squeeze.

                                                                            • Ajay Bhosale
                                                                              Ajay Bhosale  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                              No.. that's wrong. What guys fear is humiliation in public. A dignity once gone is very very difficult to recover, just like trust. So it's not fear of failure, but fear of getting insulted, and if it happened around the people who know the guy, it's even worse.

                                                                              • Lost in Sauce
                                                                                Lost in Sauce  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                Here's the thing though, a lot of men don't care anymore about women. Just family members.

                                                                                • Oz wsda
                                                                                  Oz wsda  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                  clickbait title

                                                                                  • Gabriel Kellar
                                                                                    Gabriel Kellar  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                    i wont be too horible to you guys *begins to spray 2/5*

                                                                                    • F!zZ
                                                                                      F!zZ  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                      Just Happy there are hookers (my contingency plan). Lmao

                                                                                      • demon6937
                                                                                        demon6937  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                        I'm just waiting for human race to go extinct

                                                                                        • MysticStrike ForceSSJ3
                                                                                          MysticStrike ForceSSJ3  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                          Yha I like how it's all reverse now. More guys are trying to find real love while girls are trying to have some game in their lives by using men to get what they want. I think that's why some people take so long to really say "I love u" because now people treat love has just buissnes.

                                                                                          • steady cruising
                                                                                            steady cruising  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                            If you're an average guy,dont waste your time approaching a beautiful woman.... She has too many options to just choose the average

                                                                                            • SageoftheSixPaths
                                                                                              SageoftheSixPaths  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                              I hate that language "rejected" as if it is implying that the asker "is not good enough" its ridiculous. No one ever really gets rejected. The woman is just doing you a favor. When a woman is saying no she isn't interested in dating you what she is really saying is "based on what I have seen about you so far I don't see any compatibility between us/ you are not quite what I am looking for" this is POSITIVE. She has saved you time and money. You can now move on to find someone who does want you, is compatible with you, and is interested in making you happy because you make her happy. REJECTION IS AN ILLUSION. Both acceptance and declining are BOTH GOOD.

                                                                                              • Ennis Whalen
                                                                                                Ennis Whalen  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                s o t 6 P - Wow! Rejection is just an illusion? Makes it sound really desirable!

                                                                                                • Олега Мирошниченко

                                                                                                  Kudos to the second girl who chose a red list.... no matter what! But it's a shame she let him spray some water into her face... All the talk is cheap. Sounds ok, but does not work...

                                                                                                  • kittensofdeath
                                                                                                    kittensofdeath  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                    You're in a wheelchair? Well just start walking. What are you a coward?

                                                                                                    • Ennis Whalen
                                                                                                      Ennis Whalen  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                      k o d - Great Analogy!

                                                                                                      • nonubusiness
                                                                                                        nonubusiness  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                        "The moral is... never try." Homer Simpson.

                                                                                                        • Ennis Whalen
                                                                                                          Ennis Whalen  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                          n u b - No, the moral is. . . " why try to drain the Pacific Ocean with a fork ?"

                                                                                                          • Tim R
                                                                                                            Tim R  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                            I've complained and made excuses all my life about why I don't have any girlfriends. Fact is that a) I hardly ask any girls out at all (mabye 1 a year) b) I hardly go out to events where many girls are When I changed that and did the opposite, I did get girlfriends (after many failures) I 95% guarantee that many of the men complaining on the internet about women not dating them are doing a) and b) like I did.

                                                                                                            • Ennis Whalen
                                                                                                              Ennis Whalen  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                              Tim R. - Some of you guys just don't get it. These are guys who do never got half as far as you did.They do not complain,they just find other activities, i.e. volunteer work.

                                                                                                              • Nanying Li
                                                                                                                Nanying Li  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                i tell all my crushes i like them...:/

                                                                                                                • Greg Chase
                                                                                                                  Greg Chase  7 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                  As a guy I've rejected women. If they don't take 'no' for an answer I get pretty 'to the point' about it. We all have the right to reject someone's advances. If a girl gives up on men because I rejected her or because she gets rejected repeatedly, that's her freaking problem. And it's the exact same when roles are reversed. If you get to the point where the BENEFIT you think you'd get by being in a relationship is LESS THAN the trial-and-error rejection process you have to go through, THAT IS THE TIME TO GIVE UP. Give it a rest for a year. You can always try to get in a better mindset next year if you feel like it. And if you get rejected, get away from that situation. THIS IS WHY you should *never* approach someone in any place where you can't get away from it - such as at work. Some people can take rejection day in and day out but those people are in Sales jobs and very few people like a Sales job for themselves. If you're normal you'll want to fall back and regroup and you can't do that if the person you approached is someone you see everyday, so don't approach people you see every day. Even if you got hooked up for a while, when it ends you're still gonna see the person every day. Yuck. . . .

