4 Reasons Why You Feel So ALONE

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  • Published: 17 May 2019
  • With this video, you will learn how to stop feeling lonely and depressed, and you'll understand why you feel so alone all the time, and the cure to it all. If you're looking for some motivation to stop feeling sad and to start living a happier life, this video is for you!

    Sources:
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/loneliness
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/intimacy-path-toward-spirituality/201804/are-you-wondering-why-youre-lonely
    https://medium.com/real-life-resilience/are-you-lonely-5130d25c002f
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/pieces-mind/201301/accepting-loneliness

    Music: "Piano Moment" from Bensound.com

    Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (narration), and HowlingCreations (animation) for helping to create this video!
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  • gtr sub ice bear
    gtr sub ice bear  14 minutes back

    dat is why Keanu Reeves lonely

    • more adventures
      more adventures  4 hours back

      I an alone

      • big b
        big b  18 hours back

        Joker

        • Solai Pandian
          Solai Pandian  1 days back

          i feel like I'm invisible to everyone

          • David Chavez
            David Chavez  1 days back

            No one to talk to in end of day

            • Brouklis Googlis
              Brouklis Googlis  1 days back

              Why dont you do a community to speak to each other ,you have and too have a common thing so instead of sitting alone just someone can make a community and share some words fir everyone who feels lonely

              • Viktoriyah Casilla
                Viktoriyah Casilla  2 days back

                I’m just really sad for some reason, no one I know has passed and my life is great. But I just feel so sad, empty, alone, broken and I just don’t know how to fix it...

                • Witherking 343
                  Witherking 343  3 days back

                  I had a friend named Aquile he was a black guy. And he was cool. But people started telling him I was racist. I myself am white. But color doesn't matter to me. He was a cool dude nothing more nothing less.

                  • Witherking 343
                    Witherking 343  3 days back

                    There's a girl I like and she knows it. Her "friends" think I'm a loser and even worse a stalker. I have lost many friends due to lies other people tell them.

                    • 유유이
                      유유이  3 days back

                      Iam perfectionist in the end I have no friends and i am scare to make friends and I dont have confidence on myself .

                      • Dheeraj Mc
                        Dheeraj Mc  3 days back

                        i have no best friend😪🤤

                        • JB's forehead
                          JB's forehead  3 days back

                          For years, I was always the one to start conversation with people. When I decided to finally stop it to see if anyone would care about what I say, it took 8 freakin months for my best friend (+20 years of friendship) to come talk to me to see if was doing ok. This broke me into pieces, not to say other said friends never started a conversation ever again.
                          I feel lonely, even when I’m married to the man of my dreams. I don’t know what happened to me. I changed so much after some years, I know I wasn’t the kindest person on Earth back then, but I changed, and those friends never witnessed that change. To make things worse, I even moved to another city, far away from everyone I knew. I miss having someone to talk to, even my best friend was never someone to talk about everything with me. I miss having people around, I miss laughing with friends about nothing, I miss connecting with people. I don’t even use social media anymore, because I’m afraid I will be rejected. I pass through my days all alone in my house, I’m always searching for something to do when I’m not busy with work, but what I miss the most is to have someone by my side.
                          Sorry about that.

                          • Anna's mixed up channel

                            So I told my friend Sarah that I appreciate her friendship and now she thinks I am gay .--------.
                            now I probably wont have any Friends at all

                            • Humanity
                              Humanity  4 days back

                              We Came from the Ashes, and Will will Return to *Ashes.*

                              • Lunamilan
                                Lunamilan  4 days back

                                Me and my mom don’t get along and stuff so when we have an argument i just feel alone seeing other mom and daughters get along

                                • Hashtag No name
                                  Hashtag No name  5 days back

                                  I used to be really lonely. To cope with it I created another version of myself. Someone who was better than the original me. Someone who wasn't lonely. As time went by, this "fake" me slowly started replacing the real me.
                                  In the end, I ended up climbing out of the dark hole that is loneliness, without actually realising it.
                                  Now, I can't find the original me who was lonely all the time. I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing.......
                                  I'm watching this video because I'm both worried and curious as to what actually happened to me.

