• Published: 08 May 2019
  • I really only started "dating" for the first time, this year! It's lots of fun and a great tool for self reflection in many ways. You don't need to marry each man you go on a date with, and you certainly don't need to sleep with him either.
    I have learned all about creating boundaries for myself, asking for what I want and communication that has improved my life in more ways than one... smash. that. button if you want this to become a series!
    Thumbs up if you would like me to go into more detail on what to do on the first actual date and tips that can make you instantly more attractive!
    Jack, my friend and date: ru-clip.com/channel/UCLotccGv2nldoIKsMMji-QA
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Comments • 2 438

  • Yasmine Malik
    Yasmine Malik  4 часа назад

    I'm guilty

    • Yasmine Malik
      Yasmine Malik  4 часа назад


      • kashish malik
        kashish malik  День назад

        What about ur baby ???

        • AudreyMarie Gaspar Malicdem
          AudreyMarie Gaspar Malicdem  День назад

          Please turn this into a series! I love this video so muchhhh!

          • Gemma Joikhun
            Gemma Joikhun  2 дня назад

            *"Guys is like a dessert"* they might be delicious *"but they not necessarily"*

            • David Leal
              David Leal  2 дня назад

              As a gay man, I can relate to everything you are saying! 🙌🌸

              • ananya dutta
                ananya dutta  2 дня назад

                Love your channel:)

                • Rose Lover
                  Rose Lover  3 дня назад

                  I want to be like you when i grow up

                  • Alexy Boyer
                    Alexy Boyer  3 дня назад

                    You’re my new mom ❤️ I’m learning so much thank you.

                    • Wolfiy_ Plays
                      Wolfiy_ Plays  3 дня назад

                      I just put mascara and concialer , that's all

                      • Maha Naqvi
                        Maha Naqvi  3 дня назад

                        What about her boyfriend the father of her son?

                        • Miyaka Tamahaome
                          Miyaka Tamahaome  4 дня назад

                          This was so good. Thank you. 😊

                          • Nikki Moore
                            Nikki Moore  4 дня назад

                            You can tell she really likes herself 😂

                            • Nikki Moore
                              Nikki Moore  2 дня назад

                              Ella marie well I don’t 😂

                              • Ella marie
                                Ella marie  3 дня назад

                                Nikki Moore yup like every woman should!

                                • Business Fisherman
                                  Business Fisherman  4 дня назад

                                  Dating other word for slut pass around whore. Dating not for marriage just to hit it and quit it. What ever girls take advice from your are sluts and don’t stay with same guy and don’t marry a guy they like but someone like a rich dude or some crap. Unhappy girls and your not even a ideal girl either. Who the heck wants a girl who gets passed around dating and won’t stay with one guy. You discuss me! Not even pretty or have nice personality. All you got is spread open and give me money just like a prostitute.

                                  • KaribadariLove Yang
                                    KaribadariLove Yang  4 дня назад

                                    Thank you I needed this.

                                    • Lala baba
                                      Lala baba  5 дней назад

                                      Alexandra is hands down one of the most genuine, sweet and helpful persons out here on RU-clip. She just feels like a big sister that will always have your back, make you feel loved, safe and be your shoulder to cry on. Also teaching and demonstrating the value of self love and worthy in a very honest and beautiful way.. I absolutely love watching her grow more confident and successful! You go girl!

                                      • Angelina
                                        Angelina  5 дней назад

                                        You're like a mix of selena gomez and angelina Jolie!

                                        • Ava White
                                          Ava White  5 дней назад

                                          Why that name

                                          • A Viewer
                                            A Viewer  6 дней назад

                                            So young, but so wise:)

                                            • jewel n
                                              jewel n  6 дней назад

                                              how can someone possibly be this pretty?!

                                              • nilufer
                                                nilufer  6 дней назад

                                                4.05 I died.

                                                • Diana Prince
                                                  Diana Prince  7 дней назад

                                                  He sounds gay 😂

                                                  • Heather Stewart
                                                    Heather Stewart  7 дней назад

                                                    I just what to know where she got the top she’s wearing in the thumbnail

                                                    • ronnie
                                                      ronnie  7 дней назад

                                                      your hair are absolutely stunning.

                                                      • Boss Ass Bitch
                                                        Boss Ass Bitch  7 дней назад

                                                        This girl looks like a dude... Somewhere looks like Michael Jackson... Am I crazy or someone is crazy like me too?

                                                        • Restricted Gacha
                                                          Restricted Gacha  6 дней назад

                                                          Not really, maybe you live somewhere where you live changes how you perceive femininity . . ?