                                                                                                                  • Alastar flint
                                                                                                                    Alastar flint  7 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                    Some people are bitches, so he's not wrong on the dog front

                                                                                                                    • Magellanic SpaceClouds
                                                                                                                      Magellanic SpaceClouds  7 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                      Because women are expensive, ungrateful, and a waste of time. There's your answer.

                                                                                                                      • Mark Gable
                                                                                                                        Mark Gable  7 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                        He got there in the end. .. I don't think.

                                                                                                                        • androssteague
                                                                                                                          androssteague  7 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                          What nationality is he? Because I can hear a bit of an accent and then I can't.

                                                                                                                          • rolanddes
                                                                                                                            rolanddes  7 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                            Why ask girls out anyway? Just bash and dash. Thats cheaper easier more fun and that’s what they deserve. I dont wanna date/marry a chick that rejects me in her 20s but wants me in her 30s.

                                                                                                                            • Eternity
                                                                                                                              Eternity  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                              @Ben Freeman ?

                                                                                                                              • Ben Freeman
                                                                                                                                Ben Freeman  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                @Eternity Yep, there's a lot to be said for maturity

                                                                                                                                • Eternity
                                                                                                                                  Eternity  4 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                  but truth is , in their 20s they prefer the hottest men

                                                                                                                                  • B P
                                                                                                                                    B P  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                    I dont ask for dates 'cause i rather get to the point and say "how much it's gonna cost"?

                                                                                                                                    • Ben Silva
                                                                                                                                      Ben Silva  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                      In case anyone missed it: The fear of failure comes from the fact that no one is supporting you and often they are making fun of you.

                                                                                                                                      • Jen Mishelin
                                                                                                                                        Jen Mishelin  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                        This is why I always let guys down easy... Also a asking someone out tip - be chill and friendly about it, no pick-up lines, being creepy, too pushy, sleazy, overly enthusiastic etc. Easy and simple for this example "Hey, nice book, I read it then and there. You like it so far?" Then if it's a + answer you have two option, continue talking a bit, introduce yourself and then ask her out and/or just give her your number for her to call/text you.

                                                                                                                                        • Ennis Whalen
                                                                                                                                          Ennis Whalen  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                          biba b b 123 - That just took YOU 8 lines.Can you now see why guys don't bother with something that is such a headache?

                                                                                                                                          • Sarthak Jindal
                                                                                                                                            Sarthak Jindal  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                            This is the first TED talk that hasn't made any sense whatsoever. How does one justify assault on a guy for asking someone out ?? A girl like that should be booked for such "pretty acts" that amuse people so much. On the top of it, calling it "positive punishment" is just wrong. I thought the west was more into justifying these things. This shows true "women favourism", the real face of feminism.

                                                                                                                                            • Borutoi Naruto
                                                                                                                                              Borutoi Naruto  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                              i ham grooth.

                                                                                                                                              • Meatnyancat22
                                                                                                                                                Meatnyancat22  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                You can only get those chocolates thrown at your face so many times before your efforts become futile

                                                                                                                                                • Abdo Abdo
                                                                                                                                                  Abdo Abdo  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                  Awesome 👍 👍 👍

                                                                                                                                                  • klfmc rjn
                                                                                                                                                    klfmc rjn  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                    this was pointless

                                                                                                                                                    • Guigley
                                                                                                                                                      Guigley  8 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                      The problem with modern dating is not that complicated. It all comes down to fear. Men are afraid to ask, and women are afraid to say 'yes.' The solution is not that complicated. Men, start asking. Women, start saying 'yes.' Men and women, ditch the false assumptions, stop taking dating so seriously, and TAKE A RISK.

                                                                                                                                                      • chicolofi
                                                                                                                                                        chicolofi  9 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                        We don't ask girls on dates because all the burden of taking the risk of rejection or facing a rude reaction is on men. That's not fair.

                                                                                                                                                        • Lily Ruff
                                                                                                                                                          Lily Ruff  9 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                          Why are there so many single people that want to be in a relashionship

                                                                                                                                                          • Croissant Comics
                                                                                                                                                            Croissant Comics  6 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                            Because some people just want someone to love, a companion to bond with.

                                                                                                                                                            • Otho Williams Jr.
                                                                                                                                                              Otho Williams Jr.  9 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                              Great Message on "Not Giving Up!"✊🏾💪🏾👍🏾✊🏾 My reason I do not ask women on dates because I am no longer paying for free dates towards the woman. I work hard for all my monies through my blood, sweat, and tears. I have yet to find one woman that *Respects* Me for Me!!👐🏾

                                                                                                                                                              • JonnyC 289
                                                                                                                                                                JonnyC 289  7 أيام قبل

                                                                                                                                                                And you likely never will. At least, not if you live in the west.

                                                                                                                                                                • Ennis Whalen
                                                                                                                                                                  Ennis Whalen  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                  O.W.,Jr. - Can you just imagine that you could take a young lady out to dinner and a movie, and pay for it,and have her appreciate that she spent some time with you? I guess imagination has gone out the window.

