Love Lessons from Open Relationships | Kathy Slaughter | TEDxWabashCollege

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  • Published: 08 June 2018
  • Relationships can get ugly, but this doesn't have to be your reality. Kathy Slaughter proposes a revolutionary idea that people can benefit from the practices of those in open-relationships. Learn how better communication, time away from your partner, and more, can have a positive impact on your love life.
    As a licensed clinical social worker, Kathy Slaughter passionately pursues the craft of psychotherapy. She specializes in human sexuality, relationships and trauma at her private practice in Indianapolis, Indiana. Kathy’s passion for personal growth and self-development is matched only by her interest in teaching others, through one to one interactions, workshops or events. Kathy speaks at events, a variety of professional conferences and podcast interviews. She also leads Sex Geekdom Indy and blogs at www.soaringheartcounseling.com. Personally, Kathy enjoys outdoor art festivals like Burning Man, practicing yoga, weight lifting, and knitting. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Comments • 155

  • Olive Seraphim
    Olive Seraphim  2 dni temu

    My parents spent virtually every moment together, they even worked together in their own business of just the two of them, and they were obsessed with each other for their entire marriage right up until he died

    • VeganBackpacking -
      VeganBackpacking -  Dzień temu

      There will always be anekdotes of those that can do it otherwise. Just like the people that smoked all their lives and become a 100 years old. The Ester she refers to concluded her 'difference is good' from a giant cohort of relationships (y)

      • rae bay
        rae bay  13 dni temu

        🤦🏾‍♀️ I thought she had a crop top on with high waisted skirt and sock stockings

        • Marten Dekker
          Marten Dekker  13 dni temu

          The amount & duration of seperation needed to spark erotic feelings in couples...varies a lot, from couple to couple. This talk misses that key.

          • ha' az mat
            ha' az mat  13 dni temu

            I clicked here for the MILF ...amazing!

            • Yifeng Chen
              Yifeng Chen  17 dni temu

              The essential problem is trust. Whether you can trust the other one to leave for a while.

              • Thomas Raines
                Thomas Raines  19 dni temu

                Two words: Weight Watchers

                • Always BeClosing
                  Always BeClosing  21 dzień temu

                  I believe primarily in full honest communication with your spouse, or any relationship/friendship for that matter. I understand that monogamy isn't for everyone, but if many of us didnt live shallow lives of constant deceit it would prevent a whole lot of unnecessary heartache. The other thing that's hard for many people to come to terms with, is that we CANNOT possess another person. Marriage, commitment, etc. are only there to give us the impression that we do. Another person will always have free will, and their own desires and needs. Sometimes people grow apart, they can change over time. Restrictions and control are simply wishful thinking. The "verbal relationship contract" is null and void anytime one person decides to act in any "unapproved manner". Do unto others as you would have unto yourself. Commitment is fine, but it's only as strong as the parties involved, and if you both truly embody the same principles. Good luck in your life and love, to all.

                  • Derek Andrews
                    Derek Andrews  21 dzień temu

                    There are only two creatures of value on the face of the earth: those with the commitment, and those who require the commitment of others. John Adams

                    • Phoenix Lee
                      Phoenix Lee  22 dni temu

                      Having open relationship? I'd rather have a cat and be single for good🐈

                      • Catherine Lee
                        Catherine Lee  Miesiąc temu

                        ''There is a way that seemeth right to man but the end always end in death''--death of love ,death of a relationship,death of emotions and feelings--- and you ask 'what happen?'

                        • kratos1orchid slayer
                          kratos1orchid slayer  Miesiąc temu

                          A lack of discipline, failure to communicate, and no intent to commit. Love is not just a feeling it's an ideal and way of life based on appreciation and respect. It's a bond that you share with a person you care for and commit to. Maybe more choices and options aren't the answer.

                          • Suquando Duke
                            Suquando Duke  2 miesięcy temu

                            For Full AUDIO, if you have an iPhone, go to Settings, general, accessibility, scroll down to audio turn on mono. Switch it later.

                            • Sierra
                              Sierra  6 dni temu

                              this needs to become a top comment 🙏

                              • JRob Cal
                                JRob Cal  2 miesięcy temu

                                you lack discipline

                                • Bradley Carstens
                                  Bradley Carstens  2 miesięcy temu

                                  maybe our dramas are romantic because that's actually a reflection of human nature. Passion over love goes back to Shakespeare, and all the way back to the ancient Greeks, where a love triangle was common source of CONFLICT for a play's plot.