                                                          • La_urene
                                                            La_urene  7 дней назад

                                                            Jack is a good...(looking)listener

                                                            • Nada Eldahbi
                                                              Nada Eldahbi  7 дней назад

                                                              I literally feel like you are the older sis that I never had

                                                              • Justme Yram
                                                                Justme Yram  8 дней назад

                                                                2:42- 2:50

                                                                • Xo_ Mays
                                                                  Xo_ Mays  9 дней назад

                                                                  Girl: A man is like a fun extra, a man is like a desert not necessary. Everyone: GURRL loving that sentence Boy: says something similar Everyone: OMG we are in 2019 you are sexist and doesn’t respect woman

                                                                  • Restricted Gacha
                                                                    Restricted Gacha  6 дней назад

                                                                    That is actually very sad yet true. I hope people will learn to change these double standards on men.

                                                                    • Lily R
                                                                      Lily R  10 дней назад

                                                                      That corset-y top is gorgeous😍 anyone know where it’s from?

                                                                      • Kyla Greene
                                                                        Kyla Greene  10 дней назад

                                                                        When you know someone talks about you behind your back and then says hi the next day. 1:24

                                                                        • Jessie Vidente
                                                                          Jessie Vidente  10 дней назад

                                                                          Im goin to start dating pretty soon so am under this video to make sure i dont make mistakes

                                                                          • Daisy Moore
                                                                            Daisy Moore  10 дней назад

                                                                            4 hours to get ready? can't relate

                                                                            • Kiera Daniela
                                                                              Kiera Daniela  11 дней назад

                                                                              Alexandra, I loved this video. I have recently started dating again, after going through a terrible break up. I left my ex feeling like I was not good enough for anyone. I agree with all of the tips that you shared in the video and I'm so glad that you have shared this. Wishing you all the very best!

                                                                              • Erika
                                                                                Erika  11 дней назад

                                                                                I don’t date because I get so nervous and excited that I make myself physically sick and then I end up canceling 🤦‍♀️ It’s the worst when you’re really looking forward to it or you really like the guy 😔💔

                                                                                • sandra rose
                                                                                  sandra rose  11 дней назад

                                                                                  i’m glad to see this at such a young age. it sounds wrong, but she’s very insightful, like a big sister, you know? It’s very helpful and i’ll know all that i need when the time comes, i was watching minecraft videos and somehow it led me to this but i’m happy that it did! you’ve got a new subscriber!!

                                                                                  • R Smith
                                                                                    R Smith  12 дней назад

                                                                                    Great advice! Love your content!

                                                                                    • Hunni Bunni
                                                                                      Hunni Bunni  12 дней назад

                                                                                      Love your confidence,intelligence,maturity & elegance! You’re so well spoken for your age. We need more women with that type of mindset! I speak for myself of course

                                                                                      • Deborah Roach
                                                                                        Deborah Roach  12 дней назад

                                                                                        I am a blonde LMAO

                                                                                        • Deborah Roach
                                                                                          Deborah Roach  12 дней назад

                                                                                          Instead of hear

                                                                                          • Deborah Roach
                                                                                            Deborah Roach  12 дней назад

                                                                                            Meant have dang

                                                                                            • Deborah Roach
                                                                                              Deborah Roach  12 дней назад

                                                                                              I'm glad to hear married for over 30 years, I wouldn't know what to do lol no really

                                                                                              • k_i_M T_A_E_H_Y_U_N_G
                                                                                                k_i_M T_A_E_H_Y_U_N_G  13 дней назад

                                                                                                I'm watching this like i'm taken 😂😅😢

                                                                                                • Carlina C
                                                                                                  Carlina C  14 дней назад

                                                                                                  Uhh.. I know you said not to, but I'm saying look people up. Do it. Got a little red flag in my mind (not recent) and I googled a guy. After a lot of effort I found him even though he gave me a slightly different name. Turned out he had a couple name changes, had killed his whole family when he was a pre teen and had been arrested multiple times for aggravated stalking. Not just for safety but if a guy is shallow or full of himself it sometimes stands out in social media.

                                                                                                  • R x
                                                                                                    R x  13 дней назад

                                                                                                    Carlina C she means don’t look people up just to see their likes and followers and stuff. If your case, it was different.

                                                                                                    • APP OLYMPIAN
                                                                                                      APP OLYMPIAN  14 дней назад

                                                                                                      Why does it take a team to make your video?

                                                                                                      • Nom De Plume
                                                                                                        Nom De Plume  14 дней назад

                                                                                                        I love you for that Galaxy alone haha

                                                                                                        • Sakshi Singh
                                                                                                          Sakshi Singh  14 дней назад

                                                                                                          This is so good. Want a series

                                                                                                          • T. St. Louis
                                                                                                            T. St. Louis  14 дней назад

                                                                                                            I can’t believe that someone who seems as perfect as you could have confidence issues. Your coach telling you these kind things really made me believe that we all have our struggles.

                                                                                                            • Angela Austin
                                                                                                              Angela Austin  14 дней назад

                                                                                                              I love what you’re all about!

                                                                                                              • Teresa -.-
                                                                                                                Teresa -.-  15 дней назад

                                                                                                                Lol I don't have a love life what am I doing here?