                                                                                                                                                                  • eckha
                                                                                                                                                                    eckha  9 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                    I hate this dweeb so much. This is pointless video.

                                                                                                                                                                    • Sebastian Animator
                                                                                                                                                                      Sebastian Animator  9 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                      Dark Souls and real Life resumed in 15 mins, do it, don't give Up.

                                                                                                                                                                      • Eddy Colon
                                                                                                                                                                        Eddy Colon  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                        The game right?

                                                                                                                                                                        • Ray Smyth
                                                                                                                                                                          Ray Smyth  9 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                          This is dreadful drivel!

                                                                                                                                                                          • Strang 1
                                                                                                                                                                            Strang 1  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                            If he stopped talking about himself. I could have been a 3 minute video to say. You have to find out what type of chick is your type and go for them and it's a numbers game. The more you approach the more experienced you become therefore the more tail you slay. Now go get'm.

                                                                                                                                                                            • Christine Hill
                                                                                                                                                                              Christine Hill  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                              I got tired of dating girls, so I just became one. * shrug *

                                                                                                                                                                              • Rod Schmidt
                                                                                                                                                                                Rod Schmidt  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                1. "No, I won't go out with you." 2. Repeat step 1 many times. 3. "Where have all the good men gone?"

                                                                                                                                                                                • Hushed Tones
                                                                                                                                                                                  Hushed Tones  22 أيام قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                  Lots of men don't get the message when rejection is too gentle. They think it's a "maybe". Rejection should be FIRM and CLEAR. But not public, not humiliation & certainly not start gossiping about it to your friends to make you feel more important which a lot of people do to belittle people they seem beneath them. Also another big problem is when they keep the guy around as a "friend" (knowing full well the other wants more) because they know they can receive benefits for a long time until they find someone and then throw away the friendship. Often the guy is not even seen as a plan Z. But just in case they also keep options therefore making the other person waste their time & energy and part of their life they could have used to grow as a person. If you wouldn't want to be used like that by a guy who isn't interested in you then you should do it to guys. And call out people you see who see this.

                                                                                                                                                                                  • Nada Ahmed
                                                                                                                                                                                    Nada Ahmed  أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                    BossCaveman and most men run away from a woman once she chases him even if she is good woman .. why don’t you blame them too?? Why does the society always blames women for saying no??

                                                                                                                                                                                    • Bridgefin
                                                                                                                                                                                      Bridgefin  أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                      @Nada Ahmed No, but women could be more gentle when they say "no". Enough guys get such harsh treatment that they just stop asking. And they get comfortable with having no women in their lives. It works for them. But it doesn't work for women. A guy can get along quite nicely alone. Women can't. Having rejected a stable of men along the way they find themselves alone and regretting it. The fun happens when they go back to a guy they rejected and try to bring him back to the table. THAT rejection is the sweetest. In most cases she gets exactly what she deserves.

                                                                                                                                                                                      • Rod Schmidt
                                                                                                                                                                                        Rod Schmidt  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                        "Why I Didn't Finish My Movie For A While, But Then I Did." There, I fixed the title

                                                                                                                                                                                        • Rod Schmidt
                                                                                                                                                                                          Rod Schmidt  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                          But then what would Negative Punishment be?

                                                                                                                                                                                          • Saalthor Jrundelius
                                                                                                                                                                                            Saalthor Jrundelius  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                            Anyone else jumped to the comment section to see if anyone mentioned the fact he completely refused to acknowledge that girl chose the red paper?

                                                                                                                                                                                            • andthenifellinlove
                                                                                                                                                                                              andthenifellinlove  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                              To fail is a First Attempt In Learning. 😊

                                                                                                                                                                                              • Stretop Overmind
                                                                                                                                                                                                Stretop Overmind  7 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                                The First Attempt In Learning is RTFM. To fail is a result of not following this.

                                                                                                                                                                                                • yashashwini Nsimha
                                                                                                                                                                                                  yashashwini Nsimha  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                                  A penny for every time he said "really"...still counting...

                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Nathan Brisebois
                                                                                                                                                                                                    Nathan Brisebois  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                                    How does that quote go, the thrill of the chase is worth the pain? Statistically you will be rejected more in your life than you will be accepted, so just take that rejection and move along

                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Matt Tillman
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Matt Tillman  2 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                                      Actually, it goes, "the juice is not worth the squeeze." Another is, "why buy a cow when I can just buy the milk?"

                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Ennis Whalen
                                                                                                                                                                                                        Ennis Whalen  5 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                                        NB - You must be a professional baseball player!

                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Music & Whistle msk
                                                                                                                                                                                                          Music & Whistle msk  10 أشهر قبل

                                                                                                                                                                                                          "Why we don't ask women or men on dates" - here, I fixed your title. / Best regards - the 21st century.