                                  • kattelyn92
                                    kattelyn92  2 miesięcy temu

                                    Makes me feel sick to hear this

                                    • Nicole S
                                      Nicole S  2 miesięcy temu

                                      Very wishy washy... she basically said that space is healthy. I think we all knew that. What did it have to do with "open relationships"?

                                      • Nicole S
                                        Nicole S  2 miesięcy temu

                                        The stories from her practice are one sided and under the assumption that the patient is giving all the facts

                                        • Nicole S
                                          Nicole S  2 miesięcy temu

                                          There are couples who still adore and love eachother far past the 2 yr mark. Maybe we should learn from them.

                                          • McPeeperson Smith
                                            McPeeperson Smith  Miesiąc temu

                                            I'm only at 3.5, but I can say it's true for us at least!

                                            • Dan Chaput
                                              Dan Chaput  2 miesięcy temu

                                              The idea that a traditional family or jealousy is some sort of social construct is fundamentally false. society is a construct of human nature and evolution.

                                              • Ерхан Бекенов
                                                Ерхан Бекенов  Miesiąc temu

                                                And religion...

                                                • Dan Chaput
                                                  Dan Chaput  Miesiąc temu

                                                  I just did. "society is a construct of human nature and evolution". Humans dont act the way we do (all over the world might I add) because we were "sold" on the idea throughout time. different people in different societies all over the world have formed families and relationships in surprisingly uniform ways. We have evolved as a species to have these emotions and structures. the speaker is trying to "sell" others on their own social construct to try to validate their own feelings and emotions, but it isnt condusive to a healthy family or society for the vast majority of humans.

                                                  • RG S
                                                    RG S  Miesiąc temu

                                                    Ok, so state your argument in full here.

                                                    • arjun krish
                                                      arjun krish  2 miesięcy temu

                                                      The problem is not right or wrong, the problem is that they have not talked about it

                                                      • Wendy Wang
                                                        Wendy Wang  2 miesięcy temu

                                                        Listen a few minutes, what a waste of time.

                                                        • ALleycat19687
                                                          ALleycat19687  2 miesięcy temu

                                                          Marriage is doomed in the USA

                                                          • julie liu
                                                            julie liu  3 miesięcy temu

                                                            丑人多作怪。She is mental and unhappy, how come she could guide people seek for happy relationship?

                                                            • Eolande Eliva
                                                              Eolande Eliva  2 dni temu

                                                              @julie liu She was nervous to start with, as you can tell by her initial breathing, so may have looked a little uneasy, but no..I didn't see any unhappiness there, or mental health issues. And she's covering a topic that could be a little controversial, so perhaps could be a little unsure about how the audience might receive it. Could you be projecting some of your feelings about the topic onto her perhaps?

                                                              • julie liu
                                                                julie liu  2 dni temu

                                                                @Eolande Eliva no, read her eyes, face, and her obviously needs see doctor

                                                                • Eolande Eliva
                                                                  Eolande Eliva  2 dni temu

                                                                  @julie liu Read a book she's written?

                                                                  • julie liu
                                                                    julie liu  2 dni temu

                                                                    @Eolande Eliva read her

                                                                    • Eolande Eliva
                                                                      Eolande Eliva  2 dni temu

                                                                      How did you draw the conclusion from watching this video that she is "mental and unhappy"? Did I miss something?

                                                                      • Elizabeth Blane
                                                                        Elizabeth Blane  3 miesięcy temu

                                                                        Am I living in an alternative universe where up is down, true is false, freedom is slavery . . . ?

                                                                        • androkguz
                                                                          androkguz  28 dni temu

                                                                          No. You just never really got the universe you live in

                                                                          • Another MGTOW Monk
                                                                            Another MGTOW Monk  3 miesięcy temu

                                                                            MGTOW.

                                                                            • Another MGTOW Monk
                                                                              Another MGTOW Monk  3 miesięcy temu

                                                                              MGTOW.

                                                                              • Fiorenza Freedom
                                                                                Fiorenza Freedom  4 miesięcy temu

                                                                                Id rather take relationship advice from the couple next door that have been married 50+ years.

                                                                                • Rhyme Jones
                                                                                  Rhyme Jones  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                  @Agg ose Agreed.

                                                                                  • Agg ose
                                                                                    Agg ose  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                    You can be married 50+ years plus having another partner love is limitless. Win win

                                                                                    • Rhyme Jones
                                                                                      Rhyme Jones  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                      @Ashley B. You cannot call individual experiences science. It's a truism to state that long-term relationships vary based on life circumstances and maturity levels to handle them. Situations change and people's priorities, wants and needs change too. My grandparents were married for 63 years and at our wedding during the reception the DJ asked what their secret was to a lasting marriage. My grandfather laughed and grandmother just said, "stick it out". It was cute, people awed and cheered, but I wouldn't consider that sound advice for everyone.