                                                                                                                • Kalina G Grudova
                                                                                                                  Kalina G Grudova  15 дней назад

                                                                                                                  Dating mistakes every 16 year old girl makes* Most of the "tips" are purely superficial

                                                                                                                  • valarie 254
                                                                                                                    valarie 254  14 дней назад

                                                                                                                    Okay... drop your tips we see if they are helpful

                                                                                                                    • Banana Anna
                                                                                                                      Banana Anna  15 дней назад

                                                                                                                      LOL her first line is legit what Cher said in a interview. That a man is like dessert but not necessary

                                                                                                                      • Dj Sparkles
                                                                                                                        Dj Sparkles  15 дней назад

                                                                                                                        Jack is beautiful

                                                                                                                        • Doaa Aboutikab
                                                                                                                          Doaa Aboutikab  15 дней назад

                                                                                                                          I ship them so much

                                                                                                                          • Serena.Saint.James
                                                                                                                            Serena.Saint.James  15 дней назад

                                                                                                                            I'm gonna stop cancelling my day for dates, you're right that kind of attention detail should be saved for people who show that they deserve the extra effort and it does build more expectation on my part. I've always great with boundaries but thinking about expectation is such a hurdle still, I'm going to try all of these tips.

                                                                                                                            • Astro herlich
                                                                                                                              Astro herlich  16 дней назад

                                                                                                                              You look like Megan Young from ph

                                                                                                                              • Lee H.
                                                                                                                                Lee H.  16 дней назад

                                                                                                                                Not only is she beautiful but she is so freaking smart. You can’t even be jealous of her. Instead, you would want to be like her! She’s literally the best. ❤️ I love her videos. You make me feel very confident!

                                                                                                                                • Milica Jovic
                                                                                                                                  Milica Jovic  17 дней назад

                                                                                                                                  Oh honey , i am lesbian.

                                                                                                                                  • 2000 subscribers without any videos Challenge

                                                                                                                                    I am sorry, but you are such a hoe 😐

                                                                                                                                    • ThisYellow Flower
                                                                                                                                      ThisYellow Flower  17 дней назад

                                                                                                                                      great video but I already knew all this, I guess it comes with age and confidence as I'm 27 I've been through all this already, sooo many times ahh dating is a nightmare. I'm happily married to my gorgeous one now :)!!

                                                                                                                                      • Paola Paniagua
                                                                                                                                        Paola Paniagua  17 дней назад

                                                                                                                                        Heck yes to all of this! Especially not snooping on social media, have regretted that in the past for exactly the reason you said!! Lol

                                                                                                                                        • SriRaji kanda
                                                                                                                                          SriRaji kanda  17 дней назад

                                                                                                                                          I'm India plz tell me world best dating apps

                                                                                                                                          • _Dolans_Fan
                                                                                                                                            _Dolans_Fan  17 дней назад

                                                                                                                                            i think the real reason im not getting a man is cause i look like burnt asparagus

                                                                                                                                            • Lexi Tucker
                                                                                                                                              Lexi Tucker  17 дней назад

                                                                                                                                              This is such a random question for this video but in that clip of u “pampering for the date” did u shave your arms? Do you have a video about this??

                                                                                                                                              • ungeschnitten
                                                                                                                                                ungeschnitten  17 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                "A man is like a fun extra". Bacc to the kitchen please

                                                                                                                                                • miranda grant
                                                                                                                                                  miranda grant  18 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                  Aww! This was great!

                                                                                                                                                  • Imogen Gratzy
                                                                                                                                                    Imogen Gratzy  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                    Thank you so much

                                                                                                                                                    • K-Game Beauty
                                                                                                                                                      K-Game Beauty  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                      I loooove your voice alex 😘❤️🎉💕

                                                                                                                                                      • enjoys kiddies
                                                                                                                                                        enjoys kiddies  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                        lol when you looked at your phone, the date is my birthday

                                                                                                                                                        • Andrea Best
                                                                                                                                                          Andrea Best  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                          Everytime I see my daughter do something that she usually doesn't to like skin care and egg masks and DIY scrubs, I ask her what the hell she's doing and she always answers with "Alexandra taught me, I trust Alexandra". So I came to this channel to see who you are and I can confirm that it's very useful 💕

                                                                                                                                                          • Poppy Suro
                                                                                                                                                            Poppy Suro  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                            I don't date but I still clicked to watch this.

                                                                                                                                                            • Ali. L.
                                                                                                                                                              Ali. L.  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                              Yes! Series!

                                                                                                                                                              • Katy Gonzalez
                                                                                                                                                                Katy Gonzalez  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                                That man is beautiful

                                                                                                                                                                • Madalina
                                                                                                                                                                  Madalina  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                                  Yes, this should be a series

                                                                                                                                                                  • Teena Apperson
                                                                                                                                                                    Teena Apperson  19 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                                    This almost 54 year old insecure woman needed this so thank you! Bright blessings :)

                                                                                                                                                                    • Mazzy B
                                                                                                                                                                      Mazzy B  12 дней назад

                                                                                                                                                                      aw bless you’re so adorable! 🥺