                                  • Slim Shady
                                    Slim Shady  5 days back

                                    I wish YouTube reccomended this to me but the truth is I came here myself :(

                                    • I’m not okay
                                      I’m not okay  5 days back

                                      I wanna talk and hang out with people, but at the same time I wanna be alone.

                                      • THami
                                        THami  6 days back

                                        Like this video shed so much light

                                        • Launch Octopus
                                          Launch Octopus  1 weeks back

                                          A wise man shrouded in a cloak of shame once said “You’re never alone if you’re in a line. I don’t know.”

                                          • Des Ziles
                                            Des Ziles  1 weeks back

                                            😔 I feels lonely and suffer silently

                                            • LUDA RELKS
                                              LUDA RELKS  1 weeks back

                                              man that regret part hit me hard. i felt that to the max

                                              • Blue eyed Eurasian
                                                Blue eyed Eurasian  1 weeks back

                                                Introverts: why I feel so unalone😁

                                                • Arianne Albacete
                                                  Arianne Albacete  1 weeks back

                                                  My husband passed away..

                                                • Zack Triple
                                                  Zack Triple  1 weeks back

                                                  I feel so alone...
                                                  My heart physically aches.
                                                  I miss my dad so fucking much. 😞

                                                  • Zack Triple
                                                    Zack Triple  1 weeks back

                                                    I feel lonely because my best friend - my dad was arrested. He won't come back until yes 70 and I miss him so much 😞

                                                    • one eye
                                                      one eye  1 weeks back

                                                      i have honestly tried to go out and make friends, and each and every single one of them just stood up and left me and i have no idea why, i have come to accept that i am just fated to die alone

                                                      • Sandeep Mondal
                                                        Sandeep Mondal  1 weeks back

                                                        Same here..no one talk with me..even text are not coming in my social media for a while.. i think social media are also useless for me.. I feel so alone and lonely from last 10-12 months.

                                                      • Sandeep Mondal
                                                        Sandeep Mondal  1 weeks back

                                                        Same here.. No one talk with me anymore.. no friends.. even no text are coming in my social media for a while.. i feel so alone for last 10-12 months.

                                                    • I stepped On a tack
                                                      I stepped On a tack  1 weeks back

                                                      That’s it I’m lonely it applies to me

                                                      • David Baez
                                                        David Baez  1 weeks back

                                                        I have anxiety and depresion. just "GREAT"

                                                        • Em Berg
                                                          Em Berg  2 weeks back

                                                          I have quite a lot of friends but i never had a best friend there are to girls who konsitter me there best friend but i dont feel the same way any abwiese??

                                                          • Nazan
                                                            Nazan  2 weeks back

                                                            I’m all 4 😭😭

                                                            • timothy holliday
                                                              timothy holliday  2 weeks back

                                                              I always get left behind, a week or 2 and POFF, and i get left behind. Hard to find good people, gd luck to you all.

                                                              • Geneva
                                                                Geneva  2 weeks back

                                                                I have tons of friends, and yet I’m lonely. I’ve learned that in the end I always end up seeing that I’m never somebodies first choice, even if they’re mine...I always come second.

                                                                • Sandeep Mondal
                                                                  Sandeep Mondal  1 weeks back

                                                                  My situation is worst than you..no one talk with me..even text are not coming in my social media for a while.. i think social media are also useless for me.. I feel so alone and lonely from last 10-12 months.

                                                              • Jaya srivastava
                                                                Jaya srivastava  2 weeks back

                                                                I feel lonely because my parents , my friends , my neighbors, my teachers not love me not support me they comapare me with others to show how others is more better than me and I'm loser ...😥😥😥😥😥😥😥 I feel alone in this world

                                                                • Amburx
                                                                  Amburx  2 weeks back

                                                                  I feel lonely kinda because well I do have friends, I feel like I make them feel uncomfortable. Or... something of that matter. I’ll see them talking and laughing and stuff, and then I try to join the conversation, or just start walking with them during recess, they don’t talk as much. I try to start another conversation, but they quickly answer questions, not really... talking. I’m in a few friend groups and I feel like I do that to all of them. Twice? Maybe? People in another group of friends aside from the ones I’m in offered to hang out with me (once during this dance Friday thing at my theatre camp- on of the other cast members asked if I wanted to dance with her and her friends; and then during choir we were doing random dances and my friend’s friend offered p much the same as the other girl.) but I feel like it’s out of pity. They never really wanted to hang out before that.