                                                                                      • salto0084
                                                                                        salto0084  4 miesięcy temu

                                                                                        Open relationships are often not really consenual. One of the partners wants to see other people and give the other one two choices: either you agree on it or the relationship is over. Apart from that, I think I wouldn't take relationship advice from this speaker. She seems to be not happy about her love life, what does make her an expert on that issue then?

                                                                                        • Ерхан Бекенов
                                                                                          Ерхан Бекенов  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                          salto0084 like I assume an actual degree, therapist qualification and some more experience than you!

                                                                                          • Zhanybek Nurgaziev
                                                                                            Zhanybek Nurgaziev  4 miesięcy temu

                                                                                            Kind of swingers

                                                                                            • p b
                                                                                              p b  4 miesięcy temu

                                                                                              I would rather just be single.

                                                                                              • Phoenix Lee
                                                                                                Phoenix Lee  22 dni temu

                                                                                                p b same!

                                                                                                • Agg ose
                                                                                                  Agg ose  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                                  @Fiorwestcoast that is your opinion alot of people have time and are not afraid to commit to two persons.

                                                                                                  • Fiorwestcoast
                                                                                                    Fiorwestcoast  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                                    @Agg ose passion love and maternal instinct are two different things. The people I've dated that are polyamorous don't like true love or commitment. They like lack of commitment. It's fun , and they are discovering themselves with multiple people. For me? I did that in my 20s. Got boring and I know who I am. Dispersing love between others isn't feasible. There are not enough hours in the day.

                                                                                                    • Agg ose
                                                                                                      Agg ose  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                                      @Fiorwestcoast love is not a limited resource you can share love with more than one person. Its like saying i can only have one child because i cannot love more than that.

                                                                                                      • Fiorwestcoast
                                                                                                        Fiorwestcoast  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                                        @Agg ose okay a friend with benefits. Sorry ,lol call it what it is...a bill splitter.

                                                                                                        • Sample Owner
                                                                                                          Sample Owner  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                          Monogamy is boring

                                                                                                          • Zelek Uther
                                                                                                            Zelek Uther  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                                            Yep, so true for some people. Non-monogamy means variety... no matter what people might think everyone has to agree that it's never boring!

                                                                                                            • Sharon Morine
                                                                                                              Sharon Morine  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                              So are you.

                                                                                                              • Ashley B.
                                                                                                                Ashley B.  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                Good for you, you're so cool.

                                                                                                                • --
                                                                                                                  --  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                  I have to go to the gym now.

                                                                                                                  • Griffith Valentino
                                                                                                                    Griffith Valentino  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                    She one of those people who fells like she is about to cry always

                                                                                                                    • Amanda
                                                                                                                      Amanda  4 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                      Griffith Valentino nervous

                                                                                                                      • Jug Head
                                                                                                                        Jug Head  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                        Wtf I love destroying the fabric of society now

                                                                                                                        • ddmmrr
                                                                                                                          ddmmrr  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                          Society is supposed to be built around people's needs, and loving, having a strong affection towards more than one person, is absolutely natural. We're not robots, our love for someone doesn't inhibit us to feel love for others too, and affection is also not of binary intensity.

                                                                                                                          • the black dog
                                                                                                                            the black dog  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                            Absolute degeneracy. Monogamy progressed civilization. Even if women "naturally" want to live in Chad harems, it's at the expense of progress. Enjoy your mud huts when it all collapses.

                                                                                                                            • androkguz
                                                                                                                              androkguz  28 dni temu

                                                                                                                              Geez, I though it was the enlightening, electricity, science, Healthcare, water ducts, agriculture and the like that progressed civilization. In any case, even if what you are saying is true, it's just as true as "torches progressed civilization". Doesn't mean we need them any more. Less that we need them forced on others

                                                                                                                              • Zelek Uther
                                                                                                                                Zelek Uther  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                                                                Actually, monogamy is a fairly recent social convention for humankind, and even now, there are some tribes which are still non-monogamous.

                                                                                                                                • Plen122
                                                                                                                                  Plen122  3 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                  WTF are you talking about... Mud huts LMAO

                                                                                                                                  • Drastic Measures
                                                                                                                                    Drastic Measures  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                    Man I would love to ask Kathy out. What a frickin’ babe!

                                                                                                                                    • Gwendolyn de Ashborough
                                                                                                                                      Gwendolyn de Ashborough  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                      Monogamy is something you do out of respect for yourself NOT for another person.

                                                                                                                                      • Marten Dekker
                                                                                                                                        Marten Dekker  13 dni temu

                                                                                                                                        @Gwendolyn de Ashborough : it 's for self respect AND for respect for your spouse.

                                                                                                                                        • Gh0streach
                                                                                                                                          Gh0streach  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                          Monogamy is a choice, much like religion or politics. Some ppl choose not to subscribe. Some ppl prefer pluarality or like the idea of coming home to someone without being bound solely to that person and only that person. There's no one size fits all approach to relationships and love.

                                                                                                                                          • Hoàng Nguyễn
                                                                                                                                            Hoàng Nguyễn  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                            The time that your partner is not at your side is a good thing

                                                                                                                                            • Will O'Toole
                                                                                                                                              Will O'Toole  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                              Sound blows more dicks than the speaker, but good talk.

                                                                                                                                              • That Generic Gamer
                                                                                                                                                That Generic Gamer  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                DAAAAMN!

                                                                                                                                                • Mariposa Redimida
                                                                                                                                                  Mariposa Redimida  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                  Damn, I have been feeling that "meth hit" kind of thing... glad to be reminded it's not just me.

                                                                                                                                                  • David B
                                                                                                                                                    David B  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                    I recently opened my relationship with my high school gf and it's the best thing since the microwave

                                                                                                                                                    • Gintare Beat
                                                                                                                                                      Gintare Beat  19 dni temu

                                                                                                                                                      so you just wanted to sleep with other people but you're too emotionally attached to your girlfriend? Or are you going out there to see if you can find someone better? Maybe just be single.

                                                                                                                                                      • androkguz
                                                                                                                                                        androkguz  28 dni temu

                                                                                                                                                        @Ashley B. When I opened mine, we said we had broken up because that would be better socially for her. Turns out, life is far easier when you have your cake and are eating it. The only thing that I lost and did regret was that I couldn't publically kiss and hug her anymore.

                                                                                                                                                        • ybnfatboi
                                                                                                                                                          ybnfatboi  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                          thanks for the help everyone !!!!

                                                                                                                                                          • Bill Talker
                                                                                                                                                            Bill Talker  7 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                            Wow, Wabash College must be a joke to want this type of sick and unhealthy idealogy to represent their school.

                                                                                                                                                            • Plen122
                                                                                                                                                              Plen122  3 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                              Bill never went to school lol

                                                                                                                                                              • Steve Judah
                                                                                                                                                                Steve Judah  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                Her talk was about communicating with your significant other in an honest way and being honest with yourself. If that's the definition of "unhealthy" then I sure don't want to go to whatever school you came from.

                                                                                                                                                                • Mumtaz Shamsee
                                                                                                                                                                  Mumtaz Shamsee  7 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                  BS - just a little bit of love, modesty and decency that is left, women are all set to try and destroy even that.

                                                                                                                                                                  • Plen122
                                                                                                                                                                    Plen122  3 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                    Men you mean

                                                                                                                                                                    • Mucka Smith
                                                                                                                                                                      Mucka Smith  7 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                      Content is wonderful, audio is terrible ugh, ty tho.

                                                                                                                                                                      • nathanephraim
                                                                                                                                                                        nathanephraim  8 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                        Stopped watching this video after 2 minutes because her heavy breathing was getting on my nerves... wtf is wrong with her.

                                                                                                                                                                        • Eolande Eliva
                                                                                                                                                                          Eolande Eliva  2 dni temu

                                                                                                                                                                          She was just nervous. If you've ever spoken to a large crowd you'd understand. She became less "breathy" as she went on.

                                                                                                                                                                          • The Kebabman
                                                                                                                                                                            The Kebabman  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                            dude chill out she's just very nervous. You'd better ask what's wrong with yourself.

                                                                                                                                                                            • Plen122
                                                                                                                                                                              Plen122  3 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                              She's hot

                                                                                                                                                                              • Presbian116 Tier1
                                                                                                                                                                                Presbian116 Tier1  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                Lol

                                                                                                                                                                                • Julius Red
                                                                                                                                                                                  Julius Red  8 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                  Romantic Love is an absurd concept in the first place. Monogamy and Polyamory are both equally irrational.

                                                                                                                                                                                  • Adriana McCallister
                                                                                                                                                                                    Adriana McCallister  3 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                    @Cheryl Clark or found the aromatic?