                                                                  That and I just feel a little lonelier when I’m not in a relationship ;(

                                                                  • dabingisfun 1
                                                                    dabingisfun 1  2 weeks back

                                                                    I don't even have freinds all I do is sit around and phub on and do nothing

                                                                    • vagg. G
                                                                      vagg. G  2 weeks back

                                                                      I'm just tired being invisible
                                                                      Even though i have friends i don't feel important (actually i have to say that i never was the one that any of my friends would come to say anything first, I never manage to keep someone for a lot of time to my words, most of the times they turn to other People and talk with them for hours, I'm just not important)
                                                                      I always am nice to Everyone
                                                                      But noone cares about my existence, i am the one that calls and sends greeting messages to others
                                                                      Almost never someone sends message if i don't send first "to remind him that i exist"

                                                                      • Evan B.
                                                                        Evan B.  2 weeks back

                                                                        I feel alone because I see couples loving each other and I just really want someone to love me

                                                                        • Yt Kingoffun21
                                                                          Yt Kingoffun21  2 weeks back

                                                                          I want something genuine

                                                                          I stay home all day being unproduct that why I feel lonely I don’t have people to invite me to spent time with me because of my social and how I take things

                                                                          • Ana
                                                                            Ana  2 weeks back

                                                                            ifeel so alone because of my friendship. i feel unwanted and as if no one actually cares about me. my days are shitty because of this. i have no one to talk to that wld make me feel better. i talked to one of my friends about it messaging her on my phone. and i told her that she made me feel bad sometimes too. i wrote a long message to her talking about my feelings and shebarely gave me a reply. she only replied to say "then sorry" when i talked about her. she didnt even try toake me feel better. and its notlike i can make new friends. i wish i could kill myself but my familywould be sad and i am a christian so i believe in hell kinda and i dont wanna go there. those are the only two things that would make me not want to do it. i wont do it tho because i dont think i have the courage to do that but i think about it quite a few times a day.

                                                                            • L T
                                                                              L T  2 weeks back

                                                                              I was always used to being alone as I'm an only child but now that I live completely alone because of school (I lived away from home at age 16) and my dad passed away without us having closure, I'm having a hard time with the loneliness. Maybe if I have more than 24 hours a day I can do fun things

                                                                              • CRYSTLO TECH
                                                                                CRYSTLO TECH  2 weeks back

                                                                                I'm currently on a school trip on the top of a fucking dickass mountain and supposed to have the best time of mah life but feel depressed and alone af😭😭😭

                                                                                • Black Hole
                                                                                  Black Hole  2 weeks back

                                                                                  I started to feel lonely when my family and I moved to a new state.

                                                                                  • Ali Mirza
                                                                                    Ali Mirza  2 weeks back

                                                                                    I'm alone but
                                                                                    If god give me more life I'll be alive for few year and I'll die
                                                                                    So take it ez and never mind just enjoy your life
                                                                                    Lonely is not as bad as u guys think
                                                                                    Just u need to find a way to be busy

                                                                                    • Chris Brady
                                                                                      Chris Brady  2 weeks back

                                                                                      I feel alone because I Have no friends no family girls don’t find interest in me and there’s not a day that goes by I don’t think about killing myself

                                                                                      • K Mulvin
                                                                                        K Mulvin  2 weeks back

                                                                                        Nobody likes me. Nobody needs me. My life is an endless pit of pain, misery, and despair.

                                                                                        • K Mulvin
                                                                                          K Mulvin  2 weeks back

                                                                                          Bryce D. Anderson How will that help?

                                                                                        • Bryce D. Anderson
                                                                                          Bryce D. Anderson  2 weeks back

                                                                                          relax, it aint that bad. go buy a pizza, eat the whole thing.

                                                                                      • Martythefailer
                                                                                        Martythefailer  2 weeks back

                                                                                        Even if i find a friend, i dont know if im just weird or ppl have the same problem, once they try to get personal or a little close i feel scared and run away, cuz i just feel like they would think im weird if i told them about my problems or hobbies

                                                                                        • PronePancake
                                                                                          PronePancake  3 weeks back

                                                                                          I don’t even think I’ve been texted first before.