                                                                                                                                                                                    • Cheryl Clark
                                                                                                                                                                                      Cheryl Clark  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                      Found the incel

                                                                                                                                                                                      • Steve Judah
                                                                                                                                                                                        Steve Judah  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                        weird flex but ok

                                                                                                                                                                                        • The Crab
                                                                                                                                                                                          The Crab  8 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                          I dont like snowflakes. Declare your position and pick a side. You're either for open relationships or you're not. Geeez 😏

                                                                                                                                                                                          • IntegratedHope
                                                                                                                                                                                            IntegratedHope  7 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                            I believe in self-determination as the highest value, so I don't pick sides for anyone besides myself. To do otherwise would violate my beliefs, so happy to be a snowflake! :)

                                                                                                                                                                                            • 野村ERIK
                                                                                                                                                                                              野村ERIK  8 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                              Me and my boy would full fill her dreams... Tag team.

                                                                                                                                                                                              • Sonja Joy
                                                                                                                                                                                                Sonja Joy  9 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                Why is this video muted?

                                                                                                                                                                                                • Corryn Montgomery
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Corryn Montgomery  10 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                  So much scientific proof behind how this is the preferred model of intimate relations based on human biology and evolution ☀️ not sure if I agree with everything but I think it’s so beneficial for people to understand this basis because it does hold some incredible value whether you choose monotony or not

                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Zelek Uther
                                                                                                                                                                                                    Zelek Uther  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                    @Matthew Hoare monogamy = monotony for some people.

                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Matthew Hoare
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Matthew Hoare  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                      Monogamy, not monotony

                                                                                                                                                                                                      • player6860
                                                                                                                                                                                                        player6860  8 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Scientific proof? Which one? Do you have a scientific paper to back it up (a real paper, not a hypothesis)?

                                                                                                                                                                                                        • hosein ataie
                                                                                                                                                                                                          hosein ataie  8 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                          Corryn M I'm sure you know nothing about sexology or psycology of relationships!please just show me a scientific point in that presentation it's more like pesudoscience!

                                                                                                                                                                                                          • D. Anthony
                                                                                                                                                                                                            D. Anthony  11 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                            With the disease rate the way it is open relationships are for the foolish and people that don't value their health! If you sleep with people that sleep with people your playing Russian roulette with your body and life. Good luck

                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Gwendolyn de Ashborough
                                                                                                                                                                                                              Gwendolyn de Ashborough  5 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                              Damn Right, Monogamy is something you do out of respect for yourself NOT for another person.

                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Leanne Teddy
                                                                                                                                                                                                                Leanne Teddy  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                IntegratedHope I would not catch a disease in a monogamous relationship at all, because before going exclusive we got checked out, and we have no need or time to cheat. That said, if we want something other, we’re not obligated to stay in that relationship.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Stories by J.A.R
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Stories by J.A.R  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  @IntegratedHope the imperfect implementation of monogamy has about the same risk of STDs as couples in non monogamy relationships. A perfect implementation of monogamy does however fair better.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Dom
                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Dom  11 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    so true, very few people when they get into a relationship actually talk about their needs, wants and expectations with their partner, and then hurt feelings, cheating, betrayal and all that occurs about what she said that the distance is good - speaking from my own experience, i feel more joy when someone i like comes back to me even after hanging out with other people, makes me appreciate our shared moments more

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Lilah Martin
                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Lilah Martin  Miesiąc temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Ditto

                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • AlexL
                                                                                                                                                                                                                        AlexL  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Yuck

                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • TanicWhisper06
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          TanicWhisper06  10 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Dom very true

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • C RA
                                                                                                                                                                                                                            C RA  11 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Ted Talks, funded by your friend and mine, George Soros.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • reperealegandirii
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              reperealegandirii  11 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Thats the perfect mind set of eluding the responsability of being faithfull to your partener because we "need" extra erotic energy. Hmm, it seems to me that is precisely the definition of selfishness.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Nicole S
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Nicole S  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                @TanicWhisper06 not love imo. Someone who doesnt know themselves probably. Esther should absolutely NOT agree to something that feels so horrible

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Plen122
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Plen122  2 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  @Rebecca Stevenson thank you for that. Isn't it sad how people can be so judgmental, without any idea of what you're actually saying. I'm looking forward to the possibilities of an open relationship, if it happens.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • JillIan Williams
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    JillIan Williams  Rok temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    sound?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • rae bay
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      rae bay  13 dni temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Lol they have the audio panned to the left 🤦🏾‍♀️ they could have fixed this in the edit

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Mamabear 06
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Mamabear 06  6 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Sound sucks..

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Brittney Books
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Brittney Books  10 miesięcy temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          I had to switch earphones. My left on works, my right one doesn’t. Weird.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Hari Patel
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Hari Patel  Rok temu

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            One of the best TEDx ever